6 Unusual Secrets to Make You Irresistibly Attractive! 

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Plz ma’am, I imagined myself as a casanova & pick-up artist since childhood, I literally believed in it and yet the powers of manifestation failed me real bad. 🥲

Thank you!!!! Needed that.🥺❤😢

Be a fraud ?

@@1000OtherFoxes No fox

Amen sis. A lot of us don’t realize the power our mind really holds

Thank you, or your service

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Stop spoiling me plis im watching a movie

@@cometgd1120 okay

Oh yeah, Kalimba player, so attractive. Lol

What do you think are the reasons why you find these behaviors attractive?

I wish more people found these traits attractive. Instead they just label me as a "nice guy" and I am instantly friendzonedor I get left behind. Being nice isn't an attractive quality, anymore.

@relentless7407 That’s their problem. Nice people are getting rarer and rarer and more valuable.

@Psych2go • not always staring at your phone - it shows that you care about stuff other than your phone • when walking, staring straight ahead - same as the phone, and I like it when people don’t act like scrolling zombies. • having pets - I like pets idk • willing to do things for the enjoyment of others - I can’t stand a selfish person. You’re not the only person in the world. • not being selfish - selfishness makes me feel like I don’t matter. • nice to people you don’t like - only being nice to people you’re attracted to but being the human equivalent of crumbs on a bed to people you don’t like is so annoying. That person could have had a horrible day, and you’re only making it worse.

..... Have a pet ?? Hold my tea ...

So to summarize you found her less attractive because she rejected you? People like people that like them. Sarcasm ofc

@@alejandrovillegas433 Lol you've never met a pretty person and the more they talk/behave the less attractive they become ?

U type 2 much

I ain't reading all dat

Thank you for sharing your story. Based on what we're reading, it sounds like you found someone much more attractive when they had an awesome character. Do you think that character is more important than appearance for there to be attraction? Or maybe a balance of both?

So a Disney character?

Me too

Of course, there are always people who find introversion or shyness kinda attractive… or maybe that’s just me (I’m an extroverted introvert btw). Just giving hope to u ofc :>

Yay!! 👊👊👊👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌

Hey there, even i confessed to my crush just recently. And before that he confessed to me but through a text. And when i confronted him, he said he doesn't remember. Oh my..that broke my heart. Please help me. I've liked him for so long now. But I'm confused if he likes me or not.

@@yinja3406 i think so too. But you know what, he literally wrote my name and mentioned me there. Like it can't be a mistake then. But still I'm not sure. 😭😭Such an unrequited love.

@@yinja3406 ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ why mee It breaks my heart really so badly 😭

@@yinja3406 oh man, you won't know. It's still complicated. So many things happened and even idk what is actually going on.

Well said. It's important that you decide to take on a pet only if you genuinely want to, and not to use the pet to attract a partner. For you personally, is there a particular reason why you personally don't want a pet?

@@Psych2go Idk about OP, but I personally don't want a pet because of all the work that I'd need to do (cleaning up after them, feeding them, etc) with what I consider to be very few upsides

@@Psych2go Well, for me there are several considerations. First and foremost, I am not confident that I would provide a pet enough attention, and the kinds of pets whom wouldn't require attention wouldn't appeal to me. Secondly, they are an expense in money, effort and time. Thirdly, hygiene, mess and smell. It is just not for me. I can enjoy animals in a non-committal one-off exposure kind of way but otherwise no.

Thats cope

​@@raphaelricardino yea, I'm gonna have to agree with you on this one. You can't just "be yourself" and expect your lover for the rest of your life to show up. What I will say, though, is to not focus on being yourself, but bettering yourself through mentors and hard work physically, emotionally, and mentally, and then you will attract those that you want.

Nah fam, that's never gonna happen. I've been myself for years and it got me nowhere lol. What we need is to keep improving ourselves. We can't stay the same.

@@righteousone5119 "" but bettering yourself through mentors"" Another good way to say you should listen to a Cult Leader.

What is beeing yourself? You are the person you want to be. You need to work on yourself everything else is delusional.

By "Showing that you're available" they meant "e.g. by holding eye contact and by smiling".

@@davecullins1606 It means that you're their for them when they need you the most instead of ghosting them!

I'm saying this from my experience, not professionally: I wouldn't recommend trying to be flirty at all, but try to find a way to engage with other people that is fun for you. The confidence part only comes from stepping out of your comfort zone and making mistakes in social interactions. There are plenty of people who will like your quirks and you are better off finding out who likes them so you don't feel like you have to hide them.

A great start would be with short, online relationship since it's better to be confident than irl. If you are respectful in your manner, I don't think you will ruin anyone life, except for Karen, but Karen have always their day ruined.

