Want more life lessons to help you in your personal growth? We also made a video on the signs you might be wasting your life: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-i484m71KzNA.html Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes to create awareness. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but for general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and seek professional for help if you're struggling.
Everybody's life is going to fall apart: Current Analysis: (Short Version): * Species stay on this Earth: They all eventually die and go extinct. * Species leave this Earth: They all eventually die and go extinct. (No exceptions at this time).
"The best way to deal with absolute truth reality is to deal with absolute truth reality. And if one is not dealing with absolute truth reality, then one is not dealing with absolute truth reality. Find and deal with absolute truth reality." (OSICA)
Then 6 signs: 1: You are not interested in anything 2: You do not care about yourself or your home 3:You refuse to communicate with others 4: You do not live in the present 5: You keep postponing things 6: You hate your job
I have a video request, which is a pretty personal topic to me. Could you do a video on the "socially frowned upon" and "taboo" symptoms of trauma? The effects people try to hide away and pretend don't exist, try to shove under the rug to fit their "look at this poor pitiful baby" concept of PTSD. Try to make victims of trauma shut up about what we face so they can pretend trauma isn't permanent, and that they've changed a life forever. It would absolutely make me enthused to have someone finally talk about how trauma is complex in that it doesn't cause every sufferer to act like a fawning deer. Some people turn mad, asocial, bitter, and that does not make them some kind of clone of an abuser. Please talk about how trauma can effect your sexuality in the future, how it can break apart your mind and make you feel nauseous about thoughts you cannot control. How even if you weren't sexually abused, it can still make its way to the crevices of your mind. I want people to understand trauma isn't just fear, it can be hate. It's called Ptsd, & stress can be expressed in countless ways, even ways people refuse to acknowledge. I don't ask for anyone to submit to someone who's acting cruel because past trauma, that would be horrible. But I want people to understand that not everyone comes out of an awful experience whimpering like an injured puppy who needs pats, some come out fighting and growling even if they know others just want to help. I want others to understand that much like an aggressive fearful dog, that we will heal if you give us time, space, and understanding. Maybe I'm just rambling though.
I feel like there’s no helping me. I don’t care about this fact anymore, I used to cry about it but now I just take it as a fact. I’ve tried getting help. No one cares. I’d rather think about the past were stuff was actually happy and motivating. Every day is the same.
I know how you feel. And I care, I really do. Nobody deserves to go through this hell hole of negative thoughts. I've been there. If you want to, we can have a chat. It's okay if not though, but take care of yourself, friend.
I hope you have the means to ask for clinical help. 20+ years of depression has ruined many things for me. Don’t let that happen to you if you can help it. I always had the resources I just never believed I was good enough to even be helped. SSRIS have changed my life completely.
Seems like mostly everyone's life's falling apart. I'm giving big hug for anyone who read this. Thanks for keep trying and not giving up. Despite we are strangers, I really glad you're still here today. Love u guys
We’re all falling apart actually with how this world works, money is like the king nowadays, the school system is stressful/not to mention jobs.. to live in this world, it’s like we’re graded for each of the things we do, if you dont reach/have this in life, you’re most likely be considered too weak/lack of motivation and worst is you’re miserable human being... what a sad world we live in, we dont need more CEOs and companies in this world, we just need to help each other and not measure success through what someone has successfully built, not about the money :(
Well, I know the worse thing we can do is compare ourselves to others or get caught up in focusing on distractions around us whether it's our family, friends, or stuff on tv and social media. Best to focus on the road we're on or wish to be on. But I admit it's hard to turn off the tv sometimes or turn away from that adorable cat video before getting down to work, lol.
@@skywalker6648 These are some of my biggest struggles comparing myself to others and feeling down about my life, and getting stressed out by family and people around me. I'm having a hard time focusing on the road i'm on, though I'm trying to tell myself it's good that I'm taking it one step at a time.
@@cameronvafai4866 Yeah, I know how easy it is to fall into that trap. Maybe it means we need to fill up our own calendars more whether it's with work and/or hobbies in a way that makes us unavailable for all that negative thinking as well as other people trying to stress us out. I guess it takes discipline and is definitely a challenge. Especially, when it seems like it's always something happening to try and distract us from our path!
