A key thing to understand is women are not more emotionally tuned than men. They are typically more emotionally unstable than men. Big difference. This emotional instability means their wants and needs change swiftly. They are fickle by nature. When a woman says 'i love you' , in your mind always add 'for now'.
I have a rule which is, no begging and no chasing! Too busy workin on being the best version of myself. When she comes she has to be a asset not a liability.
I've seen so many women leaving her caring husbands/bfs simply cause they were bored Being caring works for a while but then girls start taking it for granted
Fellas here is a story for you. There is this girl in my gym she is about 5-9 her body is stacked face is wow. She always has 4-5 dudes talking to her. Now I am 5-8 decent body still not where I want to be but on my way. I have never even looked in her direction, well I have because she is hot but I do what I have to do and leave because I am on my grind as a man chasing excellence. One day she comes up to me blabbing about am I done with that workout station. I took my ear bud out and said " huh what " and no I am not done 3 more sets. She said can I work in, I said no I am pressed for time I will be done soon. I was a straight dick i really had shit to do. Every other man in that gym would have said yes they looked at me like bro wtf. But some also know I have boxed for a few years now and told the one beta who was saying let her work in to relax he will beat that ass. She heard that and looked at me with a smirk. The betas did the job for me lol. Because of that every time I am in the gym she makes a point to come say hey busy guy how was weekend did you kick anyone's ass. I say something short and ignore her smart ass comment. If I didn't have a girl I would talk to her but because I am a dick it messes her up in the head that I don't give a shit about her looks. Guys you can be a 6 and pull a 12 if your mindset is on your purpose.
Well you started it all well but where you fucked it up was where you said if you didn't have a girl you would have asked her out etc, who told you that you need to have only one girl. Men should have multiple women whenever they can. That's the real playerism
@@charltonuche8057 FACTS. I was so deflated by that beta simp ish he closed his comment out with. Smh. What a waste. This dude is NOT married yet is missing out on clapping beautiful & highly coveted cheeks like that? SMFH. And his comment is already 2 weeks old, so the iron may no longer be hot enough to strike at this point. Dude. Kill your inner beta. Don't merely injure it, you have to KILL IT. Stop being afraid of success. Take your renewed personality ALL THE WAY, stop subconsciously b!tching out when it comes to closing deals, man!
The more you learn about female nature combined with the more you love yourself, the less you'll be attracted to modern women. very few have anything real to offer and can parabond in a committed relationship
I really miss the days when everything it was so simple Without all these internet drama that tells you what to do,at what age and how etc Almost everything is toxic People,food, air, relationships
@@XPuntar I respect your point of view But i think is more complex than that Human mind is complex and always hungry and curious for all the aspects of life and beyond that With all the information that we have now we can be way easier to be manipulate and the "beauty" of it Is that it feels like you made the choices without realising that you've been just manipulated Anyway, what i wanted to say was...love yourself and try to be the best versione off you,have respect and try to wake up with positive thinking Sorry for my English
Amen....Adela.....from experience, I'm 66 years old, todays women are too much into the drama, games, social media....the good old days were much better.
Guys just be yourself for real, honest the best 3 advices I can tell other than be yourself is 1. Don’t be weird and creepy 2. Don’t overly simp 3. Treat them the same way you treat your guy friends
@@kamilatmo If you treat a girl like you treat your guy friends, she's never going to know you are interested in her unless you are flirting with your guy friends but I guess that's not the case. There is nothing wrong with showing a girl you are interested, in fact that's actually showing you are confident.
@Stansy - but #1 contradicts with "being yourself" for most guys though 🤣 That's why most guys have little to no success with women in the first place.
When you finally find the one girl that wants you, she files for divorce and you lose everything.... house, land, children, savings...... gone in one day.
Agreed. But you lose a lot more in divorce. Identity, self confidence, friends, environment and future trust in others. Divorce doesn't happen in a day. It's takes months or years of soul crushing mental beat downs. NEVER GET MARRIED!
I'll strongly debate that story, first u said u found the girl that wants you. Then later she takes every in divorce. My analysis is leaning towards this conclusion. That from the start she probably was attracted to the things you possess and had to give you that fake attraction but she was on a mission.. a dirty mission to be exact never really wanted u just wanted what u had.. anyways hope u bounce back my guy
Stay single !,,,and be a playboy and also go to hookers ,,,,, no commitment ,,,, no binding contract of marriage , no alimony ,, no child support ,, no slavery,, and you can have mulititute of woman !!!!! Instead of just one !!!!!!!!
