I (INFP) just started getting close with an ENFJ and this connection is seriously sooo strong and it just feel so compatible. ENFJ is able to listen to me in a way that others can’t, ENFJ shares emotions on a level that I find comforting and reassuring. And they’re just so great and caring. Our conversational styles work so well together. Usually I want to be alone a lot of the time but now I want to be alone with ENFJ around. If we’re not sleeping/working, we’re talking on the phone. all the time! I love my ENFJ
i used to be with an infp and we had a great connection! but she wanted a lot more space and was just more distant and wouldn’t really talk to me about it 🥲 then we talked it over an like realized the differences between us and other things and how we prob wouldn’t work in the future so 😍 i was willing to stay friends and just keep in touch but she didn’t want to do that at all so she broke up with me ig
I’m a soft and sensitive infp and usually get overwhelmed by extroverted energy, but enfjs feel like golden retrievers or rays of sunshine! I love them so much ;_;
ENFJ here and my husband is an INFP. I literally could not have married any other type. He is truly my soulmate and makes any other relationship I’ve ever had so irrelevant.
Wait hows his matured infp life ? I think it's hard to live as a infp male lol I am so scared about my future life so I wanna know about a matured infp male :)
@@godboy_666 he’s 25 so still maturing. He’s really struggled with doing work that he doesn’t enjoy. There’s an issue between doing what he has to to make money and the absolute stress that puts him under with not enjoying it. But he also became a supervisor at 24 at this job that he hates just because he is amazing with people. He has really amazing interrelationship skills and that’s something that has turned his situation around at work. He’s made friends with everyone so now going to work doesn’t suck so much for him. Always willing to work on himself, go to therapy, read books, ect. He’s a wonderful husband.
We ENFJ are the prince charming of the real world, with a golden heart always ready to give all to our one true love, protect and make our best to provide a happy life to our partner. INFP are the princess of the real world, that complete us, pure, good heart, warm, loyal and gives us the real inconditional love we aspire for. A fairytale couple or a eternal friendship
@@sarahjane542 Aww🌈🥇🎁❤💖❤💖💎💎💎💎thanks😊😊😊 INFP are the diamonds of this world. Precious, hard to find, beautiful and rich inside, pure, invaluable, INFP gives their shine to this world. All my best friends on my lifetime has been INFP, all had made the test and I am greatful we have meet in this life😊😊😊
INFPs can often end up living in a disorganized way as they tend to theorize a lot but then post pone both action and fact checking. This can prevent them from realizing their dreams, which are very important to INFPs. ENFJs can help them be more practical, organized and realistic, improving INFPs' chances of feeling accomplished. On the other hand, ENFJs have the problem of having both strong ideals and a tendency to rely on realistic options (not just using facts, like an ESFJ would, but also using their own judgement... They usually develop their opinion on things and aren't willing to change it). This can lead them to become bitter, pessimistic or sad about the harsh possibilities of their dreams coming true. INFPs can encourage them to keep their dreams alive and to be more spontaneous and take a chance even when the probabilities of success are low. In a healthy relationship, ENFJs and INFPs help each other become the person they want to be.
This is so dang true 😂 My husband (INFP) is such a dreamer but rarely takes action. I get super intense (ENFJ) to the point that one would think I’m angry when I’m really just passionate. 🤣
I feel like as an ENFJ I just end up always getting close to an INFP without even knowing it until of course I ask them to take the test. I don't know why but all ENFJ I know just have more need to protect them than any other type.
@Kpop Fangirls Netherlands OMG thank you so much, youre so nice ❤❤ Im not alone actualy, I have really trustable friends, its just my love life is dead and my heart feels empty because of that. Still if you wanna be friends, I'd like to have a ENFJ friend too 😊😊
Sooo okay guys I have an announcement. Someone came in to my life without a horse, knock on my heart and only thing I know he is a capricorn. I mean... what the fuck ???
