@@GeorgePenton-np9rh I'm not looking for the perfect guy because I know no one is perfect in this world, even I'm not rude or cold to anyone because my nature is quite different so that's why I only want care , respect, loyalty and a good understanding
She's not ready to date me. I remember last year someone said, "o wow you and him would be good together." Me and her both said, "were just focusing on school." Remember guys. LOVE IS PATIENCE.
You are so right. I remembered me in a relationship where I asked God that, that guy by his will for me, he should take the relationship to another level. That night I had this dream where I was in my husband's house, he was so understandable, gentle and everything a woman need's in a man but I didn't see his face, and he was taller than my present boyfriend. The more I keep praying the more sign's He will revealed. Example, concerning my ex, He showed me a lot of negative dreams concerning him. But instead of cutting off the relationship I thought I was his helper, not long the relationship broke and this guy looked for every reason to walk away... Then I started understanding the message God showed me... When we asked Gods will and directions, He lead's us just sometimes our emotions deceived us..
1. Is there a parallel between their words and deeds? 2. Am I rushing into this relationship or acting in wisdom? 3. Do I have to date them or get to know them first? 4. Am I acting in integrity or lying to myself and to God?
Sweetheart take off the dog stuff. They want us to degrade ourselves in many ways. Be proud to be you and reject this world. I mean no offense and may the good Lord Jesus be with you! Amen.
Yes Mark, Very timely brother! I went too fast with a guy I was dating a couple months!! We now chose to be friends! I think we went ahead of the Lord, and now in the friend zone! God will lead us if it's meant to be! He's a new believer and not sure how to lead in a Christian relationship and needs to become rooted into the Word & his relationship with Jesus! Slowing down and being friends is wisdom! Blessings from Portland Oregon 🕊
I don’t know about anyone else, but God has shown me so many times that I am going to meet the right person. Every time I ask He keeps giving me an answer and I just continue to wait on Him.
The Troll Patrol Because He does. God can speak to you in more ways than one. Whether it be through a video, or a song, or even a picture. He will speak to you as long as you want to grow closer to Him.
God reveals to me about my fiance by giving me dreams. He's revealed the perfect wedding, he's revealed 2 beautiful fraternal twins, he's revealed us in heaven and paradise. He tells me to be patient with him and to stop rushing him. All things will take place in their appointed times.
I know that many on here probably won't believe you or will tell you to stop dreaming, but I believe you. You just be patient now and wait on God's leading AND timing.
@@MouseCrusader I'll pop out a quick video later on the subject...for now..Acts 8: 26 And the angel of the Lord spake unto Philip, saying, Arise, and go toward the south unto the way that goeth down from Jerusalem unto Gaza, which is desert. 27 And he arose and went: and, behold, a man of Ethiopia, an eunuch of great authority under Candace queen of the Ethiopians, who had the charge of all her treasure, and had come to Jerusalem for to worship, 28 Was returning, and sitting in his chariot read Esaias the prophet. 29 Then the Spirit said unto Philip, Go near, and join thyself to this chariot. 30 And Philip ran thither to him, and heard him read the prophet Esaias, and said, Understandest thou what thou readest? 31 And he said, How can I, except some man should guide me? And he desired Philip that he would come up and sit with him....Psalm 143:10 Teach me to do Your will, For You are my God; Let Your good Spirit lead me on level ground. Romans 8:14 For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God. Galatians 5:18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law... Ezekiel 37:1 The hand of the LORD was upon me, and He brought me out by the Spirit of the LORD and set me down in the middle of the valley; and it was full of bones. Matthew 4:1 Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. Mark 1:12 Immediately the Spirit impelled Him to go out into the wilderness. Just teasing...lol...Lord is with you...Thanks
Don't forget on#1, the book of Isaiah 29 : 13 says the same and Jesus reminds us in Mathew 15 :8 and Mark 7: 6. Best way is to watch what comes from their hearts and pray about it.
@@KP-ej7gc good afternoon sir. Mark 14:36 36 “Abba,[a] Father,” he said,“everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.” Galatians 4:6 6 Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Soninto our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, “Abba,[a] Father.” Romans 8:15 15 The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again;rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.[a] And by him we cry, “Abba,[b] Father.”
This is a lovely, informative video. However, all the elders in my family were married to people that others chose for them, i.e. arranged marriage. They never had any dating process and not even friendship.... Just marriage!! But their marriages have been rock solid. What would you advice about this?
