4 Tips to Impress Your Boyfriend's Parents

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It's all fun and games until he wants you to meet his parents...
Here are 4 tips to help you keep it cool, calm, and collected when it's time for you to make a lasting impression on your boyfriend's parents!
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4 Tips to Impress Your Boyfriend's Parents
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@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

Hey! If you REALLY wanna know what to consider when you're getting ready to meet HIS MOM, then check out his NEW VIDEO: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-t3ikSFqaspM.html

@EmmyLynnVids 6 лет назад

The struggle when you’re meeting his mom the same day you’re meeting him. Ughhhh

@stephanieguillen1028 6 лет назад

Emmy Lynn lol same

@SelinaAlmodovar 6 лет назад

Ahhh!! Hope it goes well on both counts!!

@stephanieguillen1028 6 лет назад

Selina Almodovar thank you !!❤️

@three7446 4 года назад

Emmy Lynn wtf is this an arranged marriage

@yasmeen4495 4 года назад

Ella that’s fine if it is ?

@priyankatummala7239 4 года назад

If meeting them is stressful.. imagine my situation...living with them.. After 3 years of living with them and still searching for the tips to impress them..

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Eh, stay true to you and be real about whether it’s worth it altogether. Parents don’t go away so no matter where your relationship goes, they’ll be there- remember that.

@akezia8829 7 лет назад

I'm meeting his grandparents in 15 minutes at his house... and he's not even home. 😩

@SelinaAlmodovar 7 лет назад

Hey AK, hope the grandparents encounter was a success!

@sonalirao6048 5 лет назад

Rip

@haileykirby8281 4 года назад

Already met his parents but I'm shy and trying not to be 😂

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Be you! If that means you’re shy then be shy! It’s when you try to act like someone you’re not that makes it clear to the parents that you’re fake.

@mirandamaldonado6185 8 лет назад

I'm gonna meet his parents tomorrow I will totally use these tips

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

You got this!!! Thanks for watching! Please share and subscribe!

@mirandamaldonado6185 8 лет назад

+Selina Almodovar yes mama😊👍

@parnian4144 4 года назад

Same!

@parnian4144 4 года назад

3 years later 😂

@barbararondinelli5482 4 года назад

How ut it go

@cest.lucille 4 года назад

Tbh his family is hella loud and they’re gonna ask me 10000 questions and I’m too nervous to do this right off the bat. I recommended going bowling before going out for dinner to ease things a bit lmaooo

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Not a bad idea! Loud families are often the most loving (coming from a loud family!)

@allie6027 5 лет назад

Meeting my bfs mom tmrw, heart is beating out of my chest. I bought her a bouqet & apple juice (she's diabetic so no coffee, smoothies etc) I'm literally dying of nerves

@SelinaAlmodovar 5 лет назад

You’ll do great!

@allie6027 5 лет назад

Selina Almodovar I met her and she loved me!! Your video helped me SO much. Thank you ❤️

@allie6027 4 года назад

Fuck Off now she hates me because I got pregnant 🤣

@laniemccollum4674 4 года назад

Meeting my boyfriend's parents tomorrow, super nervous. Thank you for the advice 😊

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

You got this!!! Hope it went well!

@ElJaguarNegro 4 года назад

I’m introverted and I hate how my man always wants me to talk a bunch 🙄😪

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Let him know that. And if he can't accept who you are then he ain't the one, sis.

@madisonschopf9785 4 года назад

I’m spending the night at my bfs tonight and it’s the first time I’m coming over in sooooooo scaredddd

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Invest some time with his mom! That will help!

@Squid0naChair Месяц назад

My boyfriend comes from a very religious Pakistani family, usually he comes over to my house because his mom is very strict about having girls over at his house but he managed to convince her. I’m really nervous that I’m going to say something wrong or leave a bad impression, but I tried to learn a little bit of Urdu and I dressed modestly. Thank you for the tips!

@smolmush1693 4 года назад

Better save this, when I met my future boyfriends parents hopefully I don’t mess anything up...

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Yes!!! Also for more tips and lessons on how to date, check out my online shop! Https://shop.selinaalmodovar.com

@sophiescott9901 4 года назад

It’s sucks because I’m seeing him today and meeting his mom today. I just got my first ever peiriod so I’m bloated and she might think I am really fat.

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

First off, no mom would ever think that about a woman who is trying to figure out how to manage being a woman for the first time. There's a code. She'll understand. Trust.

@jaylenanderson6793 4 года назад

I am meeting my boyfriend's mom, dad, younger sister, and younger brother on Thursday I am super nervous to meet them.

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

ahhh! how did it go??