I think so too and i agree with u on everything . Now i believe that being born and having a life is the greatest curse one can ever have ... also the way world works the way society ... it is just like if cant fix it . Fit in it ... and it is not worth surviving .. I believe and I KNOW . That root cause of 99 % problems of our lives our world is because humans dont have humanity ... the day humans get humanity is the day they will choose to change everything ... and the only thing that stands between humans having humanity is money .. and money gives freedom . Humans just want to consume most of freedom and of pleasure at the expense of everything ....no matter what comes thier way that is exactly what they have been doing since stone age ...
I've been avoiding acknowledging that I'm ruining my life, until I watched this video and realised that while I was no longer depressed, I still kept doing the things I did when I was. Thank you for calling me out. I contacted a therapist and am hoping to pull myself out of this mess.
1: Yes, I don’t feel like anything really excites me I don’t have something I look forward to everyday. 2: Maybe, i try to exercise everyday but it’s just feels like a drag, and I push it back to a little before bed. 3: I don’t refuse, i just feel like I’m bad at social interactions and I can’t connect with people. 4: Yes, I always think about the past like everyday probably. 5: Yes, I seem to do things last minute. 6: Yes, don’t want to keep doing it, tired of it but I feel stuck with it Just wanted to throw in my feels on this.
Same. I'm everywhere but the present. My mind is like a washing machine when it comes to how thoughts shift though my meat computer of a brain. I could be doing important shit and be subconsciously thinking of 5 other things I'd rather be doing instead or of things that just amplify my anxiety...
Well, speaking from my heart... You don't always need to care about what happens in your life, it however doesn't give you an excuse to give into the awful parts of life. No matter how bad it is, no matter how much you can't handle it sometimes you just really gotta hold on for the sake of yourself. People like me would say "hold on it will get better! keep going you can do this!" but I personally don't believe in it as much as others. Sometimes it really will just suck and you just gotta keep on sucking till you choke. But that's life being unfair and you're gonna be fighting it even if you can barely throw in a punch. You just need to try, hold on and get ahold of yourself whenever you can. Being okay and the complete opposite of okay is alright, we all have days where life feels like hell. It's hard to try without seeing anything, but you're doing more and gaining than what you can see from your perspective. As long as you are doing something, you're doing great. Sometimes you can't control things and everything is spiraling down, but you just gotta breathe, realise you're falling and make sure you strike a good landing pose. And anyone's feeling down still I hope you realise that even if you can't think of anything that cares about you I do :D. Even if it's meaningless for you. Hope we all have a great day!
Absolutely I have ruined myself. I totally agree, not one but all 6 points mentioned I'm going through. I hope, I would come out of them. God bless me, and all who are in my shoes.
U WILL. We all hv a choice and u know what yes, it does sound very cliche of me to say that. U might say “Winny, u hv no idea what I’m going through” and yes, ur right...I don’t. But tell me this...who is the one who can change ur life? Problems keep on arising in this life, but we will always try to look for solutions. Ur already stronger than u think bc ur being vulnerable and sharing the truth with the world. So thank u for that 🙏❤️ ur amazing Amer. Ur not alone ok?
I was feeling super poopy today so I went for a run, to gym and walked my dog, needless to say I feel much better! Oh, and sat in the sunshine for a while, felt like a nice warm hug.
I've actually made a conscious effort to "get my shit together" but I was still curious about this video. Turns out I might've had Anhedonia ever since the start of high school, got over it at 25 with a lot of Jordan Peterson videos and some teeth gritting. Whoever is reading my comment rn I just want to so; you got this, you really do.
@@yaurfeiussystuhncc You got this kid. I'm nearly 40 and my shit isn't together. But I've been diagnosed with Borderline/Emotionally Unstable Personality disorder. Well, my bills are paid, I'm in intensive therapy, I have a part-time job. I have clothes, food and a roof over my head. I have a personal trainer I see once a week since November 2020 ( they keep closing the gyms in London Lockdowns) But I'm literally still sitting in those warning signs since March 2020. On paper I'm adulting but I have zero deep connections, not romantic, not friends, not family made worse by the lovely pandemic. My get up and go has got up and gone. I keep trying but I still get a lot of rejection and suffer from some mysterious fatigue. I'm close to the point of staying in bed and avoiding all social contact that isn't therapy, work or exercise.
This assumes that you have friends or family to reach out to...or more specifically, friends or family who have the ability and desire to help you. If you have that, you are very lucky, which means you will be fine.
Lol, my cousin told me he went to like dozens of therapists before finding that right one. Now he is doing so much better. He says his new therapist helps him make sense of things in a way he understands. Good luck!
