You forget two things about how women can hurt you. 1. They can call the police at any point in time and destroy your life with one accusation. 2. They can destroy your public reputation by lying, and most people will believe women first, with or without proof, and your ass is in front of the cannon. Many men fell prey to these two things, I myself found myself in the second mistake during my first year of college. All it takes is one good lie told to everyone, and you will find out very soon how fast people will turn their backs on you without even trying to talk to you in the first place. So women can hurt you, but not in a physical way.
@@nictibbetts lol Rollo gets triggered over guys like Destiny.....Buddy needs to accept his baldness and stop dressing up like Hulk Hogan... besides the guy is married and over 50. He's out the game.. I wouldn't buy his book either but to each their own..I don't concern myself with how other men send their money.
A woman can bring joy to your life but also can be a burden. The latter can be exhausting you're carrying round all her issues as she will share them with you. As a man we are programmed to be problem solvers. If a woman brings more issues to your life than you already have you need to leave her. You need to do you not her and all the crap she comes with will damage your focus and progress!
-Dominance. (outside traits that have to be sub-communicated) -Stoicism. (inside traits, be resilient) -Risk/Thrill. (Demonstrate both, successful risk taker, women hate boring men and with no purpose) -Cause of her emotions.
Bro, hit it on the nail!. These exact words were directed to me by a hot female coworker recently . Now I'm definitely enjoying our fun, as the other dudes are left wondering what I did...lmao..I was just being me without care👍👍👍
1. Be forklift certified 2. Have at least a lvl 40 character in WoW 3. Good Borat impression (very nice!) 4. A well-maintained PROPANE grill 5. Nunchaku skills
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Stop chasing a women that disrespects and clearly does not love you. What she says is bullshit, what she does is everything you need to know. Have some self respect and dignity FFS! What is wrong with you? You don't see yourself with somebody else because you have no other options. A man without other options tends to over invest in his woman which (despite what women say) pushes her away. Most guys want to create a great life with a women and every one of those relationships fail. Successful men with options in women create successful relationships by bringing a women into the life they are building. Not the other way around. To succeed in relationship you must first be on your way to being your very best self. Then have a prime mission, a sense of boundary, a sense of adventure, an understanding of what you want out of life plus being on a track to get it. Then try bringing a women along on your life's adventure (it is an adventure right?) If she doesn't fit she needs to go. Odds are you should have measured your wife and disqualified her in courtship, but your standards were low, and your boundaries were not up to the task. Now you are where you are. What are you going to do about that? Find another women and make the same mistakes? Time to build a better life bro! Almost 40 years with the same women so I know what I am talking about. I'm a 60 jacked, squared away, well dressed, masculine mother fucker. I understand what it is to be sexy, I have young women make passes at me regularly because I am the very best version of myself. I am not especial, but I have done the work required of a man. As much as I love my wife, she knows if she grossly disrespected me, willfully and continuously crossed my boundaries, or cheated on me, I would replace her with much younger more beautiful women and then carry on in my life's mission. Your woman never felt the same way about you did she? Its over with your ex. Now go to the gym attempt to work yourself to death for the next year, Start building the man you were destined to be. Oh yeah! Once she sees the new you she will come crawling back. DO NOT let her back into your life. She has shown you who she is...Believe her and move on.
Getting stronger every day with your help. I appreciate it big time. Yeah, I’ve been in relationships all my life but not quality because of my lack of qualities but understanding is the first step into becoming more successful I find that it’s always a mentor that actually makes me take the biggest steps because you have to have the knowledge before you can put it into the action and I’ve listen to so many different coaches, but you really seem to get through to me, because I think your knowledge comes from a place of massive experience. I listened to your webinar but don’t have the money for it yet unfortunately and embarrassed to say. But soon as I get it I’m gonna do it but anyway Thank you Casey. !!
Brilliant Casey. Great reminders. We as men tend to give WAY too much of our power to women. Once we develop our own inner strength we can then attract the right feminine equal. Until then it's ME time.
