5 Ways Sex-Traffickers “Groom” Minors Online 

This is why I HATE on-line dating. You never know who or what is on the other end and even adults can fall into this trap.

I am a teen trauma therapist. Over and over again, my clients will be manipulated into sending their boyfriends nudes of themselves. This leads to blackmail for sex. If a girl tells her parents and the parents call the cops. The boy ALWAYS gets off. Why? Because the police tell the girl and her parents that if they press charges against the boy, that the girl will be guilty of creating and distributing child pornography when the only thing she has done was to TAKE NUDES OF HERSELF AND SEND TO HER BOYFRIEND. This is the response of law enforcement at least in my State. I have gone around the world with several different agencies trying to advocate for my clients and I get told the same thing as if it makes perfect sense. It is enraging because the boy is empowered to keep doing it to as many girls as he wants because the police will do nothing unless the teen victim is willing to be charged with the creation and distribution of child pornography for her OWN pictures she was manipulated into taking!!!

This will help teach my daughter how to see why this is so important to learn so she can protect herself from these bad people.

The way you approach your child talking to someone secretive is the most delicate dance I’ve seen. If they think you are mad at them, or that they are in trouble ie: “I’m the parent I have the right to know!” they will become a lot more secretive, and things get really really bad. I just suggest to tread gently for that part. From personal experience. ❤️

Another note to add; Traffickers / Recruiters can spend years grooming your child from a young age into the consenting age of 18. Once they reach the age of consent, there will be NO HELP for them! Cops won't help, human trafficking organizations WON'T help! even your friends and family members will give up eventually! Age of consent rules are extremely dangerous in these cases. My niece was groomed at age 15. We didn't realize what was going on until age 24!!! We don't know if we'll ever save or see her again! She's been sold now.

Thankyou. Just made my 13 year old watch this.

Bless you! Excellent video. I love how down-to-earth and knowledgeable you are. Your word usage and how you present facts is perfect for communicating with teens and tweens. Plus, you're a lovely young woman and thr setting is very "homey." My granddaughters are 13 & 15 and both post on Tik Tok. A lot. The 13-year-old has made some very sexuaized bideos with inappropriate comments. I let my daughter know... she hasn't watched over them as she should. My granddaughter was so angry with me that she blocked me. I sent her a message telling her that I know she's angry but it's because I love her so much that I had to do something. I used the analogy that it was like she ran out into traffic in Los Angeles at the age of 4, so I saved her. I told her that there's much in the world she doesn't know yet. She said thank you and I love you. I get it. Girls start wearing make-up and their bodies change. She takes hip hop dance lessons and is very good. She's gorgeous, blonde hair & blue eyes. I told my daughter that I wouldn't be surprised if a rich pedophile already "bid" on her. I research it all - pedophiles, trafficking, etc., so she learns from me. I'm very concerned. I shared your video with the three of them and pray she'll watch it with my granddaughters. I'll check out your other videos. The dog barking in the background was great... we have dogs. God bless you!

This is great information that you are sharing. Thank you so much for following your mission and passion. I'm sure this information will help prevent abuse. I wish I knew this in my teens and twenties, there was so much less awareness then.

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Just found out about your content, love it. Keep up with the good work

Thank you so much for this video. I feel like this lecture needs to come from another teacher more qualified. Our son seems to have met a "friend" on Discord chat site. We had no idea until our son asked us if he could go to the UK for spring break. This person online was willing to pay for the plane ticket. To good to be true........ Thank you for this video...

Thankyou so much for your video. I am teaching HEALTH at Eastlake High School in Chula Vista, Ca. Your video is incedibly helpful and I think young women will at least listen to another young woman.

Thank you for the precious information.

Thank you for this video. I have shared it and hopefully it will help someone 🙏🙂

Thanks for the justice u pursue I’m starting to open my mind up to this I see it every now

Wow good info thank you.

What a super helpful video!

mine was a pimp i was 15 i was sad and felt like i had no one he talked me into doing things then he stared selling me off too his guys im out of it now so lucky

Great advice!!!

THANK YOU!!!!!

Thank you 😊

good info! although I learned about grooming many years later after the abuse. the world is a very sick place!

