Agreed, it can be considered a red flag. However, if I were to raise the white flag and surrender I need to be able to approach the person I am surrendering to. If I mistakenly raise a red flag, I do have a higher chance of being shot, but if I have both hands raised and you are secure in your position the person surrendering is no threat. That is the kind way of saying careful when you A$$-U-ME.
@@andrew1717xx yes but never trust a woman that just broke up with her boyfriend. If she already broke up with him it says she's not going to be very loyal to you. Plus many women use this as a rebound . She's a huge red flag if you don't walk away from her run don't trust a woman that just broke up with her boyfriend. Women like this can't be trusted.
@@justinbarhorst5531 Go with your gut. Your origional comment said broke up with no time constraints, so I gave you the answer for that. This is an entirely different question.
The signs are not to hard to read. It's what comes after that changes the atmosphere in a bad way. The interrogation, "How much money you make ", "How big is your house ", "What kind of car you drive ", This is where the conversation always ends up.
This caught my eyes... While i was living in Greece.. If you didnt have your fathers BMW the most attractive girls wouldnt not turn around to give you the time of day. In 2011 i came back to Australia and its just as you described Max.. What do you do for a living? Women want the 6 sixes.. We Men find these questions extremely offensive.. Because it only shows what can a Man bring to the table.. Thats all women care about! Then they defend themselves by saying, Oh im just trying to get to know you.. Well... We have woken up and wont put up with it anymore! Maritza is a champion of us Men, So is Sarah dawn moore and Courtney ryan.
An attractive girl caught my eye in a cafe casually, but since it wasn’t an “in and out” darting glances. 😂 I knew then that it was just an advertisement. 🙏🏼😊
I disagree with the first one. Some girls will act like they're busy i.e pretending love like their in the middle of an important texting conversation but still want you to come up and approach because they don't want to make it too obvious.
@@Soulbooklet See, your problem is that you actually think logically and make sense 😘 Maybe it's an American thing but I understand OP's comment that many women try to be subtle by pretending that they're not really all that interested. Maybe they don't want to scare the guy off? I've had several women drive me away by being so obvious in their interest for me... they flirted very hard and it backfired on them. Women seem to have a hard time figuring out how to be open and receptive without being overbearing.
4:28 - 5:55 thanks, I needed to hear this. I've been telling myself "nah, she's just being friendly" for like two months now. This has given me a bit more courage to talk to her next time. Thanks Maritza!
*It’s so important to be able to read body language, like eye contact and open body posture. Knowing these signs definitely makes approaching way easier and less awkward.*
@@vinci2118 ok when a woman looks at you and tells you not to approach her. Two when a woman films her work out and tries to have you thrown out for only saying hello to her. Three when you only say hello and tell her how nice she looks in the color of outfit she's wearing and she says did I speak to you. 4 when you hold the door open and she yells she can open the door herself and 5 when you see a large frozen spot on the road and you ask to help her cross the street and she yells at you for trying to help her . When you approach her and she yells at you and all you wanted to do is change her tire when you ask her for her expertise and she yells that you are a threat to her even better you approach her you comment her on how friendly and kind she is and she report's you for only saying how kind they are. Now you will like this one you approach a woman and she spits on you and tells you how useless you are. Now you approach a woman and she shouts you down by telling you she doesn't need a man and how much you are not needed. Now one of my favorites she tells you you could only date her if you are a sugar daddy. Yep women want approached . When women say those things that tells me to leave them alone I will do so. When women say those things it tells me they don't want approached or commented to them.
A really cute girl asked me what time it is at the airport just as I was hurriedly walking towards the ground transportation area. Like an idiot, I just told her what time it is because it didn’t occur to me that she was actually trying to break the ice. She looked really annoyed when I told her the time. That’s when I realized I better act fast for recovery pass so I smiled at her and asked her how was her flight. One small talk after another, we wound up talking for hours at a restaurant nearby. Timing is everything. That experience taught me to be on my toes if I don’t want to miss an opportunity.
