Most times most people won't say a thing because they think we have huge egos lol shit rightfully so 😂 good looking people need to support eachother we already recieve enough hate as it is
@@dw3134 looks like someone doesn't think they're attractive. Making girls laugh makes you attractive too. It's not just looks and money. Work with what you have and you'll be okay.
One thing I would add, is that if you're introverted and quiet sometimes people think you're arrogant. I don't think anyone would think an unattractive introverted guy is arrogant.
I get that all the time! I don’t talk much or interact, mainly because I don’t like initiating contact first, but people always assume I’m “antisocial” but that’s not even the case.
that's why i don't assume that anymore. some quiet guys can have a good reason that they are quiet. but it's true that it can also be that they are arrogant. my policy is assume the best then let them prove you wrong.
@@wertpollwertBy who is what you need to be worried about. Some people just be hating. That's why I'm arrogant af and nobody will attempt to check me about it for fear of them getting checked. I have a huge blunt mouth btw and it scares people
@@duke45jp Keep living like that, young buck, and you will definitely get humbled. "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18)
Another sign is women getting frustrated when you ignore their subtle or not so subtle advances. I get that a lot. I had a lot of women throughout the years drop all kinds of hints for months but when they saw I wasn't taking the bait, they switched up on me. It's not even a game to me. If I ignore a woman's advances it's because I'm really not interested.
I told my best female friend “I really like that we are just friends” she started dressing nice and dropping hints that I missed and she ended up getting angry with me and blocking me. I was super stressed at that time in life so I missed out on a really cool girl :/
They expect you to be mind readers... if you're not obvious with it, I won't notice, because girls are weird. They send mixed signals or flirt for sport. So she gotta be direct or so obvious that I can't miss it.... like bending over in front of me when you know I'm looking.. or walking by me and putting a hand on my shoulder or chest... or smiling directly at me when I haven't even said anything funny. I will notice those signs...
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, I am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, I love her so much, i don't know why I am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@@juanderuano8969 Couldn’t have been a beautiful marriage if she left u.. u gotta remember these btchs for everybody.. u sitting up here sad & she sumwhere getting dicked down enjoying life.. fuhk dat shit!! U gotta hold yo chin up & stick yo chest out, show the bihh u better off without her💯 #Factz
#1 sign. You get shocked or offended when a girl doesn't give choosing signals. We're so used to it that when a girl ISNT attracted to us we think something is wrong with us or we look ugly at that moment. #2 sign. Random little girls light up like this 🤩 when they see you, looking at you like you're superman or something 😂 Some older girls do this too but its more toned down. Little kids have no filter and haven't learned the social norms yet
Ya yall reading too much into it😂😂😂💀 u guys will know if a girl likes u trust me. Some of u mf’s be thinking every girl who looks at u must like u or just cuz if they talk to u. Nah they just friendly
🤣🤣 Bro, wtf are you talking about. No matter who you are you will never be 100% when it comes to attracting women any dude that gets attention knows that. And #2 is some hella pedo shit. You weird AF goofy.
I remember as a kid being told I was handsome, but then I had my ugly inner phases where I was repulsed by my own looks, but as I grew passed my teenager years I grew a sense of confidence, plus self worth which can still be challenging for me now‼️
Another sign is that she'll try to hold a conversation with you while her dude is standing right there. I just be respectful and big up the dude and tell them both to have a good day
Bro that happened to me the other day i was sit by myself dressed nice at a indian restaurant right next to this woman with her husband. She struck up Convo about my book and kept trying to carry it and i tried to end it 3 times.
This was my whole life ever since I was young. The worst part are the male haters which sadly I had to deal with they worked hard to make me hate myself but in reality they where jealous people would tell me this but I couldn’t understand how anyone can waste that energy hating on someone.
Heres one, ,,When you walk in to the gym, or club, are women taking “inventory” of you? Watch for this. A woman who finds you attractive will let you know, that she knows that you are there. It may be something as subtle as just a glance, a smile, a second look,,,but it speaks volumes.
A bad thing is i think women have a higher expectation of you when you're attractive with regards to confidence and game/swag. So when you're a bit shy or have no game, its a massive turn off to them. If your handsome, you have to have social skills to go along with it
After highschool I had a glo up physically and mentally. When I got to college, a lot of the female students were attracted to me and dropping signals to me left and right. Im a senior now and I’ve come to understand the different levels of attractiveness in women. One of the things I noticed is some women who are attracted to you will ask you questions like “do you think I’m the type of girl you would date” or make a funny sarcastic line like “ since you’re such a ladies man”.