They groom adults too

Thank you

In the interest of oversharing I'll talk a bit about what happened to me. I'm gonna try and keep it as brief as possible because it still affects me. It was never in person. And it happened on two seperate occasions. One where I was being homeschooled in 6th grade. I didn't want to be homeschooled in the first place as I was being dragged from my then friends. My parents were seperated and dad didn't want me in public school in the city my mom lived in. My admittedly stupid goal was to fail homeschooling so badly they'd just let me go back. So I used the school computer to play games online instead of schoolwork. I met a guy and he started hounding me for inappropriate pictures and unfortunately I had already fallen. It only ended because of my stupid plans success and in a way my own stupidity saved me from further damage that time. The second time my mother moved to a safer neighborhood due to the bathroom litteraly falling through the floor and into the basement. I was in 8th grade and I was once again ripped from my then friends only this time I got to go to school. I didn't know anyone and so I once again turned to gaming on a computer my dad had recently gotten me. This time I made online friends and even met a guy that I soon fell for. He also hounded me for inappropriate photos. I confided in one of the girls in the group about this and she quickly put a target on my back. The friend group was me, her, her best friend irl, a boy our age and 5 other adult men. The groomer was not apart of that group. Almost instantly after telling her everyone knew and I started getting disgusting messages from many of the older men in the group. The only friend I retained was the boy. I later lost contact with him after my mom went though the computer, called the cops and it was found that the groomer pretending to be 16year old boy was actually a 30year old man from India. It was a whole lot and I'm still processing even years later. This stuff even if it doesn't get to the in-person part is still mentally scarring.

thats why i dont chat with anyone online

Hi. Thanks for the video. I am a young adult who uses an app for learning languages. You do have to be accepted in order to use this app, so there is a vetting process in place. However, I’m still a bit uneasy about it. What do you think?

You are enough! God loves you! You are valuable . Believe in yourself!God bless! Psalm 91🙏🙏

You should really talk about the BDSM Lifestyle, Petplay, and Ddlg being normalized through LGBTQ and those Lifestyles are being used by Sex Traffickers to lure underage girls, like normalizing choking during sex. The Normalization of hyper dominant male partners from the media from movies like 50 Shades and again pushing the BDSM lifestyle on teenagers is fueling it. And then Suicide Girls trying to normalize drug addicts in pin ups is also influential. Pair that all together with the Opioid Epidemic it's a Conspiracy no one person could cook up, but it's all real and funneling teenagers into sex trafficking every day. I would say Japanese Anime is contributing because Prostitution is big in their Culture.

Too bad we no longer have a society arranged in such a way that people who care about their safety are allowed to protect themselves. The fact that we no longer have a formal dating culture where people can safely check each other out and have their rights respected or their life honored in any way whatsoever. Including colleges and work environments. Everything is set up in a way to make it easy and quick for people who are dirtbags to take advantage of whoever they choose. We are forced to go to random parties where just whoever might be planning something nefarious and if you show up and don’t drink and loosen up you are made to feel like some overcautious old maid stick in the mud. These people who did this to our society knew exactly what they were doing. They are at fault. They should be confronted, but that is no longer possible. It has gone too far. I encourage girls or boys to adopt an extremely blunt communication style and just comment on all you are observing. That is about the only thing that might stop con artists or other bad people. Letting them know you are awake and aware. But that will likely make them angry and physically aggressive as well. Glad I am no longer young. ❤😮❤

There are women involved too who are to gain the trust of the young women/girls and to say what a good life it can all be. This was shared by Andrew Tate in his interview about his grooming school.

I have deleted and reported many suspected on my page. Is there anything more I can do?

I gave my town and state to one and a pic. I’m scared

I have a strong feeling my daughter is being trafficked.

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏God bless and protect the kids in Jesus Christ mighty name amen.

i chat to people i dont know is that bad ?

Can you help me to tell if the guy I'm talking to is one?He probably not but I just need some of your opinions.

Only girls or women also?

Tell me a double leave you out here with no resources and no help you try to stop before she went to the bear situation all the evil person would do that

The exploitation of children is appalling, proably the only thing worse than exploiting an adult in a similar capacity. However, if a woman is in her 20s, 30s, 40s, and she's cool with everything that's a completely different ball game.

I need some help this guy is being rlly weird and I’m to scared to block him

White? Nope....not anymore !!!!

Thank you

I am a teen trauma therapist. Over and over again, my clients will be manipulated into sending their boyfriends nudes of themselves. This leads to blackmail for sex. If a girl tells her parents and the parents call the cops. The boy ALWAYS gets off. Why? Because the police tell the girl and her parents that if they press charges against the boy, that the girl will be guilty of creating and distributing child pornography when the only thing she has done was to TAKE NUDES OF HERSELF AND SEND TO HER BOYFRIEND. This is the response of law enforcement at least in my State. I have gone around the world with several different agencies trying to advocate for my clients and I get told the same thing as if it makes perfect sense. It is enraging because the boy is empowered to keep doing it to as many girls as he wants because the police will do nothing unless the teen victim is willing to be charged with the creation and distribution of child pornography for her OWN pictures she was manipulated into taking!!!