Many of us wore the same shoes you wore. Sizes or colors may be different, but the pain is similar or worse. I’m glad you didn’t follow your birth parents foot steps and found a husband who loves you. I, myself never knew who my father is, not even his name. Came to know the story later in life, too. People asked if I ever wanted to find him, they know where he is. I never have desire to. My perspective is, he who chose to leave me when I needed him most, won’t make a difference when i have lived and no longer needed him. I found God to stand as my father. A heavenly Father, who will not leave will not forsake me. My beginning, I couldn’t choose, but my todays and future, i can shape it. Choose better shoes to walk on. Love those who loves us. Let alone those who don’t.
Love and go to bond with your blood father. It was due to life circumstances that your real father couldn't be with you. He wants you in his life. Enjoy the time before it's too late. Love your step father as you can, but you're not obligated, because he really didn't love you. He was just there in person, because he was married to your mom. You don't owe him anything!!! Please go to see your blood father and make amends.
Wow, what a life. I can't imagine myself in your shoes. But its not your fault. Thank goodness you now you see brighter days. I hope you live to the fullest for pay back times. Always SMILE for now on.
Mes vivncaus aw yus tsis yog luag roj luag ntshav ces txawm yus uas zoo npaum cas los luag yeej tsis pom yus qhov zoo os mog cem kav liam os naw! Hlub tus yus hlub yus xwb os tus mes vivncaus aw! Tus siab kawg os.
Ua lub neej nyob tsis txhob ua lub neej ntsia ntsoov txoj kev tusiab os nawb. Txoj kev no tsis yog ib txoj kev zoo. Nco ntsoov tias txhua leej txhua tus muaj kev tusiab no nawb. Lus qabsib cawm tsis tau txoj sia li mov plab no nawb. Those who don't have to feed you don't know what is like to raise you. Love him but should not be more than the one that raise you. Txhob ntsia kev tus siab lub neej thiaj li kaj siab nawb. Look forward, not backward. I know some people who look backward....it is not a good thing.
tom qab mloog zaj dab neeg no tag nrog koj tu siab kawg tus me niam tsev, vim pom tias koj txiv uas tu koj yog ib tus neeg siab tsis zoo es nws thiaj tsis hlub koj, yog kuv nyob koj qhov chaw,kuv yuavpiavkoj txiv uas tu koj nws zaj dab neeg lim hiam qias neeg rov qab pub rau nws mloog, tom qab ntawd mam li sib hlub, peb yog txiv neej ib yam li koj txiv peb paub tias cov neeg phem li ntawd yog los,ntawm qhov twg los
This is why Hmong people don’t advance in whatever they do ... neeg me siab tseem me thiab, twb phem dab tuag los siab tseem phem lim hiam thiab. Hlub yus tej me nyuam thiab tus tsis yog los hlub ib yam nkaus thiab vim kaj ntug tag kis tsis paub tias dej yuav ntws tog twg, zoov yuav ntsuab tog twg. Cia txoj kev cia siab rau txhua tus es xyaum hlub txhua leej txhua tus ma Hmoob aw.
Karma! Your step dad's own kids failed life miserably thats why he's jealous of your life with everything! Thx to your mom n your step dad n move on. 4get your step dad. Just love n care for your mom.
Tus viv ncaus koj yeej muaj cai hlub 2 leeg. Ib tug yog tus tu ib tug yog tus yug koj vim tej laus siab tsis zoo thiaj txiav koj niam nkauj txoj kev sib hlub tsis txhob tu siab koj niam yog tus tu siab dua koj
I'm so sorry that is your life. I am the same as you as my mom left my biological father not knowing she was pregnant with me. I was raised with a different father but he had always loved me and always gave me more than my brothers and sisters he and my mom Had together. My biological father is the one insulting me from afar although I have never asked anything from him. I was very lucky and I am so sorry that you had to endure such cruelty. Love your current husband, children, and family for they will be your future and not your past.
Nej tau ib tug txiv neej hmoob siab phem kawg li os tus muam aw....lem tiam txhob los ua hmoob lawm os.... txiv neej hmoob thawj coj siab tsis ncaj rau poj niam os...
