As someone who wears everything on this list aside from a chain, I can confirm that these will not get a woman to like you if she does not already like you. I think it’s important to dress this way because I myself like the way I look. Do not have any delusions that this will get you more looks or attention from women.
@@blackrack2008 ehm, they will. As we like a girl who dresses well the same is for women, obviously if she does NOT like u the way u act it wont lead u to no shit
Oh yeah, dressing well is only soothing for the eyes, it isn't as attention-grabbing as a masculine frame, and even a masculine presence. Looks and wealth will only get you so far while people skills and mental strength are what keep women around and keep them coming back. Game&frame they call it. Personality is what caffeinates the hamster, and drives her into coming back for more. Attraction by looks will get a conversation started but think to the Grown Ups 2 movie with that Canadian bodybuilder with the child voice 🤣🤣 and if wealth is what gets their attention, you drew in the wrooooooong kind of woman. Level up, refine your style and keep clean, man up and get comfortable talking to anyone and everyone. Women like civil men capable of lethality, as well as they love to laugh. It's all about the experience, mixed with the eye appeal
I'm going to wear all of these simultaneously for the ultimate look. A white crew neck T-shirt layered under an unbuttoned linen shirt layered under a suit with a chain, a watch, white sneakers, and boxer briefs layered over the suit so the ladies know I'm rocking it.
Many years ago I was always well dressed. I was never schooled to understand women so had no idea if I was attracting anyone unless they made obvious by almost jumping on me which happened. On night leaving work, hotel in NYC, I made my way that night to a local subway I never go into. Well I had a nice watch on, gold chain, nice white lightweight designer hooded jacket. I obviously looked really good cause I attracted four guys who mugged me. I stopped wearing chains watches and took up carrying a knife.
O ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS TAKE A MAN SERIOUSLY WHEN THEY WALK AROUND IN BOXER SHORTS.LOTS OF LUCK DUDE YOU'LL NEED IT WITH THE MODERN WOMEN OF TODAY!!!!!LOL
Here in Hermosa Beach a Japanese guy would walk the Strand in nothing but their style of "diapers", like a Sumo wrestler or something. Myself, flipflops, shorts and a T-shirt. Girls seem to like me.
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
BLIMEY.THAT'S ALMOST AS BAD AS ME.I WENT FOR A WALK IN THE PARK,DRESSED IN JUST MY UNDERPANTS.I LOOKED ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC.WOMEN DO NOT FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!
Honestly, this is the truth. I always scoffed at this advice, but it really is such a tangible difference. You carry yourself and show up differently. I'm not out here trying to impress ladies anymore, I'm stunting on myself
Do it for you basically, as my mother said to me before and take it from her, she gets men hitting on her from time to time and it was the weirdest thing aha like “who tf is this” I’m protective of my family but yeah she would say “be selfish with yourself”. Super right.
So in the last six months my wardrobe has been over hauled. Better fitting t's/ polos, some linen shirts, two watches, a couple pairs of boots, a pair of white leather low tops and I went over the top and bought both a seude and a leather jacket. I also started getting in better shape. I was never chubby but I also never had any real muscle. In total I might have blown about $2,500. (Mostly the jackets/boots/watches) I've quite literally received more compliments in the last six months than I had in the rest of my life. The difference in dating is night and day. When I meet new people I'm treated with far more respect and the energy is very different. Even the way family and friends treat me has totally changed. It's honestly wild. My only regret is not putting that effort into my appearance sooner. I never had low confidence or anything but these changes certainly have boosted it further.
Although I'm glad you have a new look and attitude, I cannot agree with that type of thinking. I am the same as you but have not gone down that path yet. I own multiple expensive watches some that cost as much as a car. I have owned every type of clothes, rare pieces. I drive all types of cars. I'm 6'2. I've been with over a hundred women by the age of 40. What I can tell you unfortunately is that the world has changed in a worse way. We as men no longer get the respect and treatment we deserve. You are seeing more attention and looks become we are literally living in a superficial narcissistic world now. A Instagram world where everyone wants to live their best life for the gram. And women want their cuties men to match their outfits. They no longer care about your true identity or character. They are picky and angry at men. It's their time to flip the tables on us, and men have allowed them to take the power. Look what has happened? Low birth rates and loneliness epidemic. Thanks women. I can't agree, I'm proud of you for stepping it up and I will have to do the same. But I can tell you first hand something is wrong out there in society. I cannot tell you the horror stories ive seen in the last 5 years. It's disturbing. Keep your identity men, don't let society or the world change you into what they think you should be!
