Yep I dated a girl who was was real sexual and I started talking to her one day and she said she got raped at like 10…. been sexually addicted every since. She wasn’t the only girl i’ve met like that. Also, not to mention most hyper sexual men are the same way. I lead a panel in school where 48 out of 60 guys I was in college with were sexually molested at single digit ages by grown women…. but no one wants to ever get to the root causes of why these people become sexual abusers too…. This is the dangerous of creating narratives that men mostly are only the sexual predators when I bet you women are evenly if not more predators because they can get away with it
Facts! I have a male friend that is hyper sexual. One day he told me he “lost his virginity” at the age of 8 to a 30 year old woman 😢 He didn’t put two-and-two together and see how it affected him. I did. We’ve never talked about it since, but I still wonder if he actually heard me when I told him he didn’t deserve that…
Sexual abusers become sexual abusers because they want to. They know that it is wrong. I was sexual abused several times by several different people, and I am not nor will I ever be a sexual abuser. Do not make excuses for those types of people. Right is right, and wrong is wrong.
@@Twin-1985 Just because YOU didn’t make that choice doesn’t mean that trauma is going to affect the next person differently. That’s a very ignorant way to look at things.
Thank you He’s a sex freak gets fascinated and gets hyped and who is he helping but himself when he asks did u orgasm doing a sex act (she was 14 and it was rape.) Really? Shameful and he states he has daughters?
you're missing the connection of circumstances contributing to current situations 🤦🏾♂️ I understand sometimes he might seem to get too personal, but, I think there is a method behind the madness.
After she was assaulted and she said she wasn’t traumatized, she definitely was. Everyone reacts different to trauma and she acted out. It could have been for various reasons why she continued to sell herself. She was a child and children don’t process situations the same as adults. Bless this young woman. She needs unconditional love.
To someone else it might be trauma to someone else it's not its all about how you look at things . I'm the same way I don't look at bad experiences as traumatic I look at it as a lesson 😊
Yea hearing voices isn't fun. Be careful who you get attached to & stay away from immoral acts... Alot of these sex acts like "Gangbangs" in porn look fun but in real life thats a whole ritual.... Allegedly.... Ijs iykyk....yo no se
You can look in her eyes and see that she is broken no matter how much she smiles or laughs her eyes tell a different story than her mouth !! May God continue to bless you sis you’ve come a long way focus now on where u are headed and not on where u have been don’t beat yourself up we all make mistakes forgive yourself love yourself and your kids ! You deserve it
I can’t believe this is brought up right here. Atp the delusion and insecurities within its self is real. Everyone looking the same and to be lightskin is a crime even when doing nothing. The black community fail itself with this division, this girl right here has a completely different look and story and it’s bound to be judged differently, some ppl can’t handle brutal honesty without seeing the person cry, or etc they judge it differently
Imma send her a little money, not a whole lot but something. Hopefully it’ll help her out on the financial side of things. I pray for her and her kids. 💖
I’m a Psychotherapist and am inclined to associate the orgasm from the unfortunate horrible experience with what him “taking it” meant to her. It made her feel wanted, accepted, seen, desired, validated, and special. “ He really wanted me” mindset. That was the catalyst for future experiences. Therapy will help her reorganize and see that she can orgasm without abuse or pain. Best wishes to her.
She was loved, she just didnt love herself. Sounds like she didnt even like herself. That would definitely cause someone to act out, for attention or false sense of love. Young girls have it bad because when theyre having those type of internal struggles they are sooo succeptable to false love and it can be so damaging. Her spirit and personality is great though despite what she has gone through🙏🏾
It’s weird how if some women are molested they become sex addicts and prostitution. I was molested and the opposite happened I became sexually nervous and withdrawn and was scared of being touched sexually and non sexually.
@@angieang26Everyone isn’t molested under the same circumstances, some start with a conversation making you feel comfortable so it wont feel like assault.. some people don’t have negative feelings towards their abusers which can make sex a good thing to them.
I love her transparency ! a person can’t even judge a person like this , being completely honest and taking accountability is the key. God bless her 💛💛 I hope one day she can repair her relationship w/ her kids and continue to do better for herself.
