6 Signs of Manipulation Most People Miss

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Have you ever encountered a manipulator? Have you ever been emotionally manipulated. Some key traits of a manipulative personality are that they are great at reading others and are masters of deception. They can anticipate other people’s needs and use them to their advantage. To help you protect yourself from them, here are a few crucial signs of manipulation most people miss.
Disclaimer: This video is not made to attack anyone. Not all manipulators are not inherently bad people. Some manipulators use their powers for good instead of evil. This type of manipulator is the exception. Most manipulators are characterized by their lack of interest in others.
Did you watch this video and worry that you might be the manipulative one? We also made a video on the signs you're unintentionally manipulative: • 5 Signs You're Uninten...
Writer: Sara Del Villar
Script Editor: Rida Batool
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VO: Lily Hu
Animator: Naphia
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Bradberry, Travis. “9 Signs You’re Dealing with an Emotional Manipulator.” Ladders, Ladders, 13 Apr. 2020, www.theladders.com/career-advice/9-signs-youre-dealing-with-an-emotional-manipulator.
BrainyDose. “14 Signs of Psychological Manipulation Most People Miss.” RU-vid, RU-vid, 29 Oct. 2020, • 14 Signs of Psychologi... .
Brenner, Abigail. “9 Classic Strategies of Manipulative People.” Psychology Today, Sussex Publishers, 27 Oct. 2016, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201610/9-classic-strategies-manipulative-people.
Legg, Timothy J., and Kimberly Holland. “How to Recognize the Signs of Emotional Manipulation and What to Do.” Healthline, 13 Feb. 2018, www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/emotional-manipulation.
Ni, Preston. “14 Signs of Psychological and Emotional Manipulation.” Psychology Today, Sussex Publishers, 11 Oct. 2015, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201510/14-signs-psychological-and-emotional-manipulation.
Shortsleeve, Cassie. “How to Tell If Someone Is Manipulating You-And What to Do.” Time, Time, 16 Oct. 2018, www.time.com/5411624/how-to-tell-if-being-manipulated/.
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@ICEcoldJT 3 года назад

“Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people. You shouldn’t drink poison just cuz you’re thirsty.”

@kimkoya5673 3 года назад

This was some legit advice bro... Thxx

@shrowdyclowdy2056 3 года назад

STFU aight you aren't Aristotle or sum

@Sonic-um8ph 3 года назад

This one deserves a screenshot, thank you so much bro for sharing advice 🙏🏻

@nobodyasked12345 3 года назад

@@Cherrycreamsoda1 if you’re dying of thirst and drink poison, you’re still gonna die. It’s not gonna make a difference

@pkmntrainerred4247 3 года назад

perfect. Being thirsty until you find actually drinkable water (Being alone UNTIL you find people worth your trust) is better than drinking poison thinking it will satisfy your thirst even though clearly poison kills you instead of killing your thirst (it is better than being in company of toxic people to just have friends even if you know you will suffer instead of getting the true experience of friendship)

@vanbi9430 3 года назад

1 - They bring you to their territory 0:41 2 - Prospecting 1:08 3 - Informational overload 1:32 4 - Fake facts 2:15 5 - Preying on your sensibilities 2:55 6 - Silent treatment 3:31

@vanbi9430 3 года назад

@Dilhida Jahan You’re welcome :)

@sophcass2974 3 года назад

Thanks u so much

@boba.1207 3 года назад

Ayyy Zhongli

@Cherrycreamsoda1 3 года назад

Thanks

@ieatshortpeopleandsimps1201 3 года назад

Thank you

@dxrk2737 3 года назад

*Dislikes are from Manipulators who know they're manipulating*

@giyourgurt 3 года назад

Uhm.. I actually didn't.. I feel guilty-

@iambutterpuppy1143 3 года назад

*Me watching this video knowing full well I'm manipulative* no I am not a bad manipulative person I DONT do everything on this list, only do things that can help me determine how best to keep people around me happy. It is purely for me though because I am very empathetic and latch onto people around mes feelings.

@tesstinggnw1822 3 года назад

lmaoo i manipulate people into agreeing with me by rambling and saying random shit until they're on my side 😭

@bonny22 3 года назад

People assume I give them the silent treatment, when in fact I'm doing my best not to say anything I'll regret later. It's often manipulaters themselves that want to engage you in that toxic conversation to prove you wrong. They'll keep talking until you say alright, just to shut them up.