Here is an interesting experiment. Ask your women followers to name the things that men wear that are a turn off or not sexy. Take the top 9, put them on a male fashion model, photograph them with a professional fashion photographer, then post the photos, asking women to rate the outfits on a scale of 0 to 10. If the outfits are really a turn off for women, the photos will all get a low rating. If they don't, then it proves that it doesn't matter what you wear if you're already good looking. BTW, I've been told by a number of women that wearing cologne is a turn off because either they, or someone they know, is/are allergic to cologne. It happened so often that I just stopped wearing any scent. Full disclosure, I don't look like a male fashion model.
When I was chasing the woman who is now my wife, and who is very stylish and attractive, she gave me a lot of good advice. Most of her suggestions agree with yours, but I would add that the proper use of colors in casual wear is important. In my case my skin and hair color works best with warm, earth tones such as tans. I always take her along when buying clothes and I let her pick things out, which invariably are very attractive things that I would never think of buying myself. So that's another piece of advice I would give to men - ask your lady's opinion!
@iamme25yago Take your time, follow your path. The universe will guide you. I have found ny love, we just need to tell each other. We communicate with body language since she is super shy. I just turned 30, so would live for something to happen. Other women have been after me, but they are only attracted to my land property and money😥 I wad smart and avoided them. This girl, she is different, the most unique specimen I have ever met. Patience and time will tell what happens.
I'm 56, married, and have moved way past trying to impress women, so I usually wear the standard "old man" uniform: khaki cargo shorts, t-shirt, white ankle socks, New Balance 608s. 🙂
@@EternalFlameProductions If you can find the right woman, yes. That is tougher today than ever, from what I understand. Life at 56 is great! We are dual income, no kids, so plenty of disposable income. Just don't let yourself go as you get older. Eat healthy, hit the gym and do cardio. One of my aunts turned 100 yesterday. 🙂
Fragrance tip, go to the store and try it on, leave it for an hour without smelling it if you can. The smell can change drastically person to person. I love green Irish tweed by creed but when its on me I lose a lot of what I love about it. So for me it doesnt work. Love the channel, I learn a lot :) After almost 3 years with a horrifically abusive narcissist and being used for a green card a lot of your videos have helped me avoid falling for the same things I did before and helped me walk away from what I know isnt good for me... somewhat, its progress.
I hear ya - UK Steve! And speaking of “Fragrances…” I love the Dolce & Gabbana The One EDP… and the smell you get from the new EDP are of amber, tobacco and spicy sweetness. And the smell appears to last which is good, because I don’t want to have to worry about reapplying it. You could probably wear it at anytime of the day, or any occasion, but for me, I usually wear it when I go out at night - and women seem to really love it, which is definitely a plus! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
true . using body spray is bad .Women can smell a man and tell if he is healthy or not.true odor body odour will attract a proper mate,yes,women are that sensitive . so Body spray is actually a negative thing .just eat healthy and take bath properly and keep yourself clean so you'll have good smell.
I've been following your dress tips for a year or two and the response I'm getting is incredible. Two weeks ago I had a couple of girls basically cat call me as I walked past them wearing a black tucked button-down shirt, with rolled up sleeves and beige chinos, and black dress shoes. I used to wear sneakers jeans, and t shirts and never even turned an eye. Thanks Courtney your tips are life changing. You rock!
@@GilgaMax305 'lmao' when your ass is starving in a few months because you focused on the superficial. I said preparing spiritually, how does that pertain to money? Nice sidestep though.
A few years back I decided I didn't want to dress like a young person anymore, but rather adopt a more mature style. On my own I started to pick things that I saw successful people wear, or things that I liked that looked more mature. Apparently I picked the correct stuff as I got every single thing you listed except for the chain. I get a ton of compliments on a regular basis and feel a lot more confident. Even young women who I thought liked the young style, have given me more attention in my more mature clothes.