I'm an Infp patiently waiting for a male enfj to find me 🙏 Edit: I met one online 5 days ago and already we have a connection. It feels like we've known each other more than 5 days. It feels unreal 🥰
When I (INFP) met my husband (ENFJ) we just knew we had an effortless connection. It's been 4 years and until now we noticed our personalities are compatible. It's the greatest adventure and the best best thing that will happen to you to find your match 🥰
INFP here married to my ENFJ husband. It really is a match made in heaven. We compliment each other so well and getting through issues goes pretty smoothly :)
I’m an INFP dating an ENFJ and it really feels like a match made in heaven. We are like mirrors of each other with our similar interests and values and mutual desire for self growth and independence. Yet we create a perfect balance with our opposite personalities. He helps me get out of my comfort zone and I remind him to take care of himself more. I’m so thankful to have him in my life 💕
My husband is an ENFJ and I'm an INFP-- I've been in love with him since kindergarten 😅 It wasn't until we reconnected at 20 that we got together. 10 years and it still feels like it's brand new ❤
When i (INFP) met by boyfriend (ENFJ) I felt he was a special man. He realised my affection and we simply fall in love in a heartbeat. The more we talked the more we fell. Even we fight we are still caring about each other. It's so weird we understand each other so well. Even tho we are different we are really good at understanding those differences and find the middle way. It's so easy to find something to do that we both enjoy. We both like to try new things and we care about same things. I love him dearly and I feel the same way. I wish you all the best guys!
I just wanna have an enfj friend :( not even bc I’m an infp but bc they seem like such sweet and caring people but I can’t make friends to save my very *soul*
Hey sweetie! Just don't feel low of yourself hmm? Just loosen up. I'm sure you'll find a friend who matches your vibe. It's OK to not open up with others. I know, it takes time. But trust me, humans ain't that bad. There's someone out there waiting for you. Just a little mittle bit of effort from your side, will do. And being alone isn't bad at all! We have our own company! And there are netflix, yt and food! Have an awesome day!! :D
Found my Enfj soulmate when we were 20 and instantly had the feeling we know each other forever already. Got married at 24, still together at the age of 31 and still really in love. We often get comments that our relationship is beautiful and that we are so much in love.
" {ENFJs} try to give their love to everyone equally; they are not jealous or possessive of their partner." I wonder if I'm the only INFP who maybe wants a little specialness or exclusivity in the relationship, in terms of knowing my partner has a love they only give me. Speaking only for myself, I know that I tend to reserve a lot of affection and expression of love, specifically for my significant other (well, back when I had one).
Today my ENFJ love interest said I was jealous.. I’m INFP. He was correct but it’s just because INFP are insecure from toxic previous relationships and most INFPs are lovestarved. I don’t think we can help it at times.
After getting out from a toxic relationship, I'm really pressured when it comes to topics about relationships but hearing how ENFJs are, it somehow comforts me.
Me, INFP, got out of a toxic relationship last year and recently met an ENFJ who quickly became my boyfriend and he’s literally my Prince Charming! He calls me his princess!! And I didn’t know until he took the test that a prince-Princess dynamic is pretty common/labeled with our relationship
Same, i just went through an absolute hell of a toxic relationship and i was so deeply hurt i felt like i never wanted to fall in love with someone ever again but this video does give hope
It's okay to be that way, take your time to heal. Relationships can be a sore topic for some people and it's completely understandable to be a bit restricted at first. Though, take care of yourself and I'm sure you'll heal the right way. You don't deserve any toxicness and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Good luck with everything!
I just found out recently that my best friend is an ENFJ (and I’m an INFP) and our bond is so pure, it isn’t hard to talk to her even tho I’m socially awkward with *everyone* as in that with every other person, there is *always* an awkward silence. It’s very tiring to deal with that as an INFP, cus I like making friends (but I’m terrible at it) But surprisingly, it’s always fun and easy to strike up a conversation with that one best friend. So far, our friendship has lasted for *years,* even tho we both struggled with keeping in contact (because of many reasons not in our hands) but I just saw her yesterday in person for the first time this year (last time was last year in may) and even tho we didn’t plan well, our meeting was still fun. So, I don’t necessarily believe ENFJs & INFPs are only compatible in romantic relationships, but I also think they are just as compatible in friendships (that seem to last very long, as well)
Agreed, love the ENFJ in my life and her daughter as my Soul Sister and neice. We are just so congruent and symbiotic. So very different on the surface but share so many common interests, humour and emotions.
