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Today we’re going to talk about how men test women. You may not notice but people are constantly testing you and the reason why is because of three laws of human nature.
The first one is that people will attack you if they think that you’re weak. That’s the first law of human nature. The second law of nature is that people will sense your weakness through your sub communication and the things you’ve done in the past. The third law of human nature is that people are after the easiest one. They will deter from you if they sense that you will harm them in the process of trying to take advantage of you. Some people are just there to take advantage of you and if you don’t let them they just leave.
These are the ways men test women:
1. Early sex - A lot of ways that women got impregnated back then was through rape. Other thing that a man will encourage early sex is to see a woman’s resistance. If she says no, it’s a good thing. If she says yes, she fails. A guy wants a woman who resists. A guy wants a woman who is strong. A guy wants a woman who’s control her emotions now.
2. They will look for signs of weakness in the past and see if they could exploit him - If they notice that you’re somebody who is easily manipulated, abusers see that as a gold mine, they get happy when you say, it’s actually something they want to hear. So if you went through a lot of abuse, I recommend you not to tell the guy in the beginning, because some guys are just looking for weakness.
3. Pulling away and seeing your response - This is the simplest one. Guys will literally pull away just to see whether or not you’re gonna over pursue, going to get emotional, or start responding fast because telling me those shows signs of weakness. Guys will not respond for a long time to see whether or not you’re going to double text. If a guy pulls away either he’s touching you, testing or he’s actually not interested to react the same way.
4. Hurting you in small ways and seeing your reaction - What they’ll do is that they’ll inflict pain. They’ll try to gaslight you to see whether or not or they’ll cancel a date to see how you’re going to respond. Don’t name call you or even hit you, to see whether or not you’ll pull away. They’re testing to see what the limits are. If they notice that you’re not somebody to play with a lot of times they’ll leave because they’re not there to love, they’re there to hurt.
5. They’ll test how gullible you are. A man’s responsibility is to lie about his value. Literally, guys are designed to lie. Gullibleness, believing in everything you see is the worst trait you could have as a woman.
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Комментарии : 676   
@patriciaviii
@patriciaviii 3 года назад
When he pulls away, I get turned off. And lose interest
@shacutehuntyssssx
@shacutehuntyssssx 3 года назад
Same I lose all interest tbh
@gretchen725
@gretchen725 3 года назад
Me 2 .
@Frugal637
@Frugal637 3 года назад
Right I pull away harder and they usually do a u turn.
@suzanneweary9739
@suzanneweary9739 3 года назад
Yep, it's the Gemini in me.
@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom
@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom 2 года назад
Weird how they always wait to come back as if you supposed to be happy to see them
@carolmaz8675
@carolmaz8675 3 года назад
Do men even like themselves ?
@HaileyMarieGrande
@HaileyMarieGrande 3 года назад
Nope!
@zubieM
@zubieM 3 года назад
Good men do- bad ones are narcissistic doosh bags that really loathe every single fibre of their being!
@klickingkayasmr7585
@klickingkayasmr7585 3 года назад
Excellent question!! Oh, i love it 🎯
@Loluxmarie
@Loluxmarie 3 года назад
No not at all so I know you won’t like me makes no sense
@darkkitty22
@darkkitty22 2 года назад
This is ‘toxic’ dating advice for weird ass situations because most people use their toxicity to weed out others or as a defense mechanism and if you want to play, get to know the rules I guess. But all in all Some men are sane lol, very rare, very few but sane at least to my knowledge
@PrissyLadyVenom
@PrissyLadyVenom 2 года назад
“Guys are designed to lie. Their job is to lie about their value and your job is to identify it” No truer words have been said.
@tanit7741
@tanit7741 2 года назад
Omg my daddy told me this
@jfireball2461
@jfireball2461 2 года назад
Guys are not designed to lie. Pieces of sh*t are designed to lie.
@asiamiller6833
@asiamiller6833 2 года назад
Lord hammercy
@SR77736
@SR77736 2 года назад
Yup men lie and overestimate their value.
@Soouber
@Soouber 2 года назад
No, guys will try, they aren't all dumb...gotta give real men who don't tolerate BS...women need to be real and have morals and see how fast they stuck and see what they change.
@mesemilly903
@mesemilly903 3 года назад
Just stay away from people like that over all . It’s low vibrational. High vibrational people don’t try to hurt others
@bigflyness17
@bigflyness17 2 года назад
EXACTLY ‼️
@clapyourhands8056
@clapyourhands8056 2 года назад
The truth
@isaiahjr9259
@isaiahjr9259 Год назад
Frr same here too
@louiseevans3510
@louiseevans3510 Месяц назад
They certainly don't justify rape and abuse either, as Alex just did.