It will stay you time. He deals with girls not women. Any one who speaks so absolutely knows nothing about life, period.His points are true to a degree, but Ill tell you if you act like he says to, yes Youll keep a girl but loose a woman. He talks about unconscious girls not actualized women. Be honest thats all it takes . Be honest to your masculinity and your feelings. But never put a front on Hes telling you to lie and play one up. Real relationships no one has a leg up. You respect each others opposing talents and weaknesses. You dont trie to take advantage of and manipulate a woman. Thats a recipe to loose a great woman. What is he 38? Lol
The more and more I hear what Casey is teaching, the more I'm realizing how lust filled this world is with attraction. If you have to go through thousands of validation points, wake up gentlemen your attracting broken women. I don't have to use religion here. When anyone truly finds a relationship of integrity it shouldn't be a lustful hot plate..
LOL “God” won’t help you get a woman, that’s the funny part, you’re all coping with religion and whatever makes you sleep better at night, women don’t give a SHIT about any self work you do, they either want you off the bat OR they dont. Get over it.
Hey man thanks for another great one. I’ve always felt like a natural with this stuff, but usually what would happen is - once I went through a break up, and I started dating again it was like I forgot all the rules and I had to relearn them each time. Your message checks out and resonates with each video. It’s helping me avoid stupid mistakes, and I’ve been talking to a great girl recently who responds to everything you and others taught me this year.
Brother you should be a life coach, or go to school to become a psychologist. Because you would be super busy in your clinic. The advice you give is SPOT ON. The rational behind the advice is absolutely on point. Of all the ppl on you tube Ive listened to, this fellow is the best. The biology behind your talks makes complete sense and I really enjoy listening. Thank you
Hey Casey.... I usually don't bother commenting on YT vids, but this particular one I thought was great. I like how you lay it all out logically and the no bullshit delivery. Just wanted you to know that I appreciate the effort you've gone to in putting this video together. Thanks man!
Dont worry about it. Go towards your values and interests youll typically meet some better matches for you than where most people meet them (bars online dating). Keep a focus on yourself and be open to meeting women where you are and see if they fit into your life. I think its a waste of time to put too much into this than need to. Especially if you value yourself and your well being.
makes sense ive noticed when im in bible study,daily readings strong prayer life things fall into place when im not things feel shakey ,its hard to understand but when i sideline GOD i lose my confidence tremendously even though i might be ticking alot of boxes.GOD teaches us lessons not people but to learn them we need a good social life
The info your providing is similar to what’s already out there in the “manosphere” but you explain in really well and provide more detail than I have heard elsewhere. I’m really enjoying your videos. Keep it up.
So glad you shared this. I'm so close to being all of this. I've been rebuilding myself since my ex wife of 17 years left us. I can't believe how much of what you've just outlined describes who I have become.
Sound advice.. casey is great.. guys when a disabling condition or disease or severe injury/ stroke/ physical/ mental illness comes your way.. which there is 1 out of 4 chance you will become dissabled .. it gets 8 times harder with women and life than before!!! Let that sink in!
On subject of friend zone, I’m really appreciative of what you have taught in your videos. One woman who has a boyfriend at this time and as such has currently lost pretty much interest in talking to me. But there had been times where her attraction toward me was very up and down, one minute she was wanting to see me, bumping hands with me, wanting to help me and bring me food and next minute I was nothing to her so I guess my behaviour was flaky and inconsistent so I’m hoping that when I apply these things to other women I will be able to get out of friend zone and have more consistent results with women.
He doesn't just help men with women issues/relationships. He also cares that they develop, grow and become more rounded to fulfill their destiny and God-given purposes. Thanks Casey!
I think it's important to understand that wisdom comes before stoicism. You truly do not care when you truly understand reality (wisdom). This can be done by cutting off 99% of stimuli (especially technology) and meditating daily.
I appreciate you. I wish I could like this more than once. I'm still struggling to not see my value as dependent upon my wife's approval. I can think pragmatically about it but when she inevitably is pissed off at me about something or nothing or both, I struggle to remain unemotional. For the most part, she seems unreasonable and unpredictable and it makes me want to explain those things to her, which ramps things up. She is a professional when it comes to silent treatment and I am naturally social and literally forget that I am trying to wait her out so that she comes to me. Then I am pissed at myself.
