1. Fully present 2. Complement behavior you enjoy 3. Plant idea of total safety and abundance 4. Expressing directly what you want 5. Innocent play flirting
One of the coolest displays of caveman masculinity Iv had was when we went camping together, we stood outside of the tent drinking and chilling when suddenly I heard this noise in in front of us come closer, I realised it was heavy rainfall and I started ordering her around with very definitive statements to protect everything from the coming rain, we got everything done and just as we got into the tent it started pouring like a mafwaka. She was clueless about the coming rain, but she trusted me and did what she was told and in the end i “protected” both of us and our stuff. The whole scenario really fulfilled me as a man and she was puddy in my hands after that.
@@deanrobinson5887 Dean, why are you down playing this? These little things are huge not because of the rain, but because of the domino effect of subconscious trust that has been built. Whatever the next scenario is...be it more rain or a home invasion, you best believe she's gonna do exactly what he says and entrust him with her safety. Don't be such a soggy biscuit, Dean.
I see this is. God made us women to be that way. Mine loves it when I help him with project. The thing is, he makes the decision of what we should do and I am aware that he wants things a certain way. He leads , I follow.
@@marquettamiller608people act like its a fight. I always do what i should and women always get in line with it. But its not something you should have to “learn” which is why these types of videos confuse me. I had sisters and you kinda had to lead them growing up. They would come into my friends and I space and you just kinda “hey, go this way. Theres a hole over there”.
@@RobertoCichettiit’s not it’s for all ages. It’s just that you have to know when to use these tactics when to pull back on using them when to stop playing games. That’s why guys screw things up they aren’t adaptable. You can’t do what he’s saying ALL the time lol
Last night , we were out, walking in the city, a guy pulled up, jumped out stuck a gun in the face of a couple in front of us. I saw the car pull up and was immediately alerted. Just as the gun pulled out I pulled her behind a car saying the guy has a gun. She had no clue anything was even happening. That solidified her since of security with me.
This dude is spot on. Ive done alot of these things thru my life not knowing this information just was naturally that way. Ive never struggled getting real pretty girls. Never knew exactly why but these videos make alot of sense
Become 10x attractive as a man: - Status (most important) - Effortlessness - Social proof - Protector - Confidence - Socially savvy - Center of attention - The fun guy - Self-control - Nonneediness - Leadership - Mystery - Assertiveness - Masculinity - Fearlessness - Humility - Bravery - Excellence - Decisiveness - Making her jealous - Non-reaction-seeking - Dominance
One of the mistakes I see a lot with most young men is they compliment women on their looks. A genuine and earned compliment on the woman's behavior or personality traits will always go 10 million yards longer than you telling her. She has nice hair or beautiful eyes. Most young men overdo it and they just come across as desperate or trying to gain approval. You should never expect anything in return. Non-verbal compliments are also twice as powerful as verbal compliments. So learn how to give non-verbal compliments.
Exactly. Behavior can also include her sense of style / dress sense. I complimented this hot Romanian chick at work the other day, who was standing near my table while i was eating............I made the effort to say it in her language "imi place stilul tau" (I like your style). As i genuinely liked what she had on that day. She broke out in a laugh and huge genuine smile. (she would'nt have expected, not only that compliment, but an English guy saying it in her language) (Thanks Google Translate!) . She's a beauty........but she already knows and hears this often, give her something she'll remember more and make you stand out.
I just want to thank you Casey for being that bro that has given solid advice and helping me learn to value myself a whole lot more. Women, even those that are in relationships, have been far more attracted to me now because of your advice. These 5 points are very key and should be internalized, written on your heart to have the most fun with my dating life now. I haven’t settled with anyone but the dates I have been on have even made my life so much exciting. Thanks again, Casey for helping me value and love myself so much more.
So refreshing how you just have a whiteboard full of talking points old school style, just raw and to the point. Instead of all these distracting edits, words and sound effects that pop up and flash on the screen in most videos nowadays.
Casey never fails to deliver, completely changed my strategy for myself in life, sad thing is this used to be common knowledge for all men not to long ago we need to learn " the old ways"
Exactly! Nothing new under the sun. The guy talks about things you should do intuitively once you are dating her. He mixes up the phases of dating and completely leaves out the initial phase in getting her interested and hooked in the first place, before you can actually date her.
