5 toxic habits and beliefs you should let go of, if you want to live a high quality, happy life. Number 1. Blaming. Believing that it’s always someone else’s fault. Number 2. The belief that successful people are greedy/selfish/fill in the blank. Number 3. Believing everything you hear / not having a mind of your own. Number 4. The belief that you need other people to complete you. Number 5. Allowing money to control your decisions.
I know a man blames others as he is no way a part of guilty just sayin hopefully he needs to realize $$isnt every thing.. ?? Whoever sent this to me??,.. back for you to listen I’m moving on😘
Things always get better. Hold on. I was going through some really bad shit about this time last year, heck I even thought I wasn't going to make it... But now I'm doing pretty good!
*Your life is driven from within. Peace and happiness are inside of you, search your soul and your heart. Be at peace with yourself and let happiness come out from inside of you.*
The very beginning of this video needs to acknowledge that A negative mindset can be created by bad circumstances. Some people grow up in families with narcissistic or worse parents, some are plagued with abuse and neglect. These sityations make the person grow up damaged. Yes if they snap out of it and become positive thinking adults they will have a better life. But... It is very naive to think that this will be easy or in some cases possible.
I was compared to others alot in my teen years by my father, this results in me still comparing to others and the constant thought of me not being good enough. Ever. I'm aware of this ofcourse, and I'm trying to combat this problem. Its just soo tiring to do this almost every day.
"Be one of the few to make a change. YOU are THAT Important"...Now THIS is 🔥🔥🔥 This is one of the best video I have ever heard. Be it the clear voice of the speaker, BGM, the content...Man, this really opened my eyes!! Many people focus on outside people and things, but the few who focus on themselves and correct their errors are the ones on the successful path!!!
I was unhappy because of being bullied by so many people all of my life. I still have trauma and anger flare ups but that is normal and part of nature. As a victim of people's greed/jealousy/envy and gossip, I have a staunch view that gossip should be punishable by jailtime as it has lead to Salem Witch Trials and MeToo movement. Part of Kundalini is accepting of ome's own shadow. I did this. I know money doesn't itself lead to Happiness but it will lead me to freedom away from my toxic family and to my own happiness. I know not all Rich people are greedy and I know not all adults are giving. I do believe fighting for one's rights and standing up for oneself. I do forgive the ones that hurt me in the sense they will not envelop my life but they still need to pay me financial restitution which in turn will help me do what I love to do and further my dreams. Even peaceful monks have had to learn to fight. Even Angels have swords.
This inspirational video came just in time when all I need is someone to remind me to let go of the past and focus on what I am having and strive for what I define a successful life. Thank you for making this video! Greatly appreciate it!
I was completely aware of these facts all my life, I only have to show this video to people who don't know these things yet in their life and I just needed a confirmation. I wish more of my so called friends should find this and live a happy life and not trying to bring me down and envy on me
Well said! I’ve been going thru the same thought process. Fortunately, I had a lung transplant which has a five year average life span. I’m having to weed them out quickly. If my friends complain, gossip, generally bring me down, I have to back away. I don’t have time to play with their nonsense. None of us do! God Bless you!
Fear, controlled my decisions. And I have never blamed others, I have always blamed myself, as I am hardest on myself. Fear made me "run away". But I was never negative till my late husband died....fear of abandonment, fear of everything caused me to sell everything, even my home....to run away. I was overwhelmed, and ran. I cannot deal with negative people or environments. The energies I feel off of everyone, everywhere, even animals, trees. I finally saw a Parapsychologist. Through massive testing, a NY University doctor diagnosed me as an extreme Empath, a Sensitive. I never knew. I always thought I was different, but that empathy made me a better trauma/ICU/ER Nurse. I am still learning to build a "bubble" around me, to not absorb others energies. I know them before I know them. Historical places & cemeteries are the hardest on me. Heck, I feel trees, plants and talk to them...strange, but it helps. I was diagnosed as an Empath when I was 47 yr old.....and still learning how to deal with this.
This video instantly heals my soul. I am down to earth again and i see now how bllessed i am. No more complaining, no more negative research on the internet, no more conspiracy video's research,no more gossip. Just simple things that make me happy and make me feel genuine good. Love and care for the people arround me. I forgive everybody and i hope that everyone does the same regarding me. Our creator was also giving hints in various ways, but i understand it now. Thanks
Whenever I get too much in my head about things that really aren’t as important or worrisome as I believe them to be I just listen to fearless soul and almost immediately I feel free ❤️
Yes Becoz if u hold on for things that seems unlikely to happen or just controlling u,,, u can't go anywhere..Letting go and moving on is vital ..And focus to what's next..
A hopefully helpful quotation from the poet and writer Charles Bukowski: "Some people will love what you do - some people will hate what you do - most people won't give a damn about what you do."
I had nothing in my life for many years and I blamed everyone around me. It was only after I started looking into myself with intense scrutiny, that I started to move forward
@@fredmathey8689 money buys the opportunity for happiness. Show me a guy who met the woman of his dreams living in a cardboard box and I'll show you a Hollywood fairytale.