As an INFP I can understand why we would be attracted to the ENFJ even if they are extroverted and talk to many people. I had a crush and he is an ENFJ and it was so obvious that a beautiful connection was there. He is married, that’s where I draw the line. Oh well, that apparently my life story.
Mine (ENFJ) and my brother’s (INFP) relationship has always been commented on as we grew up. People would always say that they’d never seen siblings get on like we do. He’s my absolute rock and without him I think I would have grown up feeling very confused and alone. He has incredible patience with people and has taught me so many amazing life lessons. We communicate in a way that is so beautiful and in group settings we notice things others don’t and always glance at each other to acknowledge that we’ve noticed too. The bond is strong and it’s amazing to hear videos like this, it just reaffirms and reminds me of the truly magnificent bro I have. #emosh #justmovedoutimisshim
Wow, that is such a beautiful contribution to your brother. I love that. I wish I had that with my sister. You are lucky Kaylie, treasure every moment you have with him. All the best.
ENFJ here married to an INFP for 35 years, we were engaged a few weeks after we met and married six months later. Best decision I ever made in my life!!
I love ENFJs but don’t trust them. They’re master manipulators and rarely reveal what they truly think about you. You’re also just one of many for them unlike how special they are to you and i know infps care about being that “special” person for someone. Please don’t ever put them on a pedestal like many young infps do. ENFJs do make great companions though and I am blessed to have them in my life just as I am happy for all the different types I have in my life that inspire and teach me about life. - infp
I'm either INFJ or ENFJ and crushing on an INFP at work, it's really awkward between us now because I came on way to strong after hiding and fighting my feelings for this INFP from the start, so it probably took him by surprise when I flirted with him. But I freaked out when he flirted back. Now he turned cold after lingereing around me to feel me out, but I can't let him because I am way too self concious and nervous around him. He is not okay, and he always looks extremely anxious and down hiding his face when he sees me or I walk past him. :/ Makes me really sad. I just want him to be happy.
Infp here. He probably feels very self conscious about letting you know his feelings for you which he seems to actually like you and then hes not sure if you really like him or just messing. Be honest with him. Infps value honesty and making sense of things.
@Nilsfried I did and he was showing interest again, but we didn't see each other for a while and I guess he heard something about me which changed his view, at first I tought he was fed up with me then I tought he might think I'm just friendly (and surpress his desire) but now it hit me after doing some research on infp anger, that he is probably MAD at me or despises me since he does not care to impress me anymore, is ignoring me, avoiding eye contact and was sarcastically teasing me aswell (seemed like passive aggression in retrospection but not sure). So yeah, fuck me. You INFP's are incredibly hard to read. And that comes from someone who does not have problems usually reading people. I really can't tell what he is thinking or why his behaviours changed, all I know is he keeps discussing shit with my colleagues and it makes me think he's either kind of dumb or mallicious by now.
@Tulak HordCan't imagine, he is a very handsome men, athletic build and high facial symmetry. Some middle aged Woman at my work react positively to him by touching their hair. Yes I did confront him and he (was telling me he did not talk about me with my coworkers but maybe he just wanted to save face, or I'm low key hullucinating and paranoid) he seemed a bit immature and stupid but maybe he was nervous (his personality changes a lot) , also somewhat uncomfortable with my flirting, which in return made me unsure how to act around him (I felt rejected, he said I should not care what anyone thinks and just do my thing at work, of course I would read between the lines), the next day as I walked past him and I lowered my head and avoided his gaze, he was blurting out a greeting calling me by my nickname extremely enthusiastially (kind of immature aswell since I obviously was avoiding him, guys would do better consider the girl state of mind and mood) and I gave him an irritated look (felt so friendzoned) he apollogized and laughed nervously, now he was always greeting me by my nickname but I got CPTSD and switch between being friendly and sometimes duo to adrenaline rush and hypervigilance extremely assertive and (which he interpreted it as me shouting at him (probably did) and rejection, he always gets very nervous and unsure of himself then, I am not conciously pushing him away but sending mixed signals. I do feel bad and like he might think I'm just messing with him. Gotta get a grip on my CPTSD for sure. Regardless of this guy.