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We should stop trying to be likable in order to find happiness through other people, placating to THEIR needs over OUR needs. A woman either likes you or not - regardless of what you do for her, but instead she wants you for how you make her FEEL by being YOU.
you can tell real intellect from fake intellect by how often the person shows their face over their work, good looking men with intellect rarely show their face when its in work like this man never saw his face but he is making money off youtube. because his work speaks for itself.
@@shaq9361 That's not true...In extremes and stereotypes yeah, but it's not the ''rule'' or even usual. I know from my own experience...I'm not a You Tuber but from life.
At some point of our life we all asked one simple question "how to understand" womens. The answer is simple - you can't understand them. They don't "work" as we do. What we expect during conversation is logic and specific answers (or specific way of answers), but girls don't care about logic and specific answers, they only care about share her feelings and emotions with you. So what you can only do is to learn "how to feel" womens. You can't undestand them, but you can feel them and if you will succeed it will be worth it.
@@TrollMeister_ repeating some things is a psychological tactic used to get people to believe something, gaslight, and make you remember it. It’s also a female grooming tactic.
@@jessejr16js make it so you improve yourself 1st before getting with a girl. And when your with a girl "with more value as you" you gotta have motivation to work on yourself and she'd help you with it. Those girls are rare
I am an older guy (68.) I attract a lot of female attention playing acoustic guitar. It is not usually attention with s++ in mind though but it does still happen.
They’re so emotional but still have a right to vote . They want men with options buy then complain when those men cheat on them ?? I’m tired about what they want , we should start asking what can they offer us instead
Dont cry if you're a virgin at 25..Cry if you're poor at 25... Set targets and shoot them..Im at the point where i just start setting my targets and losing the vcard is not on the list..Me first then everything else..Once im done with ME then its free for me to decide what's next
I couldn't agree with u anymore bro great response the best I've read in a long time regarding female nature ,us men need to stick together in these times they are out for the victory due to all the crappy men they chose within their past
All true points. I would add that its these 4 reasons why sex and attraction typically break down in a long term relationship living together. She no longer gets these things she craves due to the stable living situation. Its a real problem for men in marrage.
I chase God that’s it. To wrap it up female wants a guy thst have drive. Being attractive is not hard. Take care of your self spiritually mentally and physically
Yeah true bro, I accepted Jesus as my Lord and personal savior. And it's the best decision I made, this channel I use to follow, but now that I have Jesus in my life. Things are so much different. The thing guys also need to understand is that when you dabbling in fornication and sleeping with a lady outside wedlock, Jesus isn't for relationships like that. God made men and women to procreate in marriage and God made the man to lead and the women to stand by his side, so the man is the head and the women upholds the head. Just like the physical the body upholds the head, so the a women is made to uplift her man and the man also to compliment his wife. If you live out of God's laws and lack his knowledge, the devil is real, Jezebel and Delilah spirits are real. So true bro, God should be the Centre of it all.
@@kenice6200 Jesus loves you but if you domt love him back he will have yoi tortured FOREVER. Imagine being a guy who is sick enough to chain up a woman and torture her if she does not love and accept her. This is exactly how your Jesus works.
A woman I was dating once said to me " I just want u to reach a point where a lot of women want you ". That statement blew my fukin mind ,like I'm thinking women want a loyal man. What I got to understand later on is that they want other women looking at u while yall are together. They want their sisters and their cousins praising them for having you.. not necessarily they want a guy that's cheating or have multiple options.. once they can "Feel" that they have a guy that other women desire and wants it makes them "Feel" good. I would have never understood that statement if I hadn't subscribed to some redpill contents.. women are fukin crazy guys and sometimes it's feels depressing just trying to have a relationship with these emotional creature fr.. some men rather stay single cuz of this.. of just do a casual relationship.. and then there's the women who will want u compete for them bcuz they want to "Feel" powerful and have control in the relationship.. that's another can of worms by itself tf
@J DBoom thats it right there. Bc they are viewing world through the social power Lens. Yeah women who have to have get their ego boost and validation from their social peer groups approval and or envy to me don't really generate any feelings of respect from me. I have never depended on my peers or societies approvalof my mate of choice. Its a sign that she is more concerned with place in social hierarchy. Possibly narcissistic personality, ect.
If the subject of manhood interests you, I invite you to use the resources on the Mastery Order Channel and challenge yourself with some ideas about masculinity to become the kind of man you would look up to. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
I'm working on being more consistent with how I make females feel having fun and communication but I've done all of this and mannnn it works when I applied all of this in my daily life I got way more attention then being a nice guy like I said tho just need to be more consistent with it I still get inside my head and get super nervous but I'm working on it for sure!
