6 Traits of High Value Muslim Men 

Quran 28 : 26 - And said one of them (the two women): "O my father! Hire him! Verily, the best of men for you to hire is the strong, the trustworthy." Quran 24 : 37 - Men whom neither trade nor sale diverts them from the Remembrance of Allah (with heart and tongue), nor from performing As­Salat, nor from giving the Zakat. They fear a Day when hearts and eyes will be overturned (Akirah). (Quran 4 :34) Quran 4 : 34 - Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill­ conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) bxat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great. Quran 9 : 46 - Mohsin Khan: And if they had intended to march out, **certainly, they would have made some preparation for it,** but Allah was averse to their being sent forth, so He made them lag behind, and it was said (to them), "Sit you among those who sit (at home)." Quran 28 :77 - But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world, and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun. Quran 4 : 135 - O you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though it be against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, be he rich or poor, Allah is a Better Protector to both (than you). So follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you may avoid justice, and if you distort your witness or refuse to give it, verily, Allah is Ever Well­Acquainted with what you do.

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Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ peace and blessings be upon him) as saying: The strong-man is not one who wrestles well but the strong man is one who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage/angry. - Sahih Muslim 2609a, Kitab Bir wa Saleh wa Adab, book of righteous Manners. man hood is taqwa & keeping family ties to Omar, being good to guests to Hussain as Ibrahim did, sympathize to others truthful tongue to others. Stingy one has no manhood.

Jazakallah khair, sukria

@@robotherebel your video is private.

You forgot: good hair

@@robertocarlos2743 if you go down that part then it will open up a can of worms.

Quran 28 : 26 - And said one of them (the two women): "O my father! Hire him! Verily, the best of men for you to hire is the strong, the trustworthy." Quran 24 : 37 - Men whom neither trade nor sale diverts them from the Remembrance of Allah (with heart and tongue), nor from performing As­Salat, nor from giving the Zakat. They fear a Day when hearts and eyes will be overturned (Akirah). (Quran 4 :34) Quran 4 : 34 - Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill­ conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) bxat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great. Quran 9 : 46 - Mohsin Khan: And if they had intended to march out, **certainly, they would have made some preparation for it,** but Allah was averse to their being sent forth, so He made them lag behind, and it was said (to them), "Sit you among those who sit (at home)." Quran 28 :77 - But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world, and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun. Quran 4 : 135 - O you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though it be against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, be he rich or poor, Allah is a Better Protector to both (than you). So follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you may avoid justice, and if you distort your witness or refuse to give it, verily, Allah is Ever Well­Acquainted with what you do.

@@robertocarlos2743 🤭

@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 are these examples supporting each trait?

No

Thanks Sister... Your wordings Helped me Alot to Understand About My self.... Now I exactly know That How should be a man in society as well as In home too.... May Allah Bless you ❤️

Both can be leaders , man and his wife , they are both good leaders for their children .. In fact he must trust his wife in that .. he won't feel humiliated If his Wife guides him to the straight way , when every human being make mistakes . Allah said : And those who have responded to their lord and established prayer and whose affair is [determined by] #consultation among themselves, and from what We have provided them, they spend. It's the better and healthier way to make a family and a good community .. Shura = consultation , as a couple you have to talk and take right decisions together .. taking the decision of the husband alone because he is a man it's stupid

@@ayoubmiracles3316 i wouldn’t marry any of my daughters to someone who thinks what you posted brother. We as men should aspire to be how we wished our fathers was with us and what type of man we would marry our daughter to. Shura is good and to keep a healthy relationship. But at the end of the day the husband is responsible in the sight of Allah.