The information you give out is absolutely priceless! Just recently had a GF that I really liked left me because I blew it in many levels, your channel is informing me big time, I'm so far off in all this, this is deep and helpful, gotta watch this over and over
Wow blown away, needed this ,thank you Casey ,that part about not being too serious and keeping light playfulness active hit like a sledgehammer, so big thanks from and the next future chics 😉😎
During the COVID-19 Pandemic was building my company [Financial Freedom] 2023 Focusing on starting a family this channel will help me a lot to balance my life perfectly
This is so true...before I got married, my wife told me I need to be less professional outside pf work and also said that she doesn't want to be spoken to like i speak to the guys that work for me. It's important to be light hearted, care free, flirty, and a leader at the same time, even when you're married and already have her commitment....even more so when you're married. You need to be the man that she needs and that never stops
Keep in mind people on no.5 to say ‘why do you keep kissing me’ in a playful manor so she knows it’s a joke, don’t let her think you are punishing her for her good behaviour
Dude, I love your input and your take on the whole male/female gender relation minefield, so to speak:) Your videos are not only fun and informative, but you breakdown what your perspective is and it all makes sense. Glad I subscribed. Peace, bro'.
to be completely honest I think that you are the best in what you do I have never seen someone break down the steps so easily so you can able to understand like no dating coach ever done this and I think that you are the best and I think that you should be nominated for saving most of these meals life never stop help these nails Casey because they need you
Ive been doing this forever just naturally from school of hard knocks. At some point they bail. It just clicks in one day and theyre gone. All these techniques work though. Its like you were describing me. I even laughed a couple times when you were talking about things ive done like the its ok youre safe routine while im giving them an adrenaline rush
One of the coolest traits I'm forced due to tinnitus, is facing and proactively listening to people! And I require them to face me whilst they are talking! I'm not deaf! Just trying to exclude other noises! Even In your production here? You face away, and the echo comes in! Whilst many see it as a disadvantage? I use it positively! 😊 if I'm talking with a woman, I'm not lip reading, my big radar ears are proactively listening to her! Been a mega bonus in my life! Speak from behind me? I turn ask ask if I don't think that I heard her correctly! Ask ask her to repeat what she said! 😊 Tinnitus and deafness isn't a deaf or death sentence! 😊 in fact it forces me and any other person the same to proactively listen and hear what people say!😊 I hope that my comment here is proactive and positive to those that are the same! In fact, I think we actually have an advantage over most!😊
Great video. First time here .👏 This is a helpful video when it comes to marriage, at least for me. It's good to be reminded to pay attention with no distributions, flirt, laugh, keep it fun, and exciting with your wife. It's easy to unknowingly do damage to your marriage when you get busy with life and kids, you lose that spark. Its not necessarily leading and making her feel safe physically and emotionally. That's fine, it's not forgetting to have fun, flirting, spending quality time together, words of affirmation, showing up and listening, but being able to communicate openly and consistently. It makes all the difference.
Be present with a woman, be invested in the interaction and hold a connection in my experience this by itself when two ppl are fully invested in a conversation/ interaction is quite intimate... Women love praise, praise a woman on her behavior that you genuinely like, alot of women are actually smart this is always a good one, ask them about their passions, if they are a passionate person that's very attractive, if a woman is attentive to you,( fixes ur shirt, picks up something you dropped, makes sure your jacket doesn't fall off the chair you put it on) that's realllyyyy sweet and I love when that happens... Praise them for that don't lay it on thick but just be like aye your so sweet I love that ... She will likely keep doing it, bc well as Casey said women love to please their man... Women love to feel comfortable and safe and feel like their man can provide and protect... As a man your calmness is saftey ... Your getleness and even attentiveness to your woman(holding the door,asking her to walk infront of you so you keep eyes on her, if she wants to go for something say you'll walk with her... Make her feel like she's safe once you're with her ...) Never be jerky with it ... Be calm and gentle in your tone but give off this silent self belief that you can handle it ifna situation pops up... Also I've noticed that women love to submit to a man... So guys be decisive! If she doesn't know where she wants to eat ask if her she has any hard no's and just pick something... If u want to go to the arcade say aye were gonna go to the arcade, hold her hand and walk with her to the damn arcade... For me it surprises me sometiems... I genuinely feel inside that in this moment this is my woman and I walk with her and I attend to her, I'm in that moment with her and I make decisions, if she has an issue I say aye u can do this or this, or when she wants to just complain I sit I listen and I just play along... I even react like a girlfriend like (psshh no girl she did that?!?) And once you can add in your playful flirting the girl will just follow ur lead man she'll submit to you and listen to you if u tell her do something she'll want to do it and i show open gratitude for it too
Having lived in the Far East where dating is purely loveless and focused on MANipulation and narcissistic control; I'd say anything goes. Just be snipped and never fall in love (all love in the East is fake love). Peace.
