STRANGE Things That Make Men Hot 

When a woman is jogging, or running with a ponytail and her hair bounces back-and-forth. When a woman moves her hair out of her face after she looked down, When a woman is polite, cordial and act with Grace towards other people. That’s all I’ve got right now.

I've done the backwards baseball cap and the forward baseball cap experiment for many months, and the results are: NOBODY pays attention to me LOLOL :D

Nose ring = turn off.

My ex dressed well, stylishly without affectation. She is from Hawaii, had taken hula as a girl, and was very feminine. One thing I love to see women do is throw their heads back and laugh heartily, naturally and without thought. Women who are naturally feminine move like cats and are a joy to watch; it's poetry in motion. Regarding this video: it's just a joy and heartwarming to hear ANY woman speak well or admiringly of men these days. It's a breath of fresh air. Keep up the good work, Courtney. Much appreciated.

1. What I like to call the “target run outfit”. Usually a messy ponytail, leggings, and a hoodie/shirt. There’s something about being able to be hot even while being nonchalant about it. 2. Similar to the lower back touch, when in close proximity in a crowded space,her hugging my arm. 3. Answering the phone after the first ring 😂

the usual disclaimer applies - none of these things are attractive in themselves women are just reminiscing about/imagining a guy they already like with these things. when men say they like sun dresses they're thinking of the early 20s hot blonde christian girl not some flabby 50 y/o. straight women are attracted to large masculine bodies that indicate health/strength/dominance and straight men are attracted to feminine bodies that exhibit signs of health/reproductive capacity. accessories aren't going to turn a 'no' into a 'yes'.

I actually like how honest and funny the girl at the start is. Honesty even if weird at times is attractive as a quality to me. The nicely innocent and fun video is great in a sea of negativity that the internet can sometimes be.

You being married to the watch guy somehow makes total sense. That's awesome

Weirdly-specific-things about women that I find attractive: -When they get excited about holding a baby -When they cry about happy things -When they laugh (and it doesn't sound like a pterodactyl or a Mack truck - this can be real hit-or-miss) -When they sit on a couch/chair with their legs curled up to the side

I mean lets be honest, first thing first: be handsome looking, the Rest is history 😂😂😂

As a military man, I would say the backwards baseball cap says you are in Special Operations building a trench. But a forward-facing baseball cap means you are a special operator on Mission. There is a Delta Force feel with a forward cap. It is also used to protect your identity. A backwards cap means you are not in combat.

No nose rings, ladies.

being strange is my middle name🫡

As they say, "People are strange, when you're a stranger"

Love a girl who can take the piss out of herself and have a laugh. Love a girl who listens with their eyes and locks their gaze on you. Love a girl who dresses modestly, shows that she has self esteem and doesn't need the attention. Love a girl who laughs at my stupid Dad jokes. Thanks for the Vid Courtney. It was very refreshing to hear, as us blokes can be quite oblivious to the suttle hints.

I love how you keep mentioning your husband and the fondness in your voice when you do

I've known about the shuffling cards one for a while. It makes you look like the coolest guy in the room when you can effortlessly shuffle cards.

I don’t wear ball caps but if I did, I would never wear them backwards because you’re (Courtney) the classy type of girl I want to attract.

as a man i dont really get many compliments, however I still remember the first I ever got. I posted on my Instagram as a story a selfie of me wearing a cap backwards, my crush at the time replied saying she really liked my style with the cap and it suits me a lot. That was like 7-8 years ago, I still think about it to this day.

Looking forward to implementing some of these

Thanks. Courtney for the insight! Your wonderful!

I enjoy watching videos for self-improvement thank you Courtney Ryan This is a a big help appreciate the upload

😂😂Your instant look toward the camera when you 100% agree with the point

To quote from one of many Heath Ledger's legendary lines from The Dark Knight: "Let's put a smile on that face..."

Love your reactions C!❤

The reality is, women probably won't notice these details if they don't find the guy handsome from the get go. But when you find someone hot, anything they do can potentially be sexy lol. Card shuffling, yes, never realized how hot that is until now!