@womenwhodate7643
@womenwhodate7643 3 года назад
Oftentimes women are so willing to just do whatever it takes to be with a guy, to give all that power away, to give all their sense of self-worth and confidence away as well. Stay strong women! And to the uploader, super valuable content, THANKS!
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325 3 года назад
Facts
@enchantingnaturals866
@enchantingnaturals866 3 года назад
No this women are called pickmesha women. Not all women belong here
@ashantiistore_tv
@ashantiistore_tv 3 года назад
Correct
@samanthamutah8635
@samanthamutah8635 2 года назад
Even if you do nothing for a man, if the man don’t wanna be with you, nothing will make it. It’s not about the woman it’s about the man. What one man sees as a weakness, another man can adore it. There’s no formula to dating men.
@linvi_chemutai
@linvi_chemutai 2 года назад
To the women that cut the cord when they're tested, good job🙏 Never like someone so much you forget your value❤️
@paolanamuncura8879
@paolanamuncura8879 Год назад
6:25 NEVER EVER tell them. NEVER. They don't need to know about your past. Even if he is a good guy. Your life starts when your relationship starts the more You don't talk about your past the better.
@alexajackson8227
@alexajackson8227 Год назад
Fine but I don’t think women should live with shame. Someone else’s abusive behavior is their shame to carry not yours. If a good man found out something you’ve been through, he wouldn’t judge you.
@planetChristie
@planetChristie 3 года назад
If a person is playing games like this I’m not calling anything out because it’s intentional games. I’m pulling away and moving on period. Only behavior I call out are mistakes. The intention matters the most to me, that guy can play games with himself! “They will leave if you don’t tolerate their behavior, they are there to hurt and not love” bingo go heal yourself instead of trying to hurt people 🤣
@mariaarlene888
@mariaarlene888 3 года назад
Yes!!👏👏
@RiaSouthernBelle
@RiaSouthernBelle 3 года назад
💯💯💯
@crunchybobaasmr2130
@crunchybobaasmr2130 3 года назад
💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
@cjbowers6055
@cjbowers6055 3 года назад
I feel you. The first time can be a mistake, but after that they making choices.....so yeah no 3 strikes w/ me after the 1st I'm on guard, 2nd I'm out...
@HaileyMarieGrande
@HaileyMarieGrande 3 года назад
BINGO!!
@РафаэлаХендрикс
@РафаэлаХендрикс 2 года назад
"A person who acts like a fool is never a fool. "
@greendreem9684
@greendreem9684 3 года назад
Ladies he is not lying! This happened to me last year, I was tested in every which way and failed miserably. I was gullible I believed everything he said to me was not resistant in any way, and you damn sure he used and abused me, but Karma got that ass because he is going to go to jail for his abuses (they became criminal offenses). Listen to this man! He is the truth save yourself from the bullshit.
@jasmina5445
@jasmina5445 3 года назад
I hope you are feeling better now 🌸
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325 3 года назад
Danggg..glad u are safe. And glad that douche bag got his...stay lifted..# love yourself...PERIOD
@missj3434
@missj3434 3 года назад
🙏🏽🙏🏽💞
@kayesmith2518
@kayesmith2518 2 года назад
Praying for u, I just went through that, he got drunk & beat me last week, choked me unconscious, literally tried to snap my neck and shot at me twice. He treated me like a queen was so wonderful for the last 8 months then some red flags started showing 2 weeks ago then all that happened to me
@chellierenae
@chellierenae 2 года назад
😳 wow. I'm sorry you went through that. Broken men either look for broken women or strong women they can break ..I'm glad you are unbreakable 💖💖💖💖
@alicia_nicole
@alicia_nicole 3 года назад
I feel like all of these are games that little boys play and my response to all of these every time is to walk away
@marah3298
@marah3298 3 года назад
Right! Same here
@strive09
@strive09 3 года назад
I agree no one has time for it anymore smfh
@Vesta588
@Vesta588 3 года назад
It’s toxic men seeking broken women
@Cherrypie210
@Cherrypie210 3 года назад
The moment I smell BS, they will never be able to find me again… always on the fight or flight mode 😂
@krixttysimon2705
@krixttysimon2705 3 года назад
Period
@BeautifulSunshine-vl3fd
@BeautifulSunshine-vl3fd 3 года назад
This makes you just want to give up on man completely. I think I'm done with them
@Igetlifted50
@Igetlifted50 2 года назад
I know right? At first I was cool to see so many men make advice videos to give us some insight and understanding of men. But now there are so many of them, from so many angles, perspectives, the lying, the testing 🙄, the immaturity, the stupidity...I just can't take not one serious!
