38 Week Baby Update and Postpartum Shop with Me and Haul 

I'm a postpartum/newborn nurse. First of all you got some good stuff! A word of advice, use the darker colors of PJ'S for the first week (childbirth is a messy thing). Second, take care of yourself. Let Josh flex his dad muscles and help take care of baby. Babies have an incredible sense of smell (if they can smell mom, they want to be with mom). If you're desperate for a nap, have Josh take baby into a different room. Baby should be calm and you can get a power nap. Next, lanolin cream will be your friend . Baby blues are a real thing. If you want to cry, do it. Your hormones will be going crazy.I hope you and Josh have a wonderful experience!!!

Old labor and delivery nurse here - everyone always forgets chapstick and wants some when they are in labor, so this is my reminder to you:))

All the experienced moms on here thinking back to labor delivery postpartum is so sweet. ❤ I'm also that mom. Becky no one can really prepare you fully, because this is the biggest life game changer and it's different for each of us. But some things are universal. You're on the right track and you're going to do so well! Some things I wish I was told: you'll bleed post partum, a lot. Have lots of pads and assign Josh to bathroom trash duty. Put multiple layers of sheets on the crib with a moisture barrier between. You'll see why. Music. Always music. Accept the help offered, but also tell people it's a burden to assign tasks so they can just do what they see needs done. Most importantly, whatever you feel in the first two or three weeks after birth is normal. Joy fear elation depression, sleep depravation plus a massive hormone shift. And it's ok. It's all going to be ok. The house may be messy, dinner may be late, clothes furniture walls will get dirty. It's all good. Take the time off you need. We're not going anywhere. ❤

I’m a midwife in the UK. I’d go button down pjs if you plan to breastfeed, button down is also easier for other people to help you get changed. Wear a hospital robe to birth in, it’ll get messy. Take your own pillow as you’ll rest better and it’s nice to have your own from home so it smells comforting. Good luck!! You’re going to be such a lovely Mummy 😊

Just wanna say that the way you spoke about your child "possibly" having limb differences (Like with his hand) so calmly and accepting is truly a freaking wonder. It's easy **I think*** to catastrophize situations like this, but the way you speak about it with so much love and calm uts a really good example. I'm certain there's people in the audience with limb differences or disabilities that can hear somebody speak about things like this not as a tragedy is really good.

Sweetie, I gave birth to eleven children. In my hospital bag, I would pack pajama, bras, underwear, toiletries, something to wear home, an outfit for the baby to come home in, and a baby blanket. Everything else the hospital will provide for you. You and Josh are going to be wonderful parents. I'm excited for you both. 🥰

I really hope you know that there is no huge pressure to get back to video creation after the baby is born. Take your time, savor the moments with your husband and newborn. If it's even like a year or more before you feel like making videos again, don't rush it if you don't feel like it. These are YOUR special moments and you don't have to share them if you don't feel like it. Wishing you a smooth, safe delivery and a happy post partum.

My postpartum advice: it really is the 4th trimester. Give yourself lots of grace and realize your body and hormones will be making lots of changes. Rest when you can and let others help you. I struggled with letting others do my laundry and clean my house but it really was the best thing I did for myself.

3.43 please tell me someone else saw the look of love on Josh’s face when Becky was updating on the baby 🥰 xx

Becky, as a 70 year old mom, you made me think back 51 years when I went to the hospital to deliver my daughter. My bag was a small suit case with a nightgown, my toothbrush and other toiletries, a set of clothes and cloth diapers to bring the baby home in and a receiving blanket. I had a big baby shower and was given everything else I needed. My water started leaking 6 weeks before she was born. Now, I would have been closely watched by a doctor, but back then they did nothing. I had a dry birth with our daughter and had a long labor. Because she was in the birth canal for a few weeks, she came out with an elongated cone head, but to us, she was the most beautiful baby girl we had ever seen. The nurses showed me how to massage her little head and within only a few days, her little head was just normal. I was in the hospital for 5 days and by the time I brought her home, her poor little skin was shedding like a snake. I was 19 years old and was dumb as dirt, but my baby and I got along just fine. Thank you so much for sharing this video with us. I also follow Kim and watched her prepare for her precious baby boys birth and as any grandma out there, I was just as anxious awaiting his birth. You and Josh will be wonderful parents. Just take a big breath as you get into this last few weeks and just enjoy each other. Your life is about to change in was that you can’t even imagine. Sending Blessings and so much love your way.💕💕🙏