@NavdeepThakur88 3 года назад

Why would you say something that you'll regret later? If you can say things as you please in any relationship, you my friend have an upper hand in that relationship.

@giyourgurt 3 года назад

I'm just trying my best not to talk and sometimes I'm speechless.. I just don't want to hurt that person.. Idk if I'm the toxic one, I'm really sorry if I am.. I didn't know..

@MightyBrend 2 года назад

@@giyourgurt my therapist told me that it's better to be vulnerable and open about how you feel. If the other person really cares for you they'll listen and give you the opportunity to discuss whatever the problem is. Silence hurts, I'm on the recieving end of it now and it's really affected badly. I'd prefer that person just to be honest and open and engage in dialogue, even if what they have to say initially is hurtful. I would have listened and would have happily discussed it to try and find resolution. Instead I feel like that person has discarded me, lied to me, and doesn't care about how I feel.

@chaosdromanah8620 3 года назад

When you realized you do this unconsciously

@sour5620 3 года назад

:’)

@Luvrbimbo 3 года назад

yikes

@Ch3eSy_Cheesecake 3 года назад

I feel this

@user-xr6dh3dd8f 3 года назад

Ay fammm 🤡👏

@reve_catcger 3 года назад

And you realized it 1 month earlier than the video was released :'D (this is a joke pls don't attack me)

@footballshorts4241 3 года назад

Don't be manipulated by your bad temporary feelings, like being angry,sad etc. They block your happiness in life.

@derdinohorst 3 года назад

mhm :D Thanks for motivating in the comment section

@spoiled_birthday_cake 3 года назад

This have the same energy as " you're angry? Well just calm down" or "you're sad? What a drama"

@moonzzlight 3 года назад

But h o w

@Tristan1886 3 года назад

Ah yes If it was only that easy😳

@tvtgacha8303 3 года назад

Bestie they exist for a reason🤠

@ALI-bn4iy 3 года назад

I love how you started to add dsmp Easter eggs again. I'm so happy the animator(s) have done that!!!

@odditycat2716 3 года назад

Yeah, this animator in particular (Naphia) does it all the time She's actually a large part of the reason I'm getting into dsmp lol

@ALI-bn4iy 3 года назад

@@odditycat2716 Who is your favourite member

@Psych2go 3 года назад

We launched personality trait merch on our website! You can get yours here: bit.ly/3c6nhMw Disclaimer: This video is not made to attack anyone. Not all manipulators are inherently bad people. Some manipulators use their powers for good instead of evil. This type of manipulator is the exception. Most manipulators are characterized by their lack of interest in others.

@mikaltewelde9683 3 года назад

Hi Can I have shootout

@mikaltewelde9683 3 года назад

Pliss i am your biggest fan

@sour5620 3 года назад

Hi!

@thewea3042 3 года назад

I really want it ;-; but I got no money :'(

@mikaltewelde9683 3 года назад

Your videos are amazing but its okay if you say no

@lorettagrey7383 3 года назад

The fact that I've done some of this without realizing it. And this is coming from someone who's v empathetic and genuinely wants others to succeed. Thank you for this video, I'm gonna work on it :)

@sansadrake4133 3 года назад

That's not manipulation then. Manipulation is when you're trying to achieve some type of result

@leleste5465 3 года назад

You don’t need to work on it Work with it

@leleste5465 3 года назад

You are helping people make better decisions without their knowledge

@crystalgacha2218 3 года назад

Easter eggs of the day!! 1:00 - jschlatt and lmanberg flag 2:00 - ranboo poster 2:25 - T-TECHNO IS THAT YOU?! 2:35 - RANBOO LORE OH NO 3:00 - grass block, ranboo plushie 3:35 - creeper pillow Edit : Thumbnail - adventure time

@pagreyson 3 года назад

THANK YOU BESTIEEE

@Cataclistic_cataclysm 3 года назад

Weow. Amazing

@emilyhuber73 3 года назад

THANK YOU FOR TIMESTAMPS!

@spinixster 3 года назад

and finn from adventure time in the thumbnail I think

@crystalgacha2218 3 года назад

@@spinixster yess

@twi-knightthefox5543 3 года назад

I’m trying to understand people around me and myself, this channel has helped me dramatically with understanding others and dramatically improved my natural ability of being a likable person

@derdinohorst 3 года назад

thats great! XD

@pizzariotin 3 года назад

same honestly, i used to be super shy and had no friends, but because of this channel and other sources and many psychology books i've read, i feel like i've improved and i gained a couple of friends.

