@@invalidgamer8258 Aside from the high level traits INFJ's have. The INFJ Male only accounts for about .05%-1% of the population making them really rare. We actually just made a video about INFJ males
I think at times many people have experienced bits and pieces of this personality type throughout their lives which will automatically make them feel they are an INFJ. But a person cannot truly identify with this personality type unless you are constantly experiencing these internal traits. 1. Worrying about everyone else needs constantly above your own. Meaning you are aware of everyone's level of comfort and will adjust your speech and actions when interacting with someone so that they feel the most comfortable around you. 2. You think of every possible action and outcome before preforming a task .so it's frustrating for you when people second guess you. You may even have thought why do I have to be right all the time. 3. Your entire life you have heard You're an old soul, weird, odd, shy quiet,unique or people will say to you , no one thinks like you 4. You are a contradiction to yourself and it can be a blessing and a curse for you depending on the situation( Example Don't want to be in the spotlight but still want acknowledgement for your accomplishments. ) 5. Down time and relaxing for you can just be deep thinking 🤔 6. A moral conviction so strong they you may notice people will avoid doing certain things around you (swearing, smoking,ext...) 7 Problem solving 3 steps ahead all the time so that you avoid conflict or uncomfortable situations. This involves observing details, patterns and body language to come up with plan 8 Sensitivity to violence. Horror and violent stories are not entertaining and unwanted. Limits have to be set when listening to realistic news feed. The experience of seeing or hearing these things can have adverse effects on your emotional and physical health. ( night terrors, emotional drain to the point of sickness) These are just a handful of things that make up the complex character of an infj
Wow! This was impressive. I appreciated the points because they are not the average points people give but very true for this personality type. Well done!
This descriptive definition while informative and interestingly readable, smacks, however, of many traits which are the classic hallmarks of an empath. While many INFJs share the sometimes questionable state of an empathy bordering on insanity the two are the difference between light and dark. A true INFJ will never have the personality to mediate much less embrace and absorb the terrible pain life too often inflicts on both themselves and others. A person possessing of both these personality traits would not survive this world. It's not possible.
Try being a Leo as well it's brutal I'm at constant war with myself it just comes with the territory when you're an outgoing introvert well that's what I call myself anyway!
This is the first time I have ever seen a reference to the INFJ personality type....I am in complete disbelief how these videos perfectly describe my personality, how I process information, how I interact with people, patterns that have defined me since childhood to present...Wow.
@@davindra67 no, I am very much an INFJ. It's taken a lifetime to recognize my authentic self. Very very few really understand me. Just at a point of acceptance right now.
I love being on my own and I am not lonely, I am always have something to do. People drain me as I don't do small talk. I loved my job and I love order, I believe that you need to do things to the best of your ability and with passion. I have a few friends whom I have known for decades and they are very precious to me. I don't do conflict and confrontations I just walk away.
If, indeed, there are 8 billion people in the world and 1.5% of them are INFJ, then there are 120 million of us. Plus, as an INFJ, you’re likely to attract them as friends.