Think I agree with you about love in the East being fake love, since I’m originally from Bangladesh but lived half my life and live currently in the USA. Could you explain a bit more what you mean though? I think I wanna hear and see if I can relate and understand what you say about love in the East being fake and all about control and manipulation… I saw some of that when growing up already…
@@zuhairreza This is a complex topic as it encompasses culture, tradition, religion, personality types, and more. Most men are indoctrinated to be providers, protectors and sacrifice to reproduce (although some men don't think it's worth it - more so in the West). Wheat Waffles channel describes what creates hot passion (a necessary metric of romantic love per Sternberg's triangle). In the Far East, even old and unattractive men can find brides who don't love them but need the financial security for the extended family. And, to a lesser degree, this is what most marriages are like. I just found more "fake love" for $$$ in the Far East than the West.
Gotchu! Yep, I'd agree with all you said, based on all I know so far. Hmm... I am 30, and haven't been in a proper long-term relationship yet (wasn't interested in relationships at all until my mid to late 20s, after I graduated college... and now that I am, I am starting to look...), and personally, I don't think I'd want that kind of a financial transaction disguised as a relationship. I think I'd want love. For one thing though, when would it end? When would the woman wanting $$$ and things and things end? As someone on RU-vid - on a video about that guy who brought-over a Russian botox-user model to the USA and married her with the promise she can get anything she wants from him (it didn't last long) - wrote, "women's desires have no end". I realize I am not an expert in this area, but that seems to be the case from all I am seeing from other people's relationships. So, as a man, I think you need to look at what you're getting out of it... anyway, thanks for your input! @@bobbruce4135
I remembered a story when i was a kid, about an African father, who had two suitors for her daughter and he decided to tested decided them by giving a bowl of ground to each of them, then after the interactions with them, the man with the most groudnut cells under him, won the daughter's hand for marriage, because tge fact that he eats a lot therefore he will provide for her daughter. Casey you're right other lot of food😅 I watch you from The Gambia 🇬🇲 West Africa
I helped my girlfriend twice in Sedona AZ while hiking when she got scared climbing on a rocky trail, and it definitely helped boost my masculinity in her eyes
But my man, you have other videos that say to almost ignore her on a date to stimulate hypergamy. Help me! I'm going out with a hottie on Saturday and it's our first date and I don't want to fukitup! I'm planning on 1 hr at a cool bar and then telling her "thanks, had a great time " and then walking away. Please advise
Thank you Mr. Zander. You are specially gifted with Wisdom on relationships. I started following your channel in late 2021 and I have not looked back. I personally have exercised these very 5 seduction traits before I even knew what I was doing before today. These traits seem to have come natural to me after taking your advise over a year ago on focusing on myself, setting my own standards and only allowing good people in my life, etc... I have attracted women half my age to in between and next month I am scheduled to Marry the most Amazing woman that I've ever met and did not know could exist in all my 55+ years of living! I cannot give you complete credit since I have done all the hard work myself but, I can say that as a Man that started with poverty, abuse, rejection, abandonment and hardship to name a few, to a Man that is Healthy, Vibrant, Energetic, Fun Loving and most caring for my favorites that, I am confident I am more than able to keep the bride to be on my side for always and/or not be broken by any woman - ever again, all while I continue to climb in my career. Even though I am going to marry the Woman of my Dreams I continue to view every video you post to sustain my centeredness. My sons now have a father to teach them the secrets to Success, Love, Happiness and Life, that I missed from the Father I didn't have growing up. May The Lord Bless You my young Lad!
There are ways to be yourself completely and still have the woman love you. You just have to be unconventionally honest. Not lovey Dovey, just honest. Not desperate or needy, just be yourself and advise them. Teach them that toxic crap won't work out, promote clear communication of boundaries. Make them comfortable enough to speak up. Have meaningful talks with them, If they run then let them go. Don't even worry about it. Don't be mad. Don't get emotional.