@derdinohorst 3 года назад

@@pizzariotin thats a great improvement!

@sindhujalincykumar9351 3 года назад

@@pizzariotin can you tell us what books helped you

@Radioac1ve.Carm1ne 3 года назад

1:03 Jschlatt really just sitting there in his office after becoming the President of L’Manburg - death staring Tubbo-

@dump4memories 3 года назад

I have been summond!!

@PrincessAiko_ 3 года назад

**Cough Cough** Manburg **Cough Cough**

@sarahdougall9535 3 года назад

The amount of DSMP references in this video makes me happy ngl

@Radioac1ve.Carm1ne 3 года назад

@@PrincessAiko_ It’s L’Manburg since he’s no longer President and the last time someone was President before it was destroyed the named had changed back to L’Manburg

@tommechan5541 3 года назад

2:37 Poor Ranboo

@datboi6954 3 года назад

1. they bring you into their territory 0:51 2. prospecting 1:13 3. informational overload 1:37 4. fake facts 2:20 5. preying on your sensibilities 3:00 6. silent treatment 3:36 I hope I could help (:

@chaosdromanah8620 3 года назад

Ty fellow Time Traveler

@urmomsman7 3 года назад

Thank you my friend 😌

@an_gel_707 3 года назад

WOAH a time traveller, thanks for the timestamps :)

@skyy187 3 года назад

thx

@hi-kt8jj 3 года назад

thank you time traveler, much appreciated :D

@noinflouencer 3 года назад

Isn’t intellectual bullying such a big thing in teachers ? I feel like almost every teacher I encountered did this

@justanub4697 3 года назад

Yeah tbh i think they're manipulating me to have better smarts Too bad it doesn't work me Yep I've been having low grades It's not my fault really it's the teachers They failed to manipulate me

@slurvtrutl526 2 года назад

Human communication might be based more on winning arguments and getting your way than say reason and logic from an evolutionary perspective. So anybody like a teacher etc you just notice it more especially since they are an authority figure. Be weary of wolves in sheep's clothing in every situation but the teacher might just be doing their job which is to convince you the information is important right? That's why they get paid and if they're not entertaining like TV or you don't like the material...... Conflict

@StatiQTV21 3 года назад

Nobody: Psych2Go finding another way to include gaslighting in a video:

@odditycat2716 3 года назад

It's a very important thing to be educated about

@drinasun6984 3 года назад

I missed a few signs of manipulation, including walking into their territory.

@morningpeach8772 3 года назад

ive been manipulated almost my ENTIRE life and what ive learned is that most people who manipulate honestly dont know any better they have been conditioned to believe that they can ONLY get what they want by taking advantage of others even if manipulators can always move on to the next victim i think that deep down they also know that in the end they can never win that they know that the reason people are with them is because of their manipulation tactics and not for who they really are im not making excuses for peoples behaviour but when you realize that people are just doing the best with what they have its easy to forgive i just thought this might help someone (:

@ourkarolina 3 года назад

LETS GOOO! 1:00 shlatt and l'manburg flag 1:50 ranboo poster 2:27 (techno little bit??) 2:39 ranboo!!! 3:04 ranboo plushie 3:37 creeper pillow (hiya there psych2go! I love your work keep it up! With love Random stranger)

@HKaty 3 года назад

And next to Techno, its Ranboo :DD

@bellaford8554 3 года назад

YESSSS

@skeppyshalo8110 3 года назад

pogggg!

@MrHillaryc 3 года назад

You forgot 2,techno blade. And ranboo being what someone would call horrased by dream

@an_gel_707 3 года назад

Dudeee I love the mcyt references

@ShortHax 3 года назад

I am Monokuma the manipulator, never the manipulated

@jorcyfoertejacob1629 3 года назад

Nice

@takaishimaru4242 3 года назад

Dang😩😫.

@eyeb4ll296 3 года назад

That seems about right

@pastelgalaxy4079 3 года назад

please just execute me already ive seen enough shit

@mo.yo. 3 года назад

Hey monokuma, when are you gonna start the class trial already?