I am 29yrs old and have only been on one date. God disciplined me by allowing feelings to happen and leading me to engage in conversation only to take it away Before it ever got going. I am thankful. A decade of singleness now and still going, I actually have learned how to be content with out a woman. It's been hard and lonely at times but I have grown to appreciate simple conversation with women. A conversation with a n attractive young woman is soothing to my soul. Also I have found that being vulnerable with women is therapy for lonliness.
I don't think that's how God operates, That's not how He disciplines and we get feelings on our own when we choose to let feelings take root/ stay. God does not tempt nor can He be tempted I believe that the same logic can be applied here.
I know exactly how you feel. Im turning 29 in a few months, never been in a relationship. Its been very very hard! I had a prospect for the first time in my life this year, he fizzled out and vanished. I really want out of my very very very long season of singleness, I want it to be over so badly.
Very timely for me as well, Mark! My long time friend and I just started dating/courting, so now I'm on your channel checking out all the of the "next step" videos.
Came at a good time got tempted to try out the shake function but that would mean emotional infidelity. Sorry Jesus and person Im dating right now. Yes I should strive to live an authentic life. God has entrusted his son and heart to me and I should protect it, treasure it and bring glory to His name. Pray for me brothers and sisters in Christ
Father God, please help me with Richard, its two months into the relationship, and already engagement is on the subject, please help me with signs that Richard is the right person. I trust you Lord. Amen
@DON'T PANIC Thank you for your message. God will show me signs, if he is the right one for me, I'm not worried. I am just surprised how soon into the relationship, popping the question before year end, moving in together next year, I believe if it's meant to be, God will guide me/us.
He will be a blessed man! I've been dating a woman 4 7 years can't even tell her I love her it kills me. I would of asked her 6 years ago. I am praying 4 awnsers to.
@@mikevictor5945 Thank you for your message, involve God in your relationship, you will see how things will change for the best for the both of you, dont give up, keep asking God for guidance.
God bless you in our Lord Jesus' name! Amen. This helps us single people in these trying times. As I'm sure you know it's hard out here. Thanks again my brother.
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger I'm always very cautious when it comes to any spiritual advice but I always know when it comes from God. You sir so far are batting 1000. Haha thanks again.
If you have this fear Norberto you should bring it to God in prayer and ask him for wisdom and courage to date someone if he arranges it. If he did present someone to you, you can't be afraid to take action. Again, you'll need to only act in his timing, but he didn't give us a spirit of fear. People can be very nasty, but God knows your heart. Keep trusting him.
I wull be praying for you. It will take a special person to understand you and your illness as well. Pray that the Lord brings you exactly what you need in your life. Learn to love yourselve with your own defects and the virtues that you have. And then you will be able to love others.
I was diagnosed with schizophrenia in 2011 and I know what you mean... had the same thought. But what I am finding out is that if a person can't except you for who you are and the struggles you are going through they are not true friends. And if a woman can't except you cause you tell her you are going through this illness she is not the one God has for you... but you dont have to go around telling people you have this illness, only if God move to. Of course also pray for healing and deliverance. Sometimes it seems impossible, I know. But with God nothing is impossible. God bless you my friend
Found out this guy was a fake Christian and was chasing multiple women at once. He ended up lying and saying he only pursued this girl at work but I told all the girls the truth so he's single now. 😂
This is 🔥🔥🔥 THANK YOU! For the confirmation that I was doing things according to the will of God and asking the right questions! Especially the last point! I feel like that’s where God had to intervene to save the relationship /friendship! (God told the guy that he needs to stop pursuing me so I could heal properly from past hurts) However it was a great video that gave me confirmation from previous experiences and direction for what’s next 😬
I wish I was part of the older generation. Back when you asked someone out because you like em. These days we're looking for a sign regarding a relationship that won't last forever no matter what we do. We have to be extra certain. Not many Christians meet their spouses like this. Rarely is any of this the case for pastors or elders.
Good video. As an American , I’d like to just move to a homestead and forget about all of this ….American women are for the streets …but I get distracted when a girl gives me their number…..waste of time. Get your passport!
How it really works... You're looking for someone you've probably known for awhile. You think they're cute but you'd never think of being with them. Then that person starts to show up in your life at random times. All the time. It's very strange to see. Feelings begin to overwhelm you and you two start dating. GO SLOW! The Devil will for sure do everything he can to end it. It'll be ok. Like I said GO SLOW. You're Christian so you should know your scripture. Come together and trust on the Lord to get you through it. Or chase that worldly person you know you shouldn't cause when the attacks come AND THEY WILL. When you bring up scripture they'll think you're crazy... Your choice. lol
The question is does God even want people to date? I like the wisdom though in general. Sometimes things are clouded by cultural assumptions of ways we’re supposed to live (lifestyle).