Just a tip from a Mom who's "been there" - In preparation for baby's arrival, it's a good idea to ensure you have a car seat for each car or at least 2 bases for the car seat and install one in each vehicle. (Also, practice putting the car seat in it and taking it out again before baby gets here. We strapped in a 5 pound sack of potatoes in the car seat for practice.) Practicing using the buckling mechanisms is also helpful, since each car seat is a little different. Also, a "just in case" diaper bag should be in each car. Think of it as a baby bug-out kit - at least a couple burp cloths, change of clothes for baby, diapers and wipes, and a small blanket in each bag. A bonus would be a bottle of purified water in each bag. This way, if you forget the main diaper bag at any time in the early weeks, you still have baby items for short trips. I also kept a comfortable change of shirt and bra in my emergency bag I kept in my car as long as I was nursing my children, along with some cleansing wipes just in case leakage caught me by surprise.

Beck, one more thing…Don’t worry about forgetting anything. If you need something after Baby arrives, Josh can get it for you.

Just a tip, put no pressure on yourself to return to pre-pregnant size in a specific timeline. Each person (and sometimes each pregnancy) has nuances. Just maintain healthy, don't push hard for a particular size/timeframe. Your mental health is worth way more than a few pounds and extra stress, let your body adjust to your new role :)

The amount of energy Becky still has while this pregnant is so inspiring!!

The simple miracle of birthing a child still blows my mind.Just think, you and Josh just grew a baby human and brought it into the world ! That is a miracle every time..

From a four time mother and this is not a joke, when you have Bub get Josh to buy a cabbage and put it in the fridge, when your milk comes in and your breasts are engorged and painful place cold cabbage leaves on your breasts to give you relief. It’s a common practice here in New Zealand and believe the relief you get is amazing. All the best to you and Josh for your upcoming birth. Much Aroha (Māori word for love)to you both at this exciting time ❤

Enjoy these last few days of couplehood. It all changes soon. Don’t be scared. It’s less scary than using a pressure canner the first time. I promise. ❤

Mom of 5 here-- my hospitals (I delivered at 3) always told me to wear nightgowns, not pj pants, until headed home. They will be checking on you down there often, before and after birth, so pack one or 2 nightgowns, just in case. And even better if it's a nursing nightgown with easy access, or at least buttons on the front. Best wishes to you!

As a recent-ish mom, I have a couple of thoughts about your hospital bag! You can TOTALLY take a suitcase. In fact, it might be helpful to have a rolling bag for your husband, who will be carrying in and out a ton of stuff. I didn’t change clothes all that much while I was at the hospital, so you don’t need a bunch of options there. I also didn’t eat any of my snacks, but my husband sure did! Take some shower shoes. Take your own pillow, hair ties, phone chargers, and chapstick. I think those are the most important things.

Hi Becky! I am a mom of 4 and I saved my list from my hospital bag in my notes on my phone and I like to share this with my new mom friends! I hope this finds you and will be helpful! Hospital Bag Clothes- - [x] nursing bra - [x] Nursing cami - [x] Nursing night gown - [x] cotton robe - [x] comfy loose pants(going home outfit) - [x] sweater - [x] fuzzy socks - [x] Slippers - [x] Toiletries - [x] Old underwear(ones that are larger and you don’t care if you have to throw them away) *you don’t need to bring pads the hospital gives you a bunch of them while you are there! Nursing supplies- - [x] Nursing pads - [x] Nursing cover - [x] Boppy Baby supplies- - [x] Going home outfit(appropriate for weather) - [x] Cute hat - [x] Receiving blanket - [x] Warm blanket - [x] Car seat - [x] Car seat cover( protect baby from wind-we took Gloria home in a blizzard so I was so happy I had this!) *you don’t need to bring a bunch of diapers or wipes the hospital provides you with a bunch and I kept baby naked and just swaddled for maximum skin to skin time to establish good breastfeeding in the hospital! Stuff for dad- - [x] Change of clothes - [x] Sweats - [x] Shorts for helping in tub or shower - [x] Slippers - [x] Socks - [x] Toiletries Miscellaneous- - [x] Change for vending machine - [x] Phone charger - [x] Head phones - [x] iPad/ laptop - [x] Thank you candies for nurses :) - [x] Insurance papers - [x] Snacks for dad/ after you have baby - [x] Granola bars - [x] Gatorade