@amylouise2336 3 года назад

1. they bring you into their territory 0:45 2. prospecting 1:07 3. informational overload 1:33 4. fake facts 2:14 5. preying on your sensibilities 2:55 6. silent treatment 3:30

@an_gel_707 3 года назад

Can we just appreciate the l'manburg flag at 1:02 and the lil ranboo thing 1:51 OH MY GOD AND TECHNOBLADE AT 2:25

@timelessAnticipation 3 года назад

@BABYTURTLEx3 3 года назад

Also at 2:35 a ranboo lore part

@courageandcompassion2293 3 года назад

Any of these can be harmful, even if the person manipulating you doesn’t mean to hurt you. If you think you can help them understand why you’re hurting and that they’ll change, maybe try to tell them, but please prioritize your well-being over justifying their actions. Please take care of yourself. ❤️

@loesberghs2001 3 года назад

Prospecting is very important. If someone continuously asks you uncomfortable or even controversial questions that catch you off guard, it is not because they are a weird and “quirky”. It’s because through questions that cross your boundaries, they’re trying to see how defensive you are. I had a guy continuously ask about very personal things whenever we were alone, after a while I noticed he was just trying to see how easy I would give in.

@deborahannbell7027 3 года назад

Very Helpful.....Thank You💕

@dona62851 3 года назад

Great insight!! Thanks!

@astralitiez 3 года назад

Make a video on ADHD or mood swings !

@lorettagrey7383 3 года назад

How'd you get that emoji?

@user-xr6dh3dd8f 3 года назад

@@lorettagrey7383 I think they bought member ship kinda thing for this channel 😁

@astralitiez 3 года назад

@@lorettagrey7383 memberships

@kaylahbkitty9691 3 года назад

I wanna see a video like that also since I was diagnosed as a child and adult with combined ADHD.

@cosmoverse.4850 3 года назад

Not only people but also some things manipulate, that thing is, "MATHS"

@amina.2928 3 года назад

Could you do a video about INFP struggles next ?

@rachealkatwire3893 3 года назад

Thank you for making this RU-vid Channel u guys have helped me a lot with mental health

@annamosity8433 3 года назад

THERE'S JSCHLATT - I SEE YOU DSMP FAN, AND I RAISE MY CUP TO YOU! EDIT: AND THE RANBOO Edit 2: And the ranboo doll please 🥺🥺🥺

@isabellelau6682 3 года назад

I SAW RANBOO MY BELOVED ASWELL!!!

@annamosity8433 3 года назад

@@isabellelau6682 RANBOO !!! HE!!!

@isabellelau6682 3 года назад

@@annamosity8433 YES!!

@pagreyson 3 года назад

RANBOO??!!! WHERE??!!!!!!

@IkeIsCoolz 3 года назад

HELLO FELLOW DSMP FAN

@Jiyu_Starfam 3 года назад

Thank you for making this I think it is very educational :D

@idnaxtfb4685 3 года назад

thank u for this kind of video, I love them

@rileyl.7685 3 года назад

the little dream smp references in the animation always make me smile, it’s great to have something that brings me comfort when trying to educate myself over topics that have hurt me in the past, it makes it kinda like a little safe space so thank you for that

@livianpotato3932 3 года назад

Hell yeah bro!

@callmethecoolestduckontheb5358 3 года назад

I’d love more videos on the manipulators or toxic people themselves, often times it seems like a picture is being painted that they’re all terrible human beings who are just out to hurt people, but a lot of times we aren’t. It would actually help and mean a lot if you were to make more videos not on things like “signs you’re being manipulated” but things like “signs you’re being manipulative” as not everyone notices and/or knows how to change.

@VarshaManoj 3 года назад

Great video! Some people are toxic and manipulators.. If u feel like u r getting drained on a daily basis.. Stop hoping they would change one fine day and try to slowly reduce their influence in your life.. If it's someone who can be gotten rid off.. Do it ☺ u can't please everyone and not everyone are made to be with u till the end.

@MagicalCreations-fw7pj 4 месяца назад

So grateful you shine a light on these behaviors! Anyone who does 1 will prove they have the capability of doing ALL!

@timothycoats4832 3 года назад

How do you explain to an older person (without “hurting” them) that they show most of these signs regularly

@estherereyemi9309 3 года назад

Yeah i need this too

@andyaquitaine4225 3 года назад

Teach them. The same way you’d teach someone a complex task. Only critique the most essential, relevant things at a given time, and never more than three at a time (unless they welcome it, then maybe five). If they digest and cooperate, good. You have a friend. Especially if they become more open after the fact. If not, they’re either offended or they’re genuinely manipulative. If they don’t cooperate, don’t wait on them. Learn independence if you have to, exert it if you already can. But in all things, take it one step at a time.

