3 Signs God Is Preparing a Quiet Man to Pursue You 

Yes this.

Right. How am I supposed to know what's what. They are confusing.

True there is a guy i really like but he so slow. I dont know if he is into me or not.😢

I think you should start with *short* casual or even to some extent very unnecessary things - like study/work related stuff. If you do that a few times (without sounding interested or anything) He'd muster up courage to talk to you just as casually. You can slowly turn it up then. If he's interested, he'll follow your lead 😊 I'm also a Shy guy and it has happened to me once. That's how I know 😉 And unless he's a person with bad friends, you don't need to worry about looking desperate. You can just say, "We're all just Social Animals" 😁 All The Best to all of you 😊

I completely agree. I'm for sure not going to be compatible with the life of the party and would definitely be drawn to the quieter man.

Yes. Like when he’s the only one who remembers extra ice, lemons , and napkins! (My waiter friend) ❤

We are out there, an introvert woman would be ideal for me lol. I know as an introvert we definitely do remember pretty much everything, even the stuff I'd rather not..lol. being an introvert is great tho

@@audra100120 i agree, I couldn't be with a extremely extroveted girl

It’s refreshing to someone like that in a man. I’ve always been led to believe it would keep me from meeting a woman

Congratulations!!!

Congrats Wendy!!💝 So excited for you🥹

So sweet and that’s a blessing and sometimes strength isn’t always loud it’s within and inner strength that cannot be broken 🤗

Congrats so happy for you both

❤ how wonderful

Very true.

Got it thank you! What if I enjoy the silence, would they find it awkward? 😂

@@FaithAnswered Sure, why not? If you remain calm, warm, open, friendly, hopefully you'll get a chance to talk more at some point.

Someone, for the love of God, tell that to my Crush...

Thanks!

Thank-you!

Thank you so much for this summary of the video.

Thank you ❤

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.

Thank you for the feedback on quiet men❤

Scary accurate of me

unbelievably on point about me omg

Thank you for shedding light on a mystery. Everything makes sense now. God bless you

Tina, your Boaz is out their; continue to pray for that godly husband.

Amen to what Vincent Ortega said. Just keep THANKING GOD (in advance, as Hezekiah did) for the godly man that GOD CHOSE-- not you... and WAIT WAIT WAIT. Anything less is a PAINFUL WASTE OF TIME. TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART Prov 3

Are your 2 guy friends still single as well? 🤔😉

" and enjoy a deep (or light) conversation with me " Tina, I think he's talking about YOU picking up the slack for the relational connection, because this kind of man can't even start a conversation, much less maintain a 'deep ongoing dialogue'. He's talking about having a life with a man that looks to his wife to fill this "verbal short-coming".

@@Kari_Michele Hi, ka .la and I are not friends, I believe she is my sister in Christ, and I'm single. God bless you Kari

I’m sorry for your loss ❤ but I’m glad you got to experience such a wonderful love and marriage. May God bless you generously and exceedingly as you walk in this new season. God will never leave you ❤

🫶🏽 sorry for your loss. **hugs**

I’m the same about my beloved husband. He’s such a kindhearted soul!

So Sorry for your loss. God bless you🙏

Yes,same for me,my husband of 36 years suddenly passed away a little over 3 months ago.Such a quiet,sweet personality,definitely my best friend,we were inseparable,loved being together all the time,beliefs & morals the same.He left a void that seems like it can never again be filled.My sadness & loneliness never seems to dissipate or diminish.I am trusting God for peace & solace.Amen.

Same here🙋🏽‍♀️

You and me both😂😂

As in I have a meeting with someone and I have been praying about him

But no one really shows us love 😢

I notice this with my son. He shows me he cares when he remembers things I have said and then does it. He doesn't hug me or tell me caring things, but he does listen well. It was very important to him to be on time for a dance that a girl asked him to recently. He probably would have been too shy to ask her, but she notices the value in him and wanted to go with him.

this is so encouraging bc I had met quiet guy who made me feel closer to Jesus and helped me to become more still and quiet, which is not my natural tendency at all--i am outgoing and friendly but also guarded more I get to know people bc of past abuse. but I felt such a peace and presence of God with him. I felt fully present with him and vice versa.

He’s a keeper!!!❤

Preach Gina. Preach.. 😂

Thanks, Gina. Love you too :) (Yes, I am that quiet guy!)

God bless!

😂 I believe it’s Jesus answering prayers.

😂😂😂😂😂

I think it is😂😂😂

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Update I have met my husband we get along very well he is a Godly praying fasting man. And treats me very.

​@estherkeeling777 How long have you been talking with one another, and does he see you as his future wife already like you do him?

@@vivaeuropa Absolutely he sees me more as his wife then I initially seen him as my husband. He said he knew I was his wife the first time he saw me.