It is a matter of consistency not a clothes only. If you look like 35 years old guy, put some wearing suitable for it. Bill Gates would looks crazy in a heavy metal singer suit. Hope You catch it.
Attractive people rarely get compliments. If you get many compliments it means people are trying to give you encouragement for a reason. They probably think u need it
You my friend are right. I just turned 30, I found my cologne that matches me, and I wear a watch now, plus I am more confident. This woman, whom I really love, she has made me appreciate life more, and she gave me the confidence. It is funny how I never wore cologne, wore white, wore watches, and didn't have enough confidence. Her perfume is literally the best scent I have ever smelt, and she has a really nice watch. She has influenced me, and true love does that. One problem, we have feelings for each other, but she is extremely shy, but we communicate through body language, and we feel safe around each other.
This is true too. I did the same thing. A strongly masculine look, that looks like you intentionally coordinated - goes miles. I have full sleeves of tattoos, etc - so the contrast is striking.
Thanks Courtney. Re suits: a fitted suit is important, a badly fitted suit looks awful. Similarly, understanding whether your body type is suitable for an American cut-, a British cut-, or an Italian cut-suit is important (as is drop lengths, etc.). You don't have to go bespoke but getting your suit tailored is handy if needed. Fitted clothes apply to most any clothing piece to be fair. Re colours: generally neutral colours work well as the girl will be thinking about how you'd look together. If you're outfit is colour neutral and uncomplicated it'll complement pretty much anything she might wear. Furthermore, you won't be distracting when paired up. A gentleman tends to have an understated power and strength. Fragrance: pick something that complements your natural frame and persona. If you're not a big muscly extraverted guy you probably shouldn't make a heavy musky fragrance your day-to-day option. Re shoes: if you have the option or occasion, remember to wear appropriate shoes. E.g., Oxfords are generally very formal (wedding, interview, etc.), Derby's less so but smart. Your thoughts Courtney? Thanks again.
@@zombieslayer7759 An American cut is a more relaxed British cut. It rarely looks as good as a British cut. An Italian cut is sharper and more flamboyant than a British cut. It's also meant for a warmer climate, meaning it can also pivot to being more casual if you're wearing something single breasted.
@@zombieslayer7759 There are some written guides on the different styles but general rule is Italian works best on slim (where it works really well) to average builds, American on larger people, and British works on everyone. Italian is also able to look more casual and relaxed due to less padding while British will look the most. American really saw its use in work suits that were designed to make people blend in instead of stand out but you tend to see it mixed with British cues these days so it's quite different than even a few decades ago.
@@zombieslayer7759 looks like Keith and Simon have already answered (thanks). Hope that helps, its something that is understood better visually so if you do a web or YT search you should find what you need.
I mean, people love to complain about fashion videos but as far as this goes, these are all good tips. They're all fairly simple and you will look good if you wear this stuff. If you don't want style tips than why'd you click on the video?
I have spent my entire life (I'm 58) avoiding making any fashion statement. I've worn a suit once in the past five years. For the most part I have only ever worn what's comfortable and these days mostly wear Indian or Thai pants and t-shirts of loose sleeveless shirts. Never had a problem finding great women and am married to a gorgeous woman 24 years younger than I am. What this lady is saying may actually reflect what a lot of women think, but frankly I would forget all about it, wear what you like and spend your time pursuing your deepest passions and hit the gym every single day of your life. I've never deliberately tried to attract women but from my life experience this is a formula that does. You can practically be wearing a clown outfit and women will still come to you if you're 100% on purpose and in great physical and emotional shape. The more important issue is, do you want them?
For me the word “basic” comes along with the wrong connotation nowadays, it doesn’t mean you look average or basic; it means that these are absolute staples, you basically should have them! Great video Courtney 👏🏼👏🏼
I've been wearing Kouros by Yves Saint Laurent for over 35 years. Still love it! Thank God they still make it! It's the GenX version of Old Spice. LOL!
