Informative, holding no punches & direct to the point - WOW. Thank you for being sensitive & upbeat, while reminding viewers of different perspectives + emphasizing INTIMACY - not treating her as trash, more like a saucy wench with complimentary assurances. Now subscribed ... you earned it. Great English language skill. Bravo, Ms. Stephilipinas.
@@bradleymiller7375 ~ Having that child(ren) ... this is the victory of life, of living. That child/Those children are to be the very best of you & that wife, of the continuance of both your sides of the family since our species began. BRAVO. Continue the family name. Imagine, other than a Heavenly/Hellish afterlife ... it is your key to immortality.
If truth and honesty is important to you, then the most important thing to remember is, most people are not mind readers. Most men want to meet your needs. If you keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself, then you cannot blame him if he doesn't fulfill you.
My filipina wife was very nervous on our wedding night. Undressing each other made her embarrassed. She tried just doing the starfish on the bed. I convinced her we should shower and clean each other to make her feel more comfortable. Fast forward 3 years later, she'll send a picture of a hotdog in a hotdog bun 🌭. Saying she is in the mood. Let's just say getting a $170 speeding ticket was worth it leaving work.
~ Having that child(ren) ... this is the victory of life, of living. That child/Those children are to be the very best of you & that wife, of the continuance of both your sides of the family since our species began. BRAVO. Continue the family name. Imagine, other than a Heavenly/Hellish afterlife ... it is your key to immortality.
I used to go out with a Chinese woma. She was very shy but when I went down on her she was totally wild. However, after it was over she was shy again and did not wanted to talk about it. I becames like her intimate secret.
Yea, I was sleeping with a Chinese woman like that. She'd do crazy things then go back home to her husband like nothing happened. That's part of their culture, or so she told me.
Your input in this subject not only helps filipinas but it makes it easy for us to understand the mystery of the filipinas in the bedroom.thank for the information
I think it has a lot to due with the age of the girl. Girls from 18-21 aren't likely to want much more than the basics. It is only after they get more comfortable with thier body that they will want more and that is the 21-25 age group. After 25, most will be open to what you said, but not all.
My asawa kept rejecting me and after awhile I developed resentment I got tired of hearing the word "no" so I stopped asking .... now over a year later my health and my finances are both improving and moving in a positive direction.. divorce is coming... I am very SAPUT
@@stephilipinasWOW . I STUMBLED ON THIS VIDEO AND I AS A BLACK AMERICAN MAN IN OUR LANGUAGE.... DAYUM. GREAT VIDEO. I LOVE THE A$$ ,PLAY 😅😅😅😅. ALL POINTS YOU SAID IS GREAT I LOVE UNDERSTANDING FILIPINO BABES. YOU ALL LOOK SO ADORABLE SWEET AND SEXY. CUTE AND ALL THATH. I APPRECIATE YOUR VIDEO AND CULTURE. I AM SUBBED TO YOU AND OTHER CHANNELS.
Hello Steph, again you talk the truth and being direct and honest about what it's real out there, again good job for telling what most women don't say and open about
Steph- Thank you for the great summary. I really appreciate how you spoke honestly and openly about such natural, and intimate matters. Have a wonderful day!
I think women are women. Nationality does not matter. Every woman is different. Overall a woman is by nature very discrete. However depending on how much the woman likes a man, she could be very open or very shy.
I don't care what she likes. She is not gonna hold my oten while she sleeps - because that prevents ME from sleeping. My pinay ex-wife used to throw her leg over my body in bed. I was like "WTF!!" I would grab that leg and throw it off. I mean, that's just rude and selfish.
I love Filipina women and I believe they are so beautiful and sexy, and I am very happy to find your channel and to learn more about Filipina women. I have never been to the Philippines but I am going to plan a trip there and I will search for a loving partner indeed.
Wow, such naughty talk but so true at least true. I have to tell my Filipina to take it easy because she has made me all black and blue some times when she is on top of me!
@@brenda121143 , been around long enough to know American women. It's the culture, the corrupt American way. Are there some actual good ones out there? Absolutely. But it's very few and far between.
Hello Stephilipinas, l wish that when l do go to Philippines next year ( my first time ) l could find someone like you. Communication is the best way to get across our feelings and thoughts. To be open with each other. That is very rare now-a-days in many woman
@@randyd1922 yeah it's like bonking a dead fish, sometimes. a real turn-off. Which leads to trouble evolving as time goes on in a marriage eventually.🥱
You're right.. they are very shy. Shy enough to not even think about some things and they have no idea what they may like if they tried it, or what they wouldn't like
I have no clue how to talk dirty. Everything else im good. My filipina gf has called me a "Savage" in bed. One of my best compliments since men rarely get compliments in their lifetimes.
It’s easy man and it does work. Just when you’re having sex with her just tell her in a low but passionate voice what you plan on doing to her or what you want her to do to you or how good she is making you feel but use any dirty sounding adjectives you can think of. Just don’t do the dirty talk to much. Just do it when you can feel her getting turned on. Combing dirty talk with encouragement works the best. If she’s doing something you really like let her know it by telling her how much you like it using vulgar language. LOL
Im planning my trip to cebu to find my future wife. The intimacy part of a marriage requires communication. Im going to tell my wife what i need and love in the bedroom. I expect her to do the same thing.
How's that a bad thing exactly? that just tells me they're good women and then it's up to you to make them so comfortable they'll eat off your hands. I'm not picking on you because unfortunately there's millions of men like you bro, it is your job to break those barriers down in a safe environment to the point she's begging for it every day.
I dated three Filipinas in my life all of which were in their 30s. Two of them had children already (not mine) and neither one of them had a clue how to kiss. It took a lot of coaching, but after a while, they picked it up, but then they were all kind of dead fish in bed because they were so insecure about themselves no matter what I told them. At this point, I will take experience over youth any day.
Steph, you're remarkably courageous lady and you handle the issue very well. As another excellent blogger says: this video was informative, thought provoking and .... entertaining...🤣✌
I think the best thing to do is compliment her on how nice her skin is or how beautiful she is or how hot she is or how sexy she is. I noticed my Filipina girlfriend loves that
Hi Step, these are some great tips & I'd say as a 50+ man, been there...done that with varying degrees of success...LOL Your last tip on 'making out' (foreplay in other words) can be enhanced by a nice startup (erotic) massage...IMO From my experiences over the years, I think most women like to be relaxed & not pressured to just 'lie down & open up,' & unless it's a quickie, the shared massage is a great way to start thing up, but that's just me. It can also be complemented with some sexy conversation to 'set the mood' too...🤩🤩
I found this video to be quite stimulating. I found you to be very stimulating and causing changes in blood flow. I'll find it a little uncomfortable trying to sleep now. Wish you were here to share in conversation and massage, etc.
I look at it as she shows me first and then i follow more myself.remember a woman can do more damage to a guy then you can do to her if you go about thing you dont know she would like.this goes for all woman with men around the world.
