5 Signs You Are MORE Attractive Than You Think 

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A girl in school cried because she was made to sit next to me. Yup, I am attractive. :D

Summary for busy people: 1. Receiving regular compliments; 2. Halo effect (people value your opinion over others's); 3. People mirror your body language; 4. People want to know your opinion and ask you questions; 5. You have hobbies, passions, activities, and therefore you are more interesting than others.

Well, the bathroom mirror doesn’t break when I walk past it. So I suppose that’s a good sign

1. Compliments: None 2. People Value your Opinion: No 3. People Mirror your Body Language: Mo 4. People ask you many question: No 5. Hobbies: atleast i have this. Looks like I failed these signs overall..lol

I'm 0 for 5 💪

I've always felt that I was pretty low on the attractive scale. After watching this, I know that I'm lower than originally assumed.

Confident people don’t just receive compliments, but they give them. Go out of your way to genuinely compliment others, and you’ll immediately be more attractive to people and boost your own confidence.

Welp got told in 5 ways I’m not that attractive 💀

I like to think that I'm so attractive that all the women around me think I'm out of their league.

Courtney should do a "5 signs your are LESS attractive than you think" video

The vast majority of men can count the total number of compliments they have received on one hand (or no hands). It's so uncommon that if you were to ask a man if he's ever been complimented, he can tell you every single detail (date, time, exact quote, who it was, etc.) about that one compliment he got because it was such a rare and memorable occurrence.

I'll add in my two cents, I guess. I think most people fall in that middle category, the one where a great personality makes you good-looking. A not-so-great personality makes you not so good-looking. Always learn, always work on yourself, and most people will find you attractive.

Here’s my personal list as a guy who’s been looxsmaxing for the past year 1. Girls will get nervous when talking to you 2. You can get away with things more at work 3. Girls don’t find you repulsive when you’re forward (confident) with them and are engaged in your conversations (there is nuance) 4. Girls will give you double takes i.e. at the gym, mall, store, etc. 5. Girls will put themselves in your vicinity 6. Girls will stare at you from mirrors at the gym 7. Men and women will enjoy talking to you and go up to you if you frequent at a place 8. Older women are a lot more forward with their interests in you i.e. compliments, breaking touch barrier 9. Straight and Gay men find you attractive or give you compliments 10. Girls adjust themselves in your presence (hair, clothes, body, etc.) Just things I’ve noticed that never happened to me before hitting the gym consistently, fitting better into new/stylish clothes, new hair style, fragrance rotation, etc., walking confidently with better posture, etc.

I’ve seen men who are not physically attractive at all, get dates with women who could be models. All because they are excellent at communication.

I found out other men find me attractive with that mirror effect thing...every time I punch a guy in the face, they try to do the same thing right back. Thanks for helping me understand!

Well I get guys complimenting me all the time, the boys got me 🤣

today i have learned that most of the time people think i'm pretty attractive once they get to know me but my social anxiety often get's in the way of them being able to see my attractive qualities.

I've received a compliment on my outfit every day so far that I've tried to dress well. From men and women! It's boosted my confidence and your season essentials videos have helped me a lot!

I would also argue that attractiveness in its subjectivity, can be influenced by how you care for and hold yourself, which can be impacted by your confidence.

Thank you for sharing some info about this situation. As someone with a tremendously negative self view, it helps a lot!

I’ve been told that I am handsome and attractive but I don’t realize it. Your videos have helped me focus on knowing my self worth, and improve confidence and self esteem. 3 months post break up and I’ve lost 48 pounds💪🏼👊🏼

I ask people questions because I am a curious person. But even more so, people LOVE talking about themselves, so I give them the openings to do so. At the end of the one-sided conversation, I often hear a person say, "that was a great talk we've had!" They have little to no awareness that the conversation was all about them.

Your last point is very correct, Courtney Ryan .... Nice , helpful video, Courtney Ryan !!!

I would also add that if you're more attractive than you think, you will rarely receive compliments. People will think you already know you're attractive, and won't give you compliments because they don't want to boost your ego any more.

Dude, if a man has received more than 5 compliments in his entire life, he's good looking.

I’m hella attractive and confident but don’t get compliments nor approached until I approach the women because they just assume I was out of their league.

LOVE your content and energy keep it up !