Quran 28 : 26 - And said one of them (the two women): "O my father! Hire him! Verily, the best of men for you to hire is the strong, the trustworthy." Quran 24 : 37 - Men whom neither trade nor sale diverts them from the Remembrance of Allah (with heart and tongue), nor from performing As­Salat, nor from giving the Zakat. They fear a Day when hearts and eyes will be overturned (Akirah). (Quran 4 :34) Quran 4 : 34 - Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill­ conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) bxat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great. Quran 9 : 46 - Mohsin Khan: And if they had intended to march out, **certainly, they would have made some preparation for it,** but Allah was averse to their being sent forth, so He made them lag behind, and it was said (to them), "Sit you among those who sit (at home)." Quran 28 :77 - But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world, and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun. Quran 4 : 135 - O you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though it be against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, be he rich or poor, Allah is a Better Protector to both (than you). So follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you may avoid justice, and if you distort your witness or refuse to give it, verily, Allah is Ever Well­Acquainted with what you do.

Gheerah would be # 1 aqidah 2. Akhlaq 6. Passion

As salaamu alaykum sister , I saw you in Shaykh Abu Taubah's tafsiir group :)

100% agree. Now adays Pashtunes have ghairat or gheerah

Sister, you commented this 2 year ago but maybe you now know what i will explain. just as a high value man with gheerah would not watch videos of opposite gender speaking or teaching, you can learn knowledge without watching opposite gender teaching. There are many books of knowledge w explanations and interpretations from many different scholars, that a woman can learn from. And inshallah from her future husband. This is with purpose to spread n increase awareness.

No being rich?

@@yotubeinternethypocrite8412 Not at all. What you hear online or from any women is not true. When it comes to dating most women specially muslima’s don’t look at wealth. So by the time to haram relationship progresses they forget about that. And there’s not turning back. Same when a woman’s/young lady’s hand is asked in marriage. Wealth as in rich is not looked for. You just have to have enough to pay the monthly bills, save some up and go on holiday 1-2 times a year. Eventually she’s happy to get married and gain certain ‘freedoms’ she didn’t get from her parents.

Character is #2: akhlaq. So is niceness

My husband lacks all 🥲

@@timatim295 Advice him in gentle way, encourage him.

You forgot #6. Please edit your comment, otherwise it’s useful!

@@DS-ch8mz how?????

@@timatim295 How on earth did you marry such a man, or are you omitting true facts?

I see this on Twitter that's a playground for banaat bashing especially the non Hijabis

You literally said what I was going to say. It’s shocking the stuff that come out of these men’s mouths. “I am a high value man” “I am a high value man” but their character is garbage and everything that comes out of their mouth is lacking in knowledge and disrespectful. Any woman that gets with them would only be there as long as the money is. The minute it’s gone, she’s gone.

RP has plenty of bad elements, but it also has plenty of good stuff you can learn as a Muslim, like all secular knowledge. You need to stick to what is Halal and have good manners and of course the Quran and Sunnah are should be at the cornerstone of everything. I wouldn't say that it is the equivalent of feminism, MGTOW is.

@@sarahosman9030 it's all social media fingers nobody cares for what they say, women should just ignore them

Those red pilled men speak truth though. The main thing that doesn’t coincide with Islam is the sleeping around part. And hey, at least they speak good about the deen 👍

Assalamualaikum. We had conversation before. Where are you from, brother?

@@juxtapositionMS wa alaikom assalam ,from Egypt brother

@@juxtapositionMS was there a specific reason for asking brother haha

Salaam my bro, may I ask what you did to overcome this as I too feel like I'm in the same boat

@@AB-bc3vi MashaaAllah…Alhamdullillah😂

@@aniqaliq7291 🤣🤣🤣 jokes aside it’s true. If you don’t retaliate in a situation you’re expected, the perception of you completely changes

@@AB-bc3vi yea.. i know...my father's friend has 4 wives...by Allah he never shout or fight wit his wives...i know becus his first wive is my mum's friend...one time when i met him wit his 2nd wife, that time she was angry at him and constantly nagging him infront of me...but he just kept quiet and no matter what he talked so kindly and softly to her..MashaALLAH..May he and his wives will enter jannah ...amiinnn