I love you God Thankyou for everything you have done for me God love you so much thankyou for always helping me with my problems you are truly a blessing God and thankyou so much for sending this video thankyou so much I love these small quotes you send me about life and or about how much you love everyone I love them and about relationships about love with a man quotes about how you love everyone so much you want us to follow you ♥️ I love you God and In Jesus Name We Pray Amennnn🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✝️🛐☦️
Hi Mark, today I found your channel and I believe you have some solid Godly insight. I was looking up a verse you quoted and found the last verse you referred to (Prov 20:25) in the video is found Prov 20:17 and Maybe this was just a typo? but I plan to continue watching your channel for your knowledge and inspiration. God bless.
There is a typographical error Proverbs 20:17 "Bread is gained by deceit is sweet to a man, but afterward his mouth will be full of gravel." GOD bless us :)
God bless you Bro Mark. Indeed it's good to ask GOD before moving into any relationship. If we involve GOD in our relationship we won't make mistake choosing the wrong partner. May GOD increased your wisdom in JESUS CHRIST name. Amen
It s been a while that I dont know what to do anymore in relationships. And time passes and so does youth waiting from God the Godly Man. And noone comes. Feeling pointless 😥
Dont lose hope, keep praying for your Godly man you are not alone. Its hard to wait I know especially as you get older I can tell you that I know how you feel cause that is my story too. Dont lose faith just keep praying and trust in the Lord that He will give you that desire of your heart according to his good and perfect will.
The video was amazing and I fully agree. I was in the situation were I wasn’t sure if God wanted me to date a person. I prayed a lot and finally asked her out. Later on I found out we had both been praying for one another for and for guidance if we should date. That’s what I thought was different about all the other girls I’ve ever met.
HAD THREE VISIONS IN MY LIVING ROOM OF A PERSON I JUST MET, IT WAS OUR MARRIAGE CEREMONY, WITH CLUES THAT LEFT NO DOUBT, ITS BEEN 4 YEARS SINCE WE MET, HVT DATED, SHES IN MN, IM IN NC,,BUT I KNOW I WIL MARRY HER...................GOD IS GOD..N DOES AS HE PLEASES.......................................
Hello Mark...i am always open to get to know someone and if their words meet their actions but am just afraid that i'll be wrong and will have made yet anothet false investment that'll bring more hurt. Help!
If God wants me to let go of a previous crush/best friend, why would he still allow us to work side by side at work? We haven’t spoken in 3 months and if i tell her i still have feelings i’ll only come off as needy. So it hurts me to work beside this person when i can’t show my true self.
One thing I have learned is to pray what Jesus prayed, Father if this cup is not for me, take it away. If this cup is for me. I will drink it. Let your will be done, and not my will. Every time God has removed that woman from me.
Thank you bro !! Im in a phase to open doors for new relationship.. i was asking god to let me meet some one special, I was praying about it in church today... i came home and I came across your video!! God bless you and help you to make more eye opener videos.!!
How do you get out the friend zone? My best friend and I both think we would be a great couple.. but we don’t know how to view each other in a different way even though there’s definitely chemistry. If we wouldn’t have been Christians the simplest way would be to kiss each other but we both know that’s not the way to go as Christians
I’m confused these videos make it like it’s easy to find a Christian female in 2019 or even a conservative female I live in Rhode Island liberal un godly state
Im confused...the person broke it off from me after we both admitted this is Gods will & started having heartful feelings of eachother but one communication barrier caused him to reject me.... sadly still my spirit desires him... 🤷🏽♀️ I been praying of this.... and this video pops up..... I'm so confused and consistently praying....
Some things I dont agree with you on.great videos though.Megan good stated God revealed who her husband would be before they started dating during her celibacy season and eventually they got married.I do believe if you have a close relationship with God and waiting on the sex and also waiting on God to send you a husband he will reveal who your husband would be and once you walk out og your deliverance and purpose God will send him once you're both ready its called confirmation. I just thought i should put that out there.I just dont think God will not reveal who your husband is if you never dated. It could be someone in church who youve never talked to.He could talk to a million other women but if you're not ready and hes not ready God will still reveal if that could be your spouse but he will not put 2 people together if theyre not ready and aligned to his word.God wants us to do things his way.friendship relationship (without the sex) and then marriage He will not put 2 people together if theyre not ready, but he could still reveal who it would be.Thats why we should fast and pray
Queen Helena I feel the main reason people end up with a Narcissist partner is being skeptical about running a background check-up on who they’re dealing with. My worst experience was discovering my 8 years husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cell phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram and text messages both deleted and incoming ones without having to touch his phone. Contact him, he’s a Genius!( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later
@@contactcyberhackingsagegmail A lot Of times people end up with those types because they fail to seek God and wait on God.Ive been celibate over a year and havent dealt with a man in a while and it feels soooo dang good .Best time Of my life.I have fell in love with God and I love myself more than ever.My main focus has been my kids and writing my book. im waiting on God to send me a HUSBAND .I know the man he sends my way, I wont even have to worry about hacking or going through his phone
In the video at the 7:45 mark you stated that “bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, but afterward his truth will be full of gravel.” I was following along in my Bible with the verses and that isn’t found in proverbs 20:25. Proverbs 20:25 was stated correctly when it first came up in the video which was “It is a trap to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider ones vows.” I’m just making sure I was following along right.
