5 TRICKS to STOP Being The “Nice Guy” 

Mom: "wash the dishes" Me:: "no..." *SMACK*

Nice guy=friend zone

“Treat her like dirt and she’ll stick to you like mud”🤙🏼

I'm too generous and too nice, that's why people use me..a lot. Thank You for making this video. It's time to change. Bye-Bye to my old self.

Remember guys: no one owes you anything for being nice!

Actully, ths video got me the girl that had rejected me at first😂😂.. Thanks Jose.👊🏼👊🏼

I literally said in my mind "let's hop into it after reading the title

I needed this so much Jose, thank you. So many of us are carrying way too many problems that are not ours, sometimes we have to say no, and face to face situations are the most difficult, especially when it's a person you already developed a relationship with, or see often.

Jose The type of zuniga to give fashion advice on fortnite skins and accessories

Nice Guys have a difficult time comprehending that in general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting. I often refer to Nice Guys as Teflon Men. They work so hard to be smooth, nothing can stick to them. Unfortunately, this Teflon coating also makes it difficult for people to get close. It is actually a person's rough edges and human imperfections that give others something to connect with. From no more Mr Nice guy

*Teacher* Drops her sheet of paper... *Teacher* Hey could you pick that up for me *Me* No... *DETENTION*

Jose the type of Zuniga to use mouthwash before making a phone call

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IMO that also mean standing out in the crowd with your style, letting your style do the talking for you, because being different and unique is way better than blending in, and when people say you dress weird, they’re probably just jealous 😂🔥

Stop being nice boys. Learnt it the hard way.

The nice guy and the stylish guy that getting ahead in life , thanks to Jose

3 years of taking your videos to heart, now I have too many options 😂 I can't decide which one to date

Don't “try“ to be a nice guy. Be a masculine, independent and yet decent human being. Your goal isn't to make everyone happy or like you when it costs you something. You can and should help out as much as you can, but if the decision is helping yourself or someone else, choose yourself. That way you can still be a decent human-being without turning into a shameless asskisser.

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Another lesson from the man Jose...I literally write down your tips in my note book. It's like learning but more fun.

Even if you get rejected by being a badass,you'll still feel better and more confident Its better to get rejected as a badass rather than being rejected as a nice guy

I been struggling with the "nice guy" traits ever since highschool. Thank you for this video, bro (:

Dope content Jose loved it

Just wear ESENTLS and you'll always finish 1st 🔥

being the nice guy,coming from a nice guy,is honestly the worst thing u can be. grew up being too nice thinking that people will love me but in reality these niggas use me i’m not nice anymore tho,i only am to nice people

this jose make my days much better...since beginnings of last year I'm a better person... Thanks Jose

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Homie helped me become more assertive I dig it wouldn’t be where I am without this guy

Hey Jose, I like this hair style of you. Anw great content as always.

So true. By trying to make others happy, people will start to be oppurtunist and you won't be happy. Really good video.

The "nice guy" do "nice" things to feel entitle to a response, not because that "goodness" flows from his heart.

I've been watching this video many times and executing them everyday? Damn! I love the results! Though my circle is getting smaller but just like what they say "quality not quantity". Honestly, I love the person who I am becoming. Thanks jose! This is something I can finally look forward.

Jose is the type of zuniga to tell you as nicely as possible why shouldn't be a Mr. nice guy and then nicely continue to be nice

I don't need audible cause I can just listen to you every five minutes a day and put the lessons in my head..

finally, a new banger!🔥🔥🔥

Wish I saw this video earlier during my nice guy days but thank you José. The thing is, nice guys can't comprehend the fact that they're not always gonna get what they give back in return. For example, when your genuinely nice to your crush and if they don't do the same back, just move on. Forget about them, cause their obviously not worth it. Have some self respect is what I'd say. Nice is just one quality and if you don't have anything else to offer besides that, girls immediately lose interest. This video helped me, even now, to focus on being more mature and building myself through knowledge and experiences.

The TMF Squad are a mixture of the bad boy and nice guy, because we are nice but by wearing ESNTLS we look too badass!

Was just searching up the net regarding this and boom! Big daddy Jose has spoken. Thanks!

The sixth trick is using Tiege Hanley 😂

Thanks for this. In return I won’t skip your ads anymore.

Jose you are the big brother I never had

Man this video is so for me. I was always the nice guy in my relationship and now that I think of it, a lot of my exes used me to do their work, get free lifts and other stuff like this. I was actually afraid to say no and my recent ex told me that im boring, not manly enough or in other way "bitch boy" and left me. I love you Jose for this, thanks for opening my eyes and making me realize that saying no or expressing how i feel doesnt make me a bad guy. I literally liked this vid with my 5 youtube accounts just bc its relatable to me and taught me so much in 5 mins

That used to be my problem..."Mr. nice guy!" Not no more!!