@memeist2472 3 года назад

Just be honest and tell him or them ;-; they should be reasonable enough to aknowledge?

@memeist2472 3 года назад

@@andyaquitaine4225 BRUH or..Literally just tell him, u wont hurt them ur just being honest.. if they "get hurt" then theyre being childish

@much_cri2049 3 года назад

@@memeist2472 well not necessarily, everyone hates being wrong

@gargwinvinesnake6961 3 года назад

Thank you for this video. I've been going back and forth on whether I over reacted over "a friend" I cut out out of my regular social circle. They ticked all the boxes!

@brianedwards7142 3 года назад

I sometimes turn into "Professor Brian" without realising it but I'm motivated by the wonder I feel at certain facts. EDIT: Thankyou Psych to go for making these videos so pithy, short but full of info. I hate running out of data at the end of the month.

@Cherrycreamsoda1 3 года назад

This is so interesting thanks for making the video

@Psych2go 3 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it! Did you relate to this video?

@paintwater4379 3 года назад

Could you do "Early signs of a toxic friend"? I used to have a toxic friend but the first few months i couldn't even tell...

@niamhs6042 3 года назад

I think there may already be a couple of videos relating to this on the channel, you could try searching for one :) I hope you are good

@paintwater4379 3 года назад

@@niamhs6042 Thanks, hope you're good too :)

@wendychavez5348 3 года назад

There's a line between leadership and manipulation. Most of these can be signs of either, depending on the degree to which they are used. Definitely good to be aware of, and thanks for the caveat at the beginning.

@RicolaOnTheRocks 3 года назад

I love this style so much

@lump_king3598 3 года назад

I think I'm a manipulator. You've made videos about these people before, and I've recognized these traits in myself many times. I'm not sure how to help myself, or what I can do to change. All I know is that I sincerely want to change. Any tips?

@princessnemo8557 3 года назад

Look at other people who have said they recognized their behavior and changed because of the video, and ask them~?

@SpiderBRidin 3 года назад

So true, all of those who may be manipulative aren't exactly always practicing bad behaviors... though it is a very slippery slope in which they operate from. Almost every time I hear, "gaslighting," I think narcissism or narcissist. Manipulators are extremely good at changing the subject when the blame remotely sounds like it's pointed towards them. Being defensive and Blame Shifting may be the aftermath if the aforementioned happens. Silence (in some cases) is possibly the most powerful tool, when we become aware of whom we're dealing with.

@kimberlysmith7311 3 года назад

Yes this did give very insightful information. Both of my children are great at art and my daughter great at writing and also studies psychology. I gave her the name of this channel, and let her know that sometimes you guys look for talent. 🙂💕

@Sparklyst4rs 3 года назад

I love this art style! It’s very cute and simple ^^

@avanillacoke3705 3 года назад

I can notice if a person is giving off the signs of a manipulator but I always feel guilty thinking that and give them the benefit of the doubt. I almost always regret it.

@stepanium 3 года назад

What an informative video! Please do these kinds of life-strategy videos more often!

@radiaz121 3 года назад

Thank you for the tips! Now I can manipulate others more successfully! /j

@S0fizzy 3 года назад

I live the dreamsmp references and how helpful this channel always is ♥️

@Psych2go 3 года назад

Thank you!! Glad you found it helpful. Good catch on the dreamsmp references too :)

@SuperBlessedKing 3 года назад

This is a very therapeutic channel. 💜💜💜💜

@user-xr6dh3dd8f 3 года назад

When you realize comments are 2 weeks or months ago:

@samistrash6262 3 года назад

The fact that they sometimes make dreamsmp references whilst I'm researching psychology makes it 1000% better

@madihasdiary 3 года назад

My bestfriend stopped being friends with me and called me manipulative and I was confused and she sent me the link to this video and said I do them all and I slowly realised she does all of these not me lmaoooooooo

@Ceti_ 3 года назад

The problem with a lot of these videos is they are designed to critically think how they apply. Most people don’t do that here it seems and just go “oh this person once said that before” and immediately they are whatever the video is discussing. These are great videos just the audience isn’t built for them.

@madihasdiary 3 года назад

@@Ceti_ heh?