I honestly recommend getting nursing nightgowns . Totally worth it. Bring whatever you want to the hospital and for the first few weeks post baby, but keep in mind you may decide to toss those items after the first 6 weeks because they will get blood on them . I just washed them but I know everyone feels different. Also please do not take this the wrong way but do not take those white ones with you to the hospital and I would honestly not wear them postpartum for the first couple weeks

I love this video! I'm 70 and this brought back so many memories of how anxious I was when having my first baby. Enjoy whatever you need to do to make yourself feel comfortable and less anxious. When/if you have a second child, you will find that your hospital bag will be much lighter! lol 😊 Blessings to you and your family! 🙏

As a first time mom, bringing disposable underwear (depends) were a lifesaver! It was so nice having coverage the whole way from front to back so nothing would leak any where. They also helped because my water broke at home and I wore one to the hospital.

I’m a grandma of 9 and I still remember the best advice I got back when I had my first baby. For the hospital bag, pack the softest cushiest toilet paper you can find because we all know hospital toilet paper is ridiculous 🤣 AND get some big pads like Depends for the first few days afterwards. Believe me, they make a difference. This is an exciting time and I wish you all the best. 😊

So excited for you! Just a note I wouldn’t bring those white Jammies to the hospital. I’d save them for maybe a week after birth once things are a little more….settled. You’ve got me wanting #3 already!!!

Oh my goodness, Josh looks so incredibly happy. Pure joy when Becky is talking about the ultrasound.

My advice on the breastfeeding is to call the La Leche League before baby comes . Those women are incredible. They will answer all of your questions, and tell you what you need before baby comes and also what you might need in the future. Without them I don't think I could have successfully breast feed my children. Back when I had my children they had a book titled "The Womanly Art Of Breastfeeding". 🙂💕

One random hospital tip I have for you is to pack your own tea bags. You can ask for hot water at the hospital and I found tea to be so calming & comforting during labor.

Mother of 5 here, who breast fed every one of my children. I relied heavily on La Leche League for all my questions, concerns and overall helpful hints. There's a chapter in the Portland area if you're interested. They've been around for decades and are extremely knowledgable and helpful. Sending you and Josh good thoughts. This month is quite the exciting unknown for you both!

Get Tucks! Mainly made of witch hazel, and will help if you end up with hemorrhoids and also you can make what is called a padsickle, and it helps reduce swelling! A game changer! Also you will definitely appreciate a bathrobe in the hospital. I recommend bringing Jammie’s that look like sweats to wear home or loose fitting sweats. You probably won’t use half of what you pack.

Also, I liked having a bowl of treats for the nurses to grab and go, while taking care of us. Just a little token of appreciation.

When I had my son, I brought my own pillow from home and made sure to have it in a non-white pillow case, so it dodn’t get confused with the hospital ones 🥰 It was so nice to have something familiar. Also, my robe and slippers from home too. My advice, being a first time mom myself, is to know this will be a big change, your whole world will change in ways you never even expected, good and bad, but truly, everything will be alright. I promise. ❤️❤️ You got this Mama ❤️

The best thing about this entire video was the look on Josh's face at the doctor's office. He looks so sweet!! It brought tears to my eyes to see his joy. Great job Josh!! Prayers for you both and wishing you both the best as the baby will be here soon!

The one thing that I always tell expecting moms is to get a stool softener and start it a week or 2 before your due date. The first poop after giving birth is almost as bad as giving birth itself. You want to be prepared 😂❤

A fun tip is to bring your own pillow with a special pillow case. A lot of the first pictures will be of you in the bed with baby. The pillow is a fun backdrop. A different pillowcase for each baby also helps distinguish the pictures for each baby if that makes sense.

I came home without ANY knowledge of the sitz bath care. After nearly a week, I was screaming the first time I had to go. A friend asked me had I been using it, I had no idea what she was talking about. Had no creams or anything back then. She came right away and showed me what to do and aaahhhh! what a relief! So please, ASK! So excited for you. Praying for you, Josh and precious baby!