#1 - I have a few suits which I only wear on formal occasions. #2 - You cannot go wrong with a good button-down shirt. Even better is a linen button-down one. #3 - Basics never out of style. #4 - As far as fragrances go, subtle works for both genders. #5 - A good watch is always welcome. It does not have to be a $40 000 Rolex. For a few hundred you can buy a really smart watch. #6 - I like to wear a chain. Also a wrist band on my right wrist. On my left one I of course wear a cool watch ;-) #7- Loafers are OK, but I need these ankle socks with them, lest they chafe me. #8 - Layering is good in cooler weather. #9 - I only wear boxer-briefs. They are the best of both worlds. June is Wedding Season! Are you going to any? No doubt you are! 😘
Boxers over time in your mid to senior years makes your scrotum sag due to lack of support. Younger boys and men in their growing years should wear Boxers to have room to grow. If you restrict a plant in a jar it gets stunted.
I would agree with MOST of these suggestions. First off, I pride myself on the ability to capture a woman's eye. A woman says a lot with that 2 second eye lock at first glance. I think it's important to stand out from the crowd. Not in a statement way, but in a way that says "I'm special". A good haircut is important. And don't go more than the weeks between cuts. Grooming is key. Have some outfits outside of your comfort zone (leather jacket, bracelets, necklaces, etc.) I have business casual to workout styling that is put together and they all say "I know how to F***". That's the next point. Own your masculinity. If you believe you're a catch then you will be
I have everything on the list aside from a chain. Under 40s I think it fits, but now entering 40s doesn’t quite feel right. Maybe it depends on the vibe I want to give off, but I prefer put together and established over trying to look young again. Great video as always!
The chain I've got is a family heirloom and just the right weight, length, and thickness to be timelessly classy. It's always tucked under my shirt anyway but it's incredibly comfortable all the same. They really knew how to make jewellery back in the 50s. Now admittedly I'm 24 but I can see this necklace still being on my neck when I'm 40, just as how my grandfather did.
Well, I had no idea that your "Teddy" was Teddy Baldassarre who's got me addicted to his RU-vid Channel on watches. You two have added so much enjoyment and value to my life. Keep your objective, straight talk approach. It's refreshing. You have a lot of competition in your space. He has none! Keep it up and best wishes!
Here's a trick, guys, wear a track suit. I casually bought an Adidas one since I needed something to throw on quickly for walks with my dog or to run errands in comfortably, and ever since I've been getting more attention. Women like it for some reason. You're welcome.
As someone that only use a chain and nothing else mentioned in this list, i can confirm that its not as important as you might think. For example usually people tell me that I have a pretty unique style(girls and friends), so if you dont fell sure about what you wear, just remember that sometimes being off the standarts is also good. Ofc you need to know how to dress yourself and how to combine colors, etc but just be yourself and wear what you think represents you :).
At 70 years old, you should be guarding your money. The ladies arent looking at you for your mesmerising beauty, but are encircling you like vultures on a dying animal.
She is absolutely right. I own a dealership and I walk around wearing flip flops and torn shirt and I wonder why I can’t get a date. You want to change your life? Change your wardrobe!!! Thank you Courtney 🌹
Sounds very American to me to be honest. I always get the feeling American women are mostly interested in money and their first question always is about what job you have. I dated French girls and I think only after months the topic of a job came up. With American girls it always feels like they have a checklist: is he rich enough? does he have good job? what are his career opportunities? etc. So it makes a lot of sense that for example, a suit would be at the top of their list as a criteria.
All women seek security which comes from money , job , status. Women don't want to date or marry a broke dude who can't support them or their children if they decide to have kids. Seems pretty reasonable to me ...
My last girlfriend is American and you are right. Also, they like any a man who looks after himself and doesn't spend too much money on hobbies, or maybe that's just her.
I'm standing up for the V-neck: It's more interesting when worn alone or with an open overshirt/jacket, it's less visible when layering under a button-down or sweater, and the larger opening makes it easier to squeeze my big head through them! Which is less likely to mess up my hair and avoid stretching the collar as quickly over time.
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
The time & place dictate what to wear…Past this the cut & quality have a big influence…Past this the blend of colors & fit…Have at least a couple bespoke blazers & suits…I do not wear a watch these days but when it works I wear very nice cufflinks…Past this I view quality shoes along with serious belt-buckle as way to accessorize …And a great hat (NEVER BASEBALL CAP) is often a cherry on top…In the summer a quality straw hat is great…Key point is dress for the occasion …
Confidence and being in the moment is probably the best expression. Wearing the right clothing puts me in that mode. My only issue is white T-shirts. I love the look and feel but at least for me I can not keep them looking new. I may not be the neatest person but even the slightest discoloration shows on white shirts. To really look good I find I only get three wears/washes before white t shirts don’t look clean. Bleach helps. I buy white T shirts in bulk and generally don’t pay big bucks for them for this reason. When in doubt go with classics and dress up 1/2 notch for the occasion. Overdressing is a thing and looking out of place is not a good look. Getting hair cuts on a regular basis and keeping facial hair clean should also be on the list.