@@easterbeast843 matt7:6 i am about to do that: give you diamond that you will reject and then attack me because you roots are not deep enougth to understand where i am caming from. Listen i am that man that was living in a cartebord box with zero financial wealth then meet my dream girl!! So yes you have your answer. My sucess do not only depend on money, i was living a life of purpose and she came chasing me baby....i was living all the way in Africa villages helping the pooress as a missionary. She came all the way from europe n fall in love with the whole living with God purpose. No social media, no millions of friends. Guess what? i am living the dream now doing the same thing around europe. Yes now i am on the medical field, the monetary sucess is growing but that has never been my focus and will never be. A life of purpose is. We been maried for 5 years, zero problem. Instand of caming after me pls brother humble yourself and learn something. Wonder why your type can not find a good women to marie because you believe in money which only attract the women that also think like you, law of attraction baby. With love and respect, happy new year! Pls try something this year and you will be surprised to see how powerful you are with or without money. Fred
@@fredmathey8689 wow, good for you and thanks for the reply. It would be hard for me to change my thinking right or wrong, I avoid conversations that put myself out there when it comes to status. (And trust me it sucks, but by no means the worse in the grand scheme of things) I've become quite the master at it. Maybe I came off as too general.
I think I needed to hear this. I've been questioning how to move on from a terrible situation however I'm perceiving whatever love I think is buried in those grains. I'm a valuable person. I'm actually writing these words in total tears because I realize I really have to own the responsibility of moving on. to where? to a more valuable me and that's only possible by leaving two toxic situations. one instance, two people really suffer in my wake. other, working under someone who has his own deeper things going on that manifest in the form of delusional lack. I appreciate your help. I have no idea how RU-vid manages to drop these things so perfectly when I'm really in these states but I appreciate that as well. thank you.
One doesn't need to be rich to be completely fulfilled or satisfied. If one feels happy or satisfied then one is a successful individual. I like what was said if one takes responsibility for one's actions. Instead of blaming others & that's what some do. When they don't want to deal with certain situations. Or they don't want to be accountable for their own mistakes. Having one's own mind even though there's times one might need to listen to reason.
I let go of these toxic beliefs years ago, and I'm a much happier person because of that.This is a great message in a simple video that everyone should be able to understand. I like the part about taking responsibility for yourself and your actions, it's a message you don't hear enough in today's world. Please, keep up the great work.
I try to see things the way they are. Not the way I want it to be. I also accept everything life has to offer whether it's good or bad. Dwelling on the past was my worst bad habit. I don't do this anymore. Jump in with both feet even if you dont have a plan. If you just stand there and watch you will forever be a spectater. 😁
True but lack of money will make you sad. I want more money so I can drive a better car that don’t break down regularly. Not worry about bills to pay ect..... Some people worse off need more money to feed family properly. So no more money is not about wanting more love in many cases.
I tend to agree. The video missed an important point: many people seek money because they seek SECURITY, not necessarily love; for better or for worse.
You can be rich- rich in money 💰 rich in health- rich in love - rich in happiness - rich I friendship etc etc. you can be rich in life in so many different ways
It is this one Video I have been looking for... Ages. To tell me what it is holding my happiness. Thanks 🙏🏼🙏🏼 for uploading this highly insightful video which has the Power to change ones life better!!
Many of us here prob grew up under these very false and harmful beliefs. Bravo for all of you who found your OWN path through truth and pursuit of happiness!
I agree that gossip is toxic and unbecoming, but I do know some extremely rich people, even millionaires, who do nothing for anyone but themselves, and lower income people who live to help others. To believe someone's worth or thoughts or habits are healthier simply because they are financially successful, is simply a very toxic thought in itself.
"Believing everything you hear. Not having a mind of your own". Very inportant. My mom's though like this in contrast to keeping me back per my love for her. Choosing my relationships based on. Don't want a relationship with someone like this
All of these points are correct. When you get to the point where you realise this, you become a person who needs no one to validate them. You validate yourself.
Money means freedom not happiness! Freedom of choice! Freedom to be and do whatever you choose, whenever you want! It also means security! At basic levels food, shelter and safty! Great mental attitude is essential but it wouldn't pay for my house where my children live! I don't need billions! Millions will be nice though 😉 Just enough not to struggle until the next pay cheque! I guess good health is essential for happiness! At least in my case! I can live with being penniless and working to improve it! But can't imagine being ill! I make for lack of money by enjoying being healthy!
If you need millions to get by comfortably then you are living beyond your means and conflating material wealth and extravagence with need. If you earn say 150k per year and live in a 4000 square foot house that cost 750k then you are doing it all wrong. It is crazy to me how so many people live wrecklessly, thinking because now they make more money that means they should live above their means. Always live below your means, so you can get out of debt quicker and having something to show for it when you retire. Just because everybody you know lives beyond their means and is stifled by exorbitant debt they may never escape, doesn't mean you need to be a good little mindless Lemming and follow them off a cliff.
Definition of freedom from Google -> "the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint." Money can never be freedom, as it is the restraint from doing something. How many times have you heard it said, "I cant afford (X)". Not to mention, real freedom is uncountable! This is why I continually point out, that capitalist minions have no idea what the word freedom even means.
@@rolfb6352 She's talking about basic human needs and freedom from oppression, you're talking about maintaining your delusional capitalist religion. Huge difference dumbass!
6. Believing that one can not live alone. Anybody can live without friends and without a mate. It is no longer a necessity to have people in your life in the 21st century.
Feel less than. Only you can make yourself whole. Putting your quality of life in someone else’s hands who’s feelings are out of your control is insanity
Striving to be the best you is great and seeing the plans that you have set overtime work is outstanding. Find your happy place and find were you can show dominance in order to live the life that you want to live.