When you plan the date, let her know exactly how to get there. Ask her if she has any allergies or foods she doesn't like. Also look up the weather and let her know what she might need( coat for instance). Tell her you have an umbrella big enough for 2( if it might rain) etc.
Not sure about the umbrella, but giving her an idea of why she might need to wear is a good idea. One time I went on a date. I thought it would be a warm setting so didn’t matter. It wasn’t.
4:24 this is a mistake i made. SHE was initiating 99% of our interactions, but messaging and in face. i was going overseas again and i said "when i am back we do more dates". She went "dates, thought was just friend and business". I didn't argument, I pulled back. Then SHE started coming at me again while I am away and again 3 times ask me when am i coming back. I came back, saw each other, I was leaving again and I said "when i am back i will be back for awhile and most of next year". SHE SAID... "ok we will see each other more then". ALWAYS make sure SHE IS DOING THE INITIATING, then you pick up and follow through.
Casey, I've watched a lot of your content. Including the MB Accelerator, which I bought a while ago. And this video still might be the best piece of content you've ever made. I'll just leave it at that :)
He’s right about the food thing. I’ve had multiple girls tell me they think it’s hot how much food I can eat. I’m a built taller guy so that probably helps, if I was a fatass it would be different, but he’s definitely right about the food thing.
I fully disagree with paying for everything, because that ups, a man’s effort justification, and making it harder for him to be ok to lose the girl because he’s so invested. I make these girls pay sometimes or invest in any way possible even a small amount.
Yep. I turned off all notiifcations on my phone. And when out meetin a girl, I never pull it out. Only if she has to go use the bathroom (if we are at a bar). If she begins using it, i call her out on it and say "Oh, busy are we?" or "Hmm.... you seem VERY busy". I'm in Asia though and women are always on their social media (they addicted to it), so even if they do like you they will be on it, but if you call them out on it usually they put it away if they are interested in you.
23:26 while watching this, a different girl sent me a message that reads "Are you ok?". We had not spoken in could be 2 weeks, last time we spoke i told her we will see each other. What is happening, whatever it is she is feeling is intensifying during the time we had not spoken, and I notice that majority of the chics that contact me what would seem to be randomly is on average a 2 weeks span (it's in the week that i told her i would be back). There is no indication that anything could be wrong with me, it is not new that i would not communicate, we known each other YEARS, but out last conversation started to get her in her FEELINGS (like it was many years ago).
While this all sounds fantastic I would love to see this guy try this on New York women where 9 out of 10 times are either bipolar, borderline personality disorder, or drug addicted ...from my experience in new york women only need a man for what they can gain and even then they just want an abundance of men that they can gain things from..literally everything said in this video would start arguments instantly with any woman from new york/ long island who are all incredibly pretentious and entitled
New York women are to materialistic all they want is your money and your validation they don’t care about nothing else stay in your frame and in your lane men don’t be a simp either
The spending a lot of money on a date is a good idea if you date a few times a month, but what if you live with a woman? Then if you try to provide "abundance" all the time, you'll simiply be poor. You will often have to put down your foot and say NO to her desire for something.
The guys money angle on over spending to impress her.. is not a good thing.. also culturally speaking, the over reach from females expectations ( USA) can choke a horse .. so I can't align with this segment of wasted funds to secure a mental position in her head as leader..I'd have to find other ways .. LoL I'm still subscribed and this guy is very good at his craft .. but there will always be some lefts and or rights when hearing others philosophical insights . But for me it's time to reshape ,restrict , and reform these females ideas and expectations..and advocate for reasonable thinking..so I must interact in ways to support it..✔️
Women know words that men use are probably used to get other women. Women are not stupid. Yes women like safety. Women also want a man to provide and take charge
If I would have watched your videos 2 months ago I could have saved my 4 year relationship, she was testing how much shit I could take and I wouldn’t walk away because I felt inadequate due to a multitude of reasons . However she was on the far end of the spectrum in terms of sanity
Best summary ever. I've been studying game for 20 years and having excellent success inside women's panties (if they're wearing any) but this guy really is nailing the truth.
One time this bum on the streets yelled at me because I didn't have change to give and I was shook about it for him yelling at me, and I didn't react to it much because I felt sorry for the bum. I wish I would have reacted but it didn't seem necessary at the time.