Something that has to be kept in mind with any of these videos is that their is a huge variance of the ways a woman will show interesting and some women are much more subtle than others. I have had all of these at one time or another - but I have also had long term relationships in which none of these things occurred. i.e. not using my name, not asking me questions, etc. In the 4 relationships I have had - none of them ever said they where single. I have literally never heard that from a woman I'm interested in, dated or been in a relationship for years with. Are these signs also divergent based on culture? Massively - here in Australia woman are much more stand off-ish & subtle than European women (speaking in sweeping generalities). I met a German girl the other day who looked me straight in the eyes multiple times and gave me a smile and smiled more when I smiled back at her. Most Australian girls will not do this with a man they met 1 minute ago. I liked her directness TBH 😊 - but it doesn't always go down like that. So you need to try & go with your gut too - and your gut is going to be wrong too. There are no easy answers - pay attention, ask for her number & be respectful!
If these things are almost always signs of interest i should have a whole hareem of women by now ! lol But seriously , it's not always very clear if women are just friendly or interested in something more , especially because i'm a friendly guy myself and people react to that by being friendly and approachable as well , including women. Sometimes women do flirt , but even then it might be just that , because let's face it , females love that kind of interaction. Just the other day i was about to get on a train back home from work when a cute younger black girl had to get off. When i clearly and politely gave her room to do so , she saids thank you in a very soft flirty voice while smiling broadly and looking me deeply in the eyes. Very intentionally. Now what is a man supposed to think and do about that in such a narrow fleeting time constraint , mi Maritzita ? Things like that ( but usually not that clear ) happen regularly , but it is very difficult to get to the bottom of the potential intentions in such unforseen quickly passing circumstances. Not always simple for a man to react in an actual result producing way , mi dulce amiga.
@@Soulbooklet Nope, Men would act Faster if Women's intentions were genuine, the only reason Men go slower is because Women play games and run away the moment a Man approaches based on her signs, so Men are not playing along with these games any longer. Certainly not any valuable Men whatsoever.
If they have a boyfriend and they're not into you, you're gonna hear about said boyfriend within the first 5 minutes lol. It's amazing how girls think I care about their lives. "Yeah, me and my boyfriend are getting a dog this weekend"... Cool, now please finish ringing up my items 🙄
@@Soulbooklet Laughing is a good reaction. You should see my face suddenly having the understanding that transforms all the annoying, dumb questions into no longer annoying.
I have found all of these signs to be true. These are the signs I have personally noticed from girls over the years, when they want you to approach them: -They walk up and stand somewhere near you, within your field of view. They will pretend to be looking at something else, but will generally keep you within their peripheral vision so that they can see how you respond. This is the most common sign I have encountered. A girl might follow you around the gym and use the machines around you, or approach and stand alongside you while peering into a shop window or gazing at a street performer. -Yes, if a woman wants for you to establish communication, she will takes measures to allow for this: taking off her ear buds, twiddling her thumbs or looking around aimlessly to let you know she's approachable, ... -A woman will look toward you at something that is above you or to the sides of you. For example, if there's a wall-mounted TV, a group of people standing behind you, ... -They will initiate communication over something trivial, as stated in the video. -If they know your schedule, they will make sure to change theirs so as to run into you. For example, they will park near you and get out of their car right when you do, they will intercept your path to and from somewhere, ... -If a woman regularly sees you, she will consistently say hello and make you feel welcomed. -If a woman sees you with another woman and gets the chance to talk to you, she might indirectly inquire about whether you and the other woman are a couple (e.g., a loaded question/comment such as "your girfriend is very pretty"). -A girl may have a friend of hers approach you in order to size up your behavior and allow for the potential that you join their group and eventually begin talking with her (or the friend will just do this for the interested girl since the interested girl may be too shy to initiate). -A girl will consantly look over at you, and may even have the courage to smile directly at you. Some girls, whether it's intentional or not, will get a naughty smirk on their face because they are pleased to have just discovered you, and they desire to batter you up and eat you alive, lol. Sometimes, they are unaware of their own reaction, but sometimes they allow it too linger, thus turning their reaction into an invitation. For a girl who is on the hunt for some man meat, which generally would occur in a bar or other situation where alcohol is involved or in a dance club where there are vacationers who come and go (what "happens on vacay, stays on vacay"), she will straight up just stare at you desirously with a glow in her eye, hoping to quickly lead to a one-night stand or similar. -Some girls, especially when in a crowded situation such as at a bar or concert, will stand next to you and lightly nudge you. They'll either follow that up with an "oh, sorry" or nudge you repeatedly without admiting to anything. I have had girls nudge me with their legs under the table multiple times, nudge my arms while standing passively on the outskirts of a dance floor, ... I have also had a girl bump up and slightly spill a drink on a friend I was out with (who was also a girl), and follow up with "oh, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to spill on your wife." The intent to determine if the girl was my partner was obvious, as I noticed it took the girl several tries to get the bump just right so that it wasn't too much (I just didn't put two and two together until after the interaction). In a classroom setting, a girl will bump into your desk when walking to hers. I had a girl once time bump into the skateboard I was sitting on when she took a seat next to it. -Some girls will showcase their bodies and beauty for you: stretching with their chest out, bending over to pick something up in front of you, leaning to accentuate their curves, sitting forward in their chair to advertize the thong they are wearing, ... -Some girls will play with their jewelry or hair when looking toward you. They might fondle the pendant of their necklace, or roll it around against their lips while looking in your direction. Anyway, these are all I can think of for now. What is stated in this video is true.