This will sound terrible but I found being a cocky but polite a hole to be the most productive way to attract a mate. YMMV.

Hi I’m autistic too so we have that in common. I’m studying psychology also. Confidence 1) I find uno extremely helpful I carry a deck around everywhere. Essentially my reasoning is people suck at conversation even if there not autistic and will genuinely take any chance they can get at doing something other then having to try come up with conversation. If your on a dating app challenge someone to a uno competition most people ego gets a little inflated and it seems less scary going into something. If your at school or working with people offer a little fun after works and in breaks and if your out in the town and u end up getting someone to do something with you it’s a great place to fill the void. Gets people to relax and open up and they will appreciate you for it 2) approach people with a goal type question like “hey do you know the directions to a certain place” or “do you know to do a certain task” ask for there name once they tell you and you thank them and ask if they wouldn’t mind sharing there social media accounts with you so in the future you can keep in contact and maybe pay them back for their help. It’s so much less awkward then walking up to someone and saying hey let’s talk and since most people now days meet by having friends and then friends introducing you to more friends and so on or getting drunk and clubbing and getting into crazy and sometimes traumatic situations that create bonding moments and take away the awkward barrier for me at least that wasn’t a reality a few years ago. Granted it’s still really awkward to do this tactic but it has a higher chance of working and it’s worked for me about 60% of the time. Flirting 1) there’s actually a list of questions designed to make people open up a bit more to each other. It’s janky I’m not gonna pretend it isn’t but a list of questions on your phone once u nail down a date and getting them talking about themselves and all the wired and wonderful things they make them tick will make most people very happy. If there struggling with open ended questions that lead to a more in-depth answer then yes or no which is the gold standard, then asking hypothetical and would you rather type questions usually get past that barrier and offering information about yourself will promt questions from the other person if they don’t initiate asking questions themselves. 2) ask as many follow up questions as you can and offer up relevant information to the topic including your own experiences and stories. You can manufacture what people call flow by milking a subject dry and potentially getting a natural link to a kinda relevant but different subject which definitely makes being at ease and feeling positive feelings easier for both of you. ( yes I consider this flirting sarcasm and gentle teasing is to hard for me to get right) Also talk about memories and ask them to do the same people love stories and nostalgia. It can be dramatic like what was a moment in your life that you were most afraid or soft like tell me about what the last day of school was life (just some examples) 3) be honest don’t try to be more confident or put on a act or own a pet. Here’s the problem your not trying to pull in the most amount of people your trying to pull in the people that will love you and support you and make you better but also appreciate who you already are. If your try to hard you might find yourself with someone possibly quicker then if your with yourself but I have seen so many times it’s backfired and quickly. And it’s exhausting for you. Here is a good example if you don’t like animals there is someone that doesn’t like animals and that’s gonna be something u bond over as in “look at those suckers shelling out money to basically be in servitude to literally beats that laze around in your house rent free” And the other person being like “Omg I know right” Stay true to your interests your character be honest about your short comings as in tell them out right look I’m not very good in conversation and then maybe tell them what u can offer like but I’m great at being your personal IT guy. And share with them your insecurities and fears and your joys and successes. People are programmed no matter how hard they try not to to relate being vulnerable isn’t actually being vulnerable it’s communicating your needs and wants and encouraging others to do the same which is necessary for a good relationship and feeling seen. I would even encourage sharing that your nervous you want be a good date or your scared conversation are going to be hard you might find they relate and say “I’m so glad you said that because I am to” Finding things in common and vibing over them and sharing with that person that you like them are very important factors in making someone feel attracted to you regardless of if it’s subtle or not so if eye contact not your thing just say no pressure but I like your style and I think it would be fun to get to know you. Hopefully that helps and more importantly is tailored some what to your lifestyle x

Depends on personally types tho and also how well your able to read a room and be witty. I’d be curious to know if that cocky polite a hole is a mask and you feel like people don’t really know or respect all of you. Some friends I know play a room like that but end up stuck in a leading role but playing the preforming monkey so I’m wondering if it’s similar experience

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We're so glad that you find our content helpful! Thank you!! 🥰

Thank you for sharing your challenge with us. This can be a great idea for a video so we'll discuss this with our team. As for having a more social and adventurous life, it doesn't have to start big. If you want to have a social life, you can start exposing yourself to places where people go that align with your interest. You can start by identifying activities or hobbies that you like that your college offers. You don't have to make it a goal to talk to everyone but it can just be one person who attends the same event. And little by little, you can start working your way to talking to more and more people while attending more events. We hope that you are able to find the social and adventurous life that you want as you step out of your comfort zone! Start small! :)

Thank you for your kind words! What are some takeaways for you that you want to apply in your future? Can you tell us more about which part of the video was helpful for you? :)

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Honestly, great qualities for a friend 😊

Glad you like them!

