Ntseeg Vaj Tswv Daw Kev Nrog Hluas Nraug Haus Ntshav Tes. 9/11/24 

The way your husband handled it at the end proves he’s a good man. If that was me, I wouldn’t be that chill. When you kick someone down, sorry just don’t cut it.

Txhob tu siab mog me vivncaus txoj kev ntseeg Vajtswv ces leejtwg ntseeg leejtwg dim xwb mog koj yeej coj tsis tau leejtwg dim nws lub txim os kuv thiab kuv cov menyuam peb twb mus church es peb txiv twb tsis mus thiab mas peb txiv ces dabqhuas Vajtswv kev cai nplom kwjtij nws tsis ua li phoojywg los tsis muaj los kuv twb lam nyob mas kavliam uv nyob hnub twg yog luag tsis yuav yus cab yus tes tawm los mam mus xwb os txoj kev txhaum yeej tsis muaj leejtwg xav ua os mog rau2 siab thov Vajtswv foom koobmoov rau koj tus txiv ib hnub nws yuav tig los ntseeg Vajtswv xwb os

Vajtswv hlub koj os. Nws zam txim rau koj yog koj lees thiab tso kev txhaum tseg. Rau siab thov Vajtswv rau koj tus txiv kom nws ncag siab. Koj twb lees koj tej kev txhaum tag rau nws lawm. Yog nws tsis zam txim rau koj ces nyob ntawm nws thiab Vajtswv lawm xwb os sister aw. Remember that God loves you and don’t feel discouraged. Have faith in Him.

It's your own fault. It's not that you afraid of death but you intend to go sleep with him. But now you regret what you did, huh....!

So on top of making a bloody oath with your ex, you had an affair with him too!🤦‍♀️. Tu grandma no mas liam tiag tiag. Tseem liam tshaj peb cov hluas. These stories made me realize that our parents and grandparents weren’t innocent at all.

Txhob ntseeg xf os tus niam tsev w muaj ib txhia tseem yuav do kom tej txij nkm neej puas thiab os

hlub koj os viv ncaus aw peb ua poj niam ces siab zoo rhau lawm qhia los tsis zoo tsis qhia los tsis zoo tiam sis puam chawj os koj twb muab qhia tag lawm ces zoo kawg os

Thaum hluas ces koj tsis txhaum tab sis thaum laus koj txhob txwm ua ntxiv ib zaug ces tsis txhais tias koj yuam kev koj yeej ua ntawm koj lub siab yeem ces txhob tu siab rau koj tus txiv ghov nws ua txawm yog nws ua los tej zaum koj Haj yam chim tu siab tshaj thiab es txhob muab ghia zoo dua vim koj xav rau ghov zoo los nws tsis yog lawm ces yeej yog ib ghov mob mob siab rau 2 tog ghov zoo ces txhob ua xwb os

Tus me niam tsev hmoob koj qhov kev txhaum yeej muaj lawm tiag, tab sis koj xav hloov qhov no Vajtswv paub koj lub siab lawm koj rau siab thov Vajtswv Vajtssv yuav zam txim thiab pab koj kom dim ntawm dab, ntawm koj tus txiv ces thov Vajtswv pab kom nws txawj zam txim rau koj, ntawm koj tus qub hluas nraug uas tuag lawm ces neb twb mus thim lug tas ces koj muaj cai thov Vajtswv muab nws tshem tawm mus.

Thanks God to save you All you can do is to love your husband more than ever before and pray for him everyday gave him to God one day God will call him. Trust in Jesus Christ because nothing he can’t do

Happy you found God, don't give up on your husband. He is hurt, now go and love him with all your heart. Praying for guidance in your marriage

Peb poj niam ces Ruan li no tiag tej no npog tuag nthi pob..txawm yog txiv neej los lawv yeej tsis qhia thiab nas

This is Not about believing in God daws tau kev haus ntshav tes, it’s about God’s plan for the paster to tell you that you have over done your sins and it’s about time to let your husband know the truth about you. He needs a better life because life is too short to waste time.

