1. What you say doesn't matter. 2. Girls are no different to anyone else. 3. It's better to say something than nothing at all. 4. Direct communication is better than indirect communication. 5. What you don't do is far more important than what you DO do.
1. Women can't handle rejection, either in cold approaches, or in a relationship when the man doesn't want sex or hang out. 2. Women read between the lines in their heads then create there own narrative based on an internal reality. 3. Women don't understand men cause society tells them they don't have to. He must do the work. 4. Women will obsess about a situation tell there friends, but hold you accountable in her head. 5. Women can and will communicate with children because she is ultimately in control of the narrative and outcome, men not so much..they do not read between the lines well in relation to men... All other points are spot on, they are like everyone else, they do want to see assertiveness in a man, but also they dont like risk/rejection. They move the goal post when it suits them. Women are lovely but you can't love them and understand them at the same time .
WOW, you're just an idi@t. "You can't love them and understand them at the same time" , I think it's more like women understand you and just don't like you.
Greatest point of the video, in my view: Women have evolved a sense of understanding between the lines so they can understand small children’s needs. Translate that to: when you watch two women communicating there is a huge invisible matrix web between them which a man doesn’t see but it’s totally visible to them.
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
My pickup line I would just go up to her be look like what are doing right now like I know you want this you allright too so what's really the deal obviously put that in your own words but I would just very upfront man I think that's were any of my success came from... like what the deal yeah or nah nah allright forget you then yeah that is cool too... and if you get completely shot down you gonna be like ah that sucks for a little bit and you gonna wake up and watch one of my videos and be like it aint even that bad I don't even need her so yeah that I would do again I'm no love expert
women notice of you're rude to other people, not helpful to others, distracted by your phone, don't take care of yourself, abusive language, addictions, no chivalry... what you don't do
I would challenge you on the fourth point. My experience has been that indirect communication plays a huge part of flirtation and seduction. Consider the case where you’ve fallen for a girl you know and would like her to know that you are, so that your relationship might evolve. Would you suggest communicating that directly? Because that is exactly how a ton of guys scare girls away. It is not that I don’t value direct communication, and your point about being able to communicate clearly is great, but I do think your advice is unbalanced. Good job with the videos tho, I do like the content.
@Mr Mears yeah you hold always smile and say hi 👋 of course. Im just bad at conversation and storytelling so I don't speak much myself, im more of a listener.
I don’t believe most guys struggling today are staring and acting “creepy” like your depicting. They are just shy and say very little while not staring at all. Yes many girls get weirded out but I think you need to chill out cause you might make someone feel bad who just needs some encouragement to open up. Yes saying nothing I’ve realized makes me awkward and while I’ve grown somewhat I need to take it to another lvl.
@Shimohira Reika but i meant, the video person say "something i have learnt after 40 years is that women are like men, that they have the same problems and think about the same things even if they are beautiful" then he says "girls become very afraid when a man is not talking" ....what?!
Women are just lookin' for the next guy to save 'em from the Pandemic. I'll stick to bein' creepy quiet in the corner. I like it on my own. Beware (the soul suckers) guys.
If you're young and pretty enjoy it, but remember it's going to pass. No one stays young and pretty for long, male attention will go away: be sure you build a good character and don't just focus on your looks. Men tend to get more attractive as they age, but for girls it's mostly the other way around.
That a big one for a lot you young fellas out there that want talk to pretty girl and says she no you look you ain't got no bullet holes your life is the exact same as before so don't let her saying or curving you define you cause she stink and she poop too
Options is currency for a man. Women treat you like a king when they know you can / will leave. Your employer values you more if you can / will leave. If your exclusiveness is cheap you’re nothing.
It doesn't sound fair but it is nature. A female can only have one kid at a time so they're biologically wired to only want to be with the male they feel is the best they can get with, which is why they have such higher standards with very little margin for error than males do for females.
Keep all those advices with huge fucking grain of salt. Everyone is different. Everybody has different needs, not every woman looks for alpha who is better stronger etc. Sometimes women have more manly attitudes and behaviors than men's and look for someone kind and hard loving. Roles tend to swap. There's no rule which you can apply to everyone. What's true is that women's are masters of reading between lines.
Not true. A woman wants to be admired by her lover. If he doesn't give her that she will search for it somewhere else. So show love but don't over do it and don't put her on a pedestal!