Get a portable & a stationary “white noise shoosher”! As a new grandma, I was SO IMPRESSED by how much this helps our new grandson settle down. It blocks out noise & imitates womb time & momma’s heart beat! Trust me on this! So excited for you & Josh. Loved your shopping trip tour today! ❤

Just know that this baby will have a bunch of loving virtual aunties and uncles, what a blessing!! So excited for you both 💓

Thank you for baby update. I have 2 pieces of advice for when baby comes, the two that really saved me personally…#1, sleep when baby sleeps. This transition will feel monumental but if you are rested it will help.. #2 advice…keep what works, throw the rest away. Everyone will have advice, some will work, some won’t. Don’t feel obligated. Just Do what works and give yourself grace ( especially with breast feeding). Only advice that is failsafe is sleep when baby sleeps.

I would also suggest the Lansinoh nipple cream- it was a life saver for me. It’s all very tender the first few weeks and the cream helped from being super sore and cracked/dry and prevented scabbing/infection. Plus it’s safe to put on and immediately feed baby if necessary- no need to wipe it off before feedings. The cold/hot packs you got are great for when your milk comes in! There’s a lot of pressure and those are surely going to come in handy. Also if there’s long periods between feeding/pumping for any reason, it will relieve the discomfort of engorgement. Also when you wean your baby- those are going to be amazing. Just don’t forget to get some of that cream and throw it in your hospital/baby bag! I swore by it when I started breastfeeding! ❤️ so excited for you! Praying for a smooth and safe delivery and happy healthy baby and Mom ❤❤❤

While you have time I recommend baking a few loafs of banana bread, slicing them up and freezing individual slices. You can thaw out a piece at time, toast it up on butter or just microwave and it’s a great source of energy in the morning or during night feedings. You could even do it with oats to increase milk supply!

I’m sure we all can’t wait to turn on your video sometime soon and see that you’ve had your beautiful baby! You’re in our prayers! God bless!💗

Bumpdate?! I couldn't click fast enough. So excited for you both! My husband and I have a surprise 10mo baby girl after 12 years of infertility. It's an incredible adventure. Congratulations! For post partum.. got ALL of the fridamom stuff. You won't regret it! Edit: Thank you, everyone! God is so good.

As a Grandma , one of the things advised when I had my little ones , was to organize the shower gift clothes by size . That way , they are readily available as the babies grow ! Hope this is helpful to you ! Wishing you all good health and much joy !!!

Man, that happened fast! I swear pregnancy is so much faster when it’s not you pregnant. It felt forever when I was pregnant. I can’t wait till you get to meet your little one! So exciting

Don't forget a take home outfit for your new bundle of love!! I wouldn't wear white, but I had a very heavy flow..bled through too many times. Can't wait to hear of baby's arrival, prayers and many blessings!

Tucks Witch Hazel pads were absolutely life saver for me when I had my son! It really helped the healing process!!

One thing that was super helpful was to have my husband pack my bag! He was the one who was getting everything in and out of bags. It was really helpful for him. I would recommend old slippers if you have them, a nursing bra for each day you plan to be there and snacks on snacks! You’ve got this! This little babe will be here before you know it and all that baby needs is love and you!

Lanolin nipple cream!!! Nursing our oldest was supppppper hard for me and no one in my life nursed so I was clueless and had to learn on my own and it was a PAINFUL process! Praying for you and yours! LORD JESUS IS KING OF KINGS!

Don’t forget to pack things for Josh for the hospital. In case you call him at work he needs to be comfy too.

Just the way Josh was looking at you while you were talking to us was pure love and was beautiful to see. Thank you both for bringing us along on your wonderful road to parenthood, you are going to do great!! ❤️

I have a feeling you have had your sweet bundle of joy! If so hope all is well with Mommy and baby!

I dont know if anyone has suggested this yet, but I always like to bring my own shower stuff. That first shower after delivery is the best shower you'll ever have and it's nice not to be forced to use the junky soap and shampoo at the hospital. (Also I'm also pregnant, and today is my due date, so I love all the pregnancy content🙂❤️)

A suggestion I would have for postpartum is getting adult diapers. I find it so much easier than using pads and it made me feel way more confident. I wish you safe and healthy delivery!