Thank you! Which part of the video did you resonate with the most?

@@Psych2go every second :D

@@aadityavilassharma1802 right you are, it was a holistic enjoyment of every second

You can always come back to them when you don't feel overwhelmed!

Have the competence and be humble.

@@1000OtherFoxes I wish it was so easy. Sometimes competence is grossly overlooked in favor of other, rather subjective qualities. I know this from vast experience.

That's a great idea for a new video! In your experience, what were some qualities that employers looked at other than, as you mentioned, competence? Could you share what they favored over competence?

@@Psych2go Well, it is more like the way one approaches the whole issue, I mean, how confident you are, how the first impression takes place, how much dynamism you show, how well you can interact with colleagues aka at which level you can work in a group, etc... there is no use being super competent if one just can't harmonize with the working environment. A somewhat less competent individual with great social or other communication skills can be easily trained further while his empathy and openness is much appreciated, whereas social skills are nearly impossible to teach to someone who is somewhat more competent but lacks them. It is complex really...

have 10 years of experience

What are some things that you resonated with in the video?

That's a great idea. We'll share it with the team :) In the meanwhile, what do you personally feel are signs that someone is not ready for love?

Awww thank you so much!! Glad you enjoyed the visuals 🥺💖

@@Ayacchi if you are the maker of this than this is art. Cute style plus the calming voice of the narrator, its practically impossible to not be relaxed

@@romanmihalic4544 yes, I was the one doing the animation for this video! Thank you so much! And yes, Amanda's voice IS very soothing!💖💖

@@Ayacchi youre goddamn right

Not ridiculous at all! Approaching someone we're attracted to can be very intimidating 😭

unless you're in a group of creeps

Thank you for watching! 🥰

I'm just lazy to look after pets

@@jenkathefridge3933 and I am too broke for one

@@KyleGK01 broke gang

@@jenkathefridge3933 😓

@@KyleGK01 we should probably both try to find a job 😞

That's great! Though we didn't mention it in the video, cats are great too! 😺😺

@@Psych2go 😸😸

Thank you for your feedback. If we were to make a video on "introvert's guide to being more attractive", what would you like to see?

@@Psych2go Yeah, I would totaly watch that!

This can be a great topic that can be helpful for a lot of people. Thank you for sharing your idea with us.

Cats are great too!😸

Thank you for your feedback. What do you think we can add to our videos so that the tips in the video are easier to put into practice? What do you find difficult about this topic?

We hope that this video was helpful for you and that it will give you the courage and the confidence you need should you choose to be in a relationship again. Could you tell us, what were some of the "standards" that you mentioned?

@@Psych2go their standards like: Good looks (includes height, skin color) Must have a high income Must have a car Studied at an A- League College

​@@a.d.samano7873 Ugh, I hate those standards. It seems like EVERY woman has these same few standards that are almost unachievable. I can't increase my height nor change my skin color. I get instantly friendzoned or ignored by every girl I meet, despite trying something different every time. It can be frustrating but I know there are some women who are actually sane and love people for their PERSONALITY.

@@DeRez19 there are some but they are already with someone.

@@a.d.samano7873 Yeah. I noticed that all of the women I actually seem to have a shot with, already have a boyfriend (like, for real. I meet their actual BFs so I know they aren't lying). So in reality, I never have a shot to begin with. The more I think about it, the more I think dating apps are the way to go for me. Finding single women (that I'm interested in) in my social circle is *very* difficult. It seems like for every 10 women I grow attracted to, 8 of them are in a relationship already, and the other 2 just don't give me a chance as a potential partner. Online dating makes it so dang easy to find singles in your area, so I know that I actually have a chance with someone.

Great idea! We'll share this idea with the team :)

Fair but being honest isn’t the same thing as burdening people I mean essentially every story ever is about some poor soul having a miserable time of it and some how makes it out in the end with the insinuation it’s probably going to be back to the grind after the break. How is that any different to you have issues and sharing it to a curious soul. Also if said curious soul wants to take you on and ideally you would be happy with that arrangement if you didn’t have to consider there peace of mind then you should let them. It’s there choice after all and people generally Don’t offer people something unless they won’t you to accept.some People love helping and even need it to feel worth while in this world so you would actually be doing them a favour,

I meant want sorry I can’t spell 😅

Thank you for sharing your thought with us. In your experience, what are some things that make opening your heart challenging?

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

Thank you for sharing. In your experience, what were some strategies that helped you when you feel like you're overthinking and paralyzed because of it?

@@Psych2gotrying to find something else to talk about

I have Asperger's so I am in the same boat.