That’s nice man. I was stupid. Women would tell me “you’re cute” or one time one told me “how is it being handsome?” I assumed they were joking so I didn’t think anything of it, and didn’t make any moves. 🤦♂️
@@dannyhernandez265stop being like that bro. I was in the same situation as you all throughout my 20s/early 30s. I had extreme body dysmoprhia despite being a bodybuilder and being super fit. I’m 38 now and when I look at older pix of myself I realize I was actually good looking.
Another sign that you're an attractive guy is that girls whom you've never met before will know your name. They may even know more about you than just your name because they've been watching you, asking questions, and studying you on the low.
Great stuff bro !! I didn’t know I was very attractive until I started being confident. I just started being super confident recently and I’m a 34 year old men.
That’s great other people that help you feel better about yourself gives you confidence and you start to understand your self worth and have a purpose in life keep it up 😊🙏
I was an attractive kid and still am but when I was younger my peers were bullying me because of that. It only made me realize that at least 70% of humanity is trash not even worth you spitting on them.
I always struggled with male managers because they just dislike me without knowing me. Even had one of them intentionally put my desk away from all the females so that he can flirt without me being around because I made him feel threatened lol.
When i was in highschool i wasnt considered attractive and women treated me poorly and always were more interested in the dude next to me. After a couple of years of lifting and my face and jaw changing overtime i went from repulsive to highly attractive to women, even the most attractive women get very nervous to the point i can sense them being very intimidated, women are afraid to even be near my area and i can sense them being very uncomfortable. I am not complaining but its not always women giving you a bunch of signals and making it easy for you, alot of times they are intimidated to get close to you, talk to you or even show a sign of interest because most women are inherently insecure and in their head they already think you would reject them. It takes alot of courage to even give you signals if youre too attractive
They also assume you got hella woman so they put this wall and try to make it hard for you because they don’t want to feel easy. Meanwhile I’m like just be yourself and let’s se what happens but they overthink it gongs way too much and like you said the insecurities kick it
Lmao bro i just turned 25 and i used to be a shy guy as a kid but ive always been handsome . People have probably said or thought it 1000s of times over th years truth be told. But this is why it is so important to be self assured. No matter what they say or think, we should know our own worth more 💯
@@DTARC_ yeah bro keep looking and eventually the "one" will definitely show up. She will be entirely different from anything you're used to but stand out so brilliant because of it 😂
@@Will.Flavell if you love and accept yourself and god loves and accept you, why care about whether a mere female "rejects" you? She can't reject you if you *accept* yourself
I used to think I was ugly in my 20s/early 30s, a lot of people told me I was hot, sexy, attractive, cute…like I have a lot of stories lol…but due to extreme body dysmorphia I always denied what they said therefore I never made moves. Sometimes I did but my being so self conscious about my looks made me not act in an attractive or confident manner when I actually hung out with these girls. I’m 38 now and when I look at old pictures of myself I get sad because I realize I actually was pretty good looking. Yea let that be a lesson to you younger men. If you take care of yourself (fitness, style, hygiene, hair)…you’re actually more attractive than you realize.
I respect the vid and some points are valid but i feel like some ppl gonna read too much into it. Like they think if any girl starts talking to them they must like them. Some girls are just naturally very friendly or flirty but they dont actually mean it haha. Too many variables to consider bruh and if u are truly confident that person ur unsure ab u should be able to go up to them and ask them ab it.
Tbh .. i know im attractive but watched anyway haha . All u said is correct ! One thing i do for fun .. in the city or gym , look at my phone when i see a nice girl approach and slightly smirk , when the girl gets close look up at her and increase the smirk , alot of the time she will give a proper smile at you as she feels your smirk hit her and cant help herself . Im 41 and it work on girl all ages , young and older . Then u know ur looking good 👌
Attraction to males is based on the women, every men are attractive but some are more attractive to some women and others are less attractive to them, the same people will be less attractive to other women and more attractive to even other women. It's all come down to preference and physical compatibility. Nothing more, nothing less.
If you are truly attractive, you will be getting compliments, the more attractive you are the more compliments you get. I see videos where people wasted 2 signs or reason with the no compliments and getting compliments as a sign. I always laugh because they are basically saying everyone is attractive. That's is just lazy writing,and trying to get subscribers to feel good about themselves.
It depends on WHO compliments you and WHAT they say. If your granny, a female friend or a co-worker calls you just handsome or cute (usually because you asked for it) then it's pretty much worthless. But if a random chick or a girl you know calls you hot or sexy, then it's real af.