@@redsquirrel6176 sorry thats not me… and alot of women like me too… it comes back to their cultural background and upbringing… my mum not like tat and of course they buy those things once in awhile becus they love beautiful things too thats natural for women.. they love gold… as its their nature, its our nature…they love beautiful clothes too for them to dress for their husbands…love perfume and all thats good…and they love to cook beautiful food serve beautifully on a very beautiful table which they decorate with flowers…whats wrong wit that but again some women like me exist too.. maybe i am a minimalist…

@@redsquirrel6176 women is different from men ok… why u try to explain then men and women equal in every way???? Lol

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@@ibnamanot Thank you for the suggestion but I'm not on social media

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@@fakharkhan5412 thnx bro jazak Allahu khir.

My guess and conclusion (I haven’t watched the counterpart to this video yet) is that women do not necessarily need (or would benefit if they loosened the reigns on): 3. discipline/self discipline 4 Courage/risk taking 5. Finances/provider However: they would still need to have: 1. Iman 2. Akhlaq 6. Passion/compassion Thoughts?

@@21972012145525 what are your thoughts on this post, do you still think that discipline/ self discipline, courage and finances/providing is still not something women need in a man?

Why do you think that is?

@@daysklant7401 the honest answer is that there isn't a movement similar to feminism for men, so men haven't been indoctrinated by it, but those movements r now surfacing, u have mgtow, redpil I dunno what else, give it a decade or two and we'll find men rejecting the stuff mentioned in this video

@@yousefshehata6330 can you explain the red pill please and the ways in which it’s changing the perspectives of men in the way feminism has women? I really don’t understand the red pill 😅

@@hellocello4931 it makes men that take the red pill brothers, so they refer to each others as brothers, that's already somewhat of a problem, becuz for us brotherhood is based on faith first and foremost and it's inconceivable for someone to call someone a brother just for the sake of him being of the same gender, like to me that's pretty weird, calling some bro isn't the same as calling someone brother, also it's a grouping thing, men should unite together, u see how feminists always make posts women unite, or female power, or women power or the future is female, yah, men r slowly falling into this as well and I've seen it, I am not saying it's entirely bad tho, it makes simps not simps, but it's a gender grouping, and puts u in a us Vs them mentality, them meaning women and more specifically feminists, and we have Arab redpill groups that I follow on social media, so these people exist, in low quantities rn but trust me give it it'll get bigger, feminism started around 1960 so it'll take a while for male based movements to take traction since their very inception was becuz feminism became too popular

@@yousefshehata6330 you are wrong, period

Look up "Qiwama" understanding from the Noble Quran & sunnah

Yes! I agree that would bring this to the next level by providing a specific example as a source for each trait. I was thinking the same thing and am glad I found your comment

1. Taqwallah is #1 Iman 2. Justice is #3 discipline and #2 akhlaq 3. Mercy and compassion = #2 akhlaq and #6 passion/compassion And let’s have some nuance when giving examples of the sahaba ra. Yes Khalid ibn walid was saifullah (sword of Allah swt), but he is not really known for narrating or reciting Hadith or Quran. We have Abdullah ibn Masood ra and abu hurairah for that, alhamdullilah! Each person has their own strengths and weaknesses. Invest in yourself to learn them and play them to your favor! Find your strengths and run with the wind and try to mitigate your weaknesses!

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-si7H6RIokaU.html Trying to illustrate my last point

You didn’t have to put the second one..

Are you a man or woman?

@@destdrom It’s important bro

Self control is a part of discipline

Agreed!

Especially on how to develop the traits

I know what u mean. Oops!