@@saranox7319 similar situation but he is an ENFJ and I am an INFP. I wish he forgets some of those interactions we had. I said sorry but want to say a big sorry again, just don't want him to think that I am playing with him. Parents are against relationship too.
@@saranox7319 I’m am INFP, and I’ve alienated a friend before with my sense of humor. I said some really mean things, and then I never saw him again. The thing is that, with me, once I know someone really well, I feel like I can joke around with them. So, what I said to him was the opposite of how I felt, and it was supposed to be funny because I would never actually say such things. I don’t have his contact information or any mutual friends, so now he’s gone. That was 25 years ago. I’ve learned from this experience that, if I’m going to use irony for humor, it has to be obvious that it’s a joke. Also, I’ll never risk disaster again just to make conversation.
Finally found my ENFJ as an INFP. And it is exactly as the video shows. Already on the third date we were sure that we met our Soulmate. I cant imagine a more powerful couple than INFP and ENFJ
Six weeks in and we are falling very much deeply in love. She makes me feel so good about myself. And I her, she tells me. Took us over 55 years to meet which we did by pure chance and luck, the good forces out there were smiling that day. ENFJ + INFP = forever love Peace!
I’ve been working for almost 10 years at my current workplace. And i’ve been single ever since I started working. As an INFP, I always wanted to have someone that is not just a partner/husband, but can also be my best friend, someone that I can communicate with and share the same wavelength. Last year there’s a new staff, he’s way younger than I am. Recently, in the past few months, somehow we have the opportunities to talk more about our interests and values, things that are unrelated from our work and I notice we are quite similar, and I always enjoy talking to him. I recently found out he’s an ENFJ. I started to do some research about his personality type and pleasantly surprised to learn than our personalities are very compatible to each other, everything just makes sense. I feel the connection between us but I just don’t know where to start 😅 He’s the first ENFJ that I met in my life and I never feel this way about someone. There’s just something special about him and make me attract to him. He also shares a lot about his problems to me, things that he didn’t share with other colleagues and sometimes seek for advice from me. But I’m scared that he only thinks of me as a trusted colleague or an older “sister” 😂
I'm INFP. I've met an ENFJ. We're friends...and then I just started liking him. And because they're perceptive, he already knows I like him even when I didn't say anything. 😂 Can't lie to an ENFJ. He detects if there's something wrong even before I say anything. He's also very sweet and I feel complete whenever he's around. Idk if he likes me. He never said anything. 🥲 But he gives me time and attention. I guess ENFJs do that for everyone? 🥲 Update after 2months: We are so in love with each other. 🥰 Update after 4 months of talking: He admitted he's married for 9yrs with a 6yr old son. He's best friend told me there's another baby otw. We stopped talking by the 6th month. İdk what happened to him now. We never got into an official relationship although we'd tell each other İ love you everyday. He was always unsure of what he wants so it makes sense why after he told me the truth. Anyway meeting him led me to my fiancé who is an İNFJ and I've never experienced love, attention and interest reciprocated equally like this. Overall the connection with the ENFJ is really strong and everything felt easy and light. İ honestly thought he was the one because that's the strongest connection I've ever had I'm glad he isn't the one now. 😅
As an ENFJ male, we aren't forthcoming with our feelings or emotions for the other person unless we're fairly sure it'll be reciprocated. If your ENFJ is spending extra time with you specifically then perhaps he has interest! I'm currently dating an INFP and seriously didnt know she had interest in me until I confessed my feelings haha.