Omg this is what alot of females go through and don't know why they Life is jacked up but by her realizing her predicament and understanding her needs she can hopefully put that energy in the right direction that's why it's so important to mature emotionally and its hard to grow after Trama but can be done
This is so true that's why work with the less desirable or the mentally/physically disabled students because I love people.... I love this lady strength in at least trying 💪💪💪
Her violator transferred his incubus/succubus (sex demons) onto her and that trauma caused her to become addicted. Those spirits can and will transfer to anyone if someone comes into sexual contact with a person whether they were violated or not. That's why you have to be careful of who you share your sexual energy with. I hope she gets the counseling she needs or those spirits will transfer to her children until that generational curse of perversion of broken! Sending her prayers and love. This all stems from a toxic ass home environment!
SO VERY TRUE... Most females that just give it up A LOT with multiple partners are BROKEN ... Because you have allowed all these different spirits to become 1 with you... And people wonder why they so crazy and toxic...ALL THOSE TOXIC SPIRITS ARE NOW ONE WITH YOURS...z That's why God says in the BIBLE get married and be loyal because once you have sex you become 1... This is real
Reading these comments and yall mfers weird. Everybody is saying "oh I'm so glad she took accountability". Accountability for what? Being raped, being taken advantage of by a punk and coward who couldn't control himself. Where's the accountability for the demon who took away her innocence?
Thank you but remember we live in a society where children are literally viewed as grown ass women who should know better. That’s why they’re praising her. When they hear about little girls being graped who weren’t being “fast” or doing shit like skipping school watch how quickly they turn and claim she’s lying.
I really like her. Even with all the stuff she has been through, you can tell there is a certain level of awareness that she has gained...and am I the only one that notices how beautiful her eyes are? Definitely see the sadness in them, but pretty still... Keep your head up girl. You will get through all of your traumas. God willing 🙏🏾
First thing I noticed by looking into her eyes was that lil innocent girl that she used to be is still there trapped deep down inside of her! I thank God she was able to get off the streets and pick herself up! Yhe fact she is so transparent and truthful about her past makes me feel she gone be good she is allowing herself to heal! I pray her relationship with her kids get better and they fully open up to her i think thats the last piece to the puzzle of her healing!!! May god bless her! Seeing this makes me wish i could help more! You often times forget how blessed you are until you see storys like this we walk through life taking this for granted it may not be on purpose but we do!
Authentic and herself. Refreshing from all the fakery. I think ppl are fake though because so many people judge so they worry about how they'll be perceived by others. Real ness is always 🌈💞
It’s not crazy that it turned her into a sex addict. That’s what it does to 90% of victims another statistic is that children with childhood trauma who grow up and don’t get it dealt with end up on drugs! I can relate to her!
Chill. He just asking her the question in relations to what she said. She has a choice not to answer. Quit being weird or quit coming on his channel. She start the interview talking about “being a Slut bucket” - Did you miss that part?
@@ransomepeterman3483 I heard the initial statement, most likely based from the trauma she experienced! If you continued to listen she said she cried after and she was 14 years old.
This dude obviously gets off on asking them about their Sexual Assault stories .. shit weird and goofy how he cover it up calling it a “ a street interview” ..
Facts, he carrying these sexual perverted stories in his mind and that’s how the devil rides someone and the poor interviewer not even aware he gets excited off of it. They say God works in mysterious ways but the devil works in deceptive ways and this nigga is got.
Nobody brags on being molested, clearly you can see mentally she's not all there she's snuggling and laughing about being turned out and being raped, and how it felt good and how pain causes her pleasure. Somebody has definitely infiltrated all of their demonic energy into her spirit. I can't even bear to watch anymore cuz I feel it radiating through the screen
I don't think she bragging. She know she on camera so it's better to laugh to keep from crying in this type of situation. Me being molested also I can see where she coming from and the reason behind acting like this.
@@helierhefortuneteller yeah, I dont think he intends to be that way but it does come across as a little like blunt and forceful. These are very sensitive and personal things, and it's not funny. For him he should show more compassion and he gentler. You know? Like not so casual
@@helierhefortuneteller 🙂. Yes, when I read your comment I instantly knew what you meant. I'm always a bit word-y 😭but yea its difficult watching these videos and trying to understand what he is trying to do because he could be trying to make objective educational videos which I am guessing he is doing, but you also have to think about it from a humanist perspective and empathize with the interview-ees
Exactly dude need to learn how to ask questions without getting to personal, if they wanna open up let them do that, then that lil slick bs toward the end about her really not wanting her kids smh. Cmon man, dont do people like that. I no u consider yourself keeping it real but you have to b a lil more tactful. Otherwise decent interview i wish the lil sista well, its women like her every town every city unfortunately.