It's worth nothing, if you're a sub5 in looks. You can be confident all you want - if you're lacking in appearance, she'll never consider you high value or think, you have options.
Yep, that's true. I'm a hospital ICU nurse who goes to other nursing departments when there's a crisis going on and take productive action. I'm proactive and decisive. There's a large number of females in those departments who notice my assertive behavior. I talk to those females after averting a crisis and I don't get that vibe that they like me. I'm a sub5 in that I'm short (5'8"") and not thick muscular. Looking confident and assertive doesn't get you anywhere if you're not sexually appealing.
No no no! Girls do NOT like emotional rollercoaster!! We desire CLARITY and straight UNDERSTANDING! idk wat girls yall messed wit but us women don't like games nor do we like to be left confused and uncertain 💗
I keep feeling that if you want to be emotional and treat a girl right... wait till your kids are out of college and she's old and you really don't care if she leaves.
A rollercoaster has ups and downs. The downs are necessary they make the peaks more enjoyable. Give your woman some downs too. But keep them short before you take her up again. Works!
don’t chase, attract them, first i want to thank this guy, i was a loser, creep and normal, pretty much like the kid who’s addicted to video games who spend his day in his room weekends and typically gets bullied when i was in high school, but now i attract even my high school crush, bully’s girl and ig models, the key is HOW YOU PRESENT YOUSELF AND PUT SOME STRONG BOUNDARIES, women love men who’re leaders and secured
What you say makes sense. I feel I have a better handle on relationships now. My workouts are making me look great. I have tons of options, so things are going to gel. I feel it.
Dude your still not getting it. Thinking that your body is they key to being the boss. Yes be fit but thinking more muscle means more women is just not going to work.
Pre-selected, geez, I've been that guy since i was a little kid. Been called chick magnet, player, pimp, etc. It's just easy for me to talk to any girl if they're cute or not lol. I was never afraid of rejection. My poor wife feels insecure because lots of girls hit on me in public, even though my wife is clinging to my arm with her dear life and glaring back at these women lol 🤣
Remember boys: there are billions of women some of them are our own relatives who are struggling because they settled for a low value man. Do not hate women for wanting more. Life is hard.
One thing is to Know the game and keep playing to the game whether you win or lose. Master your act and stick solely to what brings peace ☮️ & a bit of excitement too.
When you say girls, you can't truly mean all, but the average. How many do you think are emotional addicts? I've noticed quite a variety regarding how emotional or rational women are when making decisions and to what extent they need to talk to someone (introverts do exist, LOL). On a related note, I got a firm preference for certain personality types and also noticed that no matter how hard I try, I won't get along with some other personality types. When you look at MBTI, or 16 Personalities, I am most attracted to ENTP and ESTP (who both have a rather bad reputation in the community and from my personal experience are more rational and pragmatic, but also less emotional and tend to lean to low empathy and disregard of authority) and I struggle to get along with anything of the type XXFX, in particular Fi-types (ESFP, ISFP, ENFP, INFP). While I'm not autistic, with these personality types, I'm pretty much lost on reading them beyond the things they say directly and that despite otherwise understanding things like irony and allusions, or social cues in general. However, these types remain for me a black-box, erratic, and highly irrational. I can't assume that they work towards what's in the best interest of the group, nor their own. Quite often, they do things that actively harm their own interests for petty reasons and they get angry at someone, but when you ask them they'll always lie and say that everything is fine, and perhaps in a year or even longer they finally get emotionally distant enough to actually say what had triggered them all the way back...
All good points. But I'm an American who lives in South America many beautiful girls here I simple broke live with family.they want a normal life food and a ok place to live..that's it..you supply that ..your in..the average wage in South America is $300 a month..
If the subject of manhood interests you, I invite you to use the resources on the Mastery Order Channel and challenge yourself with some ideas about masculinity to become the kind of man you would look up to. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
The one craziest thing most guys have no idea about is that first of all you need to look just right for them. If you need their true desire of course. The other things they desire are being told to you in case you didn't know (if you're a super desireable Chad who even bothers to be with her). But trust me, they'd rather go for a real chad with the worst character than for an avarage or even above average guy with the best character you could imagine. We naturally go for the best genetics we can possibly pair up with. And looks are the direct factor which dictates our genetic quality. Of course it's very sad but absolutely true.🙏