I have no idea if I’m simply too intimidating to get compliments or my demeanor makes me less attractive.

Lol, good to confirm I've never been attractive as I have never received a compliment in my adult life.

Thank you Courtney and it is hard to keep up with all these dating topics 😊

Thanks for this, Courtney!

This definitely is going to have me be looking out more

I guess based on this, I'm even less attractive than I thought. Because I have NONE of that.

Sign #1, you have options. This makes you even more attractive because it's reflected in your overall attitude. You're not simping over one woman because you don't have to. This comes across as confidence

BEING ATTRACTIVE IS FINE,BUT NO MONEY, NO HONEY

I’m not a bad looking dude… but a guy I work with is “destroy your marriage” good looking. He and I have the same name. When we answer the phone at work, we answer with our names. When women think they are speaking to him, but it’s me… I get real insight into how women treat men that they find irresistible. Us normal mortals are not living the same life lol

Always dropping gems👏

Hey hey! Another weekend, another banger 🤩

Thanks. I learned from your video that I am not attractive at all. Back to video games then.

Very big positive thing - shirt does not open too wide or deep.

The last one, I have TONS of hobbies. Does it make me more interesting? Yes, does it help me pick up chicks? No, not really. Then again, I do those hobbies for me because I like doing them, I don't do them to impress girls. So I really don't care if girls don't flock to me despite all my hobbies.

Important things: 0:31 First Thing: Receiving Regular Compliments; 2:43 Second Thing: People Value Your Opinion Over Others; 4:07 Third Thing: People Mirror Your Body Language; 4:55 Fourth Thing: People Ask You Many Questions; 6:10 Fifth Thing: You Have Hobbies, Passion, Interests, and 7:48 to summarize all the told here. I agree with all what you have told here Courtney. Additional things could be these: Sixth Thing: People Like Your Charisma, Or Perhaps Taking The Initiative (but this can be partly used for second thing that you have told); Seventh Thing: Taking Care Of Yourself (mentally and physically). Thank you very much for your wisdom Courtney. It means a lot ❤💙🤍.

1. Confidence 2. Good sense of humor 3.Kindness 4. Good attitude toward other people 5. Be a smartass

Every time I go to the same restaurant. The cook always calls me “Pretty” even the workers calls me pretty. (Every single time) so I guess I’m attractive than I think.

I would rather think of myself as being unattractive and have someone tell me I am nice looking than to think of myself as being attractive and have someone say I am not nice looking.

I have followed you for a long time and your channel has grown over the years but I appreciate the wisdom you give.

Thanks for this content. I've really taken benefits from you courtney ❤👍

The thing about attractive men that most people don't talk about and is something we are constantly on the receiving end off is people's negative assumptions about us specially women. I can't count the amount of times I've gotten the cold shoulder from people just because of my looks. Men throw hissy fits and cheap shots while women are always assuming and thinking negatively about attractive guys. For me, approaching women feels unnatural because I'm not used to it and when I do it I gets awkward from the get go. And you can't even show genuine interest because you come off as needy so is like a lose-lose situation we are in. You can be attractive and still have a hard time.

This is very helpful for those men who are super attractive, but completely oblivious about it. So... um... Cloud Strife, I guess?

Love your advice and comments listen a lot to you ,thanks Courtney 😮God Bless you ❤

I think your channel and the things you taught me about me being a woman and realizing the beauty of finding someone truly special to yourself. Not for sex or things like that but for love, saved me from the last guy I dated. I was in a very bad relationship that was toxic and abusive in all kinds of ways. Got to the point were I was at the ER a few times a week because of him. I had low to zero self respect. I hated myself so much that the abuse he did to me felt deserving. Im 23 years old and all of this happened about 3 years ago, since then it’s been hard to date and I was really struggling after I left and he went to jail. I did things I’m not proud of , I got into drugs, drinking a lot, and fell into prostitution. I was in a dark place and I was really really struggling. I came across your channel about 2 years ago during the same time of the drug, drinking, prostitution etc-and fell almost in love with your confidence and the confidence you have knowing your self worth. It sort of shifted me into a different perspective towards myself. Your videos helped me improve the view I had of not only myself but your own self worth and the love you have for yourself as well. I stoped drinking, stoped doing drugs, I didn’t go to parties with the people I did before got a job, got my education back on track. And in the same time span I met my future husband who I’m engaged to. And we actually met at a bus-stop (how romantic hahaha ) We always took the same bus at the same time cause I worked at the supermarket and he worked at the the restaurant directly across the street. He asked me out and now 2 years later we’re engaged. I was very open with him form the starts the things I went through and how my life was I didn’t want to hide anything, learned that from your channel actually that it’s important to be honest. I mean it hasn’t been easy, but we made it work. We talked a lot trying to be honest with each other and really growing with each other not against each other. We worked together to be together. So I wanted to just thank you, even if you don’t read it I wanted to write and tell how much this channel and how you helped me turn my life around 😊