@evelinaxxo9593
@evelinaxxo9593 2 года назад
Same sisters
@juricpro
@juricpro 2 года назад
I've been done with them for a couple of years now.
@leahracquelGibson
@leahracquelGibson 2 года назад
Ditto
@creatorattractor4189
@creatorattractor4189 2 года назад
Lol
@Christilovestea
@Christilovestea 3 года назад
Just got broken up with and left with a shattered fucking heart all because I didn't respect myself. Yall know what that means???? Educating myself with your videos while eating ice cream. Thank you.
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325 3 года назад
I'm sry you were hurt. But next time u will kno how to protect yourself. I highly recommend The toxic Coach..He has help me through his videos. And Sis they actually work. It's a mindset. Stay safe 🙏.
@annaa-rh2bj
@annaa-rh2bj 3 года назад
Honey sorry to hear that, I send you much love 💕 go watch Sheraseven, and celebrate your breakup 🥳 men are like buses, there will be next! 💋
@JO-tw5yd
@JO-tw5yd 3 года назад
Sending you love and positivity. Trust me everything happens for a reason 🌹
@dcaramelone
@dcaramelone 3 года назад
I pray that the next time you see your ex you'll laugh and say to yourself "WTH was I thinking?"
@ninafrederick6048
@ninafrederick6048 3 года назад
PERiOD. Don't go back and leave the door shut when they come back. Trust me when I say this u won't waste your time
@humanityandme
@humanityandme 3 года назад
Yo this is fucking GOLD and I wish women had psychological defence classes like this
@sharlenefasano7876
@sharlenefasano7876 3 года назад
Psychological defense is a good way to term it
@PucciNYC
@PucciNYC 2 года назад
Yes, I feel the same
@queenester5875
@queenester5875 2 года назад
We do, sheraseven1. She’ll have men eating out your hand.
@Patricia-uz2xx
@Patricia-uz2xx 2 года назад
Dark arts defense
@paisleydragonhostler3714
@paisleydragonhostler3714 3 года назад
That's a damn shame that some guys even play games like that. No time for broken, damaged little boys and their bullshit. A real king will come and claim his queen.
@crunchybobaasmr2130
@crunchybobaasmr2130 3 года назад
Platinum
@annndugu1032
@annndugu1032 2 года назад
My, the most informative video av watched all my life. Thank you soooo much. My heart is pacing, all the bullshit I have tolerated..Am done.
@Tnc874
@Tnc874 3 года назад
#2 is the reason why u keep your fucn mouth shut about what you been thru. We run our mouths too much as women. Quick to run our mouths and spread our legs
@miaestelle3042
@miaestelle3042 2 года назад
He’s explaining narcissistic men. Healthy men don’t behave like this! There are so many nice men . . like literally. My guy friends are so nice, they never treat any women with disrespect. They have always been there for me, treated me good, protected me, helped me when I needed them the most. Yes, they do exist!
@kiradomochi4961
@kiradomochi4961 2 года назад
Yea this dood sounds like pure narc
@leilaandrade6022
@leilaandrade6022 2 года назад
So why are you here then? Lol 😂
@taraanderson9363
@taraanderson9363 2 года назад
Yes but information is good to know on case you run into a narcissist..thanks for info
@no-one00
@no-one00 2 года назад
Healthy men do tho
@trinap.8904
@trinap.8904 2 года назад
I think those men are either gay (which I love) or waiting to shoot their shot.
@tiannatekeste4498
@tiannatekeste4498 3 года назад
I agree with what you say . But in some other reality. Myquestion is why does someone disrespect another person because they allow it? wouldn’t that be a question of your character. If I meet someone that is a pushover and , easy to manipulate because I fancy myself as a person with good character, I wouldn’t take advantage of that I will just leave them alone. Because that person’s feelings matter so if I can’t give them respect than I need to preserve my morals and back away.
@loyaltyb71052
@loyaltyb71052 3 года назад
You are so right but unfortunately most SEE KIND LOVING PEOPLE AS WEAK AND A gold mine. TAKERS SEE OTHERS AS BEING PUT THERE To satisfy their needs ONLY!