How did y’all meet ❤️❤️❤️

We seem to be in the same situation ❤❤

As a fellow introvert, I can confirm this is fact check true.

Yes often times are quietness and politeness get mistaken for harmlessness.

@@dinomra7771 people just think I'm mean in general lol its hilarious 😅

@@rogercolon619 lol same man. We can be blunt as an axe sometimes.

@@dinomra7771 I usually add humor so it goes down easier lol

10-4.

sounds too good to be true!haha

@@mmommo10 have faith in God 🙏🏼

I'm available Nailea.. 😂

They can be players too. Be careful. Having suffered too much now i dont compromise on basic principles. Pray that the Holy Spirit gives you discernment

Or The quiet guy often times are COVERT narcissists… beware ladies of RED flags …

Amen!

I second this!😁

My guy friend is this type of guy other girls needa watch this video. I have to say that I do not like my guy friend beyond friendship.

Thank you quiet guys for letting us know that Mark is spot on.❤

So glad this was useful!

In a sad Twist of reality he actually wasn't into me that much. But he opened the door to someone else to come into my life, so here's hoping this relationship works out.

​@@koreagirl2977 all the best 🙏

I'm so glad it was helpful Tracy! All glory to God!

Amen to that! Many women probably need to hear/read what you've said here - especially that "it doesn't look like [you] expected. Lol! I've lost out for that I think, not pursuing in the way it might be "expected" 😉

How do you know if God responds? I'm trying to know this. I pray daily. And I recently started asking God about a guy. I guess I will have to wait.

Are you still single Can we pray together?

​@royalevictoria You know the presence of the Holy Spirit you feel when someone gives a good one liner during a sermon or even in a worship song that just spiritually speaks to you. It's the same thing if you're praying to Christ just sit still and wait for an answer. It can even happen when you think about it like you can think for example "God can I date this guy" Then you feel the presence of the Holy Spirit that is confirming that you can. Or you can ask yes or no and see which one you feel the presence.

@vivaeuropa3005 Great response. I'm still in a waiting season in my life. While waiting, I'm fulfilling my calling to be in a Grad school program at Seminary. My call to do the will of the Lord is top priority. My desire for a future companion will be fulfilled in which she will have the same desire to do the will of the Lord as I do. She will be in my life in the future. Until then, my focus on studying the Word of God is my primary focus. And she will be my secondary focus.

This sums me up pretty well. I noticed I'll attract girls when they see me talking about things I'm passionate about, like traveling, learning languages, where I want to live, and what I want to do in the future. Then they'll approach me like you'd do to an expressive guy but I still need them to be inviting like you'd invite a quiet guy; so their pushy aggressive flirting makes me pull back and get cold as I feel emotionally disconnected and it results in me avoiding the girl. This was when I wasn't saved, but now that I'm saved, I haven't really gotten out of my bubble of two church friends, so I haven't interacted much with Godly women ever. Still only have worldy women at work interested in me.

Awww. Bless you 🤗

I’m the same way right now with a guy I’ve known/been friends with for awhile. Just recently developed feelings for him & Im debating on telling him bc I don’t want to ruin our friendship. I’ve always been a shy girl & I stepped out of my box in college a couple times & always got shot down…

Same but the thing she has a bf but She gives me some signals but I know don’t pursue

Yep, usually how it happens. You unload your feelings. They get like a deer in headlights. Girls call it Lovebombing nowadays. Its crazy. I give up...

I've been there too. Don't take it personal. It's called taking a risk. God Bless 🙏 you ❤️

Amen, masculine strength is also expressed through quiet strength, being present, and listening well :)

Nice!

please be careful with work relationships . . . they're not always the wisest choice.

@@caroliinec they also can be incredible if God decided on the two coworkers to eventually be married. It happens.

this is true... we can not be great with words or when there´s too many people around, BUT when it comes to one on one, we will make you the center of the universe and the most important people on the planet.

@@sleeping.helper thank you, God knew I needed to hear this ….I’m so blessed. I was frustrated and anxious. God made me watch this video ….

Now this is true 😮

Big difference! One is focused on serving. The other is focused on self. Yes, I dated one for several years. He started off as really “nice” but even then, he would subtly always make it about himself.

God bless Reyna!

Was just about to post that lol. Missed an encounter on the train, he was verbal with elderly people but once they left he just kept looking in my direction but not saying anything...I regretted not speaking up. We had core values and language in common (his conversation with the elderly people) don't know if I will see him again 🫤

@@L62719 yea same with me, I keep seeing a man that shows that he likes me and he is not verbal with me, and I also cant say a word for some reason 😁 💙 maybe the character match so much that the nerves get in the way.

That's sooo beautiful.