I think the most important thing is just to approach as many women as possible because a lot of women aren't gonna like you because you're just not their type, so you kind of have to get past all the women that aren't your type so you can find a women quickly that is attractive to and you are her type as well. It's a numbers game.
The thing about fragrances getting a guy laid reminds me of a guy who sued the company that makes Axe shampoo and deodorant because he wasn't getting laid when using those products.
Hey courtney, why do you say not to go for a v neck? As a bigger guy, Ive been told vnecks are better because crews exaggerate how round the face is. Thanks for the vid!
You are correct… I have a thicker neck and my wife hates crew necks on me. A good option is a Henley… best of both worlds. You do get the stretched v-neck that goes too low… those suck.
@@CourtneyRyan Honestly Ive heard both perspectives with some on youtube saying the v points to your belly while others say it structures the face better. Its confusing lol but I like vnecks personally. Maybe you can make a style video for larger men? Love your channel 🙏
I didn't wear v necks until I got a beautiful full throat tattoo. The combination really does something for my slightly weaker chin and I get compliments nonstop since
Hi Courtney, love your videos, to me, as a man, when it comes to wearing a chain, it should NEVER be worn outside, I also believe the Cuban link is the sexiest design out there, the Fígaro I think it’s too loud and less formal and more of a screaming for attention of a design regardless of ocasión, season or time of day, and if worn outside, I get the sense it makes me look like a mess or de organized person, but then again, that’s just me. I also advise to avoid those outrageously thick chains. Wouldn’t go thicker than a 1cm or 3/8 of an inch wide Cuban link. What’s your opinion Courtney?
I’ve found women seem to really love guys in blazers and sports jackets as I get way more compliments from women about what I am wearing when I wear a blazer/sports jacket. The 2nd most complimented thing would be my dark brown leather dress shoes or boots.
Thanks Courtney for creating this video and keeping wardrobe tips easy and affordable. What are your thoughts on 'smart watches' as an accessory? - Ron
The only thing you are going to get with this advice if you are already good looking is superficial women. They look at your face, wallet and car nothing else matters to them.
I actually think rolled up sleeves look pretty inelegant and immature compared to being worn down with the cuffs around the wrists where they're designed to be at. Bundling it up not only looks messy, but it counterintuitively restricts air flow making you even warmer. When it's too hot for long sleeves, I'd recommend wearing short sleeve shirts.
read The Unplugged Alpha by Richard cooper. Also note women prioritize context (how the information makes them feel), not content like us (information), hence tonality . They also date up , hence don’t simp
Totally surprised that suspenders didn't show up. I think your list is a list that says safe more than standing out and it seems that's what you are going for. I started wearing suspenders occasionally for comfort, they are infinitely more comfortable than belts. After a medical incident that a belt exacerbated I'm now wearing suspenders almost exclusively. Since, I get many compliments from women on them, some say they keep trying to get their boyfriend/husband to wear them.
Yeah, I've been wearing suspenders religiously since I was a teen, all my trousers are high waisted and cut tapered, my suit trousers, casual trousers, hell I've been complimented wearing the corduroy trousers with canvas patches over the knees, the older 20th century style does draw attention.
Thank you for this. As a more “mature” guy, I kind of struggle with some of the new fashion trends and I am much more comfortable dressing in the manner you suggest. Glad I am on the right track!
@@cienciasatuariais4954 I drive budget built v8 mini truck and I feel it tells everyone all they need to know about me because it shows that I actually know how to turn a wrench and create something beautiful and powerful. Yeah what we drive says something about us. Yours says you can buy something pretty and powerful that somone else designed. Mine says I can design and build something pretty and powerful
Wearing a suit indicates you have money. This will attract a certain type of woman who is after a luxurious lifestyle, diamonds, expensive vacations and other monetary BS. Men just wear what you love to wear and the right woman FOR YOU will find you and love you for it.