@@WhosIggy He does spend extra time with me! He schedules calls just to play guitar and sing for me. 😂 Ever since we met he's been calling me every week. He said he drops his guard down with me, that I'm a good listener, that I am his cheerleader (I always help him feel better whenever he had a bad day), he listens to my opinion, he said no one has ever been like me before because I genuinely am invested in him. 😅 (At first I was just genuinely curious and caring that's why I give him attention. He's very kind to me so I am very kind to him too.) He also plans to call me often everytime he cools down at the gym. 😂 So he confirmed I like him when I got jealous. He asked directly if I'm jealous and I was shocked. I regretted saying anything but I didn't want to look like I was crazy for no reason, so I admitted it. He acted as if it was just natural so I was confused if he understood that meant I like him. 😂 He did understand. But he never said anything about it. No rejection but he seemed happy about it. 🤔 When I got jealous he told me I don't have anything to be jealous about. He made sure I feel better. 😭 It's so unexpected how he handled it. He's just so patient. I expected him to get annoyed at me and run away haha. When I ask him sometimes why he calls, he only says "Idk. I enjoy talking to you." 🥲 I was a bit expressive with my care for him because he is also very expressive with how much he appreciates me for talking to him. He always thanks me for it. He says he's sad when we don't talk. But he still haven't said anything and I'm scared to ask because I don't wanna be hurt rn. I didn't want to like him I tried to deny it to myself at first. But how can i not like him! He's such an amazing person! 🥰 I guess I'm the INFP who is not afraid to tell my feelings but this time I didn't plan to tell him anything, he just already knew. 😂 So I just talk to him as if it's a normal thing to express my feelings. 😏 He doesn't complain about it. He enjoys that I care for him. He's such a good listener too. He accepts me for me. Let's me be myself. I feel really free with him. Anyway he still calls me his beloved friend. 🥲 So, you guys aren't forthcoming with emotions but you guys aren't also shy to give compliments and appreciation. So I'm confused..😂
i like an ENFJ and i have this unexplainable emotional attraction to him i've never felt before. we arent even that close yet and i feel so comfortable around him. i feel cared for and valued already.
I'm INFP male. I really connect with ENFJ and INFJ, especially with the former, maybe because i encounter them a lot more often. But it looks like the problem with them are that often they aren't attuned with their emotions and they can just disappear if they see some negative trait by overthinking too much that later it can lead to s bigger problem.
Lol it's true like we don't like to go inward too much. We like to keep things fun and lighthearted! Yes, we're not that attuned to our own emotions, but we notice the emotions of others. We're weirdos! 😂😂
As an infp i always thought that two people in a relationship should be similar to have a common ground yet different enough to better each other and bring out each others potential and learn to grow, i think thats why i love enfjs so much Edit: yall all these wholsome comments are making me emotional... Hopefully one day ill find my enfj T_T
This would be my dream relationship as an INFP *sigh. But the problem is that it's hard for a homebody like me to get out there to places where I might meet an ENFJ. Besides, usually it's only the really shy, indecisive men who fall for me, and their insecurity makes me incredibly nervous. I need someone grounded and courageous.
It's encouraging and heart warming to see videos like this, I'd love a relationship like this, but it's deflating to remember that relationships are a case by case basis. There are many INFP+ENFJ couples with air tight relationships, but some couples break up simply out of miscommunication, or any number of personal reasons in their lives. That being said, I'm waiting for a chance to see for myself. As an INFP, I hope I mean an ENFJ girl someday, and see for myself if we can form this deep emotional connect.
My experience with INFP is more of a platonic bromance with my friend. My brother is also ENFJ and the 3 of us are the best of friends. I've recently started seeing a INFP and we have a really good chemistry together but it's very early days
It's still going well but we live about an hour away from each other so tend to see each other on weekends at the moment. Unfortunately she's had to isolate due to covid the past few weeks so haven't seen her in about 3 weeks but talk most days
INFP here. Love my ENFJ and yet, sometimes when reflecting on a conversation between us, I get a little niggling feeling that he is a little judgy- like he finds me adorable, AND is helping to "fix" me.?