😂🤣

I'm sure the effect would be worse if you watch his older videos !🤣

Praise be to Allah. It was narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that women will form the majority of the people of Hell. It was narrated from ‘Imran ibn Husayn that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I looked into Paradise and I saw that the majority of its people were the poor. And I looked into Hell and I saw that the majority of its people are women.” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 3241; Muslim, 2737) With regard to the reason for this, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked about it and he explained the reason. It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052) It was narrated that Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) went out to the musalla (prayer place) on the day of Eid al-Adha or Eid al-Fitr. He passed by the women and said, ‘O women! Give charity, for I have seen that you form the majority of the people of Hell.’ They asked, ‘Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?’ He replied, ‘You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religious commitment than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.’ The women asked, ‘O Messenger of Allah, what is deficient in our intelligence and religious commitment?’ He said, ‘Is not the testimony of two women equal to the testimony of one man?’ They said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Is it not true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is the deficiency in her religious commitment.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 304) It was narrated that Jabir ibn ‘Abd-Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “I attended Eid prayers with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). He started with the prayer before the khutbah (sermon), with no adhan (call to prayer) or iqamah (final call to prayer). Then he stood up, leaning on Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him), speaking of fear of Allah (taqwa) and urging us to obey Him. He preached to the people and reminded them. Then he went over to the women and preached to them and reminded them. Then he said, ‘Give in charity, for you are the majority of the fuel of Hell. A woman with dark cheeks stood up in the midst of the women and said, ‘Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?’ He said, ‘Because you complain too much and are ungrateful to your husbands.’ Then they started to give their jewellery in charity, throwing their earrings and rings into Bilal’s cloak.” (Narrated by Muslim, 885) Our believing sisters who learn of this hadeeth should behave like those Sahabiyat (female Companions) who, when they learned of this, did good deeds which would be the means, by Allah’s leave, of keeping them far away from being included in that majority of the inhabitants of Hell. So our advice to the sisters is to strive to adhere to the rituals and obligatory duties of Islam, especially prayer, and to keep away from that which Allah has forbidden, especially shirk in its many forms which is widespread among women, such as seeking one's needs from someone other than Allah, going to practitioners of witchcraft and fortune-tellers, etc. We ask Allah to keep us and all our brothers and sisters far away from the Fire and the words and deeds that bring one close to it. And Allah knows best.

Praise be to Allah. It was narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that women will form the majority of the people of Hell. It was narrated from ‘Imran ibn Husayn that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I looked into Paradise and I saw that the majority of its people were the poor. And I looked into Hell and I saw that the majority of its people are women.” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 3241; Muslim, 2737) With regard to the reason for this, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked about it and he explained the reason. It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052) It was narrated that Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) went out to the musalla (prayer place) on the day of Eid al-Adha or Eid al-Fitr. He passed by the women and said, ‘O women! Give charity, for I have seen that you form the majority of the people of Hell.’ They asked, ‘Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?’ He replied, ‘You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religious commitment than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.’ The women asked, ‘O Messenger of Allah, what is deficient in our intelligence and religious commitment?’ He said, ‘Is not the testimony of two women equal to the testimony of one man?’ They said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Is it not true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is the deficiency in her religious commitment.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 304) It was narrated that Jabir ibn ‘Abd-Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “I attended Eid prayers with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). He started with the prayer before the khutbah (sermon), with no adhan (call to prayer) or iqamah (final call to prayer). Then he stood up, leaning on Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him), speaking of fear of Allah (taqwa) and urging us to obey Him. He preached to the people and reminded them. Then he went over to the women and preached to them and reminded them. Then he said, ‘Give in charity, for you are the majority of the fuel of Hell. A woman with dark cheeks stood up in the midst of the women and said, ‘Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?’ He said, ‘Because you complain too much and are ungrateful to your husbands.’ Then they started to give their jewellery in charity, throwing their earrings and rings into Bilal’s cloak.” (Narrated by Muslim, 885) Our believing sisters who learn of this hadeeth should behave like those Sahabiyat (female Companions) who, when they learned of this, did good deeds which would be the means, by Allah’s leave, of keeping them far away from being included in that majority of the inhabitants of Hell. So our advice to the sisters is to strive to adhere to the rituals and obligatory duties of Islam, especially prayer, and to keep away from that which Allah has forbidden, especially shirk in its many forms which is widespread among women, such as seeking one's needs from someone other than Allah, going to practitioners of witchcraft and fortune-tellers, etc. We ask Allah to keep us and all our brothers and sisters far away from the Fire and the words and deeds that bring one close to it. And Allah knows best.