Hi Courtney! I am finally fully healed from my breakup from my now ex-fianceé. It took months to do so, but I did. I feel free, I feel out from under a giant black cloud. Going forward, if a girl asks me about calling or dating her, I’ll go for it. It’s such a feeling of joy and happiness, having broken free from the pain and heartbreak for the last time.

I was not aware I am subscribed to both your and your husbands' channels :) As a watch guy, I have been following Teddy's channel for years now. All the best for both of you. It is great to see, what you both are doing in completely different subject matters, but with similar unpretentious class. Well done!

Woman here. None of these would make or break my feelings about a guy but my personal opinion is as follows… Things I like: - The hands - The back-touch (but only if I’m already really comfortable with him-otherwise the shiver up my spine is not a good one) - The watch is alright; it doesn’t do much for me though Things I don’t like: - The backwards cap I don’t care about the other two

No bc the gentle lower back touch was oddly specific but 1000000% SPOT ON 👏🏼

Thank you so much!!! Luv Teddy.

Nice to see the Seiko bump. Good stuff Courtney and I love Teddy's channel too of course!

I find it really attractive when a woman naturally displays very classy and elegant mannerisms. It shows confidence, sophistication, self-acceptance and like she'll be able to provide a stimulating and intellectual conversation, but that's just me.

Courtney, thank you for your videos. I enjoy them and I'm an old married guy trying to stay relevant for my wife's sake. I'm really old fashioned so I can't think of anything "weird" that is attractive to me. I like when a woman is sweet, kind, and a little shy as opposed to "sassy". I like it when they feel the need to fix my collar or straighten my tie. As mentioned earlier by someone else, I love it when a woman is running with a ponytail and it is bouncing. Very feminine. I love it when they wear bright colors and clothes that look very soft but also relatively modest (not showing too much skin but enough to be interesting). Maybe this is weird: When they are wearing a neckless and they pull it up to their mouth and sort of toy with it in their mouth. I assume this draws my attention to their mouth. Oh, I do like when a woman is really passionate about talking about something and her facial expressions are very pronounced and emotional (in a positive way). That energy is very attractive to me. Pretty normal stuff I guess.

I had no idea you were Teddy's wife, been a viewer of his RU-vid channel for a while, very informative young man and seems an all round good guy, I stumbled on to your channel recently also very good thank you both for excellent contents, congratulations to you both and all the best for your future together , you seem well matched in my opinion.

Things that women do: I knew a girl who had taken ballet for many years in her youth. Now in her late twenties, when she was waiting in line or otherwise bored, without thinking about it she would do these little toe stands and go in and out of a ballerina pose. It was a quirky little habit she had that was absolutely adorable!

I need to get back to wearing watches. I went through a watch phase right out of college, and lots of women at the office complimented them. As for weird things women do that I find attractive, a FORWARD baseball cap with the ponytail pulled through the back makes me weak 😂

There is something to the card shuffling thing! My dad taught me how to shuffle cards when I was a kid!! And whenever I shuffle, women and men tend to be wowed by it, like "where did you learn to shuffle cards like that"?!?😮

The baseball cap thing only works if the guy is ALREADY attractive. The cap is simply an accessory and it doesn't make the guy. This is a fact.

Women with long hair always looks for me more beautiful, than those with short hair. Just my humble opinion.

When women put their hair up into a pony tail or undoing a braid/ pony tail and doing the hair head scratch and flip afterwards. ( shows confidence and pure femininity at its peak).

The way my wife explained the lower back touch to me is that, when i would put my hand on her lower back it made her feel like i was guiding her. If i did it on her upper back it makes her feel like I'm rushing/pushing her. She did say that she loves it when i put my hands on her hips. Don't do that to a stranger though.

When I use to wear a baseball cap, it was mainly because of my hair was messy and didn't get a haircut. The only times I turned the cap backwards was because when riding bike or on a moped, the cap won't get blown off by the wind. Or, I have it backwards just to help cover the back of my neck area from the sun.

I agree with everything you said in this video. As for your being slightly embarrassed at your enjoying a man shuffling cards, BUSTED!!! 😂😂😂😂😂👍

I love when a woman processes information in a positive way.