@NickNick-ml5uu 3 года назад

My last employer. Sounds like a exact occurrence. There's a overwhelming feeling of less than half heartedness that engulfs you. Until you realize your better than that and the inevitable path for each of us is through thought discernment and action through wisdoms. . In short. One love.! One hug!. Many unique voices.! 💖

@NickNick-ml5uu 3 года назад

Love the video btw..,😁

@nintennoob7963 3 года назад

Honestly, most if not all of these videos about manipulative people make me glad that I’ve gotten away from someone in my life who has manipulated me for years. Intellectual bullying and territorial advantages were used against me when that person was trying to get me to not take my antidepressants by telling me statistics that I’m not even sure were true while in their car far away from my home.

@TheFlyingBusman 3 года назад

I have been on the toxic end of a very manipulative individual with very negative outcome. Once you know the signs it is wise to avoid such individuals wherever possible.

@juicer67 2 года назад

Another way that manipulators operate is to pressure you into accepting something - like coffee or some useless object - that you don’t want. If you stand your ground with polite refusals, they gaslight, alleging rudeness on your part. It’s maddening, as I can say from experience.

@iambutterpuppy1143 3 года назад

As a manipulative person I thank you for that warning at the beginning of the video. I manipulate people into being happy, and venting to me, people tell me things that they wouldn't tell anyone else because I convinced them to trust me that much. However I would never spread those secrets or talk behind their backs about them because I care about them. I also do try to get a read on people, it is to decide if I should actually befriend this person or if they might pose a danger to me or someone else either emotionally or physically. I don't do anything to hurt others, or at least try not to best is humanly possible.

@bonithechubbypotato5100 3 года назад

This is intriguing

@Star_Fandoms 3 года назад

I really like the references in the video and i also find this really interesting

@kanikaiyer3230 3 года назад

I really like the color scheme its so aestheticly pleasing! and the art style is so cute!! (>v

@mikiChen-bd7zs 3 года назад

the animation is cute as usual :D but on a side note ive definitely met some people like this,, it’s interesting to learn more about this!

@amandatena4612 3 года назад

You know when you feel like you’re being manipulatied but not sure? This video reassured me that i am 😞 eventhough they’re being “nice”

@amandatena4612 3 года назад

Now i know why i feel so bad about myself.

@MedoZhasa 3 года назад

This voice is so soothing

@jennieakana2570 3 года назад

Very interesting..! True..

@lifeofd777 3 года назад

Heyyyyy I'm early ❤️

@higherlevelelevate7063 3 года назад

The controling of the communication... I didnt realize how much mental anguish it is putting me through

@damonwallace2392 2 года назад

I am trying to understand and realize that being manipulated by negative people with their toxic behavior. Honestly, You got to break free from their negative influence and find your peace of mind, happiness, and unconditional love for yourself. Besides, You can't be afraid of you're hurting at. These manipulated people will try to block you from reaching your healthy place.

@Mr._Polly_Potts 3 года назад

Naphia's artsyle will always be my favourite one :3

@bluebird_hinako 3 года назад

Hi ✨ your videos are so awesome and good qwq✨🍪🍪

@missmessy3 3 года назад

Having someone like this is even more complicated, I have a friend just like this, I know that very well bc I noticed every thing you mentioned here, and thought that something is not right, now that you mention it, it makes sense, but yet she is very nice and she helps me a lot, in fact I depend on her for many things that I'm not able to do, I think that she manipulates ppl even without realizing that, it unconscious to her, she manipulated me many times, now I can't leave her and I can't be friends with her !!

@siennaklein3746 3 года назад

maybe the next time politely call them out for it or mention it (avoid doing it in front of others too). i’ve noticed recently I can be manipulative, almost like it’s second nature at this point and I’m trying to change. like you said, she may be doing it with realising it. that way, she might start picking up on it.

@missmessy3 3 года назад

@@siennaklein3746 mmm I don't think that she will accept that very well even if I talked to her in private, I think she might turn it against me, (as I know her) & say that I'm just jealous that ppl listen to her and so on, and ppl around us like her very much bc no one knows what I know so she will say it's just me, aah I told you it's complicated, It's amazing that you became aware and started to change yourself, bc no one can make you do this unless it's from the inside.

@siennaklein3746 3 года назад

@@missmessy3 I’m sorry to hear that. I hope it all works out for you in the long run!