I’m not able to have children and living this experience vicariously is a blessing ❤

As you prepare for the hospital, be sure to pack toiletries for Josh. He will want to stay close to you and will be better able to spend more time with you if he can stay fresh himself. Toothbrush, shaving stuff, change of clothes will allow him to use the facilities in your room easier. Also, take reading materials as well as chargers for phones. Sometimes your eyes just can't look at the phone any longer.

You are a true mom. What you said about the missing hand/fingers is amazing. 💜 Most people would be crazy with worry. I'm sure baby's fine. God will take care.

Hey Becky! I just want to tell you you are doing an amazing job through this pregnancy! I'm 35 and I have had 4 kids. What I have learned is don't bring a bunch of stuff. You won't need it no matter how you have your baby. Bring your robe, bring pj's that is more of a dress so Dr can access your biscuit 😉, and you don't need slippers for the hospital. You get socks with grips at the bottom from the hospital, buy your own for home too. When you go to the hospital they give you so much supplies. Save your money and just ask the nurses for extra supplies. They are typically very generous and happy to give you what you need. Bring things that will make you feel good like essential oils. I brought my diffuser since I could not burn a candle. Bring a music play list and bring snacks. I had my favorite lotions and butters with me so my husband could so small rubs on my back feet legs. They give you items for the baby like diapers, formula if you decide to use it, just bring blanket, clothes, and a car seat. Bring your postpartum tea. I did and was thankful for it. Bring your pillow and favorite blanket to help you sleep. You don't have to if you don't want to it is extra but I recommend it. Bring snacks for the both of you. It's your first baby. You will see what you don't need and what you do need later on but who cares. Get what you want and bring what you want. This is your time so do what makes you feel comfortable! Everyone has their opinion on what you should bring but you should bring what you want the 3 biggest pieces of advice I can tell you is 1. However, you have your baby is how God has intended for you to have your baby. There is no wrong or right way! Don't feel like a failure if you don't have your baby the way you planned. You are winning already and when baby comes you get to eat your cake too! 2. Don't stress about breast feeding sometimes it takes time for your milk to come in ( sometimes 4 to 5 days) there are a lot of lactation resources in and out of the hospital if you really want to breastfeed. Don't stress it will lower your supply. 3. This is all a blessing from God. Be in the moment! Don't worry about what you are doing right or wrong because you are doing what is right for you and your baby. It may not be the way I do it but that's okay. It's the way you do it. I swear something will come over you and give you everything you need to take care of your baby. Sorry this was long but I just wanted to encourage you! Last tip......sleep when the baby sleeps😉 ps this never happens🤣. Tiffany

For your breasts, you can also use cold cabbage leaves to reduce inflammation and pain. Your PJs look so cozy. I would keep the white pair at home, and use the darker pairs for the hospital. Typically the bleeding is heavier at the hospital, and it would be a shame to leak on those pretty new white pair. I loved my nursing pillow for the hospital. It was so helpful. Nursing tank tops can also be comfortable and helpful postpartum. Your hospital bag looks perfect. But just so you know, I've absolutely brought a rolling suitcase in 🤣. We are praying for you, for a quick and easy delivery and the same for recovery. ❤

Let the waiting begin! Just relax!!!!! Your time alone with Josh is precious!

Sweet girl, you always brighten this old lady's day! Prayers for you and Josh and lovely little Angel!

The way josh looks at her, wow, just precious 😊

Beckie…the birth is beautiful. Your baby is going to be introduced to you. What’s better than that!? My second baby came one and a half months early. The day before we moved house.I decided not to sort anything until we’d moved house. I turned up at the hospital with not a thing. Not a nappy. Not a nightdress. It was just fine. People were so kind. My mum and sister sorted my new house. They put a Christmas tree up for me because they knew this is what would matter. I got out Christmas Eve at 7pm. I had not even a turkey for Christmas Day. Family all helped. I look back and it was the best time. I am the most organised person you will ever meet. At the end of the day I had a real Christmas tree and family to help. It was perfect. Sending happiness and prayers your way.😊 ps. The way Josh looked at you at that scan. You don’t need anything else.❤

Be sure to send something home w Josh for when or if he goes home for anything, to let your pups smell it & get used to baby's scent before arriving home 🙂

The hospital provides almost everything you need but when you are home, you're going to want several comfy outfits. :) So glad you watched Kim's video...she knows what's up. Suggestion for hospital bag - chapstick! Also, as beautiful as it is and soft, save the white jogger for later at home :) Just my thoughts :)

I know you aren't going to expose your child to this social media and I know folks have given their opinions .. that they love your channel for what it is.. I respect all of that but I'd love to just see the baby here and there. That child is part of your family! I think it's cute to see how folks teach their kids without banking on thier kids. Best of luck to you all! God bless all!

