5 Shocking Things Women Do To Manipulate Men Today... (She's Controlling You) 

Bottom line guys, maintain your masculinity. If any of this comes up you stand your ground and show them you won’t put up with it. Don’t be mean or cruel. Just be an adult about it. No more mind games, a lot of people online tell you to do this and this and this to get your ex back or to attract someone. Just be yourself, and be an adult about your relationship. The reality is if your significant other gives you anxiety and chaos, and you feel like you have to play mind games with them to keep them interested, then you simply aren’t compatible with them and should stop wasting your time. At the same time if you guys never argue about things in a constructive way, you both have resentments that you refuse to talk about. Relationships take work. You can fall in love with just about anyone you find attractive, but that love alone won’t bring about a healthy relationship that lasts a lifetime if all you are is starry eyed. You must be able to pick out these manipulations. Don’t write them off for them doing it once or twice because relationships bring out our insecurities, talk to them first and explain how you feel. And if they get defensive about it, tell them you want to walk away. Reality will hit them, they’ll stop lying to themselves and realize it isn’t working on you, and thats when the growth starts for both of you. You showed up for you, and they got a taste of reality. They learned that crap doesn’t help anyone and won’t work on you. If they decide to get to stepping, again you weren’t compatible because they have growing up to do. They just aren’t ready for what you’re ready for.

If a woman does these things it means she doesn't respect you. If a woman does not respect you, the relationship is done. Man up and tell her to stop the crap or she's gone. It's that simple. Under no circumstances should any man tolerate this behavior

Re: waterworks, I knew I wanted out of my relationship when she started bawling after I stood up for myself. I mean, Meryl Streep is a hack compared to the wailing, and sobbing, and babbling, and coughing I saw on display. I was leaving for work, and got half way to my car before realizing I left something inside, so I walked back in. Not fifteen seconds had passed, and the you-strangled-my-children magnitude fit had subsided to absolute silence. I knew at that moment, everything with her was an act, and it would never get better.

This is definitely a much needed upload, thanks for dropping this knowledge Apollonia, take care, and as always, stay blessed ❤️💯

Thanks! needed to hear this

I was being gaslighted by a girl I had been seeing for 9 months. Every time I pointed at something I had discomfort of, she said, "But you too, you also do that blabla" even one time I told her: "babe why are you saying this you know is not true omg" point here, she started to pull off, I found myself chasing for 3 weeks until one night out with her she behaved really bad with me got drunk, and disrespected me. That hurt me. She apologised the next day, but her pulled back and rescheduled actitud still was there. I silently walked away, I already communicated my concerns, and she didn't listen. Has been a week away, I'm hurt, but I suppose I should take care of myself and put myself first. I hope I can stay away, it is really what I want.

Love your channel!

highly insightful

Apolloniaaaaa, my home slice. Have a great weekend

first viewer.... thanks for this tips

thank you so much, wisdom woman of the forest

Simple Apollonia look her in the eye and tell her I gave up guilt years ago , I'm going out with my boys and there's nothing you can do about it ( been married 31 yrs )

when i was nine a girl taught me how to cry anytime i want. it"s a great trick

My mother is the master of this kind of crap. Always has been.

Well well well... what a nice bag of tricks hu?🙄😉 great stuff Apollonia👌😉how tall are you in cm?😏❤🔥✌😉

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

I was belittled, disrespected, talked down, guilt trip to before. At first I give in thinking it's going to work as long as we communicate about it and resolve it together. Boy I was wrong, the communication always points towards me as if everything she does and says is right and mine is wrong. Slowly but surely it killed my confidence and love until I felt that I need to defend myself. Can't stand this kind of woman.

Good advice indeed to dating people.

I’m being held on my ex timeline she has some of my belongings and I can only get them when it’s convenient for her. It’s so frustrating

manipulation: controlling someone or something to your own advantage, often unfairly or dishonestly Esther Vilar's book, The Manipulated Man has some good points.

Physical blackmail exactly what my ex use to do to me 🤦🤦

Look for a girl who would pay for the vegas trip with your friends! Love how this lady even tries to teach you how to fix things not just talking about problems. This was an excellent video! Every young boy should be taught these things in early teens.

Remember you are always loved bye for now...

Wow !!!!!

And she says it with a smile on her face 😂😅

Love does not have to be a forced matter and conditional.