Nobody: Every INFJ description: the rarest personality type in the world! Every self claimed INFJ from the outside: I don't wanna be INFJ actually (inside: OMG yesss im so special other types are not humans)
@@kellydoll9335 I see how that can create loneliness, it seems like INFJ's are more reluctant to open up to people at least initially although they can eventually open up. It just takes more time
This is draining, making back up plans of back up plans, being too sensitive about surrounding, not being able to say a word in a group conversation although I have a lot in my mind, always sensing it when someone behaves in a different way, always adjusting to keep the atmosphere neutral so that everyone feel comfortable and doing it in a discreet casual way, I hate spotlight, going on stage to get a prize or saying some words to acknowledge that I did something good makes me feel extremely uncomfortable, it seems like I get vision I don't know how like just a few days ago I was walking on road saw some tree branches fall over there and had kind off vision that I might trip on it so let's be more careful and next sec an old lady tripped on it, or having a feeling that I should choose this option it might led me to my destination although logics were telling something different but that inner voice is loud I can't ignore it as if this is my destination, I cry when father cut the tree leaves I cry when someone take one of the 2 siblings of our home cats to take better care of it although I have never really been very cat person, I struggle to show emotions to open up but at the same time I will cry hard if I see someone's is crying, I grew up listening to you are different unique ideal you have x factor and all other things and people consider me very ideal but I am a couch potato when I have days off,it's annoying to hear that oh you will do great as always, you have different charm and all that stuff bec I my eyes I seems very very simple just your any other girl but at the same time I don't have much friends I struggle to connect with people like whatever they say seems very irrelevant to me and whatever I say they don't understand, most of my time I spend in my head having abstract thoughts and they are entertaining to me but I just can't express those to others. Sometime it's exhausting, and sad since I hardly find people to listen to my not so realistic thoughts, even some of my friends say I am exported from a different planet. Being different is difficult but it's also special, and oh many times I crack the best jokes and annoy children the most which people finds very contradictory and write now I wrote it all but don't want to post it but there you go
Who is watching my life ?? How accurate is that video .. oh god i feel some weird and nice feeling at the same time because this is truly me and how i am exactly as a person … that’s why i am single and have only one friend , i am confidently with humble can say i am a good man but its hard for me to accept anything and anyone and any manners and values, would rather to stay alone than being with the wrong ppl or spouse…
@@mindscopechannel yes indeed i am an INFJ and honestly this is something recently been discovering it and it is mind blowing how much it helps me to understand my self and develop my self better
No4. I can absolutely read people, even from a distance. I've been with my partner and glanced at a person walking down the sidewalk and said out loud "They are not in a good place, something bad has happened to them today. " Then we both silently hope they will be ok. anyone, that's enough sharing. Ciao, good vid
I can relate to all of these. This is a great summation of the general INFJ traits. I have to say, though, I don't see how the video clips relate to the topic. To me, the visual content doesn't match the subject. Maybe it's just me.
Thank you for the input. Some of the actors/celebrities that are shown are considered to to be INFJ's which may explain some of the reason you feel that way as we didn't clarify that. But regardless we're going to work on this, thanks!
Having all of these.… ✨About Introversion is exactly the same. 🌻The intuition is YES yes and yes. 🌹And the feelings: agreed. ⭐ Related judging: might be ❗I have no strongly needed to get to know everyone's how to see me, because I am very understanding who I am. And I also could understand what they think. 💝 Empathetic: Yes.💝 💐 sensitive and feel different: perhaps it's an inborn abilities.
I love this book named Blink The Power of Thinking Without Thinking was written by Malcolm Gladwell (Chinese Version) you can explore more about thin-slicing, snap judgment, fast and frugal, rapid cognition and subconscious mind. 😊 I bought it from 19July 2010.
Test a while ago said I was INFP. Yet I agree with all these traits....except I am not really into being solidly 'organized' or 'have a plan for everything'. I fit sigma empath more than anything else I would say...if I had to say...
One question please, i believe I am a strong men and not crybaby one, but i dont know why, if someone in front of me is crying, especially if i know them, I don't know why my eyes will also start to shed tears. Is this a sign that i am an INFJ?
This could be. INFJ's tend to have a strong connection to the emotions of others which makes them very empathetic. When someone around them is going through strong emotions the INFJ can feel what they're going through. We just made another video about things only INFJ's would understand which may be worth watching to help you better answer this question
Yeah, I take a different view on why I follow my gut and avoid tragedies. That is God watching over me. I call these thing an impossible coincidence. Meaning it's impossible for such things to be a coincidence. I can't tell you how many times in my life I should have been dead yet here I am and it's not because I have any special powers or personality traits. It's because someone's watching over me in another realm that I can't see.