You are going to be a wonderful mom Ms. Becky.

Ikea has the best high chairs. They’re great because they don’t have all the fabric and cushion which is hard to clean in the folds. I put one in the kitchen and one in our master bath so I could have a nice long shower and do hair makeup etc when needed. My bubs were very happy sitting in there with me watching a baby show on my iPad.

Loved seeing your excitement for the upcoming birth of your baby. As a labor and delivery nurse, here is my advice. Relax and breath. Enjoy these last few weeks. Don’t take the white sleep set, you will just bleed through on it. They will feed you. They will give you pads and disposable undies. They will also give you a squirt bottle for peri care. You will only need ice for 24 hrs. The washable breast pads were well worth the money, get more. The breastfeeding bra is very cute. I suggest that you order some breastfeeding tops from Amazon. They are worth the money. You are going to rock this labor and delivery thing. Praying for you to have a safe healthy delivery for you and your baby. Have a blessed week.

Currently pregnant with my 3rd and I just want to say to not stress so much about the hospital bag and having everything little thing in it. Most of what you'll bring you'll be surprised to learn you don't need. The hospital truly has nearly everything you could need. I usually make sure to have a change of clothes for myself to come home in, an outfit for the baby to come home in and my showering/hygiene items. Also worthy to bring would be a phone charger, flip flops for the shower and walking around (don't walk barefoot in a hospital 🤢), and glasses if you wear them. I bring a backpack and don't pack much for my hubby. Also if you happen to forget something, your hubby can always run home and get it. Even with my first my husband still went home for a while to shower, nap and let the dog out. You've got this!

Friends, we’re about to have us a baby! I can’t wait to watch you grow as a mom Becky! I’ve watched you from day one and I’m just so excited for you and Josh! Good luck and know we’re all here waiting to hear all about your magical day! ❤

Shower shoes/flip flops are essential. The mother/baby unit nurses said they wouldn’t shower at the hospital without them, no matter how clean the hospital looks. Also, if your water breaks while you’re standing, flip flops/shower shoes are much easier to wash than fuzzy slippers before going home. Childbirth is a beautiful event, but it can be very messy!

Take a deep breath Becky you got this you're going to be a wonderful mother! You and Josh are going to be wonderful parents God has truly blessed you

Best bit of advice I was given for packing a hospital bag was to put a lollipop in there. When you are labouring you can be nauseous but need some fuel and something to boost your blood sugar and you can just pop it in your cheek between contractions. Life saver! ❤️

Everytime she says hey friends I wave my hand and say hiiiii. My mom always asks me who I'm talking to and I reply by saying my friend Becky!

I can't believe you're already almost done! It's gone by so fast. From the scan that baby looks absolutely adorable 🥰 sending positive energy for a healthy safe delivery as well as healthy baby and mama.

I HIGHLY RECOMMEND investing in NURSING TANK TOPS or shirts. I had some nursing bras and never used them because I had to pull my shirt all the way up in order to get to the bra, leaving my stomach completely exposed. When I had a nursing tank top or shirt I could just detach the one side I needed at a time and remain discreet. The ones I got were cute enough they could stand on their own without needing another shirt on top which I had to pull up. I am so excited for you and Josh, congratulations 🎉!!

If you don't have any already, I highly recommend velcro swaddles! I have a 2 month old and it is such a game changer. Also want to say, maybe don't bring the white pajamas to the hospital 😂 there's quite a bit of blood and fluids going on postpartum and you don't want to stain your new white pj's! Keeping you in my thoughts these last few weeks of your pregnancy, you're going to do great! ❤

I would definitely get a long night gown with buttons down the front for breastfeeding. Mom of three here, my go to items you definitely need a lot of are cotton burp cloths and lambs oil nipple cream. Also don’t worry about having all the baby stuff on time because you will find you won’t even use all of it. Congratulations I’m sure you will have a healthy lovely baby.

