"NO ONE is gonna see a guy that stuffs his face with candy and potato chips all day as attractive" literally as I'm stuffing my face with potato chips...
None. You are used to seeing your own REFLECTION since a very early age. The camera is actually what other people see since it doesn't mirror anything. Ever notice how A LOT of people say they are not photogenic and everyone around them says that the picture is fine? If you only saw pictures of yourself and then suddenly saw your reflection you would find the reflection extremely odd.
Omg I have never related to a comment this much. I live in New Zealand, the south where it’s predominantly white, I get stares and head turns everyday. And it’s odd cause I’m a guy and EVERYONE stares , like both male and female. I was once this outgoing kid but I find myself having a panic attack whenever I’m out in public.
Joseph Stalin Calm down. A bad personality can be someone who acts like a dick, bullies, or is racist etc. They may be handsome though. Also your comment shows that you have a crap personality.
*** *** Yeah. That person is clearly ignorant. Just because people have attractive faces and hot bodies doesn't mean they're all good people. People can be really bitchy toward you and you don't know a single crap things about them because they can fake it in front of you.And to be honest, I have eyes of magical (I'm not really saying or take that as a compliment to myself:) ). I just look at their bodies or faces and I clearly know if they're good or bad people (I never got it wrong since I'm starting to noticing that). Even the books, I'm reading at the title and clearly knew whether it's a good book or not.
IceDynamite mine tells my sister and my dog that they're so cute more than she ever does...haven't heard it recently...only thing I get is "pretty hair" "flawless skin for you age" < she said that one time it's usually just "pretty skin" as well 🙄
Unless you have some big ass scar or a huuuge pimple in your forehead... Then yeah, most likely you are attractive enough to make them turn their heads I mean, if I see an average normal person I wouldn't even notice them 😂
I saw tons of people staring at me, for 8 seconds or more, and when my eyes met theirs they looked away. I knew what that meant. I'M SUPER HOT!!! Then I looked in the mirror and noticed I had a booger hanging.
LMBO :) You're funny, but mean. I'm a little chubby, but not my 600 lb life fat. At least, not yet. ;) Just so you know, I'm a mother of 5, 38 years old, 5'8", 185 lbs, with a 40 G bra size, and 9 months pregnant in that photo; so you can't really go by that photo, because I don't look like my usual self there.
Well Duh. We're a great match for each other. He's 73, 5'1", 89 lbs, with a missing right leg, and he's legally blind. I'm breathing, and I make a lot of body eat which is a plus for him because his anemia makes him cold a lot. ;)
Last fact is so true. A way to boost your confidence. Don't look at yourself in the mirror for 3 days then look and see how different you'll see yourself. You got used to your features even if they're pretty so they don't see them as attractive as strangers do. -Ways to boost your confidence 1) eliminate negative people from your life 2) Eat healthy 3) do sthing for your body everyday (jogging- workouts) 4) Compliment people 5) Feed your brain 6) help others everyday -You're most welcome
Cody Simpson there is no such thing as an "ugly" person. An ugly person is someone who has a personality that sucks but trust me the least handsome person on the planet can be good looking if he took care of himself. Even a person is not that good looking, having an athletic body or a good sense of fashion can make them look good
Nadine Zacharya the definition of ugly is unpleasant or repulsive in appearance. Ugly people infact do exist. Before you can know a person's personality you are first met with their physical appearance. If you're ugly and they're ugly you might find the other ugly person attractive.
0:33 when u walk by people look at you or (check u out) 0:58 people are shocked when they hear u are insecure about something 1:25 the FIFTH ad 2:38 your personality (some guys dont engage enough) 3:07 healthy and fit 3:38 u get compliments- maybe subtly 4:20 take it easy on yourself, give yourself pep talks
Invader Zim I hace the same issue but my sex life is great with this girl who doesn't really mind, my ex also didn't mind. It's really hard to be confident with that (past bullying, body stands, etc) but It can be surpased. there are people who just don't care.
"if they look up at you and stare for a few seconds that may be a sign that you are attractive" What if they are just amazed by how ugly a human can be? Yeah Im hella ugly......................
I had a hot girl tell me, "I wish I had a brother like you". Did I skip the friend zone entirely and went straight to in-law? Or does this mean she wants to adopt me? I mean, what DO you say to that? "Thanks"? "Hey, thats great! Would you like to be my grandma?" Weirdness.
Remember 1 mans junk is another mans treasure Errr.. 1 womans junk is another womans treasure. A guy with a hairy back may seem extremely ugly to one girl and another girl may think it is extremely hot
Akmal Cheku yea we do. i was an awkward, shy, depressed guy all the way up until my very late 20s.. probably around 28-29. im 31 now and im a completely different person than i was 5+ years ago. yes men usually age because we go through a lot more shit than women do.
Welp I'm fucking ugly, I was sure before and more sure now. Maybe that's why the teacher forced us to compliment each other because I'm so fucking displeasing that people just can't compliment me. Shit now I'm insecure. Great. Still a good video.
Shit I always be staring at people and looking away but most of the time, I’m thinking about some shit like where I left that half eaten pop tart in my room and then I realize I’m staring at them and quickly look away.
Kcidymccus I thought I was the only one like that I’ll be looking at people thinking I need to take a big ass shit after school then I realize I’ve been looking at someone for a while
Same boat, friends tell me I could pull anyone if I tried, I've been talking to girls more though. Here's a tip, make at least one friend thats a girl and get comfortable talking to her, then talk to her friends, and eventually you'll be good at talking more to girls
I'm really lucky man every waitress smiles to me, they talk nice and friendly, guess I was born to be ladies man. Outside restaurants my charm somehow is gone.