Wow peb cov poj niam hmoob kuj muaj tej zaj dab neeg zoo li no thiab

Neeg tsis zoo ces txawm moog ntseeg hom kev cai twg los yeej pab tsis tau le. Tsuas tuam ntxob hab hlau mas txhaj yuav lim tau xwb.

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This is all your mom’s fault because you have told her that you and your boyfriend haus ntshav tes and she still forced you to marry her nephew. I hate those OG way of making their children marry someone that are related to them or they like instead of your choice.

If the story were to be a dude, all of you positive ladies in the comment section would of been bashing lol trust facts 😁😁😁😁😁

Pojniam zais ces tsis muaj leej twg pab tau. Hais tau zoo kawg.

Qhov qub koj tsis txhaum ...tabsi qhov koj txhaum yog koj tseem kam rov mus nrog koj tus qub hluas nraug ...pw ib zaug ntxiv thaum koj mus Thaib teb...na...tsis tsim nyog koj ua li ntawd ho lo...

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It’s ok. You came clean with it out in the open. If he can’t forgive you, he have that right. Now you can go to heaven when your life here on earth is done.

That’s why people keep saying??? Maum dev tsis tso tw ces txiv neej yeej tsis nce??? It’s true

Mi viv ncau koj Zaj dab neeg hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li o😂😂😂😂

Wow thaum ub yus twb sib sib hlub zaum no yuav tau mus ua ke nawb

Tus niam tsev cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj koj twb mus ua tag koj tus txiv twb tsi paub ces npog tuag nti txhob qhia pob. Chim no yus lob nrhab rau yus taub hau lawm

Ib tug ntxeeb siab rau ib tug ua rau tsis muaj txoj kev hlub ua rau ib tug txias siab lawm ces thiaj ua neej tsis koom siab es ib tug thiaj mus church ib tug thiaj tsis kam mus. Txoj kev ntxeeb siab yog ib txoj kev nrhuav lub neej ntawm ib khub niam txiv. Lam nyob ua ke nyias pw nyias ib qhov chaw nyias muaj nyias kev ntseeg nyias muaj nyias ib txog kev xav... lub neej lwj lwj siab kawg yog zoo li khub niam txiv no na.

yog txiv neej mas siab phem kawg os yog tias yog lawv mas nyob tsis qhia neej tuag tsis qhia dab li os txiv neej naj

These old people. Why do they rather scare her that no man will ever love her if she tells them about the blood oath, instead of letting her be with the man who actually loves her???

Ua neeg cas yov txawj dag ua luaj,dag tau yam niag tsis txaus ntseeg kiag li. Tsis muaj ib tug neeg es nyob nyob cia li yov mus thaib teb es tus txiv cia li tso mus. Txawj dag tiag tiag.

Zaj no yog pog zab tuaj tim roob phwv xev tuaj xwb cov phooj ywg aws 😂😂😂😂😂.

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Peb tsis txais koj mus church, cov neeg liam li koj vajtswv yeej tsis kam txais. Vajtswv yuav rsu txim rsu koj.

Never ever tell your husband about your past!!! Bring your past the grave especially if u cheated on him!!!

It’s ok. It’s better to be honest before you go. You and your boyfriend were genuinely in love. Y’all have unfinished business. Nothing wrong with that. It’s ok if your husband doesn’t want to be with you. That’s understandable. At least you openly acknowledged all your problems/ feelings to your husband. You both were forced into this marriage. We’re all going to die someday. Just be open minded about it.

Damn! Now he’s really coming back to get you one way or another 😂 why you gotta commit adultery with the ex?🤣. Leave your husband alone, he’s the only innocent one in this story.

Listen to people like this make me happy I’m not that crazy 😊

Cov ntxeev siab ib txwm ntxeev siab- thiaj muaj kev khaum😊

Koj tus txiv ua yog lawm os viv ncaus

Hau yau nim ntshai2 li os twb ntshai tab sis ua tag rov ua dua kev txhaum xwb os

zoo li koj ces tuag zoo dua Nyob los ev dhawv txoj kev pam kev khaum vim tej no koj yog ua rau koj xwb

Vwj tswv dag Kom koj qhia koj tus txiv txhob hlub koj xwb vaj tswv yog neeg phem lol Koj nco ntsoov hmoob los lus tias nyob tsis qhia neej tua tsis qhia dab no ma

There some secrets that are meant to take with you. In your case, it’s one of those. Especially the one that you did in Thailand. If you love your husband as much as you said, you shouldn’t have told him or hurt him that way. Just put yourself in his shoes. Would you be able to forgive him??