Mama of 3 here - I don't know if it's the same where you are, but in my area (North Texas), all of the post partum care stuff is provided and sent home with you from the hospital. My sweet nurses would come in and tell my hubby to unload supplies from my care cart with a wink and then go refill it so I would have plenty of the hospital undies (unattractive, but hey... they save you from making a mess of your nice ones), big pads, peri ice pack/pads, peri bottles, etc. The nice ones you bought will be a lovely luxury when you get home. The biggest surprise (for me) was how fast they want you on your feet. I had a v-birth and epidural. As soon as they were done with initial "clean up" and ready to transfer me from my delivery room to my postpartum room they told me to stand up (with people there to help me in case I was unsteady) and move myself into a wheel chair. I remember looking at them like they were nuts. Ha! And then they want you to walk the halls a little bit once you get settled. It will sound like the worst idea ever, but it really helps!

Hi Becky! I am a mom of four and have a few suggestions for things you may want to have with you after you get home from the hospital 😊 Witch hazel (Tucks pads) are a godsend. Also, button down shirts for the first few weeks you are nursing, it make it easier for you to see when you are getting baby to latch. One thing I had wished that someone had told me was how uncomfortable nursing is at first. I think people are afraid that it will scare moms and they won’t want to try it…but it takes about two weeks for your body to get used to it. Keep going, it will get easier for both of you. My oldest is turning 18 tomorrow, so watching you has been like a link to my past ❤️. I am praying you have a safe and healthy delivery and can’t wait to see you with your new little one!

Does anyone else thinks Becky has actually had the baby and these vlogs are just pre-recorded for us all so they can settle in if so congrats to both of you xx

I'm so excited for you Becky, nesting, shopping for baby and yourself, and being at home is so good for your soul! I am praying for you guys, this next season of life is the best, whether you realize it or not in the moment. These moments are so precious!

Hi Becky! Just a few things I HIGHLY highly recommend for the baby (and you): 1. Snuggle me (baby sleeps so much better in this) 2. Doona car seat (car seat and stroller in one!) 3. Baby bjorn carrier (completely opens in the front) 4. Moby or boba wrap (wearing your baby while cooking and getting things done around the house) 5. Motherlove nipple butter! (The more the better! Use after every feeding) 6. Different sized swaddles (not all are the same size, have a few larger ones to use as baby grows) 7. Lots of bibs and burp cloths 8. Fisher price Sit me up (for baby +5 months) 9. Don’t give up on breastfeeding (it will hurt, a lot, but it does get better) 10. Don’t stress! Honestly, babies don’t need a lot to begin with- just you, milk and diapers :) I’ve had 6 babies in 7 years (youngest is 5 months) and started out with everything. Over the years I’ve gotten rid of 75% of what I had and learned that babies can do with very little and be very happy :) Congratulations!

Wishing you a beautiful birthing experience. I can’t help but imagine baby arriving, taking one look at you and Josh with eyes going full on Becky style 👉🏻👀👀 like…”I scored the jackpot!” 🎉🎉

As a mother of eight I can tell you that you don’t need very much! As a new mother you often buy too much stuff! My hospital bag for the last kids has been so small 😂

I really loved my postpartum belly binder. After baby, your stomach feels so soft and jiggly. It just feels nice until your belly goes back down. I even wore it at home.

Hi Becky can you feel the love out here. My prayers are with you and Josh and baby. ❤️All will be well

Becky I remember how nervous I was about labor as well. Just remember this one thing...its only one day out of your life and goes by really fast. It is worth every second because you will have this beautiful awesome human you and Josh created!

Becky, I don’t know if you’ll see this or not, but I wanted to tell you this. Don’t be afraid, you will be fine and do great during delivery. You’re so active and strong and healthy. What I really wanted to say though is to relax and enjoy this time in your life. A baby reveals in you an entirely new way to love. There’s nothing like it. My son is now 29 and raising him was the best most fulfilling thing that my hubby and I have done in our lives. You’re gonna be an awesome mom and you’re gonna fall in love with that baby. Just breathe deep and prepare yourself for your heart to overflow with love. Praying for you! ❤️🙏🏼

Becky, you're so sweet to always say "we" like we're right there with you. Or to thank us. It's we who should thank you for sharing. First babies can be a little frightening- just so many unknowns. I hope you can lean on family members with experience to help you through. It will all work out and be worth it when your bundle of joy debuts.