This is not good. My mother was like this. They know exactly what they are doing. If you let it continue, it will affect all aspects of your life. I really like Casey's advice but sometimes we are caught up in a dance and that we can't get out of. What helped me was the book The Power of the Subconscious Mind and another book You Can Heal Your Life. They give a pragmatic approach to changing what you believe about yourself. "The best way to change other people is to change yourself". If you do go this route (I don't know if it is for you), don't tell anyone what you are doing, keep it your secret. I had to say my new beliefs around 200 to 300 times a day for 6 months, but it did work. And then went to about 10 times a day for maintenance so I wouldn't slip back. Kind of like working your body out except you are working your mind
@@irenem9067 Thank you for the advice. I think I will try the books along with Casey's teachings. The irony is, I am by almost all cultural standards, the man women want. Tall, very attractive, relatively high income, position of power, blessed physically in other ways, outgoing, aggressive, driven.. and I know the source of my downfall. I was the prize until that "one" left. I guess she took my mojo with her, because even when I have "dated down" I am taken for granted. I can't blame her though. I know how it works. I just wish we didn't have to play games to have genuine desire, long term, from women.
@@rbrown5621You sound like you have a lot going for you. Your circumstance is much like mine. He walked away because he was unhappy with the direction his career was taking. We kept in touch and he told me that he had a new girlfriend but always keeping his eye open in case a better option came along. I was stunned thinking "is that what he did with me? " so you see it's not just women who are hypergamous. When I started the practice I outlined, I remember having a really bad day 3 months in and I wanted to give up. But I doubled down and had a whole evening ritual (not talking to anyone, healthy eating, no news or social media) so that I could sleep with the thoughts I had been saying. Then I started noticing how people were reacting to me differently and thought "wow that wouldn't have happened before" - I called them little miracles. I really hope this works with you and hope I hear back from you with how it went. I forgot to mention - do not let anyone throw you off your routine!
@@rbrown5621you have to be assertive with persistency and consistency. If she ignores you, let her know that that's not effective communication and relationships are strong with effective communication. Also, understand and be understood. Perspectives are different, but understanding others' and your perspective equally being understood will relieve a lot of miscommunication/misunderstanding. Don't let her take advantage of your passiveness and your strive to avoid an argument. Having said that, disagreements are a part of a relationship.
Man, I whole heartedly want you to rise up. Do it for yourself, and please comment back after 6 months saying that, now the ball is in your court. Definitely cheering up for you all the time.
Id argue if you're following even these traits just to attract women then don't. Focus on youself and what drives you, always. You should be ok even if youre unable to attract even a single woman. Be on your purpose!!
Learn this lesson!!!! Don't give two f's. Once I got out of my head and way and stopped giving a shit of what people thought of me. Then my life changed. People notice,woman,work. Be confident and competent. That is what attracts woman,wealth and success. Casey is a genius. Wish I had this knowledge 20years ago.
Wow, Casey, the level of wisdom in your analysis is truly spectacular. I wonder how a man your age has managed to conquer such prudence, perceptiveness, and discernment.
This is my litmus test and I'm on the level. I work 8-14 hours per day, I'm cultivating my relationship with God, training in martial arts and enjoying my life without anyone's approval. Excited for what and who is coming. 👊🏾
I agree with everything you say, my friend and I always work every single time and I watch your MBT one Manar and I love it so much I want to see the new one and thank you my man thank you my name is Issa❤️ nice to meet you
I'm someone who does all these things but have had their partner of 16yrs tell them they dont feel the same anymore and leave. I have realised none of us know anything, you reading this, you partner/wife can just turn around and say in a year and say "my feelings have changed and bail"
i wish i realized this when i was a teenager, so much time wasted on shit instead of self improvement. Glad to be on the right track, one improvement at a time
I have lived and lost more than I ever imagined in life. This may be one channel I will choose to subscribe to. It's the concept of allowing EVERYTHING to be ok is still a bit of paradigm for me. I missed the webinar
Correct communication is important. Your speech reflects how you think. Example: It's: go, went, gone. I go now. I went yesterday. I Have Gone there before. 🤔
Thank you so fucking much for this video. This has been the highest form of conformation that I've been moving in the right direction. MBT and some light therapy and ima be a beast, thank you!
guys, this last girl i'm with she's really blunt and direct. I'm 43 she's 48, I did all the mistakes in these videos, and the effects are as described. I think she still really likes me so she basically told me almost straight out, ditch me sometimes so i get turned on. It's like she doesn't like that it's like that, but cant help it. Also my friend-girl (we had sex a year ago) tells me about how she gets hooked in that same way as described. She knows the guy doesn't care, that turns her on can't help it.
