Thank you so much for this video, the last flag just hit the spot, because apparently I was refused by a certain someone because of the same issue of interaction with many female colleagues in my medical speciality. Thanks to Allah SWT for helping me to dodge that bullet.
6 red flags to marriage 1- deen and akhkaq 2- how they treat their parents 3-potentially they will change 4- committing haram prior to marriage 5- being a people pleaser 6- what kind of company they will keep.
Family Family Family Family That's really the biggest pillar I find for a great marriage. If the girls/guys family is messed up. Turn around and get out. Rarely will the character be better than the family. If your family is messed up and some how you are good Muslim. Say Alhamdolillah, not every one gets to be in your position. Don't go marrying into a messed up family as well
I wish I had seen this video before both my marriages. I wouldn't have wasted so much time being married to the wrong men. I will save this video for my kids, ISA.
@@imranxalamin😂😂😂 you’re silly, you do realize the divorce rate is over 50% and second marriages are even higher than that. You do realize that you get married to most likely divorce these days. The odds are working against you. Maybe it’s better not to have an opinion. Saying I don’t mean to be mean, means you’re going to be mean and it’s better just to keep quiet.
Don’t skip it’s Ramadan earn some good deeds Subhanallah x15 Alhamdulillah x15 Allahu Akbar x15 La ilaha illallah x15 Astaghfirullah x15 SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi subhanAllahil azeem x15 La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah x15 Allahumma sali ala Muhammadin wa ala ali muhammadin x12 Astaghfirullah al-azim wa atubi ilayh x11 Ya Rahman, Ya Rahim x15 Allahumma ini zalamtu nafsi zulman kathiran, wa la yaghfiru al- dhunuba illa anta, faghfirli maghfiratan min ‘Indika warhamni, inaka anta al-Ghafur al-rahim x1 La illaha ila anta, subhananaka ini kuntu min al-dhalimin x10 May Allah grant you Jannat al Firdous ameen
May Allah preserve you, accept all our acts of ibadah, answer our duas and strengthen us to worship Him in pleasing ways, Allahumma Baligna Laylatul Qadr...Aameen May Allah bless us with beneficial spouse n kids d coolness of our eyes..Aameen
Need to get married😅💥Also just want 2 remind u all💥(SATURDAY Night)💥could be LAYLATUL QADR Laylatul Qadr is during one of the last 10 nights (odd nights) of Ramadan!!! (🔶30th March - 8th April 🔶). Allah swt says: "The grand night (Laylatul Qadr) is better than a thousand months" (Quran 97:3) 1000 months = 83.4 years. Soo...If you spend this night doing good deeds such as 🔹Zikr 🔹Praying Nafl 🔹 Qur'an etc...then (Insh’Allah) that would be GREATER than doing these good deeds for 1000 months. 💚In one night you'll get GREATER reward than 83 years of Ibadaat 😃 (Good deeds)!!! ✨ PLEASE SHARE✨ this message on other Islamic videos If someone does a good deed on Laylatul Qadr, because you reminded them, then INSH’ALLAH you would get an equal reward as them.
If you do not have a valid reason this would be impermissible my brother. Narrated Anas bin Malik: A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) asking how the Prophet (ﷺ) worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet (ﷺ) as his past and future sins have been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers). Sahih al-Bukhari 5063 First of all, what does I can control my urges mean? You have urges, but you can hold them back for now? How can you assure that this will be so in the future and that Shaytan will push you to commit Zina? You can not know about it and maybe he was the one anchoring this thought in your mind, so you can fall in major sin later on. So marriage would be a protective shield against that. What are valid reasons to avoid marriage? You can not fulfill the rights of a woman, you would be unjust towards her, you are incabale of having children (then it would be still beneficial to marry someone who knows about this and accept it, for the protection from Fitan) Marrying is half of the deen: Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever Allah provides with a righteous wife, Allah has assisted him in half of his religion. Let him fear Allah regarding the second half.” Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ 992 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Suyuti On top it contains many Sunan which could bring you closer to your Lord and goodness. I could quote you know many statements of scholars regarding rulings of getting married etc. and exceptions, when marriage is not necessary/compulsory any longer, bu your comment sounds like you had no proper reason behind it. Narrated Sa`id bin Jubair: Ibn `Abbas asked me, "Are you married?" I replied, "No." He said, "Marry, for the best person of this (Muslim) nation (i.e., Muhammad) of all other Muslims, had the largest number of wives." Sahih al-Bukhari 5069 and God knows best.
Bro don't go far and transgress against yourself Allah says in Qur'aan don't become Christians Allah swt told Muslims to get married and enjoy good and forbid evil