I feel bad for her. Child hood was messed up from age of 12. Its sad. She needs therapy asap. Wow! Its mind blowing to think being a s... came from that. Thats a lot to take in😢
Man when you have to laugh to keep from crying. I’m just glad she’s putting everything in rotation now. She have a roof over her and her kids head…etc I just pray she keep moving forward to better herself. She’s still young and there is still more to be done…prayers to her and her kids.
Marcus why would you ask her about her being molested? That's a touchy subject. It can happen like that. I was raped. You can become promiscuous.I go to therapy.
Hypersexuality is often a trauma response to being SA'ed especially when young. A lot of men should be able to relate esp when they brag about their first times being essentially SA with grown wmen.
This is so sad but you can't ignore and act like it isn't happening everyday! I have 3 daughters and man!! Even after you do all you know how to do and give all you can, they are still free to make their own choices. Problem is, they don't realize/know what their immature, "in the moment" decisions can lead to until it's too late! Prayers for all of us!
I definitely appreciate her taking accountability for her decisions. She was so open and honest. I pray that she is blessed abundantly with Gods favor ❤🙏🏾
Probably the most honest woman I have heard speak in over a decade. She is pretty smart and has developed thru her history, appreciation for her TRUE core values and guidelines. She can help a lot of young women out her moving wreckless. She knows more than most girls out here. Shes gonna be a great grandmomma.
I wish her luck with her journey, and I want her to know that I am proud of her and she can do anything. She puts her mind to! We are the creators of our own destiny. Don’t let what other people have done to you determine how you live the next 34 years of your life girl! Love yourself more than anything!
Another Real one God bless her!! Sir she wants that Bond with her children don’t you understand I get her and I myself is a victim of molestation… Either you are completely turn off by the opposite sex or you are promiscuous it’s psychological thing!! Love you sis continue to hold on to God Unchanging hands!!!
Gather your families together to sit around the table at your home 🏡 🏠 to pray and study the Bible Deut 4:9-10; Deut 6:6-9; Deut 11:18-19; Ps 78:1-7; Pr 22:6; 1Ti 4:11. Spend time with your children, get to know them and let the children get to know you. Talk about your childhood, teen years, family & family history to them. Pr 13:24; Pr 23:13-14; Eph 6:1-4; Colossians 3:21...
@@kjen1516 I already see you the type of person to judge and hang out with people based on their appearances, maybe she might look insignificant to you but she might be the first to enter to kingdom of heaven, while you have a flawed view of self-righteousness infront of God your heart may be Black like and rotten so do not judge and help one another.
@@10commandement yep, judgmental ppl are everywhere and it's so hurtful because ppl judge you on the outside without knowing the life you've lead or your experiences. I'm not perfect but 1 thing about me I never judge, i accept people for everything they are and my love or care is not "conditional ." I'm coming to realise there are very few ppl like this..the world is very cold and harsh. So much judgement and stigma in society it makes it harder for people to open up and reach out for help
We should be protecting our black women and this type of digging into a vulnerable woman’s sexual activity background and traumas with no guidance nor resources to help then u have to ask the question “Y.”
What are you doing for black women? You would’ve saw her on the street and done nothing like you already do. Y’all kill me with all that jaw service. like y’all actually do anything for anyone outside yourselves or family. You sit back and complain but everyone know where he at get out there and do something comparable or better with the people. If not you just out here white knighting for likes
@@bigfredbigfred2760 Thank u bro somebody needs to say it. He's just asking pertinent questions to the interview, and keeping it raw. Lets face it, who would watch if he just asked ordinary generic questions. And hes out there helping these ppl by getting their stories out there, ppl know who they are, and hes helping them to possibly get financial help. And like you said what are the ppl posting these comments doing to help? The funny thing is Mark from SWU asks the same type of questions yet they'll commend him for his interviews 🤔.
I was like this too, very hyper sexual after the fact due to sexual abuse by one of my older brothers from 11-18. Sad…..I’m still in therapy & I’m 35 now.
It's so unfortunate how our community has been thru so much trauma! It continues thru to the next generation unfortunately here! She is at least trying to get her life together and kids back. She is a strong woman.
@@DeaconChriss"the good guys" have infiltrated the game & now have just as many murders under their belt that "matches" the pookies. The "good guys" are the ones that cant take "no" & feel that they are OWED someones time & body, simply because they are the " good guys" & not "pookies". They are nurses, drs, teachers, the police, men w/ good jobs & how dare you dismiss them? I'm the prize. Im the man & the good guy. Yea. Foh & google who have been the last few u hinged men who have redrumed their significant others or somene that tried to leave when they saw how the good guy changed. But wait, Women deserved it bcuz they shld have knwn he was truly a pookie w/ a good job & own things. Yea is crystal clear. Its definately the Women all chosing Pookies.🙄
Every mama misses her children. She is struggling with her trauma and addiction, but she’s still Gods child. She has love for her babies. Don’t torment her, help her.
