6 Reasons Why Someone Suddenly Loses Interest In You 

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I've never dated anyone, but this is STILL useful! 😎

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@@allmakotosarebestmakotos4261 Yes. Just yes

True oof

Time may change me, but I can't change time.

ugh i hate changes so much.

@@bubbledafoxy so do I..

@@bubbledafoxy I think it's because of the others; because you can sometimes be scared to change and you think that: "But after I change, they may judge me or say that I changed and that they don't accept that I changed" or sometimes it's just something you have a fear of and that you never experienced so that's new for you. In my opinion, they can judge you if they want: it's not them who controls your life; it's YOUR life, not theirs.

Have you ever heard of the law of attraction before?

@@Conquering-depression Yes actually! but I never really understood it

me too ;-;

SAME

@@ashleytesfaye2240 it’s basically the concept that you attract things into your life based on your thoughts. Sounds like a wacky idea in the beginning but I’ve learnt over the years that it actually works... just like how you were thinking about if he lost interest in you and then this vid popped up to answer your question 😅

Duh

Lol yes

Well, I am now anyway lmao

Same

💯💯

Sometimes the universe intervenes and stops something going any further so you don’t get hurt as they know it won’t work and there is something and somebody better out there for you ❤️🙏🏿

Her loss. Keep your head up King 👑

He stopped trying to make me laugh and really stopped showing he cared. When "Do you want me here?" was frequently met with "I don't particularly care either way." I decided it was probably not going to happen or work. We're not officially a thing but I'm talking to someone else who excels where this person failed. The new person never hides that he cares and he's very supportive.

Hmm it happens but I do try to make an effort.

😭😭😭😭😭

A mood😔

From personal experience I can confirm

Im exactly the same except she’s emotionally distant

Factss

Lmao I was clingy and my ex emotionally distant,it doesn't work...

Good advice

Yup

That’s just... so bleak. I don’t want to live my life like that.

@@DR053 right? As a hopeless romantic, I rather see this in a Rose Colored Glasses type of way and enjoy happiness and tragedy altogether

@@DR053 live however you see fit. I just thought I'd share what life taught me over and over again. If a perfect love exists where you can love truly and openly and honestly and get attached, and if it can work, I would like to have it. Maybe the problem is in me, too. It's a possibility as well. Maybe I never choose the right people. I wish you luck in your love life :)

Thank you❤ But bish how is this comment from a month ago 👀

How is this comment from a month ago?

Tysm! ˭̡̞(◞⁎˃ᆺ˂)◞*✰

Thanks.

@@meredithschultz1124 secrets 🤭

@Krishna Patel hey bro don't worries about it, everyone are facing someday or the other, most importantly I would like to say self love is very much essential . If you love yourself everyone is automatically love even if they don't you won't get hurt by thinking why don't they love because you are already filled with self-love , now you might wonder what is self-love , don't I love myself ? Yes you do love yourself but in a way that it is not satisfactory for you . What is self-love than ? Self-love is the ability to talk sweetly with self like we do with other , self-love is taking care of mind, emotions, feelings. Self love is feeling the mind the best things by reading, listings and watching pure positive content which feel you with full of positive thoughts and energy. And please don't expect others to love you because it's their choice,weather to love someone or not . right ? So be the best version of your self, less expect from other and do the right Karma ( thoughts, words and actions) everytime. Bonus advice :- start your days by watching spiritual and motivational teacher like - *BK Shivani, Sadhguru, Sandeep Maheshwari, Guru gopal Das*. Lastly with full of love and respect peace, purity, prosperity, love and happiness be upon you forever 🙏🙏

Thanks

That's nice and all but I'm still not gonna try though 🙏

@@idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716 username though!😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@sorryformyexistance143 😂🙏 Thanks. My username always gets special attention for some reason

Lmao, but same :(

😂 I hear u

Don't worry you're not alone :'(

Its okay... women have chased all the good men away...but the bad boy sociopaths are still out there for ya!

