I am a former unhappy wife who emasculated my husband until I had an awakening that I was the problem in my marriage. Now, I teach other married women the journey of finding happiness within so they can evolve as women and wives. I also teach good men how to constructively navigate their wives' emasculating behaviors as a way to rebuild their strength and confidence as men. Tune in weekly for new videos with unconventional perspectives and marriage advice for women and good men. To learn more about my online courses, please visit my website: www.karynseitz.com Channel Disclaimer: www.karynseitz.com/disclaimer
For women, if you want to know if a guy really likes you, don't sleep with him. For men, if you want to know if a girl is really into you and not your money & stuff, let your middle name be Dutch.
I really work hard to engage myself in someway of earning more income and stop depending on the government. My family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$57k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.
My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $200K can retire broke & someone making $80K can retire a millionaire. With the current market movement.
Yup, after decades of non-stop rejection, you do finally reach a point where you no longer care about doing anything for a withholding spouse. In fact, you reach a point where you resent being asked to do anything for them!!!
This all sounds great but when you are married to one who refuses to ever consider she has ever done anything wrong and refuses to ever change anything, you are left with only two choices; divorce or shutdown and tolerate it. "Sex as a chore." Yeah, it rates right up there in priority with cleaning out the toaster or re-arranging the sock drawer!
I won’t marry again it won’t create happiness , why would I want the government to know my relationship status , I want to keep the government out of my relationships. Case law of divorce has destroyed the court has ruined it , $60,000 for lawyers
Never get married. Never settle down. Females arent designed for marriage. They're designed for single motherhood. Listen to this women. They HATE men who serve them or become "vulnerable". 😂😂 Disgusting... and then for what? Look at what females turn in to late in age.
Initially She was in “investment mode” … investing her currency to secure what she wanted … Then, when she got her prize, she switched to “maintenance mode” - just making the minimum payments to keep what she attained. The only difference is that the currency being used is sex/affection instead of money.
My wife stopped wearing thongs after a year of marriage. Each time I ask her why she stopped, the answer is "would you want something stuck between your butt?" So I say no, but you didn't have that problem before did you...then silence 😂
It is not a husband's job to be his wife's entertainment director. It is a wife's job to reach deep within herself and generate her own happiness. What happens to most all men is that their eventual wife was not successful in locking down and marrying the man she really wanted to marry. This forced her to "settle" for something less, and although she did make the decision to say "I might" or "you gotta be kidding" at the altar, she didn't, and doesn't, have to like it that she had to settle. She ends up spending 5-7-10 years of bitterness trying to make do with the ragmuffin she grabbed. Then she can't stand it any more and she starts cheating on him, and then ends up divorcing him. All men in the bottom 90% of men should operate on the assumption that they were "settled-for" goods and no matter what they do, they cannot overcome the bitterness of the little woman as she got less than what she wanted. For this reason, most men should stay away from dating women, accept that they're damaged goods, and then just go on about their business in solitude. There are only two courses of action: 1). date women, and 2). go their own way. If a man chooses to date women, he will notice that he's always short on cash and his credit cards are close to the max. He goes on a date, and by the next day he's got nothing but a memory. Memories don't generate money. 2). If he puts his disposable income into the bank, every month he will get some memos giving the new, improved cash positions of his checking, savings and investment accounts. Regard the updates as being thanks from those accounts that they've got more greenbacks on hand than they had last month, and the same thing happens every month.
My wife told me only ONCE that she stopped taking birth control in order to get pregnant without telling me. She denied ever saying that from them on. But, I'm very Blessed to have my kid's.
Why do women always say they were never taught this or tht, and men like me weren't taught either but through common sense, we treat our partner with luv and respect?
For each video of yours I watch, I could almost swear that you’re just describing narcissistic women. Not all women like this. Women can be held accountable just like men can women can learn and grow just like men. Sure, some of their toxic behavior manifest differently. It doesn’t have to be a man woman, child or baby in order for a person to be incredibly selfish. Men do these same types of things to women, they just manifest differently much of the time. Both women and men and mirror what they think people want to see when they have nothing of substance to offer themselves. They both put on mask and make promises. They have no intention to keep. Both men and women will tell another that they are their soulmate and they have some kind of tragic past that explains why they get to be an A-hole. Men and women run away from accountability from their shortcomings. This isn’t gender specific. It’s a human problem. Ensure, in 2024 there’s not that many people holding women accountable for this, but I do want to say that this isn’t just women - to the guys in the comments. These are people who have taken damage in their lives and let that rule them, and the damage could look like anything from being abused, to just being pampered and not having had firm boundaries asserted to them as children growing up, to a person just changes into being this way under stress and certain circumstances and they don’t catch themselves before it’s too late. Typically, if it’s an adult acting this way, especially somebody in their 30s or 40s, that’s it, they’re done. They’re cooked. there’s a chance they could change, but the likelihood is so tiny because their neural pathways are so set in stone. They’re so stuck in the loop of their behavior, all the way down to the way that they tell themselves delusional stories about reality, living away from it in a world in which they are very special and powerful and important and just weren’t given a fair shake if they aren’t richer and prettier and fitter and kinder, or whatever comparison more than another person. Don’t get jaded guys. I’m not trying to say that these women don’t exist that I’m not trying to say that it isn’t a problem that’s especially rampant. Because they exist everywhere and every culture in all of society, especially western cultures right now. However, just like with men, there is so much good in women. Women have so much to contribute to our lives. Letting your bad experiences after having poorly vetted women into your life determine your future is giving them power over you. Think about that. Even though you aren’t in a relationship with them, they are still your master because you have not healed. And I’m not trying to be mean I’m not trying to be a little what you’ve been through, you’ve been through a situation like I have, or worse, my heart truly goes out to you and that really sucks. And also, it’s an opportunity for you to see you. What was it you that yourself like that? What is it in you that is weak and can be made stronger. What is it within you that you need to cast out entirely? What is it with you That is good, to continue acting on and to celebrate with a cup overfilling? Who are you? Who are you going to be? What are you willing to tolerate from others, and what are you willing to tolerate from yourself? These are the kind of questions that as you find the answers, you will be healed and you will be able to move away and move on and be happy. That is my wish for you all, truly. Please, don’t just sit there in a cycle and consume content that validates your feelings of how all women are bad. They’re not. Everybody has both bad and good within. The point is to find somebody with good in them that is at your level and that you are willing to tolerate, and that you more importantly focus on the good with you. No external thing or person is going to come and fix you. You have to be your shining potentially otherwise dark and gloomy world. Be a shining light and good will find you, and bad will find you, so at that point, apply your wisdom and discernment learned from your experiences and only let good in.