Not sure why y'all feel Marcus is asking to many personal questions! Marcus has 2 daughters and honestly I think he has a good heart and means well. I think these videos are also for his 2 daughters. He using the videos to reach his girls, basically showing them why they should live right! I also allow my 11 yr old to see how others live! This helps them understand why certain things we tell them are so important!
She’s a strong woman, she didn’t know how to cope with her feelings, she just decided “another one would fix it” looking for something different, i met people like her before who changed early and noticed how their actions affect those around them, this woman in the video is so strong for “be-ing” open about so much, she seems that she really had enough and noticed what she was doing, im happy she’s changed, i really hope she gets better
This young woman is speaking the truth, she looks him straight in the eyes,she doesn't trip over her words,her answers are straight up and true.She is pure in her heart,I am praying for her everyday from now on.I love you,may Almighty Merciful Allah bless and protect you and your family 🤲🏻
I really enjoyed her interview. She was really honest and open. I hope she can get in a position that she can take care of her children. 12 yrs old seems to be a transformative age.
I respect her she was being very open and honest some young girl is going to watch this and realize that she is about to go down this same path and not do it just about some of the things that she saying MUCH RESPECT TO HER ❤ I WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST. AND I PRAY THAT SHE GETS HER LIFE ON TOGETHER AND GET HER KIDS BACK SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE'S A GOOD PERSON❤
Homelessness is a terrible situation it has became an epidemic here in America there is, so many homeless people roaming around although, I haven't personally experienced it myself once upon a time two years ago, I was on the verge of becoming homeless, but by the grace of God he made a way, for me I can assure anyone homelessness is no joke therefore, I can empathize with them I am glad she is no longer homeless.
If you listen she is not dumb her environment and lack of emotional support put her here but I respect her for this interview cause even to be open with is hard..
The body reacts, it doesn't mean the person liked it. Just like when women do stuff to little boys. Ya'll who are getting aroused by this are *assuming* that meant she was aroused are WEIRD ASF and need to seek help immediately. Disgusting. She was a child who was SA and the interviewer is weird too. SMH
I like this broad I can tell she’s a decent person who just had to learn certain experiences the hard way. But you can also tell she uses her troubles as an learning experience, it’s a shame how grown ass men can’t control themselves all the transfers of bad energy & spirits. I just hope one day she can find herself & some peace because that’s no way for any woman or anyone to live. And her level of transparency is very refreshing under the circumstances of the conversation. But beloved seems like she’ll be aite she has a daughter now and is over her addiction i hope can maintain the stability of the process. Peace & blessings reflections💯🙏🏽✌🏽
You can tell this lady has had some therapy and counseling she was very aware of herself and communicated it well , the person doing the interview however is very UNEDUCATED & needs to learn about sexual assault victims. He sounds so ignorant
Poor baby, I can see her become extremely uncomfortable and she tries to self soothe by hugging herself and bouncing. You deserve nothing but happiness baby girl and everyone has their judgment day baby girl. Hold your head up. You deserve nothing but love and peace and softness 😇🥰😇 many prayers
These are good & informative interviews but the interviewer is very inconsiderate 😒His tone is so condescending. He can get so much more out of this if he stop laughing & doubting her when she opens up
I know her from being on the streets while homeless she's a nice person.. I did an interview with him I don't think he is genuine. He doesn't care about if you really made it out of that situation and you're doing good if you notice he really don't go around asking people who's doing really good about how does it feel to get out of that situation if they don't have any drug problems and he's always like what I don't really know if they telling the truth or not. An he pays $5 for these interviews nobody ever gets anything else out of this except for him the fact that the audience might give is his way of saying well I gave out their information you guys didn't donate. I can honestly say he genuinely doesn't care it's just for views. No help whatsoever.. if you ever notice he's always talking about sex with women in all these. This happened with my sister and my daughter so I know she's not lying. Therapy does not help everybody just throwing people on drugs because you feel like they should be on them isn't always the solution.These therapist do not like to listen to their patients. They just want to put you on a prescription drug that may have a side effects such as suicide. They'll just keep switching the drugs until 1 works and they don't know what works until you tell them, so your just being a guinea pig. An people always claim street drugs are worse.