My life fell apart a loooong time ago and it never came back but I’m thankful I’m alive. I love life and I take things day by day and my gloves are off I deal with things the best that I can and that’s all I can do.
i dont get it, why are so many people depressed? it feels kinda good to see you are not the only one, but in bigger picture it feels so shit that so many are living like this.
Yeah someone told me that life suck..but man, life is already hard since long time ago(no offense)...i think that lotta people just tired being rejected, bullied, harsh victim, etc...so yeah kinda sad knowing that lot of peeps have sum depression and/or anxiety.
Pandemic made it worse?...i thought that pandemic made it better😅...beside stuckin boredom of online school i think less social interaction nowaday surely help some peeps (esp introvert) on their mental health
I belive every person is difficult and have something to give us in life, everyone have role in the world, and it's so sad that there is many people didn't find themself and become depressed and die without we know what they should give into our life. We lost many miracle :/. I hope we can make the world more better and we'll find a way to be less depressed people in the world. A world when everyone can be happy...
@@vcta8313 that's fair. I was thinking more about people who lost their jobs or loved ones, and who don't do well with isolation. And there's been a lot of anxiety about the present/future over this past year, and anxiety tends to go hand in hand with depression. That's basically what I was getting at.
Today was a bad day for me. My bunny died and a pile of stress got on top of me. I isolate myself a lot, social intercations seemed overwhelming and im starting to get more agressive. Anyways stay safe and take care💕
Sorry to learn of your loss. It is never easy to lose a part of your life this way. Know that others can easily understand your loss and wish you peace, strength and good today as well as going forward. Things will get better.
This hit home with me on every point fortunately, i quit my job two years ago (and i have no fear i can go back in the field at any moment i want it), and during the pandemic i actually started to move in the right direction (i even got accredited in photography, for the sake of it !) Yay for me!
@Aalia Parasar Thank you, besides humble bragging, i also posted this to show that momentum towards better can be achieved, as i already witnessed, and all the small opportunities can be turned into "good luck". I hope everyone gets back on track. Best wishes for you too!
sometimes i fell my life just stopped in a eternal loop. After my young sister dead, i think the thing get worst, and i think my self: "don´t worry, everything is gonna be alright" and every day i think is nothing is alright. And i don´t have motivation to study
Imo, that's a common feeling, but also a indication that you're meant for more! Try to spend some time looking for things that makes you feel better & motivated and pursue them ☃️☃️☃️
I Hope youll be able REALLY get alright Also idk If you opend Up about this but i think Most teachers would understand that you have No Motivation to study Its totally reasonable
You've got grief kid. Try to see a professional once a week for a year about it and you will bounce back. I'm stuck in the loop but I've got Borderline/Emotionally Unstable Personality disorder with childhood abuse trauma and domestic abuse trauma so I have a lot of work to do to get out of the loop.
1. you are not interested in anything 0:59 2. you do not care about yourself or your home 1:49 3. you refuse to communicate with others 2:28 4. you do not live in the present 3:14 5. you keep postponing things 4:05 6. you hate your job 4:42 I hope I could help! (:
I woke up this morning to an unpleasant phone call then I open my youtube app and see this video... I click on it and just realized my life is almost in complete shambles.... Thanks for the insight 😅 hopefully I get the courage to do something about it
@@vcta8313 yeah,.. well, I meant stress, distraction, anxiety and pressure from parents and peer group etc... Emotions students experience in general 🍁
You're very welcome! We hope we can help you. Glad to hear they are so calming. If there are any topics you want us to cover. Feel free to share them with us!
@@Omikkii hey, I don’t know u, but even I don’t want that for u. Life is beautiful. Of course it has its ups and downs, but that’s just part of it. Can u maybe tell me what’s not going right?
Wow... Now that's something. Actually I have all these situations right now from last 6 months. And still I can't get over it. And sincerely I need someone to open up about all this...and to se the light of Hope in my life again 😭😭😭
Well done. I have been there once years ago. A side effect of steroids I was on for asthma. The worst feeling ever and it lasted a week. I will never forget that week.
Oh my God. I have just realised my Dad is falling apart😢. I think I should give him some more care. Thanks for that film because I didn't realised what he goes through.