So did the ghost actually stop hunting you? If he did, then you solved your problem.

Koj yeej ua txhaum koj dhau rau koj tus txiv lawm. Thaum hluas koj ua mas vim thaum ntawd neb tseem sib sib hlub thiab koj tsis tau yog leejtwg tus tabsis thaum laus koj tseem rov mus ua qhov ntawd yog qhov ua mob siab tshaj yog kuv los ntshe yuav zam tsis tau li thiab

This is such a complicated story that's rooted in patriarchy. Her father, not being around, made her mom force her to get married for family security. (Even if her dad was around, she'd probably get forced to marry, too, because it would "strengthen familial ties") She was sincerely in love and made a promise that she didn't know she wouldn't be able to keep. She was gaslit by her mom into marrying someone she never had a relationship with. After a few kids, doubts set in, and children take priority. I can empathize with her change of heart to choose her family, you have kids and your husband doesn't hurt you, it seems like it would be easier to settle in. I'm sure if her husband had found out about the promise in the beginning, he would've married her anyways and tortured her. If he had found out later before the bf died, he would've tormented her. We've all seen and heard this from many other stories. How do you tell your partner, after x amount of years of marriage and 6 kids later that you made a blood oath and expect them to not be angry and torment you? The biggest mistake she made was choosing to have one last affair with her ex. It could've been from sympathy-him sick and dying, one last fling for the times they shared, maybe she felt some responsibility towards him since she's in a committed relationship and he's still pining after her. This doesn't justify her actions, and she should not have slept with him. I fully blame her mom and the community for thinking it's ok to force young girls and boys into marriage in order to strengthen familial ties and then to ostracize and alienate her when she's made other decisions (a promise or blood oath or any other decisions that they look down upon). Especially during that time, when if you're a woman and not married, there are so many stigmas against you and your only option in life is to be married or not married and then maintain that marriage no matter what. Ultimately, don't force someone you've never had a relationship with to marry you. I'm sorry for this aunty because, for many of the things that happened to her, she had no choice and then later felt like she had no choice. You were in a lose-lose situation where many women then and now still face. I hope you move forward in life now, making decisions that you don't have to regret and owning your autonomy to your body and only give yourself to the people you love and choose to, not anyone that you feel regretful to. Hopefully, you find the peace you're looking for and live a life that you can breathe easy into.

Kuv xav tias txawm mus ntseeg Vajtswv lawm lis yeej pab tsis tau. Nws yeej yuav los coj koj kom tau ib hnub xwb vim neb tau haus ntsav tes lawm.

Yog tias koj yog koj tus txiv ces ntshe twb nrauj khiav kiag lawm. Nws siab zoo2 es thiaj tseem nyob thiab rov qab los nrog koj pw thaum ntshaw2 koj lub xub ntiag. Lam nyob xwb lub siab txias tag, puag pw tsis sov lawm.

Kuv lub neej zoo li koj lub thiab tab si kuv tu txiv ho nkaj siab kuv kawg

Repent your sins to the Lord. Put your Faith in God! Only God can protect you and shield you from all evil!

NYOB LI KOV TWj YWM

What a naughty grandma 👵 😍. Thanks Jesus made her open mouth

Ntuj hos teb aws koj muab koj tus txiv lub taub hauj tsuj lawm ces ntshe koj yuav tau txais kev npam kev khaum ntag,

Tab sis yog leej twg nyob nws qhov chaw leej twg nkag siab

Koj rov tsim kev tsis zoo rau koj tus kheej xwb os grandma aw. Koj yuav tau hloov tiag2 mas vajtswv thiaj kam lees koj thiab os.