@krowco7437 Год назад

I'm very nervous bc I'm meeting my bf parents soon, but the thing is they speak Italian, and they don't know English... I'm very anxious about the fact that i can't communicate efficiently with them

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

Coming from a family who speaks Spanish and I wasn't taught to be fluent growing up, figure out a few basic phrases to show your effort and be yourself. If the relationship pursues, then learn more phrases, so on and so fourth!

@kierah16 8 лет назад

absolutely terrifying lol

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

+Miss Lewis what? the video or the parents? LOL, yes, hopefully my tips can help ease some of the tension! Thanks for watching!

@kierah16 8 лет назад

Visiting parents lol I always get so shy and nervous!

@amandafriesen6046 5 лет назад

I’m meeting my boyfriends parents this weekend... We’ve been together for 2 and a half months now! I’m scared cuz I feel like I’m gonna mess up😣 any tips

@SelinaAlmodovar 5 лет назад

I have four of them in this video!

@kaceywyatt4577 7 лет назад

In just under 3 weeks me & some friends are throwing my boyfriend a surprise birthday party. His mum, dad and brothers will all be there and I really want to make a good impression. I already know his parents are very Conservative but I have only spoken to his mother over the phone. I'm so nervous about meeting his family!!!! I don't want them to hate me☹️

@SelinaAlmodovar 7 лет назад

You'll do just fine!! Take my tips and be yourself! You can't go wrong with being genuine and having a good heart.

@aomitsuki586 8 лет назад

thanku so much! C: Im on my way of meeting my bf's parents!!

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

So glad you enjoyed it!! Thanks for watching!

@aomitsuki586 8 лет назад

it was an honor C:

@georginasummer2312 5 лет назад

I’m meeting his mom because his mom is picking us up and taking us to the mall 😂I’m so nervous

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Hope it went well! When in doubt, ALWAYS greet them. Politeness and kindness go a long way!

@georginasummer2312 4 года назад

Selina Almodovar thanks! It was very awkward I tried talking but she was kind of rude...😂

@savannahreneeyt Год назад

meeting them tomorrow… wish me luck!

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

Good luck and hopefully it went well!! 💖

@Hehe90160 Год назад

So I actually knew his parents before I dated him (we are neighbors) but I’m introverted and I have never gone somewhere with his parents tomorrow and today is our 2 month anniversary and I just get nervous and I stay quiet and people take is offensive and thank you for the advice I appreciate it! I just hope my boyfriend will be with me

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

I think they’ll be fine! They’ve known you for a long time!

@Hehe90160 Год назад

@@SelinaAlmodovar it went good actually!

@Smeraldo-_ 5 месяцев назад

I'm meeting his parents in 3 days and I'm already at the brim of colapsing

@user-kd7ch1be6u 3 года назад

I dont really care about my bf parents bc he doesnt care about them bc they are horrible. But his grandparents are lovely and they raised him (more than his parents) and he loves them, so they are important to me. All of us speak german, but i have a really different dialect then they have, and while i switch to the "standart" german so they understand what i am saying, they dont😅 and i dont really understand what they are saying most of the time, especially since they are really old, have bad hearing and mumble in their dialect. But it seems like i still made a good impression, bc his grandmother almost "forced" me to be in family pictures and my bf told me she used to not allow his ex girlfriend in the pictures bc she thought the relationships wouldnt last(and she used to tell the girls right in their faces😶), but she thinks i am the one😊 which is like the best compliment i could get from them

@SelinaAlmodovar 3 года назад

Family photos is a great sign! 👌🏼 Sure, these tips can basically be applied to any family intro situation! Sounds like you made a great impression! Were you able to hear back from your boyfriend on what his family thought of you?? 💖

@user-kd7ch1be6u 3 года назад

@@SelinaAlmodovar yes i just came back from the second visit and i fixed their tv, now they absoloutly love me😊

@ashh4977 Год назад

Hope everything is going well for u still

@laurencontel8512 2 года назад

I MET HIS MUM UNEXPECTEDLY, I WISH I SAW THIS BEFORE😭😭😭

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

Did it not go well or what? 💖

@pikagirl3642 8 лет назад

Im 14 and my boy friends parents dont like me or know me and him are dateing and they streight up told him they dont want us dateing how do i get them to atleast not hate me

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

to at least not hate you? be respectful, polite, and don't complain about them. They will always be there... whether he chooses to stay with you or not. At the age of 14, I wouldn't take this too personal. You're both young... anything is possible.

@phionagurung208 4 года назад

@@SelinaAlmodovar im 13 and my crush is 15,16 etc 😳😳 but I will not date untill im 15

@CIRCLEOF4TRESS 5 лет назад

Nice video. I met my in Laws for the first time in the Philippines in May 2019. Awesome experience!