Another random sign they do alot. Girls stop in their tracks (deer in headlights look) when they notice you, to gather themselves before approaching you. They giggle for no reason and if they're with their girls they look over looking at them like 'Daymn!' Before looking at me again. They think because they're off to the side we can't see their reactions
#1 #3 are so true. After losing almost 50lbs last year and weight training, I noticed girls would get shy around me, even if they’re around their husband or boyfriend, they will stare and kinda be clumsy etc.. super funny 😆 and another yes.. before I was invisible in public being chubby, after leaning out and getting wider guys are always looking at me angry.. I would literally be pumping gas or at a check out line and people would be angry at me
Bro I just started working out and I noticed the angry looks. 🤣 I barely have any muscle definition and people’s insecurities just come out. I get what you’re saying completely. There’s a lot of envy and insecurity out here. 😭
Lmao man I’m a gym trainer and the looks be crazy I’m not gonna even go into detail about it but the more the women look the more the men get intimidated by you
I was at Starbucks one day and there was this guy with his girlfriend. When they got up to leave he gave me this funny look. His eyes for a second looked like two flying saucers. He got insecure and jealous
This could sometimes be how girlfriend and boyfriend are related to each other. By accident with out knowing it. Because some people are attractive to people who look like them
If you make women nervous or uncomfortable when talking to them you are top level atrractive lol model type or close to it you will also recieve alot of hate from alot of people even your own family
Bro that last one is so true. I know it because at my last job there was this woman who really wanted a baby by me and once on my day off I went in to cash a check and she was there. I was looking good like I always did, I’m standing in line and I hear her yell but as if I were Harry Styles and she rushed me and bear hugged me while still yelling mind you, and I was there confused but it was nice to have that type of validation in front of the world I suppose. I’m grateful for that kind of validation because I know most men would pay to have that attention.
Man you are the truth bc I go through all of these things and more at my job and with friends and family members SMH but I learned not to pay attention I realized they don't like them selves if they hate on another that much
Most women assume that you are a player when you look too good (have a nice body and face). So game for men like this is different. You have to build rapport by showing you care for their status and personality. By caring for their status is more of not seeing them as a hoe or only for sex, since she’s not coming off that way to you. That ties into their personalities b/c you should be focusing more on asking her about herself so she feels safe and comfortable engaging enough to trust being alone w/ you away from the public where y’all are interacting like linking up later at your place or hers. Hate is going to come it’s part of the game. Ppl will always want your attention or friendship and ugly and out shape ppl will always have an issue b/c ppl w/ bad bodies are always mad about something. Edit: you are overly lucky w/ the law. I had a case last year and I was lucky enough to beat it. It was based on false accusations and my lawyer and the judge and jury didn’t believe a guy like me would do that.
The 5 signs to know if you're attractive are as follows... 1 you are me 2 you look just like me 3 If you're my twin brother 4 people say you're as handsome as me 5 your name is Macka
I noticed that too 3:40 It also depends on your resting face. I tend to intimidate people off first glance and so I try to be more open and forthcoming in conversation. Working at a gas station for so long and being the oldest of both my families it's nothing to turn on that group charisma and you see people's heads spin when you do. A college professor two different business owners and salesman all asked what I was doing at that job due to my ability to go extrovert mode. I think if you're a super shy dude like I was, just doing that really opens your eyes as to how people perceive you and how you can manipulate that to your advantage. They assume you can' t be a smart knowledgeable dude if you look good
I agree. I’ve been told I’m good looking and later in life did a phd and had never worked out why I have been so hated in acadamia even though I’m not that bad
Idk about the dudes one, I’m a good looking guy and I seem to get compliments off dudes constantly more than anything else, never received any hate from another dude. Best way to know ur attractive is if girls actually approach you asking if you’re single when you’re out. Or if you get tonnes of tinder matches and they message first fairly often.
I’d say you must dress very model like and spend a lot of time and money on your appearance. Guys that look like they’re going to expose you to the “better things in life” get a lot of aggressive hitting from women and it doesn’t matter how attractive you are. Guys with nice cars, jewelry, clothes get that easily. I’m from LA have locs and have always been called androgynous get a lot of attention from women, but not like that. I dress plain and hippy like. I try to meet people who are hippies that don’t care about money so the type of women that come up to me just want to talk, they don’t ask if I’m single because it doesn’t matter, being around me is good enough for them
For the guy that think they're handsome, the reason why you get ignored because you don't have the conversation that goes with your looks as soon as you say something she knows right then you are a LAME just because you hit the gym everyday are got some money that doesn't make you qualified to get the girls. Conversation rules the nation you control the mind you get the behind 💯 free game fellas
Damn, I'm only just being 18 juggling work and college and looking back at it I've had many dudes hate me in middle school I didn't know. When you put it like that it's kinda world changing
I was at old navy shopping and this woman approached me and took my number. I was visibly flustered lol, and she knew it. Called me sexy too. I had just left the gym tho
I hate the Spotlight affect Because i dont know how to handle it I get the stares STARES. I feel like they sucking me energy so i keep it coy. I go with the flow with a high crack a smile and leave.