I know that feeling so badly. Not sure if this will help, but I'd like to quote El Goonish Shive (a webcomic I've followed for ages, and happens to have one of the least toxic fandoms I've ever encountered). "Being single is not the same as being alone. It may suck that youcan't be romantic with the one you love, but you have people who care about you, and they like you for who you are." - Susan, El Goonish Shive.

I was dumped out of nowhere too and it really hurts. We've been together for 6 yrs and he just ended it like that... I've been broken and lost and I still am to this day. Made me think that being in a relationship is really a gamble, damages and betrayal guaranteed. It's scary. Maybe it's not really worth it and just stay alone and keep the walls up. I feel like a single parent for my dog now 😂

@@veimaniego5502 oh idk about that tbh, I can agree that a relationship is a gamble. You gamble with your heart and sometimes you'll lose but when you win you win big. I'm sure that whatever happened was not purely down to you and that you can and will find someone worthy of you and you worthy of them, it will be a waiting game however. I wish you the best and the same for your cute doggo 😂 being a mama for that is the best feeling ever lmao

No Bru, this will make her depressed and she’ll probably get mad at you for making her feel negative do something positive for her.

@@kingmuizz708 relationship are just going through heartbreaks after heartbreaks until you find the one and imo, at that point it's not even worth it.

@Krishna Patel What has Christianity to do with any of this? Lol.

me too

Have you figured out why you were obsessed with him? I ask because I've never dated and I'd like some advice to keep from making mistakes.

@@DreamQuillRose bc he was my first and bc i was so in love with the idea of, well, love. i think you should just be careful about your actions and the way you think about your partner in general. i kept on thinking about our relationship as a "he&i" situation and not a "we", if that makes sense. i always i overthought things and i guess he got tired of our constant routine of 'me getting upset-him adjusting for me-repeat' where it shouldve been 'either of us communicating our issues-both of us adjusting for one another and both of us taking into consideration of each other's feelings-fixing the problem'. ive been single ever since he left but ive noticed that my relationship with everyone in general improved when i saw where i was wrong and i grew and learned. i hope you get what i mean bc im noy good at explaining things but i wish you the best and i hope ur future relationships go smoothly and not be like mine :D

There's a power struggle phase? What's that? And are there more phases?

Flexing on us hard

Lol

Happy Valentine's day !!! Hope y'all enjoyed it 😊

You don't have to worry and go through with this Headache.

I agree. You don't have to endure emotional abuse or relationship drama when you're alone. You can pretty much do whatever you want. If you want companionship you can always get a cat or a dog. They're loyal and loving. If you want intimacy or physical contact you can go to a massage therapist. It's very relaxing. ALL WITHOUT THE DRAMA!!

@@josebro352 That's Pure Facts right there.

But little do we know we’re just making excuses cuz we’re lonely ;’D

@@user-ps2tk7fy7w it's all pros and cons lol i think friendship can teach you many things and is useful so i hipe ppl don't get traumatized by unhealthy relationships

Run, run away and never return

Best advice.

Agreed. The right people would stay, would wait and would face everything together. If they lose interest then they're not the right person since day 1.

Or they at the right time cause they be teaching you lesson / experience

Sometimes someone really needs to focus on their work and making a living, especially if it's the busiest week of the year for her business.

When a girl wants to get to know you but you keep trying to shut her out

Sometimes it's just to difficult to do so. Suppose you are in your senior year and have to give a very hard entrance exam for getting into college and for that you gotta study hard for like 12 hrs per day to make the cut-off. Do you think you would be able to give time to a relationship while having so much on your plate? Also stress could really mess up a relationship badly so I won't recommend anyone to get into a relationship, especially an online one if they don't think they are having time for it

He’s playing pubg and I’m watching a million animes😂

Pubg isnt that bad lol..