@SelinaAlmodovar 5 лет назад

Yay! So glad it worked out for you! Thanks for watching!

@CIRCLEOF4TRESS 5 лет назад

Selina Almodovar Thanks for your positive comments Selina. Keep up the good work 😀.

@Aze-wii Месяц назад

gonna talk to his mom mins from now and i swear im very nervous rn

@HalleRG 8 дней назад

I have met them and known them for around a month but I don’t know what to say to them

@sharonchen853 2 года назад

I can understand this "impress bf's parents" concept might exist back in 2015. But now? NO! Girl... you dont need to impress them, they need to google how to impress YOU!

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

thanks for sharing your opinion. 💖 Whether it's 2015, 2022, or 2034, if I'm a parent and you're coming to take my daughter's hand in marriage, or wanna have my sons as a husband, I'm definitely going to be checking to see if you're a good person or not, and my opinion will definitely have an impact on my children. Why? Because my children trust my judgement because I'm coming from a place of love. And just to be honest, never a day in my mothering life will I ever attempt to impress someone that is trying to date my child. Period. And if that's the attitude that is coming to my door step, then they can leave my house. That's my opinion.

@natashaorr1596 10 месяцев назад

Why would the parents need to impress? They’re literally the key holders. Their impression to you is their son/ daughter. Obvi you were impressed enough to date the sucker 😂 now it’s your turn to prove to them your not another booty call.

@NotSObored188 7 лет назад

if your going in your bf house and his dad is there..do i just say hi ? idk wut to say ..ive already introduced myself b4.. please help me

@SelinaAlmodovar 7 лет назад

Be respectful. Address him. If he engages in conversation, then go for it. If not, then it's totally cool, at least you paid your respects to the man of the house. Can't go wrong with that.

@Meli_monster 4 года назад

I'm scared tho, I'm pretty gothic and yes I can dress down. But then again my dressing down is just wearing all black.

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

I mean, if your boyfriend accepts you that way, and (more importantly) YOU accept you that way, then don't be scared. Be who you are.

@pau8903 7 лет назад

Can you give me more advise on how to make my boyfriend's parents like me more hahaha thanks

@SelinaAlmodovar 7 лет назад

Hopefully this video helped you make that happen. Be yourself. Seriously. If it's too hard to do that, then it's not a good fit for you.

@andrea17451 6 месяцев назад

Hanging out with his parents and him today just in a few hours and ive been dreading this moment for daysss. I already met them but it was only a few minutes. Im so nervous because im gonna get inside of their car and talk to them. Im only 14 wtf 😭 but thank you sm

@moonchildarmy7753 Год назад

I'm meeting his mom Thursday 😬

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

You got this!!!

@laibakhan786 5 лет назад

Very right 👍

@SelinaAlmodovar 5 лет назад

Woohoo! Thanks for watching!

@lj2314 8 месяцев назад

Thank You, gonna help me be prepared 😅, Always pray po keep safe❤

@stutishetake 5 лет назад

I will talk to his mom tomorrow. M nervous. 😓😓

@leefy5045 5 лет назад

stuti pillai you got this !!💪💪

@SelinaAlmodovar 5 лет назад

It’s gonna be fine! You got this!!

@Ayra_Asmr Год назад

I’ll be meeting my bf family in 3 days, at their Christmas get together. I’m really nervous because my bf and I have been together going on 4 years(it’ll be 4 years in 4 months) and we’ve lived together for a year. They don’t have the best impression of me because we broke up for 3 months 2 years ago. It was a rough break up and they know all the details behind it and I’m sure they don’t care for me bc of the comments he’s told me they’ve made. We’re better than ever now and I didn’t want to meet them last year because I was embarrassed about our breakup but now it’s been two years and I feel I should. I’m just really nervous/scared because I feel they don’t like me. Any advice? :(

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

Bring it up first! “I know we had a bad breakup a couple years ago but things are different and….” If you address it head on then it leaves zero room to feel shame, fear, or awkwardness.

@kookkrumb833 4 года назад

i love your channel ❤

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Yay!!! Thanks so much!! Please share it with everyone you know!

@Sara-oo5pr 4 года назад

His mom hates me. I don't know what to do.... He might break up with me because of it!!