My Girlfriend from High School Ghosted me. Ghosting Hurts So Much, I wish I Knew It 😢 I've Still Not Cured After 13 Years 🤧 I'm done With Life 😞

For me speaking slowly and being direct when speaking to a woman is very powerful.

I have medium-long curly hair, and I work at a cafe where I receive compliments about my curls almost daily. While I appreciate the kind words, I’ve started to feel like my hair is the only notable thing about me.

I like the fifth one the most! It's true, especially for guys.

I experience all of these things regularly on a daily basis. The irony is that attractive young women who probably like you are the last people to give you compliments, express interest in your opinions or hobbies when you initially meet them. Many women who are attracted to you will try to act like they don't like you and you aren't all that. But their eyes, body language and actions tell a different story. If anything, you have to be involved with a woman before she starts singing your praises.

Yes Courtney women ask me lots of questions such as what do I do for a living, how much do I have in the bank, how big is my house, what sort of car do I drive, how much money does my family have and how will it be split amongst my siblings when the old folks go. My oh my I feel incredibly ATTRACTIVE. My confidence is sky high!!! I'm a STAR!!!

Morning Young Lady 🌹! Thanks for your tips.

At least I have hobbies and interests, I'm not lacking ambition. I guess that is a good start. I just feel like the most average looking guy in any public setting.

Your always giving great information good woman

Is party time we all want to party with courtney! I bring pina coladas!!

I watched Queer Eye for the Straight Guy in highschool and they told me to put suntan lotion on every day. I'm now 35 and when I look around at my peers, I'm very glad I did so.

Whenever I receive compliments on my appearance or scent or whatever I say to myself " yeah , but looks at the effort, research etc . That I put into it, under the guidance of Courtney Ryan, ha ha, I'm not wearing Bleu de Chanel in spring by accident

Love watching your videos Courtney, and you inspired me to get back on that horse and start dating again, even though the dating scene for Men my age is hard, I'm 51 years old

Scored a 1/5 thanks to a few hobbies and passions. If there are any guys on here that actually receive compliments or who are ever asked for their opinions (or at least do not receive instant backlash when they express them), shout-out below. I'd be curious to know your circumstances that facilitate that.

I want to say thank you for your content. It inspired me to dress better and take care of myself. Following your fashion advice the other day (cleanly shaved, brand new white dress shirt, sleeves rolled up, fitting jeans and a simple gold chain pendant) I rolled into a Cars and Coffee event. The man at the entrance told me "you are dressed way too nice for this event." I was caught so off guard that all I could do was say I was sorry. In reality I wore it was because I was also picking up my new suit that was just tailored. I think my grandma will call me handsome. 😂

This lowered my confidence :(

Let's go guys! Apart from the last point, which is kinda useless, I fail all other four! Yay for me!

I've always been a low-profile guy. Growing up all I cared about about was playing video games in my spare time (which I do know regret). Being shy, quiet and not a sports guy, I was unconfident and thus was not keen on going to parties until I was 17 or so. I am 26, now, and despite having changed (take care of my appearance, and practice sports) I do still have reserves concerning me that prevent me, for example, to get to woman I am into and talk to her without messing it up. For example, my tone of voice (which is not deep) and the fact that I do not look as old as I am.

Thank you Courtney just not to convince myself I’m attractive since I don’t have those points.

Here in Boca raton, most women are looking for a tall rich guy that throws money around.... it doesn't help me that I am a short 5' 6".

Communication and confidence is what makes u the most attractive.