@@JayXDagger yeah it’s not bad, I actually play it too but it’s just the different priorities...I invest more free time watching anime rather than playing with him and in turn we seem to be drifting. Idk lol

We got them priorities damn straight

I recommend you to a great man his spells and manifestations are the best.💯💯💯💯💯

Dear@Krishna Patel Hi! How are you? Are you an Indian? I am A Bangladeshi. Now, the thing is, nobody knows what love really is, but, it exists. It exists in caring, in exists in fighting , in fun, even in a fall little laugh. Love doesn't only mean kissing or hugging. It means a lot more than that. It's even in when you are being scolded by your parents for good. (Not from toxic people) They scold you, thy get mad at you,you get mad at them and never leave them cause of love. Love is everywhere you just have to find it. So, now that your childhood is lost, you can't get it back and stop thinking about it, remember the good memories because there must be some, and try to love yourself and others in the future. Love, Someone who doesn't matter, but cares..(if I didn't care, I wouldn't write to you)

@Krishna Patel wow! You wanna be a Christian? Ok, I am a muslim, I would suggest if you want to change your religion then become a muslim instead. But, if you don't want, it's ok. And your family does sound a little disturbing(very disturbing, tbh). So, I respect you and your choice. Of course you are an adult and you got the right to speak up. The abusment you had gone through is just wrong happens to a lot of Indians and in Bangladesh? The ratio is worse. Specially on girls. I hate being born these days.Stay safe mate, the world ain't that good. Be confident and be positive. Stay safe and have a great life! Wish everything gets better. Love, Someone

@Krishna Patel same!!!! You are sooooooooooooo right! mate, mine is worse tbh, it's the worst country for women and I am willing to escape my country too. I am 13000% with you. Maybe our religions aren't same but we all are human. Tbh I don't feel human and I am 14

@Krishna Patel it really felt soo amazing to talk to someone openly about these things, thank you very much

@Krishna Patel thank you very much, needed someone like that. Thanks!

It has more to do with instincts and just human(mainly female nature)nature in general, they lose interest easily especially attractive ones that have several guys after her, she ends up hooking up with the more confident and less available one, why? Because he is the prize rather than someone who easily gives himself up and puts the women’s priorities too high. Let me give you advice if I may, in order to love someone properly you must first learn to respect and love yourself, remember you’re a person too

@@bryanbroacosta I was talking about my friendship with a guy but okay

Yeahhhh

@@bryanbroacostawhat if your the one who lost interest but youn wanna let the person go but u dgaf bout there feelings should u let em move on for the better or become the better force the feelings to come back but don’t you think losing em should’nt even happened in the first place if they really were my person

I also had a break up few weeks back :(

Whtsaap him**09134504717

I agree !

How is this 1 month ago..-

Same

@@ash_h2105 Lel

Maybe you'll lose this love because of some reasons in the vdo

Damn Me too. Should we see a doctor?

@@weufmaster Let's gooo !

@@astralitiez y a y

I got worried for a sec 💀

romantic love automatically gives you unrealistic expectations, makes you idealize someone to the point that when you find out they are flawed like everyone, you walk away. you will always be chasing, always being alone and wondering why.

@@GotoMaki4Micah that is exactly what i meant i was just being short i guess😁, well forever alone i dont want to be, i think we do start to see people more realisticly when you comprehend how much we see them based more of our fantasy and desires, especialy when you realize that you are not an gift either 😁, it.s mind opening ...

All I want is a relationship, then expectation will come later

I agree with this ..

@Krishna Patel thats horrible dude f i just wish you good

What if you never want a relationship from the beginning and they keep bugging you?

HELP this just happened to mee-

hOw

Confusion

Da fuq

Wtffffff how!?!?!?!?!

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Gg

Exactly!! Hah

Biem

Well yes sometimes relationship fades

You ever deal with someone who's indirect feelings towards you? I've been there and boy lol...I don't really want involve with someone who aren't sure themselves and ends up be with someone who's trashy for them and yet I got called toxic lmfao. Pathetic really.

How does that potential make it not good?

Or you may love them more than you love yourself so when it ends you feel nearly dead

The sad part is "the person who lose interest" is the one being played

@@L0R3N23 i feel like i died and now i’m a new person…

@@L0R3N23 me rn

I feel like that attraction is based off of physical appearance often? Idk

@@kelekasanasith5778 I mean I never felt attracted to someone sexually before knowing them really well,idk

hello demisexual being

@@Level_of_violence yeah, I honestly just think it's how you think of them; as a friend, significant person, and y'know

Pansexual.