@missmessy3 3 года назад

@@siennaklein3746 thank U, hope the best for U too

@avet4veterans 3 года назад

thank you❤🤗

@meestashy0006 3 года назад

I love how the thumbnail is my favorite show

@Pepsisluper3000 3 года назад

I just saw the l’manburg flag that’s cool Omg there is so many dream smp references

@wolfy.makes.art._ 3 года назад

Whenever Naphia animates there are so many Dream SMP references in the video

@pkmntrainerred4247 3 года назад

On which part? EDIT: AH I SAW IT! It's on 1:00 part!

@christianfillysecretagents4477 3 года назад

@@pkmntrainerred4247 so far I’ve seen at 1:04 and 2:35

@greatwavefan397 3 года назад

Was there an Adventure Time reference in the thumbnail?

@somerandomidiot6190 2 года назад

IN LIKE EVERY VIDEO I WATCH THERS A MCYT REVRENCE-

@misaandcoart 3 года назад

I feel like I do number 3 a lot out of an unconscious fear of not being smart enough myself, so internally feels nice to know something that others don't but in my perspective at the time I feel like I'm helping by teaching something. 😟😣

@gollishh 3 года назад

These signs I didn't miss, these were the signs that helped me to realise I was getting manipulated.

@otisjoi 3 года назад

I love all the subtle mcyt references that have been scattered around these videos

@memeist2472 3 года назад

For y'all wanting to tell this to someone on nice way, dont think too much, just be honest with them saying they show signs, if they get angry or dont wanna aknowledge then they're just acting childish.

@minermole101 3 года назад

Hi Lily!

@Sadpink4ever 3 года назад

EARLY SQUAD!

@alicialeong1993 3 года назад

I can't say I haven't manipulated anyone, but it was for a good kind of reason I don't want to be alone, most of my past friends left me so I started manipulating others so they can stay with me. I don't want power or money, just some friends who stay by my side of courses, I think of them as true friends and I stop my behaviour.

@yassar87 3 года назад

I think almost every girl I’ve had a crush on has done at least a few of these, I don’t think intentionally, but with my depression, low self-esteem and strong feelings for them it was easy for me blame myself when these things happened. Like getting the silent treatment, or having what I told them used against me, etc... maybe its just natural for some people to do this to others without any malice but also not realise the effect it’s having. I still don’t think they were “bad” people though, because I don’t think it was intentional.

@sarahnovamusicatlanta 2 года назад

Thanks 🙏

@mereru9681 Год назад

My ex would tell me I “said things wrong” and I’d offend him. He studied English at Uni, I did not. He analysed everything I said like he was gonna write an essay on how there are hidden meanings in my words. Stressed me out so much.

@charliematzke4801 3 года назад

1:00 yo the lmanburg flag is such good attention to detail

@riri.xisugar 3 года назад

1:01 THEY REALLY ADDED THE SHLATT FROM DREAMSMP IM WHEEZING-

@haroldstanberry3978 Месяц назад

When people start talking to people we have a way of dropping our guard.

@4ngel_w1ngs7 3 года назад

Oh, this comes just in time as a few days ago, I realized that my mom has been emotionally abusing and gaslighting me for soon three years...

@derdinohorst 3 года назад

oh... its good that you recognized, i hope youll be able to get over it quickly :)

@OPmoth 3 года назад

i love the little D!Smp bits, like girl, you gettin into the ranboo streams?

@pkmntrainerred4247 3 года назад

And yes manipulation, whether it can be justified or not, it depends on the reason behind and consequences of it. Also I've heard of conversation manipulation. Well if used correctly but not with ill will, it can help get useful information from individuals who may be hiding something....that must be uncovered............ tho I don't have pro-level idea of how to do it.

@dylynnm2866 3 года назад

schlatt as the manipulative leader is perfect haha

@Bakakozou 3 года назад

This is describing my ex 100% Im so glad i dont have to deal with this behavior anymore

@vh5244 3 года назад

"Fallen Down starts playing" :)

@user-kd3vc3wt5q 3 года назад

I love the drawings they're so cute. :)

@avaasusual 3 года назад

Dream SMP Easter Eggs: 1:00 Jshlatt 1:45 Ranboo Poster 2:24 Techo Gown 2:33 Ranboo panicking because Dream 2:58 Ranboo and Dirt Block Plushie 3:34 Creeper Pillow (Awesamdude?) 4:32 Prime Bell (Possibly) Thank you for making these videos, there really helpful :)