In certain ways, attractiveness can be subtle, and other times it will seem more obvious than others...however...while it might seem like confidence is always the clear cut answer- sometimes that's not always the case...but I don't believe that is anything to be ashamed of; and I think that being able to handle constructive criticism (which I still struggle with sometimes) is the fundamental building block for effective communication and being able to forgive and feel wanted and accepted; even in the most impulsive of times. The natural curiosity we as people have certainly can't be ignored either - along with dopamine playing a role in even the most basic concept of thought. However, it does take experience to know who really values you and who doesn't - and tbh, it should get talked about more often in the general public. But that's just me anyway.

I keep my standards pretty low, so I'm never disappointed! 😀

Hello Courtney! Love your content Can you do more content targeting women. Would love to see a makeup tutorial, similar tips you give men to women. Thank you!!

I recently had someone come into my gym 3 hours earlier than he normally would to meet me. He always sees my name on the sign in sheet at around 5am every day. So he came in at 5am one day just to meet me.

If you see people looking at you, if people are nervous around you, and if they get shy.

The only thing that people are interested in the many interests and hobbies I have. I am attempting to tell short stories of my adventure to keep them interested. Of course they are interested in my stories but not joining or doing them with me.

Well this rules out 99.9 % of the common man. She is validating exactly what most of us already know… Not a Chad?…don’t waste your time

I don't think Courtney Ryan is talking about Men here. 😀😀😀

I mean, I got the last one, but that’s about it 😂

Hey, Courtney and everyone.

Growing up kind ugly, I swear I felt so duped when I grew into my looks a wee bit and some people showed interest in a non friend way 😂 Definitely got the ‘you’re so funny’ and ‘you’ve got a great personality!’ Before.

I always get compliments from people whenever I wear my suit and tie.

You're so pretty Courtney ❤

hello courtney ryan and how your own day and night going and have you thought about starting your own podcast for youtube and spotify with your husband and the girls you have in your own videos in the future

Thanks for what you do.

I just don't know how to escape my own feelings. I always think I don't deserve to be happy and think I am unworthy of social connection/companionship.

In Psychology, it's "Self-Actualization" you talk about. Unfortunately in many instances, it's another psychologic theory: "Self-Fulfilling Prophecy" --after continuous negative experiences that generate a negative feeling about oneself, continually reinforced, leads the person to actually think negative thoughts about oneself and to act accordingly, in the negative way. If you continually treat a person as inferior(creep), from continued negative comments and actions, don't be surprised if he starts acting as an inferior. Also called the Pygmalion effect from the fictional work( in a positive sense), when a peasant woman selling flowers is treated as a noble lady, and she eventually becomes a noble lady.

When people have asked my opinion on things, it's usually in a group setting where i've been keeping quiet and they're just trying to include me in the discussion. I'm a brilliant musician, but women dismiss me before they can find that out.

I rarely get compliments, but all the rest are true.

I look like Shrek in photos and videos, but I’ve had random women stop me in public to tell me I’m handsome, it hard for me to believe because I think I look decent in the mirror.

I went to a date after watching this video. She also watched the same video. Now we are married .

compliments: rarely, if ever. opinions: yea, only because I'm smart mirror: not that I've noticed asking questions: yea, but only when they want my help hobbies: not many and mostly introverted stuff so i guess I'm not more attractive than i thought i was

Everything you mentioned rarely has ever happened or applied to me. Guess that is telling me something also. Trying to say it’s their loss isn’t working much anymore.

Whelp, always glad to know I'm as ugly as I perceive myself to be.

Confidence and security are the most attractive traits I've found people appreciate in me recently. I've always had confidence issues due to upbringing and childhood trauma but when exposed to a new environment in college and social gatherings, people thought I was confident and attractive. People can see the stiffness and awkwardness in you. Maybe if you're struggling like I did, try not to affirm your struggles and hide them. Slowly but surely you'll get to a very liberating confidence. Think positive thoughts only, and nip the negative ones immediately. Be critical about yourself, but do no beat yourself up. Bring yourself up. We all got this trying to be better :)) P.S. this means no more/ much less of self deprecating humor :))

I guess “6/10” could be taken as a compliment? In a perfect world, I’m good looking

Me looking in the mirror and analyzing handsome. I’m handsome. That’s good enough for me.