“I’m married to the watch guy” 😂

I discovered your channel just days ago but I've known of your husband's channel for at least 5 years so imagine my surprise finding out who he is to you! Btw, you have a very nice way about you. Your natural poise and class is refreshing and quite rare these days so I can see why your channel is so successful.

I let out some laughter when you were talking about the baseball cap. I used to always wear my cap forward while younger, but I noticed that I started reversing it when I got fitted caps, I think because the bill was much heaver in comparison to a foam cap or light weight cap. It becomes almost a balancing thing where it feels like it was meant to be worn in reverse. I also tend to get more headaches when wearing it forward. It's an anomaly in the matrix.

Where do you get those backwards caps? All the ones I see at the store have the bill in front. 🤔

a vast majority of the women i have had relationships with claimed that they loved my dancing. my ex wife still insists that was the catalyst for her falling in love with me, and even told me the other day "i miss dancing". i guess her new husband doesn't. go figure.

My wife tells me my perceived IQ drops 25 points when I wear a baseball cap backwards (which I NEVER do other than to tease her.)

Teddy!!! I have been following Teddy for years, never knew. Good luck with the new store by the way!

I've been out and about today and havd noticed woman and girls are smilling at me more than usual which does great for my confidence to attract the ladies I want

I love videos that you share with us and take benefits from you ❤👍

Ok, new fave content maker. I love Teddy's content, nice to meet you, Courtney!

Hey!! I didn’t know Teddy’s your husband!! Congratulations! Quality with quality! Excellent!! So happy for both of you!!

Hi Courtney, I ‘ve always thought a woman’s hair pulled through the back of a base ball cap is super cute when appropriate 👍

I've been following Teddy Baldassarre for a while, and love his content. It makes perfect sense to enjoy your content as well

The bit about shuffling cards hit home. It's all about the hands. I'm no movie star, and although I try to appear polished, I ain't going to be in GQ anytime soon. So I'd mostly be easy to overlook. And then I pick up a tool and go to work on my motorcycle or head out to the backyard where I'm custom building a deck myself. Or I pick up the guitar and strum and sing on key. Those are game changers for a relatively ordinary guy in a dad bod.

I wear an analog watch sometimes, digital watch sometimes, sunglasses all the time (I’m in SW Florida), no hat sometimes, baseball cap foreword usually, more often a visor, can’t remember when I last dealt a hand of cards, use the lower back nudge effectively and always get a great smile when I put my elbow out for my date to put her arm through when we’re walking in a parking lot or along the street to a restaurant.

Courtney your next video could be. "Men reacting to the strange things that women think make men hot or makes them a 10" Now that would be a hoot.

Great content. With that said, I've concluded that women appreciate pretty much anything and everything, if you can be charming about it.

I do the backwards ball cap at the gym because my glasses get fogged up the normal way 😅

My hat game is nice. I wear it forward and get compliments or questions about the hat sometimes too.

Yup size of his bank account 😂😂😂

Things men need to do #7949 Things women need to do #1 to infinity: just exist...

The sunglasses tip works for me with my normal glasses. Of course, they're also transition lenses, so maybe that counts for both.

Love your husband’s channel , my favorite watch enthusiast

2050...A Zombie smile makes you more attractive!🤷‍♀️ it never ends

These are great, even though I am married and not looking to attract anyone, but I still can try to make the Mrs. happy too I guess. BTW, I find women without makeup/push-up bras etc. most attractive. Athletic clothing is an added bonus (especially if they are actually fit).

Just subbed to your hubby's channel. I have a gold colored Citizen Eco watch and I love it.

This is an interesting list. I dont wear ball caps, because Ive got good hair. I agree with the watch tho. I have a cool collection of watches. I didnt know your hubby has a watch store. I will definately check it out and hopefully I find something I like!

Backwards baseball cap = the white bread version of a durag.

I think the overarching common theme in the things they are saying are hot, is competency. Essentially showing that you are skilled in some way which exudes some amount of subconscious confidence.

I have a mechanical watch that I just love. It's simple, analog, and goes with everything. Omega Seamaster Terra Aqua. Not too small, not to big.

I always wear a watch and a few years ago got a free gift from a watch dealer who was phasing out a “medium pricey” digital watch brand. It’s the nicest watch I ever owned and I like the look; I’ve even had a few men compliment it! Hey I can tell time with an analog watch but what the hell?