@rosleenakhtar6690 4 года назад

i feel you... I'm going through the same thing

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

very possible! mothers last a lifetime-- girlfriends unfortunately don't... hope it ends up in your favor tho

@sunfirstielts23 3 года назад

Im going to meet his mom she allready rejected his ex gf ...im also nervous also we are not in same caste 😶

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

All you can do is be yourself! 💖

@ashh4977 Год назад

I’m an emo alt person who’s meeting his parents at his bday party. His mom already doesn’t like me cause she’s seen me in Demonias, idk how but she has and since they’re very religious don’t like it. I’m trying to look on the bright side like “I’ve been meaning to dress with more colors anyways” but it still hurts cause I didn’t even do anything. I have to hide my septum as well. It’s gunna be middle school all over again😭😭😭

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

So ask yourself, “is it worth it”? When relationships get serious, it’s true that people change but it should be a desire to change “for the better”. If you feel like you have to change for others and it’s not giving you peace then it’s not gonna be good moving forward. Don’t knock the red flags when you see them waving!

@edithtorres9301 2 года назад

is it a good idea to move in with him at his parents house, they talked and the conclusion was they wanna give it a shot. ??

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

What did you end up doing? 💖

@sabinarizal3084 Год назад

i’m an introvert how do i do this i’m scared

@SelinaAlmodovar Год назад

Take it one day at a time. Or one hour. Either way, move in the direction that feels most peace and love!! You got this!

@hellokittytrip5321 4 года назад

So I’m 12 and I am white and my bf is black and so is his mom idk what to wear at allllll I want to wear a hoodie and leggings is that ok 🥺🙈

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Girl, wear what makes you comfortable. Race shouldn't even be a thought to this question.

@nadia_17 2 года назад

bro what

@vanesabenitezrealtor 2 года назад

😂😂😂😂 im getting ready to go meet my future in laws 🤣 n im so nervous bc I really care about their opinion 🤣

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

You’ll do just fine!! 💖

@foxyfnaf7961 4 года назад

My boyfriend is 19 im 16 (our city laws allow us to date) His mother is strict hard and very smart and has her head up which scares me the most..

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

Is it fear or intimidation because she's a strong woman?

@chrissy9153 8 лет назад

Well technically I am meeting his dad on a trip that we r going on for band and he's a chaperone so any tips?

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

Be yourself, definitely introduce yourself to him (don't expect him to know who you are...even though he probably does!), have fun but don't get crazy. Best thing you can go is go with the flow. Dads are usually more easy going than moms. You totally got this!! Thanks for watching! Please subscribe and share!

@chrissy9153 8 лет назад

+Selina Almodovar thanks new sub!

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

awesome! thanks!

@chrissy9153 8 лет назад

+Selina Almodovar welcome also my boyfriend is starting to be more distant what do I do?

@SelinaAlmodovar 8 лет назад

+Geekgirl 118 for him being distant: don't be afraid to ask him what's up- don't be afraid of the communication (it's what saves relationships!) but also don't freak out at what he says- that will help him grow more distant!

@emilymajor5383 4 года назад

Ok wish me good luck please 🤞😬😰

@SelinaAlmodovar 3 года назад

You got this!

@Diana-rr6vi 7 лет назад

Dota player?

@SelinaAlmodovar 7 лет назад

Come again?

@nikidashadowmarie 4 года назад

Can anyone else only hear music?

@SelinaAlmodovar 4 года назад

I hear it just fine. Lemme know if you’re still running into that problem.

@Jyotisgalaxy 2 года назад

Good dressing Be yourself Don't disrespect him

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

You got it! 💖

@Jyotisgalaxy 2 года назад

@@SelinaAlmodovar yes, I met his sister.. and she is very nice and caring. But I was little underconfident. Plz make a video on confidence build up in front of his family. ❤️

@Dr3adfu11y_Strang3 2 года назад

Im meeting my boyfriend’s parents today

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

Hope it went well!! Tune in TOMORROW for my new video on meeting his mom!! 💖

@Dr3adfu11y_Strang3 2 года назад

It went really well thank you 😊

@ashleymarie3931 5 лет назад

Im HORRIFIED

@SelinaAlmodovar 5 лет назад

It will be ok!! Hope the tips helped!!

@leahlewis5228 3 года назад

Im so scared

@SelinaAlmodovar 3 года назад

Don’t be. They don’t dictate what a great person you are! Take it easy and you’ll do just fine! By the way, what’s scaring you the most??

@arieljade275 3 года назад

I'm going to be bringing a potted flower plant to my Boyfriends mother, she really wants grandchildren and she wants her son married to a virgin Christian girl, thank the lord I haven't lost my V card and have been waiting for marriage

@sumaiyajahan6790 3 года назад

I'm meeting his mom and sister tommorrow and Very nervous🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@SelinaAlmodovar 2 года назад

How did it gooooo?? 💖

@arieljade275 2 года назад

@@SelinaAlmodovar Well he came up from Tennessee to visit me around Christmas time and met my parents, they adore him to pieces, he parents are so excited to meet me, so I will be hopefully visiting in July!

@NotSObored188 7 лет назад

😩😭😭😭