Kuv tseem los nrog nws pw 1 teg 😅 tuag twb tuag mus nrog tus ex txhob muab qhia 6 koj tus txiv lau .

Tu siab ua luaj na koj twb thov txim lm koj yuav tau kev zoo lm os

Txhob ua neeg yooj yim lub neej thiaj tsis puas mog

Tsis ntev ces nws yuav mus lawm lauv....

Koj yog ib tug poj Niam xuab tiag cas yuav nrog hluas nraug mus txog Thaib Teb thiab qhov qias neeg tshaj plaws tseem mus nrog koj niag hluas nraug sib Ua thiab , koj muaj Kev txhaum loj heev rau Tiam no koj kawg Tuag

Niag poj ruam aw ua cas koj thiaj qhia nws ma luag hais tias nyob neej los tsis qhia dab los tsis qhia cas koj thiaj qhia naw

Pab tsis tau lo! You were unfaithful, I wouldn't forgive you either.

Wow! You cheated on him with your ex and you expect your husband to forgive you? This lady is crazy! She doesn’t think she did anything wrong at all. Your husband is a good man. I wouldn’t forgive you if I was your spouse, shame on you.

Poj niam qias neeg ces yog kj ntag ma kav tsij tuag nrog kj tug qub hluas nraug ma

I guess when you can wear granny pant inde out then I guess you’raredy to enjoin the man who you claim to lo and gave yourself to helm

Koj yog 1 tug niam tsev liam tiag koj ces kawg nraug koj tus hluas nraug cab koj nrog nws mus xwb, mus ntseeg vaj tswv los yeej pab tsis tau koj cov kev txhaum ntag

You should of been honest from the beginning. Had you told your husband the truth about why you had to go to Thailand you wouldn't have screwed up. Now you have to give your husband time to heal and he may never heal from what you did.

Your ex managed destroyed you before he left

Niag pog Liam no es yog tseem nrog niag qub hluas nraug mus txog Thaib teb ua ke thiab ces Liam dhau lis lawm lau kuv feel bad for the husband

You did it to yourself

Koj xav tias koj mus thim txoj kev npam no tab sis koj tseem mus nrhiav kev npam loj dua ntxiv

Haus ntshav tes lawm es yuav ua cas os?

Have faith in God. Someday your husband will forgive you.

It's your fault lady you kill 2 person if you love your husband you should of just let go and ignore or let go of your husband and go to your lover. Since you ask that question at the end you should let your husband go you tournament your husband enough. Your mom started it but you should have listen if not you shouldn't have hind it if your husband love you he wouldn't care.

Nws twb tuag pheej mus koom nws lub ntee nawb

Lady u did 2 yourself. Maum dev 😮😮😮😮😮

Too much drama. 😂

Tus pog liam ua cas koj tseem muaj plhus los nug tias nws tsis nrog koj mus church es puas tsim nyog thiab nws tsus hlub koj lawm lawm mas tu siab kawg. Koj cia li ua lub ntuj tsaug nws tsis nrauj koj. Koj txoj kev cog lus thaum hluas tsus qhia koj tus txiv twb tsis txhaum lub ntuj loj npaum koj twb paub lawm los koj tseem rov qab nrog koj tus qub hluas nraug mus rau thaib teb tseem rov qab mus nrog nws pw ua ke. Koj mas muaj hmoo kawg li nawb. Yog lwm tus txiv neej ces xyov koj puas muaj neej ua lawm.

Kav tsij mus ntseeg Vajtswv Yexus ces Vajtswv yuav pab txhua2 yam koj ntshai ntawm koj mus xwb mas. Txojkev sib hlub uas cog lus yog ib yam tsis zoo rau peb ua kiag li nawb vim yog muaj dab ces dab yuav khaws nkaus cia es yog ibtug twg tuag kiag ces dab siv kiag los hem los tos xwb nawb

kj twb g ncaj e hnub no npam kj thiaj lo tham kj txoj ke liam qia txhua yam qhia rau kj txiv ne tab si kj xa tia hnub no kj yua tham kom tag txhua tsa yam qhia rau nw kom tag thiaj g npam kj no tab si yam kj ua kj yua tau txai kom tag nawb thaum kh tu txiv paub tag ce nw tu siab tau kj hee li rau kj

Pab tsi tau lau

Koj txoj kev txhaum tsis yog vim koj ntshai tuag os, yog vim koj liam2 xwb os. Koj txawj tu2 siab es koj puas xav tias koj tus txiv haj yam tu2 saib no mas? Twb yog nws siab zoo2 es nws thiaj tsis muab koj nrauj os.