Feliz Jueves mi prima! ❤ This was great and informative. Being open and honest is a right thing to do and sometimes you can meet someone when you least expect it 😊. I like the woman to be honest without playing games
Yo disfruto viendo tus videos y dejando los comentarios al respecto como mi opinion. Me alegro de haber visto tu canal inesperadamente y quiero decir gracias por tus comentarios 😘. Que tengas una buena noche y disfruta el resto de tu semana prima 🙏🏻
@@L88-xv9vx I say most of them play games, not all. I'm straightforward with the woman always because I have nothing to hide. If the woman wants to play games, that's her problem, not mine and I have no problems to turn the other cheek. I recently got out of a long term relationship that lasted nearly 3 years and in the end, her and I didn't worked out. Finding a good woman is like a needle in a haystack.
The problem is when men approach you and you reject them they are not going to keep trying to get a date. Not in 2024 . The feminist women ruined that for you.
I am 44 years old, fit, no kids, never married and no gf for 16 years and counting. Feminism really put men under the bus and whats worse it made women devalue themselves due to their immaturity, attitude, tatoos, drugs and obesity. Recipe for men to look somewhere else instead. Being in solitude is one option.
The days of Men approaching Women are permanently coming to a close, so the thing is this will eventually be irrelevant, for the most part. Women in the future will have to Approach Men. While Women do use signs of interest towards Men, they also do it just the same when only being friendly or just to test the waters with Men they have no intention of anything serious coming out of, so...
Never get involved with a woman who was born in the same town y’all live in. If she’s not a local gal, you’re good to go. Just remember, when it comes to that local gal, Sancho still resides in her head, her heart and eventually he’ll be returning to her home.
@@Soulbooklet , This advice is not meant to offend. It’s just based upon knowledge guided by experience. It took me many years to find the love of my life and neither of us are from the same town where we currently live. Life is beautiful and I am truly grateful to God to have her in my life 🙏🙏🙏➕❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m 22 never had a gf ever been working out for 9 months this girl I said hi too and had a conversation with. Didn’t ask for number is weird to ask a woman if she single
men approaching women, i know i'm not the only guy thats always had a lifelong hatred of how men have always been expected to do the approaching, never understood why is it against a womans nature to approach a man she likes, why do i get the feeling even a full century from now or more, women still normally won't approach a guy
@@Soulbooklet Nope, it would show initiative and that the Woman is willing to assume risk and show she is possibly serious. If she cannot be bothered to do that, then she isn't worth our time. Oddly enough, you actually mention the very big problem between Men and Women, and that is that you Women believe being upfront and direct is a problem. Not being upfront is just synonymous with dishonesty. It's not a positive thing, and it's not "feminine".
You don’t understand women, It seems That’s where your father failed you or were you raised by a single mother? Women in general are lead by emotion over logic, and also men and women both have big egos, but since men are generally lead by logic, men will overcome their ego to get what they really want and that’s a woman. Women are lead by emotion, her emotion makes it harder for her to by pass her fear of rejection. Women emotion leads them to avoid confrontation, and that’s is the reason men are the protectors of women, we men protect women from being hurt physically and mentally. What you are asking is for women to have masculine traits: you asking women to be dominant, assertive, go getter, face fears like a man and That’s not what women are, and any woman that has masculine attributes is a turn off for a straight man in general. Us straight men are attracted to femininity and those attributes go far from physical traits, it’s character.