Reading through these fantastic tips brings back memories of my friends - padsicles doused HEAVILY in aloe, witchhazel and dermaplast and a peri bottle for each bathroom after a 2nd degree tear! 😢 Amen to the lansinoh and chapstick 👌🏽 Amazing how little things like this make such a huge difference in providing relief and peace just when you need it! Baby girl was LPI and didn't latch until her due date and I was getting discouraged. Hubby and my Mom were my biggest cheerleaders and I needed that encouragement to help me focus on relaxing and letting that process happen naturally...she latched and didn't let go for 3 years!!! Did a number on my hormones but I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat! Savor every moment Becky! It all flies by so quickly! I was so blessed to be able to quit working 10 years ago and prepare for our darling little girl's arrival soon after we found out we were pregnant. And it made all the difference as I committed to cuddling, singing, nursing, smelling, examining, napping, staring at her...all day! 😊 Nothing is more important than your rest, health and peace these first few weeks/months. Setting a rhythm in your home that works best for the 3 of you is crucial. We're Southern so there was no going out of the house for me besides ck ups and no visitors for at least 30 days. My mother saw to that! It didn't go over well with several relatives and friends but again we did what was best for us and it set the precedent for our family going forward. Our 9 yr old knows more about healthy boundaries than the average adult because of the work we did on the forefront in this regard - I digress, but when the time comes, just as others I'm sure have suggested, accept the help....let the dishes stay in the sink....let the laundry stay in the basket.....remember Josh will parent your baby in a unique way and he has the right, just as you do; and allow it ALL to be well with your soul! 🙏🏾 Peace and blessings! ***been on the tj whipping cream tip for some time but learned the hard way to keep at least 2 in the fridge at a time so it'll actually whip properly 👌🏾

Thanks for the baby update! You are now daily in my prayers as you approach the baby’s birth day. Rest knowing God has Josh, you and your precious baby in the palm of His hand and will provide ALL you need. Thanks for keeping us posted. You are loved! 💕

Josh was so cute at the ultrasound. He was beaming. You and Josh are going to be wonderful parents. God bless.

I love how confident you are vlogging in public. I hope you have a safe and happy delivery. My first baby turns 14 soon but I remember that season of life, it was so blissful. Soak it in because one day you'll blink and she'll be grown.

You got a great haul of stuff!! As a momma of 4 who only discovered this with my last baby...of course lol...I highly recommend getting some adult diapers for the postpartum bleeding!! Especially for the first week or whenever your bleeding is heaviest. I personally used the always discreet boutique ones and they were definitely a lifesaver, as I didn't have to worry about pads over flowing and leaking onto my clothes. Good luck and I wish you the best during labor delivery and postpartum recovery! 💞

Becky, keep in mind that breast milk is pretty miraculous. And a great lactation consultant is priceless! You have a great selection. The ice pack pads are such a great helper! I am praying for a smooth delivery and recovery. Don't count on early or on time. 2 of 4 of our grands were over a week after due date.

The robe and slippers are a great idea. People have suggested lip balm and nipple cream. You can save a lot by just ordering pure lanolin. Nipple cream is just lanolin, but packaged in a tube, rather than in a small jar, and it makes the best chapstick that won't actually dry your lips out in the long run. I wish you a wonderful birth experience and a great time for the three of you getting to know each other.

My biggest suggestion from birth till they sleep through the night is buy nightgowns that tie on the bottom and have built in mittens! It makes diaper changes when you're delerious sooo much easier. It also keeps the baby's top half warm so they dont scream as much if cold bothers them. They are also much easier to put on and take off than outfits that have to insert little legs that want to stay tucked up. Then you can swaddle them or put them in a sleep sack and they are nice and comfy. Also nipple cream is life if you breastfeed/pump... congrats!

Don't get carried away with what the world says you need pre and post. Learning together as you go is half the fun. Best wishes