From my perspective, as a female, it isn't all about physical attraction. A guy with a deep, bararatone voice is very sexy and attractive. I also find guys with southern accents to be very sexy.
Women of all ages and nationalities try to talk to me daily since I was young , I always think and feel bad for men who never get to experience being courted by a woman or visibly turned on
Bro this is gold. The last one hit home for me last year. Man I got my dumbass caught trying to cheat a drug test for a job. The lady taking my urine saw that it was way too hot. lol she knew I tried to get fake urine in. Told me I wasn’t doing it right then proceeded to pass me. Man I was shocked. Lady risked her job to help me and she didn’t know me from a can of paint.
I've experienced the getting flustered thing a lot. In college, when I was in the cafeteria, this one girl dropped her tray when she saw me. I was about to help her clean it up, but she was so nervous and embarrassed, she rushed to the floor to clean it up.
Aura is the main thing. And often when i see men with their girls and the females checking u out. They be keeping their girls closer into them. Like they think u tryna steal them or sum🤣. And the eye contact shit is real, u can see them girls eyes lighten up.
nah the boy part is so true man, ever since the Covid 19 I’ve been wearing a mask in school for the time Covid was around so 2020 go 2022 and now that school started I took off the mask and every boy would just do what you said man 😂
And another thing I’ve been pulling prolly more girls than most boys in the school and I didn’t even think I could pull women cuz I always thought I was un attractive.
Other dudes hating is spot on. I don’t go 2 the gym 2 pick up girls I go 2 the gym 2 work out and take my ass home.Girls notice that my gym fits are always matching and shoes always clean. I shower before I go 2 the gym and women always hover around asking me what I’m wearing because I smell good. I get a lot of attention and I don’t even try 2 get it. I keep my headphones on jamming 2 my latest back home music (Nas,AZ,Jadakiss,Fabulous,The lox) and so on.Dudes be in the cut looking bummy trying 2 figure me out.They assume I guess that I know these women but I don’t. I move different.Im a NY nigga in MS.😮
been getting all of these lately since i leveled up from cute to sexy. however, i noticed the only chicks who have the guts to compliment/approach are the 9/10 baddies who think they the cats ass. otherwise for the most part girls will be flustered around you, cant hold eye contact, fidgeting with their hands, sometimes just non stop rambling, fixing their hair etc
Its like walking into a park full of pigeons, makes everyone just flap their wings ... Fun part is insecure male competition, I hang around that part of the game more than talking to shy women 😂😂
I have NEVER seen or heard other brothas get upset or insecure about another brotha being handsome or focused but I have seen awhole lotta females do it especially with decent brothas yup they get real beside themselves with jealousy and anger as if I hurt them or something, now I have seen that with my own eyes yup I have
I think another sign is when women are quicker to take liberty with your body and/or invade your personal space (not always). For me women will do things like complement my skin (dark smooth no facial hair) then rub my arm or my face and more. Sometimes its koo I guess. But not gonna lie its kinda feels weird being objectified by women.
@@Jay2Wolf its also sometimes a bit concerning for me. Because though I am 31 no one can really tell from my appearance. Most people assume I'm high-school age or early collage age (like 18ish). I'm also like 6 foot even but 120 pounds soaking wet. Plus I can't grow facial hair. So when an older woman that I don't know and isn't aware of my age flirts with me it be making me wanna give em a side eye. 🤨
I'm one who has struggled with that. I've never felt I was attractive, but I get signs that I am, many though are ambiguous. I'm gay, but I get almost all of these signs from women. And I'm kind of slow to realize that a woman is interested in me. It'll just dawn on me at some point (a day or longer later!), like "...wait, was she trying to hook up with me" or "..."was she asking me on a date (in a round about way)?" I've felt bad on a number of occasions, because I did not realize that a woman was into me, and I was just giving them nothing, or worse, unintentionally giving them hope. The thing is, I used to be pretty overweight. Then I lost weight, and I noticed people in general were treating me very differently. But I was/am not used to it. I guess inside I'm still that overweight and virtually ignored guy. But with guys, it's even more subtle, for obvious reasons. Many are afraid (even today) to show interest in another guy. Anyway, interesting video.