Why dont u speak up the truth to your step dad for what he did to u....why afraid to stand up against your step dad ? Once u speak up the truth of what he did to u then he will shut up.
Lawv aw cas Es nej zaj neej neeg no yuav mus raws li kuv zaj thiab os. Lub neej no cas yus tsis muaj txiv yug Es luag niam tsis Xav hlub yus li thiab yus yuav ib yam ab tsi los txiv niam hais tias koj Ua kheej leej twg no mas yus tsis paub li. Tu siab kawg nawb peb cov me viv ncaus ntsuag nos mas tu siab kawg nawb tsis Pom qab yuav hais li cas rau leej twg li os
Yog lawm os cov poj niam tham hluas nraug es pheej muab pim rau lawv ua ces yeej muaj teem meem ntau yam os. Yuav tsum sib yuav mam muab pim rau ua thiaj li tsis muaj teeb meem os
tim cov laus xwb, kav liam os. yog yuav xav txog lub neej dhau los ces yuav tu siab heev. tso plhuav lub neej dhau los lawm tseg xwb thiaj tsis tusiab.
Tsis paub ua cas peb hmoob coob es muaj tej cov txiv neej siab phem phem tsis hlub tej menyuam ntsuag los tej tsis yog yus yug rau pojniam menyuam li tiag lawv!!! Tab sis thaum lawv laus mas lawv ho xav kom tej meyuam hlub lawv no tiag..
Laus luas lawm mus sib pom xwb yeej sib deev g taus lawm os kom koj txiv mov ua siab loj ma yog yus khib kuj txhob yuav xwb yuav lawm ces txhob khib hos tus ntxhais mus saib xwb los yuav txwv g yog lawm ov
Mus saib tau kawg koj txiv roj ntshav lawm yeej meem mus xyuas ov hos tus txiv pub mov rau yus noj los txog hnub nws ncaim yus yeej mus saib ib yam vim muaj ob leeg txiv lawm tim cov laus thaum ub xwb ne
Kuv tsis paub ua cas peb hmoob es txog peb cov menyuam ntsuag twg lub neej los txom nyem vim tej laus nrog nyob thiab cov kwv tij niam hlob txiv ntxawm lawv nrog nyob tsis hlub lawv linnas hmoob!!! Tej laus mas xav xav kom tej menyuam hlub lawv tab sis lawv twb tsis hlub tej menyuam li ne?!!!
I think your step-dad it not good moral person for you and his family. Your step dad jealous about you have better life than his kids. But he should love you as his kids. He should think later life you will be part of his kids to take care you. He is not looking 20-30 yrs down the road.
So sorry that you had a hard childhood. Your step father were heartless bastard you not his child but you are your mom so I could never understand why she’s not protecting you from her ugly hearted husband there’s no excuse for any mother not to protected a child or children from a heartless bastard of a husband. Your step father should’ve been a shamed of himself for not loving step child as equally as his own children. Really sickening hearing all of stories about evil hearted step father and mother abusing step children.😡
Koj txiv yog ib niag neeg ntsuag siab phem tshaj plaws li os me ntxhais aw. Koj leej txiv tu koj ntawd ma siab phem tshaj li os. Me ntxhais ua cas koj pheej yuav ntshai koj txiv ntawm koj ua dab tsi os yus twb mus ua yus neej lawm ne
Koj Txiv tu koj lim hiam tshaj plaws, and abusive. Tsi tsim nyog koj hlub nws lawm. He knew the circumstances before he married your mom. That is his fault. All men who need to be/feel in control, have the most insecurities. He took out his anger and resentment on you and your mom. He married for selfish reasons. He doesn’t deserve your love. As for your mom, she should’ve protected you from all harm. We women are not powerless, yet we choose to be subordinate. I believe that your dad is just as miserable himself, as the way he treated you. Shame on him. Misery loves company. So don’t give him any. Go see your real dad. Your 40 now. Don’t let other people’s deficiencies and ignorances control your life. Do what you want.
Yog kuv los kuv yeej chim, tu siab thiab. Nws yog tus tu koj da quav da zis na. Koj txiv yug koj tsis muaj quav li os. Koj txawj xav ces hlub koj txiv tu koj xwb.