I dress like a punk or a biker 95 percent of the time but once in a while I will put on 1 hell of a suit and the women go bonkers for it. Generally the women who already know how I normally dress. Shows confidence, class and taste. It has to be an outfit that is super well fitted though.
I think it really depends on the region your in too. The suit and loafers and button down linen shirt works in big cities. I do like a chain to go along with my gold nugget wedding ring but since I’m always working (welder and mechanic) and I feel a man should always be ready to work, I pretty much wear the same thing a 100% of the time, even when I go out. Dark blue dickies work pants (not the cargo pocket ones) leather work boots and a tank wife beater tank top (I hate collars around my neck) I don’t wear a fragrance but I do use deodorant so I guess I have a fragrance. I think no matter what, if your clean and confident, you’ll be set. One time me and my wife were invited to a dinner right after I got off work so I had to go straight there. My wife thought it was so funny that I was a little late but my main concern was to clean my nails with my knife before I went in.
I discovered Joop after going through a dozen colognes. I've never looked back. I wear it sparingly, only on date night or if I'm in a suit, but the compliments over the years have made me realize it is a favorite. Whatever my body chemistry, it is enhanced by that particular fragrance.
Did you ever see the Big Bang episode were Howard says, "And don't spritz em with that spray that's supposed to make women crazy. It doesn't work, no matter how much you put on."
I find the premise of this video odd: sexiness related to things. If the question was posed to me, the answer I would give would include: kindness, inner calm, intellectual curiosity, and culture without poshiness. Accessories and clothes are meaningless other than being clean and appropriate for the place and time. The answers given in this video remind me of the characteristics a divorce psychologist used to describe my ex-wife: superficial, self absorbed, and pretentious. (What can I say, I worked 90 hours a week at the time and was often sleep deprived so, at the time, I had deminished insight and made poor decisions.)
One of the few times I was ever cat called was when I wore a V neck. This wasn’t mentioned either but for some strange reason my baseball shirt made my ex crazy. I will say I could bench more in those days and body fat % was 7-8% as opposed to like 11-13% now.
Women also love guys who do their own thing. She's right about the basic wardrobe pieces, but being original makes you stand out from the crowd. Wear denim cuffed up, a half tucked in dress shirt with the sleeves rolled up and slightly tattered brown oxfords or bergundy penny loafers. It has that 'tortured artist' vibe. Or go for old school brown slacks, chucks and a black t-shirt. If you're on a budget, dark denim 501 Levis cuffed with high top chucks and a white undershirt has been in style for over 75 years now.
I have always dressed well. You know, classic and smart. Clean. I've never dressed to please women. I am plain spoken, never swear and am confident. I talk to everyone and anyone. An individual and a nonconformist who says what he thinks. I am single, without a wife or a girlfriend or any admirers. I have very few friends. There are hardly any real women left in this world any more under eighty years old. Who says men should try to please women or say things that women want to hear? I certainly do not. I am not good with the computer, though.
Brutha there ain't nothing wrong with the jungle boots 😂. I wear bellvilles and wellcos and I still get plenty of compliments. It's a good idea to keep 1 really clean pair though and I find women like the clean desert tan more lol
@@1badombre82 Hell yea man, I still wear my jump boots with my suits in the winter. And IDK if people are F'ing with me or not but I get lots of compliments.
@@darkgardener9577 honestly by far I get the most compliments on my marines RAT boots. The brown and tan ones that have shark skin toe and heel. And when I dress in a suit I just wear my black square toe biker boots. They just look like slightly aggressive dress boots
Interesting idea 💡 Courtney ryan 🤔 luckily for you or any women I do my own way thing and I don't really care what women think especially after getting cheated on by ex wife I will dress nicely for myself not ever for a women
Add a Number 10 to the list: A well-fitting waistcoat(best combined with a dress shirt & tie, suit optional). I wear them occasionally when I want to dress up a notch or two(I wear button up shirts a lot as part of my semi-preppy style) but things to be less bulky, I'd change a suit blazer to a waistcoat, and almost always wear a tie to complement it, then match it with jeans/chinos/dress pants and dress shoes. I just feel amazing in this combo, plus lots of women love it when I wear this combo(see my avatar on the left)!