So my current boyfriend is an ENFJ. I’m an INFP & I truly feel like I met my dream person, he feels the same way. Not only is the attraction there but we share similar views of the world, society and family dynamics/ lifelong goals. We’ve only been dating a few months, it’s my First time dating an ENFJ & I feel like I’ve known him forever.. it’s crazy🥹 We rarely argue and we always share deep, insightful conversations about many topics, our dreams, fears, childhood. He’s always teaching me new things and recommending me new books to read and learn from. And vice versa. He’s also very laidback, another quality I look for, nonjudgmental when dealing with people and understanding. As an INFP it’s so hard to find someone who truly understands you and accepts you for who you are. But the last thing our relationship is fake. I think the main factor that brings these personality types together is their yearn & guest for not only an authentic partner, but an authentic life. It’s so hard to find genuine people nowadays. I pray things end up going well with him down the road. Another similarity between the 2 is the playfulness, sense of humor and childlike behavior. While both personality types are definitely mentally mature and highly intelligent, they have a kid at heart personality. As an INFP this is also something I’ve struggled with hiding my whole life and felt like I was being judged for but he is exactly like me. Whenever we’re together we are always laughing, affectionate and doing stupid stuff lol. Like I said it’s only been a couple months and we both are already thinking about marriage, but also want to take our time. But it’s crazy how both of us feel as though we’ve never met someone like the other, someone where you don’t get any red flags from, that tick all the boxes, that you can see yourself with, doing the most mundane things in life. Other people I’ve dated in the past I’ve always felt like the spark or connection was not fully there, or I was settling just to be with someone but there were so many differences between us. With this guy, it’s like I’ve met the male version of myself with just a few slightly irrelevant differences. It’s true when they said that INFPxENFJ is a match made in heaven.☺️
Yes! Your story of love is a very similar reflection of my own. My INFP and I both make each other feel really good about ourselves in a way that is authentic yet amazingly simple somehow. I think it's like being in a state of elation, not sure how we get there exactly other than being who we are but it is real this mutual state. Peace!
I’m a ENFJ and my last relationship was a INFJ. It’s a connection like no other, many circumstances made us apart but the connection is indescribable still. Funny because I didn’t know he was a INFJ until I make him take the test and now I realize how much it makes sense.
Just came here after taking a test with a my somewhat best friend...Actually we just knew each other like a year ago....I (an INFP) usually am not usually that forward but for some reason even before I knew him as a person, even before I could see him(we met virtually in office lol) i just felt like talking to him.....i just took an immediate liking like something told me it's a good friendship.....but sometime later we found out we have similar interests and values( at least most of them but ofcourse he has his own, but I feel that's what makes him...him and it's just small differences so I let it go ..) And the relationship grew and grew and here we are today as good friends....He really motivated me, I have dreams and fantasies and he's someone who's bent on making me realise them ...he's always there to push me, relate with me and I sometimes I just feel like there could be something special more than what meets the eye.....but i know he doesn't have such interests in mind (and partly because I've always told him I hate relationships due to past experiences and that is how he sees me ☹️) so i just keep it all within myself.....but the connection is soo strong I can't deny it.....I don't know how he feels about me exactly.......And today out of the blue I tot I'll ask him to take the test and I just saw that INFP and ENFJ are such good match and everything about us is true......he's currently building up his life and here I am whining about these feelings in my heart......I'm soo confused and don't know what to do🥲 I'd love if and INFP or ENFJ's with similar experiences can share some suggestions/advice This turned out longer than I expected sorry for the long comment and thank you for sparing a few minutes to go through this😄😄💕
Sounds to me like the both of you really care about each other! That's great and I think that the chances are in your favor that he feels the same way towards you that you feel towards him. Though, if he does like you like that, then the chances are that he doesn't want to tell you because you told him you don't like relationships and he doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable or lose you by messing up because he doesn't know if you like him or not. I suggest you tell him how you feel! I'm an Enfj and my boyfriend, who's an Infp, was the one to confess his feelings to me and we're together now and happier than ever! It's strange because as much as we loved each other, I probably never would have brought myself to tell him and would have regretted it because I never would have seen him again since it was the last day of highschool where he confessed to me, and I confessed in return. Just find a way to tell him, or you'll regret wasting so much time. I'm certain he feels the same way about you, because I'm the same way with my boyfriend. 😋 Goodluck, and sorry for the long reply, though I suppose we're even now. 😂
Just sharing: I am an ENFJ, and had strong feelings towards an INTJ .. she rejected me over and over because she has a long term life time plan and falling in love is not included and will distract her. She says I am a really good person and if she ever thought about having a relationship, I will be the one, but love is not what she is expecting in her checklist. She is so guarded up and I never cracked it open. It took me months to move on and accept it .. I wonder if there is a type that the INTJ types might take their guards off spontaneously
As a fellow ENFJ, all of that aloofness and guardedness is really draining, isn't it? I don't feel intj are a great match. They're just too cold imo. Imo ENFJ need someone more affectionate and sensitive. Someone more loving. Hope you find someone like that, you seem like an awesome dude.