They use friendzoned guys' meetups to mention to their target alpha guy to make them jealous & more attracted to them. Very common strategy IME. When you're a friend-zoned guy beware, she might not want to meet you for the right reason.

8:27 What I needed to hear 😔

I learnt these things long time ago and appolonia u was one the great people who helped me People appolonia knows her stuff 👍🏿 great video

AP...why do women hurt and push away that one guy that truly loves them??😢

I'm 44 and it seems like my whole life I've seen majority of both men and female do things like this and it's one of the things that has kept me from ever having a serious relationship until recently the last 6 years got a girl pregnant let her move in things were great for a while then they went to crap now it's more like a roommate you know I'm one of the said fools that didn't have a dad or males in my life other and friends that I grew up with who were scumbags for the most part with females and I thought everything I saw on TV was real was the way you were supposed to do it be nice be kind and you'll get everything you want I learned recently in The Last 5 Years that it is so so so so so so not like that and it's basically the complete opposite it's so fucking annoying

“When you send her an Apollonian video, and she shits on it, and says you’re not making sense” 😂

She did

Hello all. Hope all are doing well.

Have you ever seen scary movie 1 ?

If in the first few months she is interested in a man then later on after 5 months if she flakes on him or pull back or disrespect him then what's the best move for us?

Perhaps, but since I don't date no problem.

Why is it that men constantly have to keep their eye on the woman theyre with? There is no trust to be had in modern day relationships. #SleepingWithTheEnemy

Chikita bb😍

Do a video about women who cant leave her children and constantly bragging on them.

Serious red flag that this woman thinks anyone owes anyone sex ESPECIALLY when they’re unhappy with things they did? That’s really scary. That’s way beyond horrible treatment of any human. 🚩

Ponti .hi I'm Gerhard I'm in a relationship where by my girlfriend.dont allow me to go out ad if I go out she curse me with bad words .she nva want me to hve money in my position .she always want to knw ad see wat I do .ad don't ever ask me if I cll my kids or send them samething all she talk about is her children with other man ...everytime she s stress she talk of her ex kids father how he was doing fr her .everything In front of me...I cnt watch tv while she is in bed room ...she tells the brother tht. I don't. Gv her money but while I gv her ...wat do I do ?ad wat type of woman s she

Hey what should I do because my girlfriend has not texted me since last Wednesday and I do not want to lose my girlfriend so what should I do give my girlfriend space and should I let my girlfriend text me first

I am in a relationship of a month or two ,now she is asking for a new phone because hers is messing up , her phone is a iPhone 14 it’s a year old I asked her to tell me what’s it doing.now she wants a iPhone 15

Learn to be as deceitful as they are.

True story: I lost all my friends cuz one of my ex...😂

I can't be manipulated, WHY? because i don't give a DAM!!!!😮

If it is "demeaning a little bit" then it's not worth mentioning, is it? If it was "demeaning" or "very demeaning" then mention it.

Kids do this too...

Number three crocodile tears lol

All of these behaviours are that of a child.

This is game women use on beta males a alpha or sigma man would walk away or run women with these tactics away

I've been with my wife since highschool. We have 4 kids. And I'm just realizing, she has manipulative tendencies. It's not completely horrible, but she does do some of these things. But I don't think she knows she's doing it. Thanks for this, helps me to know how to respond properly next time she does it..

"Happy wife happy life" is a terrible saying

Women don’t care about us

What about using you for money?

1. Emotional blackmail Conflict lets you grow Let you work on things, from a past life 2. Excessive complement How stroking your ego Says things she loves about you 3. Relationships bring out what the word we need within us 4. Crying If it's soft spot she cried and continue till you feel So Bad 5. Physical blackmail Man learns of he does what she wants he can get sex Uses it as form of punishment to make you Comply note when they don't get their way they'll Demean you and how you perform in bedroom She'll try to direct you there Last:prove your love if you love me you'll... A tactic to use you: 2 fold question How to do: if it's up to me, would I do it? 2. would I do it if she hadn't mentioned anything about love? Relationship needs to be loving and balanced , where both persons need to be 1.supported 2. heard 3.understood

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Your all evil 😂

7 things a women would do. C, mon dating coach lady. All I need is 1. I tell her once dont she dosen't listen I am outta here. Why do you need 7 things.