Trying to sort through the thoughts in my mind is becoming a tiresome and difficult process... It seems that every time I answer one question I get three more in my mind. God will bring me through this complex time, I’m sure. Please pray for me in my time of confusion!
A_G21 SonOfGod If two are WILLING, it will work out. But, If you want Gods confirmation if it’s the best situation for you, You need to step back, and ask God to open or shut the doors. Wait and see what happens. Trust in Him.
It didn’t look like the Bible talk about dating,, most people in the Old Testament just got Married and the New Testament Paul told couples if they couldn’t keep there hands off each other they should get married. People still get divorce after waiting a few years before getting married.
Moses R I noticed when God send someone they don’t date long. I guess it’s because they have been giving signs that that person is their wife/husband. And those marriages tend to last longer then the ones who date 1+ years. I know a Christian couple who dated for only 2 weeks and going towards their 10 year anniversary next year May of being married . They are most definitely equally yoked etc.
Amanda Collins two weeks only 🤔like seriously how??you they knew each other before or they met instantly within that two weeks or?l mean they were totally strangers
Tinashe Makoni completely strangers! I feel when God put ppl together there’s no such thing as a “dating timeline” there’s no time line to love. The standard is to date for 2 years then get married, which I get. But I feel when you know you know when God sends that one for you. For one thing they weren’t in a rush before meeting each other they both said they just kept faith in the lord and in his timing.
1. God will answer. Is there a parallel between this person's words and deeds? 2. God will answer. Am I rushing things or acting in wisdom? 3. Do I really have to date this person to find answers to questions I still have, or do we need to get to know each other more in the season we are currently in? 4. Am I acting with integrity or am I lying to myself and to God?
God point: parallel between words and deeds. If he witnessed any of the pummeling without major defense, he is off my radar-not manly enough. God has made perfectly clear, no matter how much I love men and hope to marry, that reality must be settled first.
It's so easy for you say these things why can't God just tell me in person huh i wanna be a kid again I wanna be happy again god just say follow him do this do that. He so quiet even my dog is louder then him. Does he even understand my pain did him he even bother coming in to my body and experiencing my pain. He love so much but why does let me in so much huh. Why did that person call me ugly why did that girl reject me why did she come in my life why ??? Is God gonna make me happier because I'm tired of trying my best In life because over and over again I wanted to feel God's love where is it mark why did he make me the way I'm am philipino ugly into music that makes people cringe why can't he just show up in front of me like a real father would
@@1978boba yes. yes i am😂😂 it probably be like that for a good while. but even of i never date as long as i am pleasing the lord thats all that matters
I catfish girls I use them. I am dirty. I do it because I never experienced it what it really means to have really women love you how come other people experienced the taste of there love how come I'm left out there nothing else for me
How would I know of this job coach Chris was the one? If he has a girlfriend what if it doesn’t work out I know my co worker think he into me how he has a girlfriend 😭
There's this man I have resisted for some time. But keep seeing him in my dreams being of great assistance to me. I dreamt he entered my room which was in a mess and seemed to love me. I chat with him, and he's really interesting. Any interpretation please?
Raissa Njombog search Kevin la Ewing here on RU-vid he did a video on dream interpretation using the Bible concerning houses and the meaning of each room I recommend you watch that video. I know he said bedrooms are symbolic for intimacy or privacy. But I don’t understand the symbols concerning that dream, I’m sure the video will help.
So I met this guy and he likes me and I like him but idk if my mom would want me to be with him I’m only 14 what do I do! I’ve been asking god every night
Well i will answer this question to those worrying about finding the PREFECT PERSON there is no time left to be worrying about this crap its a time to not be looking for these worldly carvings it a time to get right with God get your house in order. Stop being of this world.