The problem women have is that I have a wall. You didn’t want me in your prime years, I don’t want you in your decline years. Im past that point in my life. I enjoy my financial security without extra expenses and liabilities.🤷🏻♂️
@@Soulbooklet Ive been married for 25 years, have 2 grown successful adult children. Im getting ready to retire. You can’t give me advice. I already know more than you do. I know everything about female nature and not fooled or manipulated by it. Today’s women are damaged. I will be closed. If my wife dies before me, I already lived my happily ever after. It makes no sense to get involved with a woman after she gets in her 30’s. Today’s women offer 10X less than their grandmothers while expecting 10X more from men than their grandfathers. Don’t piss down my back and tell me it’s raining. I see everything. Women want a $20K ring, a 50K car, and a $500K house, and in return only offer an old used up kitty.🐈🐱 Men have adjusted and changed direction. Men are not a woman’s retirement anymore. Men have closed themselves off. Men are in love, women are in business. Women need to learn how to respect men and take accountability first themselves. You can’t fool me nor lecture me. I know everything about female nature. Women are their own worse enemy.
It makes me angry when you say you are not built for that. That is hypocrisy. Its 2024 are we not equal? You don't like embarrassment, what kind of excuse is that? And who is better at embarrassing the other, the man or the woman?....nonsense
Please don’t disrespect my Maritza that way. She provides good, honest information and dating advice. She has helped me in my pursuit of a good woman as well.
Just what I can share for you to build your own book of life , maybe I can teach you how to fill your soul with peace , maybe you can learn about good relationships , and just a bit of life balance ❤️
@@tjl5419 my love people see us how we see ourselves . Do you feel good or no ? Are you being your best version or no ? Are you doing everything to look and feel your best . Confidence comes with good work , good health , good emotional support system .
@@Soulbooklet I work out 3 times a week. I feel i look ok but Don t feel happy inside. I feel very lonely and Don t like where I live. I feel lost sometimes. All I do is work and I have nothing to show for it 😔
It's a trap. They can pull back consent at any time afterwards. I can speak to this. About a month after asking and getting the number. Around 3:40 in the video they are being nice that is how I got in trouble. Leave women alone! Don't risk your life or career!
@Soulbooklet my friend women need to look at the risks that men have to take before during and after with associating with women. This happened to me in the US Midwest where ppl have thick skin. I got a phone number got it and got in trouble. Women have tunnel vision of what they want, not the repercussions of their actions as long as they get ahead in life, no empathy. I.E Hypergamy.
You’re so kind my Emanuel . I was kidding …… but I don’t know if I like colaborating, more so because I just respect people’s perspectives but I don’t like speaking bad about anyone or ridiculizing anyone ….so my views dont always coincide with others content 😘
"5 SIGNS A WOMAN GIVES THAT SHE WANTS YOU TO APPROACH HER (100%)🔥🔥🔥": Introduction - The video discusses signs that a woman is interested in being approached by a man. The goal is to help men recognize cues indicating a woman is open to being approached. Key Signs a Woman Wants You to Approach Her 1. Open and Relaxed Demeanor - She will appear more relaxed, not busy or preoccupied. May play with her hair, look around until eyes meet yours, and smile. 2. Repeated Eye Contact - She will make and hold eye contact, looking at you repeatedly. This "visually flirts" and signals her interest. 3. Initiating Conversation - She may ask for the time, a pen, or make small talk as an opportunity to engage you in conversation. This "breaks the ice" for you to keep the conversation going. 4. Using Your Name - If she knows your name, she'll greet you by name and smile each time she sees you to signal familiarity. 5. Stating She's Single - She may verbally state she's single or available to subtly indicate you should ask her out. Key Advice - Moments like these are fleeting so don't miss your chance. Have confidence to approach, say hello, and initiate further conversation. If she engages, lead the interaction and consider asking her out. Rejection is normal so try not to take it personally if she declines. Conclusion - Women give clear nonverbal and verbal signs when they are interested in a man approaching them. Noticing these cues can help men confidently initiate conversations and connections. The video aims to help both men and women improve their flirting and relationship skills.
Mr. blackjack. You really always leave me amazed at your conclusions and summaries, thank you for so much attention to detail. Happy New Year’s and I wish you luck.😘