Thank for these videos, their sorta helping me in my life, my parents are in a divorce and I didn't want to tell anyone but these videos have helped me open up to more people. Thank you so much
I've never watched a video that is so accurate like this ... I used to do all these things from awhile ago but thanks god I finally became better 💗 But this brings back memories and it also makes me realize what was going on and it make me conscious about myself and things I do and how I do it ...I mean I knew I was not fine but these little details was not in mind.. Anyway, thanks for sharing these info with us I love your content so much 😍😍💗
@@MindNow I am coming out it too. I identified my problems and found some creators on RU-vid, spotify who,I feel will help me. Like I had a problem with always thinking about future self and worrying. So I took steps just like they said. Spotify is a really good app for self development. The podcasts are amazing. Please remember to stay within the positive community.
This video is the summary of my life of 2/3 years ago. Now, is totally different. For all the people that feel stuck and useless, for all the people that think all is meaningless, please, try to trust yourself and the process. Start with little things, like clean your room. Life is the amount of many little things, and if we start to care about these little things and start to fix them all, once at time, the quality of our lifes will begin to improve. Please, try with little things and try to trust in the process and in yourself. I know is not easy, but it's possible and, I promise, things will get better.
@@MindNow I may sound a little rude or weird while saying this but I am totally fine with the way my life is right now. There is no problem in my life and I don't want to change. I don't know why but I feel more peace when I am away from everything and everyone.
@@abcizz ur not rude at all. Everyone has their own definition of happiness. And if that is what makes u happy then awesome. But I just hope ur not lying to urself that ur happy when in fact deep down u feel miserable. 🙏❤️
To any people reading this, sometimes in any point of your life, you might feel like any of the things mentioned in this video. It's okay, you don't have to immediately go into a rush mode and writing down on too much goals you need to work on. It's just normal, because our heart and mood always swings up and down throughout our life. Sometimes, the best way we can do is just to accept our feelings. Just put some more effort in your life and you'll be fine. Control what you can control 👍
I truly, truly wish you were correct...unfortunately, when the universe hates you, and you're living life on "Nightmare" difficulty mode, you can put in as much effort as you want, but the universe will use any method possible to block your progress and stop you from achieving success. This is in stark contrast to people living on "Easy" or "Normal" difficulty, where once effort is put in, the universe either allows things to work out or steps in to make sure things work out.
These videos have opened my eyes to a lot of life’s issues. I’ve forwarded them to several people in my life in hopes to help them and I’ve used them to help myself as well. I’ve utilized a counselor for myself I don’t know if my entire life I referred to my counselors as my floating device through life because without them I will drown. I’m one who suffers with anxiety, depression, PTSD and ADHD. So it is imperative for me to stay on top of my mental health and this last year has been the most difficult so thank you for all of your videos
@@VengefulPolititron I'm not aligned with Jordan Peterson, I don't need a personality test, and I talk to God, my angels and guides all the time, but thanks.
Moving on to a new job soon. Can’t wait for the change of scenery and 7 minute drive time. In perspective my current job doesn’t pay commute mileage, and put me on work routes an hours worth drive from home, which would have been fine if I chose that, but they refused to transfer me after loosing my house and had to move. Not burning my bridge, but looking forward to having more time for family and extracurricular activities.
Everyday it’s like I’m waking up doing homework and just living and I got done with track a few days ago and it was a huge part of my life and it made me happy and I’ve been in a lot of mental health battles and they’ve ended and tbh Idk where I stand at the moment
I used to watch this channel just cuz of my curiosity... I still love to watch this.... But in past I used to get amused by some of comments where strangers giving virtual hugs to everyone...i was like Why they need a hug from strangers.... But after facing some ups & downs in my life... I understand how those little & kind comment can heal someone's scar So please take care of yourself, I know you are going through a tough time but you are strong okay! I love you and I am glad that you exist :)
@@jawad9757 I won’t literally die lol it’s just a joke that’s supposed to mean “guess I’ll just accept that my life will fall apart” which is just a joke
I don't know where my life is going, I'm a pretty old soul stuck in 21st century...and it's hard even to BREATHE...but never give up and I won't too coz we have to atleast pay back and give happiness back to the ppl who has done good fr us till now...get going and everything'll be okay one day!
If someone asks if you're okay, do not hold your issues in. Allow the person to know what is going on, they are asking because they care and are worried about you. Venting helps you a lot, but if you don't trust the person feel free to vent to someone else. Bottling up your issues or feelings can ruin your life. I'm only saying this because bottling up your feelings/issues with no way to help it can lead to s_icide. And self-harm, I've experienced it and its awful. Spread the awareness Ig.
too much entertainment or purposely going on learning sprees to distract yourself from your problems. I learned everything in except how to love myself and solve my past
Ever since my junior high school year ended, I feel empty and nothing motivates me. I feel bored everyday. I have someone I like but these days I don't feel it :(( I want to do something but I keep on telling myself "I'll do it later" until I forget about it.
