(5e) What She Said -- INTJ cognitive functional analysis 

Enid,another great video. I don't know if Te can realize the emotional aspect very well (other wise INTJs would have it figured out in their 20s).Maybe INTJs need to first realize the importance of emotions,or sharing emotions,because they likely feel very strong emotions internally. It is no secret that all INTJ struggles will be in the emotional realm. Why don't they just use their "logic" (Te) to see a clear picture in emotional interaction? All INTJs have tried that and didn't get the usual neat and tidy logical answer that adds up nicely. Emotions are illogical,so it is a fruitless effort to attempt to solve them with logic. INTJs need to "realize" (feel them in external reality) the effects of emotions,rather than stifle them. I think the INTJs that you noticed "being proud" of solving this particular problem,is special to them because they "realized" (felt) it. I have "known" what I had to do for a very long time (regarding emotional weaknesses),but it only became clear once I realized it. Is it possible to figure out emotions theoretically? I don't think it is,especially for INTJs who need everything they accept (to be true) to match external reality. Once an INTJ lets the feelings out a bit,they can start to see the connections in outside reality. The conscious and unconscious mind is a feedback loop (it is really a single mind working in unison,but we humans like to break things down (into arbitrary distinctions)so we can better understand them. The conscious mind provides the focus for the subconscious mind to seek patterns and feed back to the conscious mind. I can't be sure this is even the correct order (chicken or the egg),but I do know that it is definitely a feedback loop that is compounding.I don't think it matters whether a person is consciously of subconsciously dominant,because the feedback loops works the same. It is all about self awareness that allows us to see what is really happening inside our minds (the place everyone ultimately experiences their own reality). I think self awareness is realizing what goes on in the loop. If a person tends to stifles feelings they won't enter that loop. It is not even so much a proud feeling (more like almost embarrassment that it took so long),but more of a happy feeling,because they realized something that is most important to them. If any INTJs can't see this,they need to take a good look at John Nash (an INTJ who went insane due to his all but complete lack of emotions.) The mind gives back what it is fed. If we don't have a certain strength naturally within us, we must look to others to feed the feedback loop,otherwise we will remain strengthening the loop of our dominant natural strength. We get what we focus on and I think it is obvious that our subconscious mind feeds all of us. We can only change our views if we are open minded enough to let new information in for the subconscious to process (seek patterns),thus feeding back to the conscious mind and reinforcing the direction of focus,thus strengthening the feedback from the subconscious..... Enid,thanks for feeding my mind what it needs.

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