I'm in complete awe of this. I read a book with a similar message, and it was astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
That was actually good I think the most important thing he said was guys you need to internalise this so make it your own version of Well done mate that was good
Never being content- this is very true. Interestingly enouigh, I notice two Tv shows that portray "wanting it all" have theme songs like this - Vikings,where they sing "More, give me more, give me more." and Narcos where they sing "Tuyo sera, y tuyo sera" (Yours it will be, and yours it will be)
If your parents pass away that’s different… that doesn’t mean you can’t grieve but the stoic way is to be strong and move on because grieving forever is not going to help you push forward, remember but don’t obsess… thats temperance one of the four stoic virtues and everyone’s parents pass one day so your not alone hope this helps
I think your youtube videos are amazing. I already had most of what you talk about going on, I did not have the understanding of it. Now I do. My life is changed forever, I almost want to send the money for your program without needing it, almost.. I am a man afterall
The worst you may get is an earful or a few paragraphs? This man has clearly not experienced the horrors of a judge determining how much money is taken out of your paycheck and how often you are allowed to see your kids. Ask any dude who has been divorced and had kids.
@@Manbearpig5831everyone’s situation is different and some men should have the courts pull money out of their account and some people need the courts to decide how often they get to see their kids. I don’t think he’s talking about this though. I believe what he’s saying is that sometimes the women makes false accusations and the court listen like it’s true and punishes you, when you and the kids are already victims of the women.
“The can’t take your birthday away...” 11:00 ...so actually...lemme tell you about my ex for a minute. And how my dad actually wanted me to start sharing my location because he thought I’d end up on some Cold Case File.
Thanks so much for this video. I recently got a girlfriend after many single years, sometimes I have to remind myself of why she gravitated toward me, and what I need to keep doing for the future
Brother Casey!! Just caught this lesson- amazing - I’m 54 newly divorced still have lots of living to do!! I am an attractive guy both intellectually and physically! I got game- but have forgotten a lot and you helped to remind me that no woman wants a Bitchass man that she needs to babysit! Thanks, I’ll be looking out for your latest lesson!
@CaseyZander is right if you can't see what you are doing wrong and complaining all the time how does that turn a Woman on. Be strong, grow a Spine, Stoic and don't be a Bitch, If you are doing everything which Casey is teaching you, let them replace you and say Good luck.. There will be plenty of good ones waiting with this Education this guy is a Genius, I really appreciate how he doesn't sugarcoat shit. Good one Casey keep the Videos coming....
In the same 30 days, the gril I loved rejected me, my best friend ghosted me, and my boss who I had worked with and been loyal for close to 3 years laid me of. I can't make this shit up; how I handle this. I told myself.. , I got this. Yeah there were moments at night where I missed the gril, and there were moments I was like this is fuck up, but needless to say I keep moving Forward . I keep marching toward. God is on my side, and I am still breathing so I still keep on doing.
6:20 this is great “ra-ra, suck it up and just do it” stuff. Unfortunately, even a tiny bit of study in psychology would reveal why actually doing this is extremely difficult. Not to mention it can go too far and have negative effects.
My man back on the whiteboard 💪. I wanted to ask about the safety aspect. Girls totally want to be around a guy who can fight and protect them if necessary. I know having muscular physique and being big is making her perceive you as someone who can protect her but do you think that starting martial arts is a good idea to make women feel even more safer?
Looking strong and muscles have almost nothing to do with actually being able to do what needs to be done to protect someone. That takes training in those specific elements.
True and do you want to be with someone who just loves you muscles? My mate is ranked 3rd in jui jitsu in my country and he's a big guy but doesn't go to the gym but he's trained, some woman could be like ohhh no I want someone with a six pack.
Good video but I take exception to taking un calculated risks that border on reckless. They want excitement but not an insane nut, they won’t feel safe and that’s what it’s all about.