@@bintjamiel2873 We came from different background and environment further more we are also different, if some one has watch the video to get educated respect their opinions and questions. Educate them with wisdom, choose proper words in responding to their queries. Let alone what the guy has brought does make sense highly.

@@idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162 my apologies bro if you felt offended but that wasn’t my intention, you probably misunderstood why I said that but cool.

That’s why it wasn’t mentioned lol 😂

and money

Depends on the situation

Yes, smiling is sunnah. That doesn’t mean you become the joker though

@ok joker laughs, not smiles

Not true, akhi…stop making trouble!

Simple answer for the “arguing”: this video is for men by a MAN. He even clearly states that in the other video that it is his perspective as a man on what he thinks an ideal Muslim woman (wife?) would be. This video isn’t even directed towards or titled the ideal husband, but the other one has a “wife” and relationship context way more than this one does. Tbh he focuses way more on what Allah swt wants from a man in this video. Compare that to the other one. It is largely what a husband wants from a wife. Instead He should’ve focused on what Allah swt wants from a woman. The equivalent to this video would be a Muslim shaykha researching and using the Quran and sunnah to come up with the traits that a high value woman would have. FOR women BY a woman. And frankly , it WOULD be a different video! The fact that men don’t realize these simple points (as NONE of you mention this obvious reason, let alone observed it) clearly shows your own inherent and blind biases against the female viewpoint and voices. It is not too difficult to see why you are watching and would benefit from this video, lol. Start practicing the traits in this video yourself before you point fingers and preach to the females, lol.

That would be #4 courage imo

Is mufti menk upon the way of the companions? Nope, so why listen to him and defend him

@@abuyaqoob_ Oh ofcourse he's another deviant! Oh silly me. I forget that there are self righteous angels like yourself who decide who is and isn't UPON THE WAY OF THE COMPANIONS' Very elementary mindset with no hikmah and distinct lack of life experiences! You have a lot to learn!

@@ahans1792 Allah preserved this deen through the scholars who refuted misguided callers and purified the deen by gatekeaping it from all deviants then you come along with your false speech. You only follow him because hes a celebrity and not because he calls to the haqq. Where are his refutations on ahlul Bid'ah? Where is call to tawheed in details?? Learn your deen stop following missguided callers to the hell fire

@@abuyaqoob_ Firslty, I'd like you to show me precisely where I stated that I was a 'follower' of our beloved brother Mufti Menk? Secondly, please specify what speech I gave about following our beloved Mufti Menk. The deen does not need stuck up ignorants like yourself to protect the deen! It is due to your very own attitudes that people run away from the religion. You have black and white attitudes and refute everyone under the sun! Your arguments are rather childish and pathetic. There has been callers to bidah and deviance throughout the ages from the dawn of civilization. Does that mean EVERY person on this earth has to call them out. If that was the case, then how come you didn't come defend me against my local masjid who are robbing the public of donations and mismanaging public finances for their own whims and desires. Where were you? Why didn't you come to defend me? You are guilty of the same crimes that you accuse our brother Mufti Menk.

@@ahans1792 lol you need to fear Allah and stop lying on my name. I wont bother replying from here as you lack basic knowledge in the fundamentals of islam. Learn your deen and stop speaking without knowledge.

Who’s that? I was thinking Jordan Peterson lol

so who do you wanna follow? movie stars??

Sahabas are really important well,they were the best of men.

@Honour I dont even know what that is. I'm a muslim but I dont follow anyone online and it seems like these so called scholars have no one to refer to but the sahaba. Sahaba this, sahaba that.... its tiresome....I'd rather they focus on Allah and the prophet. Nothing else. I don't want to follow any sect strictly, they all have their side-eye worthy traits and to be honest, its exhausting!

@Myname Ismyname Why, thank you ;) Kinky........

are we not instructed to follow the sahbah im confused by your coment