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You and alpha m are really the best RU-vidrs

Hi Jose i love your videos I just wanted to say you inspired me to be more fashionable for a boy who is only 14 years old and your tips. you mean a lot to my fashion life. Keep up the great work. Thank you

Yoh José! Where's Juan? 😂

bro you have really changed my life and now i got the girl that i love i don't know how to thank you bro ❤

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I fucking love this dude , always sounds like a older brother who takes care of you

Note: girls doesn’t like nice guys Girls always say let’s be “friends” “ Friend Zone “

This guy has really motivated me to creat my channel.Big ups boss I’m with u.

I stopped being a nice guy as soon as I clicked on this video

Definitely agree with the work part. the only time I help a girl with her work at uni is either if I want a favour to call in at a later date, a straight up trade of notes or if I genuinely want to.

If you're a part of the TMF fam you already know what kinda guy you need to be. 🤙

sometimes i ALWAYS Feel im the nice guy BUT NOT ANYMORE THANKS JOSE ZUNIGA!!!!

Lifesaver Jose just needed that ❤️😂❤️

A must needed video for me....b'coz i was just fed up of being nice...and completely pissed what other person does when I ask them for favour....thank uh....

Somehow Jose knew exactly what I needed without me telling him

Got a huge german speaking exam on fashion. Obviously I said u can find inspiration on RU-vid from the king himself Jose Zuniga. Watching these videos is the best form of revision

I've got almost everything I've wanted by BEING a nice guy...

When would Jose run out of ideas, NEVER

Legend

He speaks more about audiable more than actual content

Thanks jose, now im a BAD BOY

TMF thanks for putting this in words. As of late I’ve really been trying to stick up for myself and care less about what others think of me. Love the channel, keep up the good work!

I always say no to girls when they ask me for favors lol

Beloved you have not misled me yet! Please continue to give us endless jewels.

I can’t believe you already at 2 mil shit crazy how when i first started watchin you were only at 6k 🤦🏻‍♂️

I can't be confident if I don't own those ESNTL t's. Jose when are they going to be stocked up?!

Don’t worry Jose. I’m never the nice guy 🔥🔥😤😤😈😈

Jose thanks to your advises (and I just used them yesterday) I meet some people and started to feel good with my style and away of living

Just stop being the nice guy

Learning to say no, throw the praise hands up! That fit is such a clean look, dope.

Yall keep saying “first” i’d rather say the fifth

A lot of this takes me far outside of my comfort zone. But you don’t get your kind of following without some kind of real value. So I’ll give it a shot. Thanks for posting.

Is there any ad this guy cant include in his videos Not hating I like your vids keep up the good work Jose

This is the most realistic thing happening to most if the guys out there including me. Ty mahn...gonna do what u said

But Jose you are a nice guy

Always in time and always useful ❤ Need more videos about social skills just like this one 👌

I guess thats why i dont have the best luck with women. I need to work on this severely! Jose... could you make a video in regards to online dating?

literally last night I got rejected while I was on a date because of this and I needed this video. thanks man for the perfect timing!

When I speak up my friends don't listen to me and one punches me

Honestly it's hard, because I've always been told no, rejected by people, and looked down at. So I don't want people to go through the same as I did.

Next video should be "How to Properly Wear Slippers" because just like to wear slippers all the time and we want to look fresh with your advice

That flannel man...love it and want it....😊😊

Thanks Man I Needed That Video alot

Couldn't have made this video at a better time. Thank u Jose!!

how about being nice to a woman and respecting her? is that being a nice guy?.

I have to say that this video really explains what i'm going through however it's not to get women "hooked", no way. I'm always the guy saying yes because i want to avoid upsetting the other person or because i instinctively know how the other person (if you actually know said person) will react and probably will walk all over me afterwards. I'm the one that endures all of it despite not showing how much it hurts inside. I used to get bullied in school when i would step up for those that were defenseless because of it. It did mentally affected me but learned to get over it and try to say no at every chance i get. It's still a work in progress. I appreciate the upload. Edit: I also need to be more confident in myself.

Sadly. Life is all about looks, which I don’t have 😞 Thx anyways Jose 🤧

Jose you save my life, i was about to buy the audible subcription but you help me by getting it for free lol

Wow, Jose wearing a oversized shirt. That's the first time I've seen him wear a shirt too big.

Proud to be part of the TMF family

Love Your Videos Jose !!!

If I ever need fashion tips and tricks, you know I'm coming back here💯

What if the nice guy is really hot? Does he get friendzoned? should he be nice and be nice to ppl and get all girls?

You can still be a kind guy yet you have to speak up when you don't agree with things and do such in a respectful manner !! Also, teach people how to treat you and have a 0 tolerance for b.s. !! Great vid 👍🏽.

O No im a Nice guy😱😭😂

My boy Jose always coming in clutch. Thanks bro👌🏽