Cem Cigdem 1.if you win every kahoot game 2. girls tell you you stink 3.you have dandruff 4.people keep handing you breath mints 5. you have no friends 6.youre failing in school
1. People look up and stare at you as you walk by 2. People are shocked when they hear about your insecurities 3. You have a good personality 4. You care about your health and fitness 5. You get compliments (even if they are not about your looks) 6. Don't be so critial about yourself
Legits75 What kinda shit is that, did u grow into ur looks cuz when I was in middle school I was like a 7.7. Now that I'm 21 and 6'3 I'm definitely at least an 8.8. U gotta grow into your looks, at least I had to.
Related to this insecurity thing: Last week I said "I hate my life". My friend missunderstood and was like "You hate your lips? Wtf girl they're perf how come?" And I just went like "oh no no, I said I hate my life, but my lips are quite okay I guess, thanks bro"
when girls look at me its prolly bcause ive been looking at them for the past 10 seconds while standing like an idiot like i fell in love or some shit.And when she does look at me l immidiately look down,roll my eyes at her and run out of the store
R A I N A teach me.....teach me....I have good looks (yes I said it) but ZERO confidence, if I just had that darn thing called confidence I'd be crushing the dating world
Not saying I'm handsome or attractive but I have an extremely shy personality that has kept me from meeting some beautiful woman that seemed interested. FML.
People call me lesbian for having shaved sides on my head, but I'm attracted to both genders. It gets pretty annoying, and guys don't go after me often, (Probably because of my style) but I try not to let it get me down.
I would walk through the hall with people staring at me. My shyness kicks up and I want to disappear from the scene as fast as possible, I always thought they did that caused I was ugly or they didn't like me.
W A I’m on the same boat as you! I think I’m really ugly, but I turn some guys heads lol. I think because we tend to focus on our insecurities because we see ourself in the mirror everyday, but that guy is the first time seeing us and he might think we’re so attractive. We tend to think we’re really ugly, but in reality we’re beautiful in the inside and outside :) Those guys might notice something wonderful about you that you probably don’t notice about yourself
That simply what happened to me,i feel creepes out whenever someone was doing something,then started looking at me for a split second and then looked away,sometimes most of them proceeded to whisper with their friends after that idk why.
As a hetero female, I tend to like the personality over looks in men. You can be one of the most unattractive men on the earth but if your personality it a 10 and I love it, then I overlook the outside and I love that part of you as well.
I tend to feel the same for women's. I really find a lot of woman's attractive out there. I kinda have troubles with the personalities. I hate clubs, I prefer to stay at home on a Friday night. Lots of people in my age perceive that as weird, which is understandable. I rather want a person, to have deep conversations on a Friday night on a hill than wasting a night in an environment where I can't fulfill myself and be with a lots of person "that doesn't really care about you the day after" I hope that u (whoever's reading this) understand what I mean, I'm not a native speaker, so there could be some mistakes. I wish u (whoever's reading this) all the best! :)
I have two moods: I either just love myself and the way I look, so I know when I'm popping and looking good, and also people are staring me cause they know it too And the other mood is that I am too lazy to take care of myself or use a little make up or something to fix my face, so I just stay in my house, lay in my bed browsing youtube with a double chin trying to accept my insecurities, but I fail of course.
Well I still think I'm ugly because I know that I'm ugly. Every time I look at the mirror I saw someone who just doesn't look good enough and suddenly I just started to see everyone beautiful, and I start to compare myself with them. Yeah, and sometimes I think I have dysmorphia.
Shark Team u should talk to ppl about it, it’s something serious. U should be living a happy life, ur family would certainly want u too. There r way more reasons u should do it, funerals r expensive as heck too, please go talk to someone or ppl about it. 🙏🏻
i do think that im good looking until the moment that i see other women and dudes than i think: why whould she want me if there are so mush better looking guys around? and i dont have any experiance. also wierd is that i have 2 sides. the silence one when im new to someone and the BEAST mode when i notice they are like me, then i start talking, asking and moving and make real friends but until someone invides me in there world i wont schare my true self. (have to say that i have a social fear and im diagnosed with asperger) but stil i dont see it as an excuese cause if u want it, go for it and you will get it
its not that i call myself ugly. i find myself good looking. but only when i have nobody around that in my opinion is better looking. i dont know about u but i am diagnosed with the syndrom of asperger
Some people in my family has complimented me ever since I remembered, VERY few people outside of my family has complimented me. Usually just for my looks. My mom compliments my looks and smarts, so does my dad. My friends mostly compliment me for my smarts. I usually catch babies staring at me, which is creepy. Do I count as attractive? Be truthful, so none of that "You're beautiful just the way you are." I mean, ok, sure. But really, I mean visibly beautiful.
I went up to a guy and literally said 'on a scale from one to ten, how hot am I' and he said -1 ever since that I have developed very low self esteem. Never asking that again..
Lady_Whatever, they make me look younger than I really am. My teachers and distant relatives always say I look adorable and pinch my cheeks. My cheeks hurt all the time.
They stare at me because i'm eating while walking. Like literally they look at me like: "How dare you eat a banana on a street?!" Lol, wow i'm sorry...
Another is if women talk to you for the sake of just talking to you. Mostly in the form of asking a super obvious question. From my experience anyways.
TechNomad can confirm! Especially us shy girls try to push those kind of questions since we don't know what else to talk about but still want your attention :)
I find it helps my anxiety alot more (Unless they just actually stalk me I guess.) because it forces me out of my shell in order to interact and makes it easier because I won't have to start up a conversation with her because she would have done it for me.