Things I find attractive in women: 1) Blushing. Modesty is so attractive 2) A stifled laugh. A good sense of humor and self-control 3) Saying thank you. A little bit of appreciation goes a long way

Got it! Heath Ledger from the Joker smile lines. 🤣🤣

having her hand going thru her hair looking like she's in her thoughts, or fiddling with it. the only materialistic thing i can think about would be a personnalized charm that has meaning to her, either in her hair or on her ankle. i can definitely see the sunglasses thing working for women as well 😎🤣

I GSD with my digitally integrated watch. I know I’m sacrificing hotness during work hours. But taking it off and putting on the analog watch is an act of relaxation. Great way to switch modes.

Forwards baseball cap: You're a man of focus, drive, determination, career goals. Backwards baseball cap: You like to party, drink, play sports, had many girlfriends, not really focused on your career right now.

Cant afford a Rolex. So I stole one.

One of the advanatges of a backward baseball cap is that it gives you a wider perception. I was amazed at the difference in archery with my ability to aim with the backward baseball cap versus the forward baseball cap.

Courtney - are you doing any videos for the eclipse next week? Perhaps on your other channel? Should be pretty cool. I'll be in upstate NY for it.

Heath Ledger as the joker in The Dark Knight is my all time favorite acting performance no cap. However, I don’t use this as a model when I’m around women 🤣

Hope you’re well Courtney ❤

Wonder if the attraction of smile lines is just because they imply you're a happy person who has fun and smiles a lot.

I keep thinking of Barry Bee Bensen when she says looking over sunglasses 🤣 Hayden Christiansen also has very defined smile lines

Whenever I've worn a baseball cap forwards or backwards I get the same amount of attention I get when I'm not wearing a baseball cap, None. I can shuffle cards really well even like Gambit from X-Men, still no looks

Being gentleman without expecting anything will make you hot, Thanks.

when she puts her hair in a ponytail and looks so damn good it, i swear it gets me baaddd

It just occurred to me who your husband is! Been watching both your channels for a while and can totally see you both as a couple now. Thanks for another great video :)

some of us wear baseball caps to cover up our hairlines sadly

Single for a reason - 1/6

1. Have A Watch - I can agree but watch wristbands don’t come easy to find in my area I do have one but I would need to bye a new battery certain watches take certain batteries so I also gotta keep that in mind as well, and I don’t know how common they are to find in stores. 2. The Heath Ledger Smile - I can understand this one completely but on the other hand not every guy can pull this off because we all have different facial structures unlike heath ledger but yes I am sure some men can definitely pull this look off but again it really depends on the face we are given if we can’t do the heath ledger smile we can sure as hell smile the way we normally do with confidence. 3. Shuffling Cards - Now Typically I can do a good job but then other times not as much it really depends on the mood to play a card game, if I am then I will shuffle the cards and do the best I do I know I could practice more but again it depends if someone else wants to play card game or not. 4. Lower Back Touch - Noe I can understand this one but to each their own because not all women are same some are fine with it and others may feel a bit like PDA about it so it really depends so I keep that in mind if my girlfriend tells me PDA, so yeah but for the most part I totally get it. 5. Backwards Baseball Cap - I can understand this one really do I don’t even even find myself wearing I just can’t do it. I’ve tried wearing baseball cap and it does not look good on me. They look absolutely horrible, so I definitely will say this, and would strongly do not recommend men to just wear baseball caps like not unless if it’s still like a baseball game then yeah you can get away with that but when you’re like out and about I I wouldn’t. 6. Sunglasses - okay shades are fine but not everyday only when necessary or needed otherwise we should show our eyes more again my opinion guys, but again.

Yeah we deff want more of that girl and her lists! That was kinda funny!!!

G shock watch says you hit the G spot.

Hello Courtney ❤

Courtney, I make fun of your vids from time to time (as I do many vids on YT), but I actually mostly enjoy them. I'm a somewhat clueless dude who loves women, and it's interesting to learn some of these things about you ladies.

A backwards ball cap is straight 🔥. It speaks confidence, style and athleticism. Hair fixed with product is great also. There's a time and a place for both