This is completely wrong. Please delete this.

Aɳα αηgєl facts

There are lots of opportunities you cannot turn down,but you dont want to make suffer your SO ...

@@mikekatupisa9853 no it's not facts. People fall out of love. Or fall in love with someone else. The vast majority of the time these things don't happen because the person is "done playing with you" or anything. Please stop spreading these kinds of ideas. They really hurt people.

@@-Teague- No. It can be very true. Not always but sometimes. I know it was for me. Heck most people don't even know what love is, the person I was with definitely didn't. So yeah, it CAN be true. Every situation is different so don't say never.

I spend a year and a few months with someone and out of nowhere he just felt like "love wasn't enough" hahaha this was after planning our life together and all of that stuff.

@@isabellacastro1719 that totally hits hard. Although I haven't spent as much time with her we had planned so many things too. And it's soo painful to look at the plans and the dreams. And I can't imagine how someone just walks away after planning something together. Sorry I feel you

@@itgeln8772 yesss me too he just walked away even without explaining what went wrong I felt useless although I tried to contact him for straight 3 months but he didn't answered any of them.. I can literally feel u i ve never ever thought he will do such thing.. will forget our cute bond 😞I miss him still wanna meet him to know what went wrong what was my mistake....

@@isabellacastro1719 I can relate

@@itgeln8772 I feel you too

Wait wait wait, how do you do that??

@@nahnahnoname4341 OK, I’ll tell you the secret: go to one of their playlists and then just click on random new videos. Some will be unlisted, have fun!

@@vocal_lilly9799 Thank you!!

Thanks for the reminder, it's not easy with the covid to have an interesting life.

But friendships do break too you know :(

this hit me so hard it hurts

😔

I'm weak.

Lmao

Laughed so hard cuz I don't have a life😔

ikr

Hon we pretty much are

Actually no, I don't like her voice! That's why I'm not here often

@Krishna Patel im so sorry about that If u were my friend I wouldn't care how u acted I would help u I've helped quite a bit of ppl to the best of my ability but I want them to know there's someone there for them and that they can be themselves around me

@Krishna Patel hope u feel better soon

oh that sucks :/ but the people meant to be in your life will come and stay, just stay open to new experiences and do your thing :)

@@amcb436 It’s nice to know I’m not the only one struggling with this

Just next time be savage block them as soon you find out when they arent into you or having someone as third party sh*t.

Hahahahhahahhahahahahhaha... Same case....time ? 8 years of friendship . 1 month of misunderstandings. I said sorry(maybe everything was my fault), we started talking but,ego!!!!

"nothing lasts forever except for the time variation △t which starts from the moment 0 at the beginning of universe, and extents to the future, which considered to be infinite: lim △t -> ∞ " -A MONKE

Same

Believe me - you CAN and WILL! I was through that!

@TaEcHWiTa why did you lose interest

Bad timing for me as well

We all feeling the same I see

@@lemonpie_vanilla maybe we can be there for each other. Anyone wants to vent, I'm here haha

If you feel that way maybe you should talk to them... Then you can be sure how they actually feel and help yourself

There are plenty that still sacrifice for love in this day and age. The problem is that you used to be restricted to wherever you were to find potential matches, and maybe by the off handed chance someone you knew introduced you to someone not in your area or group (friend from another school, friend/family member of a friend vising from out of town, etc.) Having the ability to travel more conveniently, and of course the internet, has made it to where no one is limited to the options in their immediate area. people have more of a tendency now to feel, "Well it just didn't work out with this person, maybe someone else is a better match." And they have a plethora of "someone elses" to choose from. So, no, sacrifices do still happen in love today, but more people now either have FOMO (fear of missing out) or choose not to settle, because they don't just have to settle for who's around them or who they might bump into, but have a world full of "potentials" and options

@@purporchid8628 yep, and do you know what happens to the mind when it's left with endless amounts of choices? That's a bit of super market psychology for ya.