Great video! Can you make a video for 40 year olds on what to wear? I am not looking to find another woman as I am already married, but I think that it is also important to look good for your wife and to feel good about oneself
i wonder if it is a bot or actually Courtney who replies back A live stream soon next month and a ten minute video from Courtney about the USA abortion ruling would be interesting as a women I know this is a Fashion and dating channel more, it would be a good video topic. Happy Friday too!
For those of us with calloused hands and faded jeans that work hard for a living, we generally do not wear much jewelry. Safety factor more than anything. When my sons were growing up I told them that one piece of jewelry that we wear, and is important, is a quality analog watch. Women, and other men, do notice. Doesn't have to be a Rolex but no 'fashion' watches, no fakes, no bling, and certainly not an apple watch ;-) I gave each of them a good watch that cost less than a grand and they wear them well. I prefer an automatic but a high quality quartz is good too.
Great tips! And speaking of Fragrances… I love Fragrances - and there are actually some great “Benefits” for wearing them… -it makes your dating life more exciting, and more fun when you smell great! -it actually makes you feel more confident - and you should know how women feel about confident men! -it separates you from other guys - and makes you stand out, trust me! Women do notice! -And finally, it just makes you more attractive - and who doesn’t want to feel, and look more attractive!? So now that you know some of the benefits of wearing fragrances, here are some you could try… Tom Ford Noir, Penhaligon's Juniper Sling, Jo Malone London, Dior Sauvage, and Paco Rabanne 1 Million! Cheers! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Number 1 thing should always be his energy!! I can put on anything and bring it to life because I make the outfit!!! I personally don’t like chains are accessories the most I’ll do is some nice studs for the ears but that’s about it. I don’t like to look too good because it can cause a good amount of unwanted attention and energy I like to keep it simple but keep it clean. But that energy is always a must!
If anyone else besides me has issues with polyester and you want no show socks, take a peek in the women's section. I've done it and I made it out just fine
i love casual wears, i love putting on a black light jacket,with white tee shirt, dark blue jean and white sneakers with stylish blue, i get thumbs up by ladies, especially with black hat on, i love it simple and stylish.
The reason why I watch this is because I’m Attracted to women like you and wanna know what women like yourself like…I mean pretty much it’s about money but I hear you…thanks for the advice
Having a girl friend with good taste help with clothing and accessories goes a long way. I did this 35 years ago and was well dressed the night I met my wife.
I too find that having a girlfriend with good taste goes a long way lol. When I'm dating a pretty girl I always get way more girls coming up to me trying to steal me from her ahahaha
Aside from not caring what other people think I believe the following is true. Once you wear bikini briefs women start asking what that is and then confirm they like those better. This was a decent take but never take advice from women... Do your own thing is the best thing I heard. She said that right? Above all is cleanliness. Did she say that?
No joke, i took courtney’s advice on facial hair (ive never let it grow on my face). And i definitely notice a difference…. More like women are actually flirty now wtf
@@vonarg 1) It's a split second vs a good 2 seconds to know what time it is (jeans ain't tight, but pockets sure are), and 2) It's a little thing that adds alot
I'm glad you added the chain but I will take it one step further. A chain under the clothes with a religious/scared/sentimental piece on it will always be classic. I am also thrilled you make a stand for footwear. I recently purchased a pair of Kilties for my work boots. I installed them and then today I realized I have one side up and one side down. I thought I would try to put this off as a fashion statement but I put them both right side up.
Courtney, Thanks for using the older gentleman putting on a sport coat, he is about my age. I know your main audience is younger men but nice to see you throw in some of us old guys. BTW I have 2 suits, 6 sport coats about 12 button-down oxfords that I wear with and without ties, and about 6 pairs of Allen Edmonds shoes not counting my western boots and chukkas.
I'm an older *woman* (53) who watches Courtney, and I agree (5 sons)! I was so impressed by that. I'd agree with everything but the chain. Lol. But perhaps that's a generational thing. I LOVE suits, sport coats, button down oxfords, white/black tees, layering jacket over tee, top-siders, and dress shoes. Fragrance is an absolute bonus. IF it's good. Oh, and boxers. ;) Great list.
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