I was at the gym one night and I was making direct eye contact with a girl who had a boyfriend. I gave her a playful flirty smile with it too. I can tell she liked it. She started doing it back with me every time I saw her. She then proceeded to add me on Facebook even though I didn’t know her so idk how she found me. Her and her friend would giggle around me flirtatiously too after that and her boyfriend seemed to catch on and he started to not seem to care for me too much. He stopped taking her to that gym and haven’t seen them in a year even though she still has me on Facebook lol. Bottom line is high quality women will love it when you are direct with them.
The biggest thing that guys don't know is that the most important attractive trait for men is to get her to perceive him as a leader, mentor or coach. Also, if you speak to girls, it's best to say something that's interesting or funny instead of boring, standard small talk. Playfully teasing a girl is also funny and attractive. Boring conversation is actually repulsive. I think that contrary to the video, feeling confident when talking to girls isn't important; what you say or talk about is what's important. Guys won't always feel confident, but if they focus on the content of their interaction, they'll get the results.
There is only one factor, which helps men: never, never look for love from a woman, except your mother. The moment she realizes that she has you the cat looses interest in the dead mouth.
Key take away here around 5:42..."in a language that makes no logical sense." Young men remember these words and you're half way to success with women.
I'm 5 min into the video and i noticed that the music was kind of loud and sometimes it would seem louder than your voice perhaps too loud Great video by the way
One more tip that I have found myself: If girl reacts to a topic little bit differently (IRL) than the previous one or doesn't answer with interest, change the topic to something that is close to her.
I just want to ask something about the #5 .. Isn't it that the more we focus on the things that the girl thinks of us can cause' nervousness or being attached to outcome of the conversation or the bonding or am I missing something important?
The craziest thing I learned about girls is that they are far more visual, when it comes to attraction, then we have been lead on to believe, especially during the PUA era.. this is even more evident now with online dating.. where 80% of the girls go after the top 20% best looking guys...how many times have we seen girls lust over serial killers; prisoners; not bc they are “bad boys”.. just the good looking ones.. aka Ted bundy; Jeremy Meeks.. this has been the craziest thing I learned about girls.
I rarely open my mouth to speak. Girls like me. Im silent like mad max and terminator. If a girl cold approaches me I'm polite and friendly. I dont cold approach them.
Yea the strong silent type send alpha signals and makes then super clueless and want to know more it’s like click bait this kid knows nothing his method is what you do in elementary school for teens not women above 15
This is quite similar to advanced physics, or the like, that I find curious, but do not wholly grasp. So I need must watch complex heady stuff like this more than once to begin a grasp of it.
Idc how many times ppl tell me hot girls are also like me. I myself dont see her as having any interest in me so it makes it a lot more difficult to talk to her.
Yes, the mystery of a woman. When you talked for 5 minutes with her only one matter. The other one is What she expects from you to say. But when you are in silence it's says a lot to her, mostly bad.
I find that the line between alpha and simp can seem blurry at times. For example on the topic of being quiet and “creepy” I find it interesting that the guy you depict as quiet looks really lean and mean like he could take on five other guys in a fight. I have heard it said from other PUA that sometimes the most alpha guy in the room is also the quietist. Also on the last point where a woman thinks you are not confident if you don’t go up to her. Well isn’t chasing girls simp behavior? Maybe what you are communicating when you ignore an attractive girl is you aren’t even worth my time and I can easily get any girl like you. Another topic I think of is the topic of dressing nice. Wouldn’t a true alpha not give the slightest damn what anyone thinks of how he dresses? By making sure you have the latest designer brand clothes like everyone else isn’t this simp behavior? I have always reflected upon that the truest alphas among us are actually in prison. If you didn’t cuck out and act beta on the job you would very quickly be fired in most jobs. In today’s politically correct world a true alpha is forced into jail quickly.
Been watching this channel for a bit now and I'm just like ??? this channel is a mix of terrible advice and good advice. Like yeah self improvement is great and all but not all improvement is good. I've noticed this guy also never says "women" which is a little odd, and a lot of the assumptions made are not completely correct. You want to find someone? Be their friend first, get to know them, its a much healthier process then bouncing around for the sole purpose of getting into a relationship. Also, not all women are like what are described in these videos, in fact very few are, but this whole "need to be alpha dominant male" only works on that small % described in these videos. Its alright to not always be a closed off always-on-point chad male, many women like men who can open up and discuss their feelings or struggles because it feels like we're dating an actual human. Moral of the story is take the advice from this channel with a grain of salt. Peace.
C'mon man why is the guy a creep just because he didn't speak to you? Did you attempt to say hello to him first?? If not stop judging and labeling people