I was in serious depression ..I had all these signs ..I would just be in my bed and not even shower...I used to love to draw and do self care....but now I don't care about it..now I don't have any goals
Thank you so much for this insightful video!! I’m actually all of these things,,, I am on meds but it’s still not working. Just yesterday, I reached out to have a gene site (unsure of the proper name, swab test) done. Now I can explain, because of this video, exactly what I’ve been feeling for the past couple months. Thanks again for sharing and ALL the work you guys and gals do! It really means a lot!
So this is how it feels like to be seen through... watching this video makes me realise a lot of things and how helpless i truly am... Like, I really want to reach help from a professional therapist, but im still a teen and I have a big trouble in communicating with my parents about this. Its even harder for me when most of the reason why im like this comes from them. Can u make a video about this problem? Thanks a lot for your meaningfull video.
@Mind Now its about how to tell parents that their children desperately need help from therapist, somehow i always feel anxious and tremble when im with them and cant bear myself to ask for something from them, i think mostly because they always make hard decisions without my opinion and force me to go with their ideas which gradually prevents me from raising my own voice. Im scared that they will think im overreacting and making things up.
@@ngocminhngothu8898 hey, I totally get u and I felt that too with my own mum, but despite u just have to go through it. It’s YOUR health and not theirs and if they REALLY cared about u then they would help u. A lot of people are victim to their own thoughts and opinions and thinking what they do is right. Well...nope, they aren’t. Parents want their kids to do what THEY think is right. Millenica, u know urself best, not ur parents. If u need help then u need help. And I get how frustrating, upsetting, disappointing it can be and is when parents don’t understand u, but u have to take the step. If they still disagree then I would turn to someone else who can help u. I hope this was helpful. Please keep on asking if u feel stuck.
Based on these videos, i have found that i am a highly intelligent lonely person, depressed, close to mental collapse, i don´t have healthy habits, I have low self confidence and I am incapable of an intimate relationship ... and i tend to be lonely. what a great person! :D
I think it’s pretty harmful to have the title as “signs your life WILL fall apart” and then change it in the video to say “signs your life MIGHT fall apart”. You should not be switching that up as setting it is, especially if these are not 100% guaranteed signs and your videos are only meant for educational purposes. The title should be set as “might” just as the same as the video
I knew it I would find all the signs relatable but I am trying so hard to practice mindfulness and meditation in these tough times hope I get over this....
Hey @Psych2Go! I have always been a person with a lot of energy, but never really thought about that. Now recently I’ve been thinking if I might have ADHD… Could you guys maybe make a video on that (like „6 signs that you have ADHD and are not just hyperactive“) That would really help me figure this stuff out… Btw love your vids ❤️
is it just me that finds it extremely hard to talk to people about their feelings and bottle it all up. ive been abused when i was younger and never talked about it to anyone because i feel like im putting my problems on them
Never EVER keep it all to urself. I’m really sorry that u went through what u had to go through. But u need to share it with someone so u feel liberated from it. If it’s not too personal then I’d love to hear it. If it’s very personal then find someone who u hv been friends with for some time and share it with that person, but don’t feel like ur putting ur problems on them.
@@MindNow thank u so much, this makes me feel better about talking to people because my mum always told me not to tell anyone about family things because its only between us.
@@ily6489 reminds me EXACTLY of my mum. But hey, if it’s a good friend then please do because eventually u will realize bottling it up all by urself, it will affect u 😊🙏❤️
Guess I scrape(d?) the border of giving up on everything. What held me together is that I need to function for my kids. Got out of an abusive relationship one and a half year ago, fought for almost one year to save them, too, and only recently it started to get better. Honestly: you guys have done a great job saving them and me without ever having seen any of us. And I'm super grateful for your work. Please continue saving people by informing them about the abysses of human minds!
I am listening to your videos while taking biology notes and your calming, informative videos are really helping me focus, which I struggle with. Thank you for doing what you do.
Timestamps 1. You are not interested in anything 0:53 2. You do not care about yourself or your home 1:42 3. You refuse to communicate with others 2:21 4. You do not live in the present 3:07 5. You keep postponing things 3:58 6. You hate your job 4:36
I literally have all of these habits...I feel like there is just no point in striving. People continually come into my life just to destroy my progress/ don’t think I deserve what I’m working for. And at this point I’m just tired and see no point in anything right now