wow you just described my wife to a tee. Not quite sure how you stay unhappy with yourself for 13 years and not show it. But I certainly wonder where my wife went.
Unfortunately wives that need this message will never take the time to seek this. They can’t accept responsibility, they must place the blame externally
Brothers, this is extremely common so if you’re wondering what happened to YOUR wife, it’s not just yours, millions of wives are the same. They are almost all fake.
This could be solved if 1.)we get rid of alimony 2.)we get rid of child support (dont worry, children dont starve to death in this country. they may be **poor** in that they dont have a new iphone or Air Jordans or have to shop at Goodwill, but they're not dying of dyhdration, malaria, or starvation in North America) That would reduce marriage to a fancy girlfriend/boyfriend arrangement. You want to leave? leave Feeling abused? Feeling unhappy? Want to find yourself? Want to find yourself in your secretary? Leave. But.... No one gets any money. We're all adults. Women can now vote and work and be doctors. Everybody works. No more "starter husbands" who's medical degree let's not work for the rest of your life, like you won some kind of low level state lottery. Cant afford daycare? Figure it out. It's not a new thing no one has ever seen before. If you had a "joint" bank account....well, that was YOUR bad planning. Dont have one next time. Or this time. If you want a stay at home wife or want to BE a stay at home life....then plan. It's a marriage, not an insurance plan, not a retirement plan. If it ends...hope you planned good, because you dont get cash and prizes for the effort. if you didnt plan? why not?
hate to hear a woman say...."I want a man that will make me happy" *itch you better be happy or I'm not dealing with you at all Every woman is a minimum of 2 different people Yall are all players
Because your wife has created an atmosphere of where nothing to do is ever good enough, strong enough or fast enough. Meanwhile the husband works 60 plus hours a week and is the only bread winner
Haha 'bait & switch' is exactly what I've called it. It's all biological imperatives. Reproduction and raising requires a man's participation. Doesn't mean she needs to love you, or even care about you.
This is a less talked about topic. There are, very good men out there, who take care of their partner and family and it is the woman who is knowingly or unknowingly being abusive. Thank you very much @thehappywifeschool to bring this subject to light. I was in a very long relationship and I knew something was not right, partner told me I was the one who is not right, thought it was me and always tried to make amends at my expense, but after counselling I realised she was being mentally abusive, unknowingly and most likely due to her own past traumas. Took me a long time to recognize this and take action. Thank you Ops for all your the videos and words. Big fan here.
According to the owner of the content ,my question is how could a person make another person happy? Could people just offer what they have each other without wanting on to receive. What about giving , sharing each other instead of waiting on someone to make you happy? Everyone deserves to be happy and loved.either men or women. Life is short live with heart ❤. God bless.
Our job as a husband is to protect our wives from yjeir own nature and to provide the resources they are incapable of which is just about everything...so why do it ? Mission impossible is not just a movie it's reality in marriage
Thanks God. The woman I married 20 years ago is still the same woman today. Yes, we fight, but we still laugh together. I don't know what the true definition of happiness is. But it's peaceful knowing her by my side.
Married two women in a row that had never pleasured themselves. Had no idea what a orgasm was. Neither one worked out. Found out later the 2nd one thought she would go to hell if she did that. I have no idea what the first one thought. My advice is ask them outright if they occasionally pleasure themselves and if they say no run quickly away.
Thank you for disclosing the ancient women's sex code. We men who have been married for a long time know what you are saying is 100% true, but our wives would deny these truths with every fiber of their being. Thank you from every man who has experienced all of this!
A hard pill to swallow for many men. You are the “marriage material” guy, “the safe” guy. That’s why after eating the wedding cake the sex and fun stops. She really isn’t attracted to you. But Brad in accounting she gets wet for and will swallow his kids. News flash sir, she settled for you. You weren’t her first choice. How’s that for a red pill?
All true. Then, when women pull this on men who resist, or can't be contolled by them, they really dig in and eventually end the relationship. Been there, got the t-shirt.