@@Resident--a yeah, that is definitely a problem that has come with time. It's like the double edged sword dilemma. There are so many connections that wouldn't have been possible once upon a time, but then there are also the disadvantages and broken hearts that come with it. I still think there are plenty of people capable of sacrifice and compromise when it comes to modern relationships, but we're at this cross-section of lack of communication and (thought to be) unlimited options. Just a whole lot going on at once complicating an already complicated thing we do

I skipped kindergarten

Love is caring for yourself better than others

It comes with being human. Be human. ☮️❤️🙏🏻

Heh me too 🥲

Same here. Trying to convince myself it wasn't my fault.

Same here

Same here

Stfu bot

Thank you I will

What if over 1 person reads this

Don't sub, it's a bot!!!!

@@help5344 what do bots do?

Same it hurts lol

how is this comment a month ago?

Well you never needed them anyway then there's plenty of people out tho will like you for your beutiful heart 💓

@@pengyouu wait I just realized too RU-vid drunk 5 bottles of whiskey lol

TIME TRAVELER!!!!!!!!!

stay strong!

It sounds like you need to address all the other things in your life that you hate. One at a time, maybe. Baby steps.

So sorry 😞 it has to be so hurtful 😞 I love my husband 41 years together and we sleep i different beds and he never supported me even with our 3 daughters They could do What ever they wanted even drugs 😤🤬 And here I am At 58 No job my husband took my car after his truck was taken away He Never has money we pay all The bill super late and we have worked for most of our marriage But he takes it all $$ I can’t even buy much so if I Don’t work he can’t take what little I bring in Also I have a very clean home all laundry done And I am careing for his Dad That lives with us and Is A handful😐🤬😩 I don’t even know we’re to Start 😢wish I had some one That would give me support and help 😞

Life is stressful… why leave your partner because of it? The whole point is to work together through those hardships or the relationship isn’t going to last. Expecting someone to return is never a good idea.

@@Zikrums Well that comment was posted in February of 2021... I found out in September of 2022 that he actually cheated on me with the lady he talked about for no less than 6 months. The "mutual split" was in May of 2019, but the lady's Facebook revealed they officially started dating in November of 2018. And even better, they got married 2 days ago.

XDDDDDDDDDDDD

@Nikolay T lol

I feel you so much cos I have been in a similar situation. He only came to talk to me when he was down or bored but when I needed him he always cut the conversation short. And I ended our friendship cos I felt like he was just using me and I think that’s the best decision I have ever made so try and think about if ur being used or not and if he genuinely cares for u as a friend. If not then do what u think is best for you. 😭😭 erm sorry I probably didn’t help much

Just leave them and move on

I would say, treat him as a friend still, but a less important one. One thing he did for you was make you a little more confident, so use that gift to make new friends.

That is a hard time to live through. Trust me that it will get better but I can't tell you when.

You can't actually do anything about that. Time will heal you. MAybe spend more time with friends or family - don't be alone.

True. Maybe try to do something unusual... Like write a poem? :-) But live is just a journey. It doesn't have to be epic.

@@igorthelight i do , but still feel that way Like , i want to change something in this world, so that mylife will be useful for others I have some plans, but circumstances always stand against me

@@gilnarrahmoun7194 Well... try anyways :-)

Its a sign of being lonely. Be gentle with yourself

This actually have a video on this too but I don’t remember which one

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-CgDqB09KQDU.html

@Areli I hope so.

It's might be a ‘them’ problem, not you

Nah... we all need a form of closure, especially if we can't get it from the person that left us. Wait a couple months to let her settle for now, but DO send it.

I think you have to send this coz she might comes to know, the reason why they got broke up atleast

That happens when you have different life goals

@@Christianityistherightway so you agree its not the right person as it has other life goals than yours.

@@xXtenseXx yes exactly

maybe. if things seem that way.

@@makita-chan2836 Yeah, maybe.

@@Holden8572 only time can tell, i think. although I heard it does happen for some

@@makita-chan2836 Yeah. My ex felt like our love was where it was the right person, but the wrong time. She broke it off with me a few months ago because she needed to work on herself. I just miss her so much.

@@Holden8572 aww, i see. maybe when she's fixed herself or found herself, she'll come back to you. if you wait for her, I guess.