As long you don't describe yourself through your Myers-Briggs and let me get to know you first, otherwise I might say no to you, just in case, to not get conned. Everything, in the video aplied.
I'm an INFP and have always just looked at mbti stuff to kinda just have fun and learn but suddenly these ENFJ and INFP videos keep popping up. Finally gave in and now these videos making me feel all sad cause I never fall in love before but it actually do sound lovely >:(
That is so unfortunate. I'm so sorry 😔 Unfortunatel Narcissists tend to think that they have more empathy and compassion then they actually do. They only care about themselves and will never admit that out loud. Even in a test such as Myers Briggs. Another thing to note is that personality types are a tool for us to understand ourselves and others. Not everyone from the same type is going to be the same. Just as there are different of INFPs, there are different types for the other personalities.
I got a crush on a guy i didnt even know he was an ENFJ . I didnt even met him in real life just knew him from social medias , his energy ,vibes and values attracted me 😩
I didn't realize it until this past year but I have dated almost exclusively INFP's with one or two INFJ's and maybe an ISFP which affirmed that I'm pretty much a walking stereotype of the ENFJ. INFP's are truly amazing....WHEN THEY ARE HEALTHY! Watch out no offense to INFP's or really two of my Ex's but the indecisiveness is already something an ENFJ or ENTJ is gonna have to work hard with their INFP partner to manage it but how I can tell an INFP is unhealthy is just dropping the ball on date night or even hanging out on the couch on a rainy day which is peak INFP...I have seen them drop the ball and when they get super stressed they become manipulative, sarcastic, critical of anyone who deviates from their morals and values to an insane degree...like wise ENFJ's can get very emotionally manipulative too...and they withdraw which is something I consciously do if end of the world level stress hits me and I know I will just be a monster to others. I've retaken it on different websites and its always ENFJ, ENTJ rarely and ENFP once. Its funny I am not super amazing at guessing everyone's MBTI's but but I know all the xNFx's and xNTx's especially recognizing an ENFJ, INFP obviously, INFJ, and ENFP's the latter of which is an interesting "introverted extrovert"!
I could write, film and produce this video in a day and still go deeper than what's touched on.. not much explanation, pop psychology. Like photoshop tutorials that just want you to subscribe and make you download a script.. Sorry to the maker but it's true..❤️ go deeper into functions of mbti and then it becomes helpful
As an infp I'd say I can never be in a relationship with enfj's they may be compatible on a basic understanding level but just cannot build a relationship off of that. Intj's as much as they're misunderstood are much more compatible with infp's after the initial phase of not getting each other, if you get past that Stage they're heaven. Also, enfj's not being possessive and jealous is the biggest lie, they can be extremely suffocating. 😂
Oh no.. 😂 I'm an enfj and I would never want to control my partner, who's an infp. We are so deeply connected with each other though and things just feel so perfect and we trust each other with everything. I'm clingy as hell though, we both are, but neither of us are possessive. Jealousy though, sure, every now and again, but for me, it's more like envy and I'll get over it in a few minutes and it isn't intense. He's so amazing though.
Sorry to hear that, I'm an ENFJ, I hate being shallow and I just love deep and meaningful connections so much. So this is a little strange to me to imagine. Though I suppose everyone is different after all so it can happen. Goodluck though, I hope that you find someone soon who can satisfy your emotional needs.
Enfj here, I have infp mother and sister and we're quite compatible. I like how my sister and I understand each other and have very productive conversations. My other favorite types can be intj, like my best friend. I think they're so interesting, and I also like intps. How about you?