Aku selalu merasa lelah ketika berada di sebuah perkumpulan, jadi aku sering memilih menghindar. Tapi setelahnya aku merasa perlu berada di perkumpulan kembali, setelah itu aku merasa lelah kembali setiap melihat ekspresi orang-orang disekitarku
since last year, when i moved out of my house to a hostel to prepare for an important exam, 2 months in, a lot of things started becoming more evident around me. i was extra focused when i came in (the new, fresh, untainted energy), i'm an organised person, i like organisation for everything but i hv some conflicts with myself regarding the reason i turned out like this when my childhood environment has never been too organised in many ways. well, i have multiple theories as to where my beliefs and likings originated from but let's skip that part, i am already starting to give unnecessary info here. So, the person next to my room, closest by distance, cuz 2 of our rooms were near end of the hall beside common balcony. That person was highly offended by me at first due to my particularities, like how my bed is made up, dustbin position, double bedsheets, book organisation system, everything basically. she thought i found her dirty and hence insisted on her removing her shoes before entering my space and change into slippers and having double bedsheet, which i did not, i was the same way at home, she came to understand later on, but i really wish she didn't feel bad about herself because of me, even if it was unintentional. i met very different people here, and i found out my productivity and mood depended a lot on the other person with me, which made it hard for me to socialise with a specific set of people and hence led to more isolation than it should have been, because for this exam i needed a group to have healthy competition to keep myself up to date and open to possibilities and insights i missed when by myself. i was also able to understand something about myself that i missed when i was in school, i was never a shy person or any person for that matter, i just absorbed room energies very intensly, so much so that its difficult to seperate my actual state of mind from what i am absorbing from outside. i found out i talked to myself and spent more hours inside my brain than what i thought i did when i was at home. i also realised longer unnecessary talks that did not helped me into the other person or led to something productive, overwhelmed me very fast and i differed on my frequency of needing to get a recharge, depending on the topic and person i was spending time with. where i could not go on more than 5 mins with some, i found myself spending hours with others or in diff situations. i have always thought of myself as just a bunch of contradictions and now everything seems to fit. my mbti type changes in alignment with others, when i do it as an activity with my friend, or brother, my result tended to match the one i was in closest with around that time period. But since i have given the test alone and within quite some time alone, without sharing physical or mental space with anyone, its been a consistent infj, even now, when i'm someplace diff, away from family and have not made any friends now, its been infj. This absorbing energies explains why i change when i'm at home, with my parents, when i'm with diff friends. I just keep changing, i thought something was wrong with me, like i was bad or something, but my dad and me moving away for job and studies respectively, gives me clear picture of how i shift when a new person ( a new energy) gets added to my environment. This time when i visited home, i could not be relaxed well cuz my dad was there, mom was there, grandmother and uncle and aunty were there, and we were shifting houses back at home. then as my uncle's family left and my dad left i suddenly became relaxed, even when i was busier than how i was when everyone was there. I sensed myself relaxing and tensing up in alignment with my mom as she sent my brother to school, how it was after he came back home, when he fell sick, when she was going to a function. It was weird but now me able to analyze it feels so amazing and absorbing. I can see why i show false potential for multiple things, or actually i do hold immense potential but i get confused with decisions because of it, making me seem like i dont know myself but somehow after getting away from external energies, i have stable thinking, consistent ideas, very logical thinking, don't feel burdened about thinking for others and keep feeling guilty and revisiting scenarios to in my head , i can analyze myself well, and be consistent with my work, even now, i haven't slept tonight, not tired, brain's working faster than me writing it out, heart and body is stable and calm. I am exploring and organising myself and have a rough map ready. I feel myself more and as days go by in solitude, its nice. this video was really accurate, including the fact that I'm studying to enter medical field, and enter into research through practice in medicine. Even though i still feel like a big bunch of contradictions, I am learning how to organise them into a map that makes me compatible with more than just my present tense.
This was really great to read, I'm sure theres other people who are experiencing or have experienced something similar and your comment will help them better understand and find themselves. Based on what you said, everything aligns with the infj personality type. Especially how it seems like you enjoy your alone time and having time away from significant external stimuli
Like others in the comments its definitely lonely; tho id like to specify, atleast for me, im only lonely when im around others in a public space. Its like being the one kid at a pool who cant swim lol