This is the definition of adultery 😅

Lady, you commit too much sin.

You know I wish you can find a way out

Niam tais aw tej yam koj ua dhau los no phuj teb phuj chaw dhau lawm os txawm yog leej twg los yeej zam tsis tau li os nawb txawm yog koj niag txiv ho ua li no rau koj los koj yeej zam tsis tau txim ib yam thiab.

Vajtswv tsis yuav cov poj niam liam li koj nawb.😢😢😢😢

You know she does out of pity to him it turns out she didn’t think its really gonna happen to her I guess shy thought he loves her so she did what she thought it was love I guess he just want to dra her to hell that shows she didn’t love her husband she tso go to hell with him we sh kn what she is in for e fooevet life after death entirely 🎉

This life lesson is: the truth will come out sooner or later. Proof right here that no matter what you do, or how long it will be, the truth will always be the truth. One day you will open your own mouth to tell the world of the sins you did. Lub ntuj mas li txias txis thiaj li ncaj ces yog li no ntag. I understand that you were young and naive when your mom told you to marry your husband, but the cheating part, you are an adult now, and you should've made a better decision.

Kuv los kuv yeej tsis zam thiab uv vim mob2 siab li

Hmoob ruam, zaj twg zaj twg los hluas nkauj hluas nraug sib vwm xwb. Tos peb Hmoob tsis vsm meej, dabtsi los tsi los musb tag nrho rau kev sib vwm xwb.

Tsis txhob tu siab os txawm yog koj tus txiv tsis kam hlub koj lawm no tseem tsuav kuv os nyob nov tos koj.

You shouldn't tell your husband, it's too late to tell him, all you have to do is confess to God, you do not to let him know, God will forgive you if you truly believe in him, but as for your husband his not Jesus, he's only human git humans heart and mind, he'll never forgive you,because he still a sinner,

Tus me viv ncaus aw koj xav tias qhia nws es nws yuav hlub koj no peb cov pom niam thiaj zam txim rau lawv xwb yog yus ua txaum lawm muab qhia rau vajtswv kom vaj tswv zam txim rau yus xwb cav yuav ruav ua luaj li tej laus twb tias nyob tsis qhia neej tuag tsis qhia dab no ne .

Koj yog ib tug poj niam ruam tiag tiag. Koj lub siab yeej dub. Yoga Kon hlub Koh tus txiv koh yeej tsi pub tau leej twg los nrog koj pw. Koh yeej TSI yog neeg zoo thiab.

Koj lees kev txhaum los mus lees rau vajtswv xwb mas....cas ho mus lees rau koj tus txiv nawb. Koj mas ruam dhau lawm os poj hmoob aw. 😂😂😂 nco ntsoov tias tib neeg yog tib neeg...tsis yog vajtswv nawb. Yam koj ua dhau los ciaj los tsis qhia neeg tuag los tsis qhia dab...mam coj mus qhia vajtswv ib leeg xwb mas koj tus txiv thiaj tsis txias siab ov.

Haub yaub leej twg kom koj mus ua kev txhaum naj thaum hluas yog thaum hluas xwb ua ca ho rov ua dua thiab maj los

Yog kuv ces nraug lawm xwb Yog poj niam zoo li no

Koj yog ib tus poj niam muaj kev npam thaum kawg koj thiaj los muab koj txoj kev qias nthuav qhia koj tus txiv ne puas yog.

Txhob yuav lawm os. Yog nws ua rau koj los koj yeej tsis zam txim rau nws thiab. Koj siab tsis ncaj, koj twb daws tsis tau laib txoj kev txhaum #1 es koj txawm siv ntxiv txoj kev txhob #2 lawm.