You can have him through faith (Ephesians 2:8-9)

Amen

Same with me! It's such a strange yet interesting situation to be in🤭I totally understand girl!

Glad it was helpful!

You just have to be a bit patient with us, because we tend to be quite methodical about how we approach Women.

lol, men can watch too :)

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This video may help explain to women we quiet guys are interested in why we act the way we do easier.

Huh?

Same here been praying for 2 days for God to give me a sign... then this popped up

I thought a man who appeared quiet meant that he did not want to talk to me or maybe he did not like me? 🤔

@@lexi4christ108 Maybe cautious?

@@Dj.D25 ohhh I never looked at it that way but I can see it.

@@lexi4christ108 We tend to be kind of methodical about how we talk to girls we are interested in, so we tend to take things slow and see what you're like, instead of being more of an extrovert and being aggressive about it.

@@dinomra7771 this happens to me a lot. Some guys tend to be quiet around me and not talk. Thanks friends, I'll be looking at things for now on from both your perspectives.

Comepletely unrelated but you’re very pretty!!🤗❣️

wow! congratulations!!!! He should be VERY lucky to have somebody so supportive and smart and willing to take the time to make things works out!! Kuddos for you!!! This is RARE and it is a quality that is worth of praise! 👏👏👏

so encouraging. thank you

I would love to read the story of how you met and how he pursued you. I appreciate hearing from many different married people because it broadens my perspective as a single woman. Would you mind sharing your story?

@Maylee Spann I am not the person with the story, but I will say that I do.have something interesting to share. I've been celibate since my ex long ago(was married to an abusive/unfaithful man and he left country and I was single mother). I didn't date until my daughter was 18. I had pursuers but said yes to dating 3 people finally. each time I learned more about myself and what I needed, what I wanted, what God wanted for me. first one was online and we never actually met so I don't really count that anymore. 2nd one pursued me out of blue. we had met 3 years earlier/he was son of a mentor and had helped my friend the day in which we met. I was so clueless that when he called me up for lunch I thought he was just being nice because he asked for his mom's card table back. I told him it was okay, that I could just leave table out for him and we didn't need to go to lunch. haha well, then he told me it was mostly just an excuse and he revealed his true intentions. I am very talkative-- adhd, outgoing etc. all my life I have tried to be more quiet and still bc I respect that. my daughter is that way; when she speaks, it carries weight. 1st and 2nd men talked big and made lot of promises but didn't follow through. 3rd guy more quiet but actions spoke little louder, lead some, but still felt like I was leading spiritually--& i didnt feel comfortable with that. then there was a gentleman who was still and quieter than any of them-- we never dated and I don't even know his name, but it showed me how I could be still and quiet ( opposite of my dominating tendencies),& he seemed to rise to the challenge. my adhd thoughts slowed down and I felt God's presence so strong with him. I did not feel bad when I had to quit job suddenly, as I felt if from God, he would find me again( but I am not waiting on it)-- right now there is another person in my life who is more quiet,& I find myself able to be still and silent again,& he comes near me to help me with my work or just hovers or lingers nearby--& it feels wonderful to not try to fill space or try make something happen. he surprises me all the time little by little in his interactions with others and with me. will see. I am open to whatever, however and whomever God wills, but I just look back and can see how kind of is like goldilocks and three bears how maybe ones before just weren't right fit for me, but that even if this one isn't for me, i know that God cares--& I can see how it would glorify God also dating this man

Am quite christian woman looking for a quite man of god am single 50 years old

Bad quiet guys fall in the psychopath category, they are very dangerous

So glad too! All glory to God!

You can't have a real relationship through texting :)

I feel sometimes I express myself better though texting.

God is good!

God bless as you seek the Lord's leading

I can give you a general rule about us Men that should help out: we like to talk about stuff we like. Say if you're at the gym ask the guy what exercising he likes, or if you see him reading his bible ask him what his favorite book is. These obviously aren't entire convos on their own but it's a good way to get the ball rolling. Hope this helps!

❤ same I was thinking the same I'm like lord it's just u n me n I'm very aggressive at times n vocal but my emotions are deep inside but I have hope this is good taking to me it is HIM🤍🙏🏼

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Lol

Hey love! A lot to unpack here, but just stay vigilant as you continue to interact with this person. Remember, Jesus is Love. He is the definition of Love. He's also gentleman, and making a fake account just to get into contact with you seems to overstep boundaries and looks like a red flag. Do not undermine what the Lord has spoken into you because Satan will try to make you feel like you're too judgemental or rude.

All glory to God!

lol :)

I work out just so I can carry the groceries for my Mom. lol

@Tracy Anne Is than an NPC reaction or a real one? lol

Girl!! Same 😂

@Tracy Anne Did you just now change it? lol