@Jenrumbi
@Jenrumbi 3 года назад
Ypu would be a great target with that mindset
@msjreneful
@msjreneful 3 года назад
It’s human nature. Both men and women do it in regular lives with others. We may not be outright disrespectful, but a person knows how to move with someone who may appear to not have any boundaries or be a pushover. It happens at work, in families, friendships. Women especially need firm boundaries with men. Men always think they can get one over on me because I’m very kind and have a baby face. Being kind doesn’t mean I’m stupid. They soon learn 😊 Being underestimated this way allows me to see guys characters very early on. “Be as wise as serpents and as harmless as doves.”
@ladyofspa
@ladyofspa 3 года назад
Lol spoken like a woman 🤣😂 ....men don't often think like that. They are designed to conquer. If you let them the masculine will.
@tiannatekeste4498
@tiannatekeste4498 3 года назад
@@ladyofspa well I am a true woman so I guess you are right! 🤷🏾‍♀️
@Kimberlee_S
@Kimberlee_S 3 года назад
Hearing this validates how I already felt about guys "testing" women. It's sick.
@candacecasey5634
@candacecasey5634 3 года назад
In a twisted way they are doing an intelligent woman a " favor". They think they are " slick"but their behavior is shockingly predictable.
@zaratisafa2445
@zaratisafa2445 3 года назад
Dudes gonna hate you for exposing their games, thank you Alex so much for this precious video it opens up my mind..
@sarahd4260
@sarahd4260 3 года назад
He has a while chanel for men about us too tho 🤣
@ladyofspa
@ladyofspa 2 года назад
Some men are so wierd and weak you punish for everything. Beg for our attention then blame us when we give it to you. Beg for sex then punish us for being easy. Plead for baby then leave when it gets hard. Want to buy a house together switch it up and go back to mommies house. This poor girl willing to keep the fun going and instead you label her wack weak low esteem. She cant win Had she cause a scene shes crazy. Either way you were gonna punish her think less and blame her for you being a liar. SMH
@leachridlah1927
@leachridlah1927 2 года назад
Exactly my thoughts
@Niqua10023
@Niqua10023 2 года назад
I been there done that. They are the weak ones for taking the time to do som I mean who is the weak one here really? Most are fools but, not all. Some are their to be their and loyal. Then their are some that are just as fake as he is. Lairs and cheaters.
@amnbvcxz8650
@amnbvcxz8650 Год назад
that’s the cognitive dissonance I’m experiencing too from messages towards women’s supposed behaviour. If you’re not gullible - you’re blamed for being mistrustful, difficult (i was even rejected for that). If you show any upset emotions due to a broken boundary/mistreatment - you’re confrontational/crazy. if you don’t cause a scene - you’re weak/exploitable/disrespected. What’s the balance? If you walk/pull away, you’re distant and unattainable, and just end up alone even before they attach. Either way, men will blame you and say their treatment of you is your fault.
@arlenepayne309
@arlenepayne309 3 года назад
You guys are going to make yourselves go extinct by playing these mind games. Good luck finding a life✌️
@saaramohamed8921
@saaramohamed8921 3 года назад
LMAO true
@klickingkayasmr7585
@klickingkayasmr7585 3 года назад
👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾 Truly
@deadbeats4417
@deadbeats4417 2 года назад
And then guys complain that girls nowadays are bitches, well ofcourse weve been treated badly and always know what’s coming
@me.2172
@me.2172 3 года назад
I feel like all this testing and mind game BS is ridiculous. People over think shit and IGNORE red flags. I treat them as I would any new friend/ acquaintance, feel em out and DON’T give up the cookies. Be friendly, be YOURSELF! Keep your standards, speak your mind, LISTEN, and control your emotions. If it becomes something.. cool. If not, cool. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@eshtermaria6884
@eshtermaria6884 2 года назад
DON’T give up the cookies 😁👍
@evelinaxxo9593
@evelinaxxo9593 2 года назад
SPEAK YOUR MIND
@TT-nu4qk
@TT-nu4qk Год назад
Listen to the non verbal communication will tell you more then words
@alexajackson8227
@alexajackson8227 Год назад
Unless it’s a double stuffed cookie. Than ya minus well give it up to the 3rd who wins the treasure chest.
@BettyAttoms
@BettyAttoms 3 года назад
telling them about past abuse was new for me. I had no clue they would see it as permission....wow
@goddessglow6996
@goddessglow6996 3 года назад
It’s true! Never tell them about your exes.
@RobinLMaze
@RobinLMaze 3 года назад
Some things Never need to be shared, in my opinion.
@ladyofspa
@ladyofspa 3 года назад
They know it's not really a boundary.... You accept it. They only respect a woman above them in self worth and emotional strength.
@hightopv1352
@hightopv1352 2 года назад
I actually tested this out when I heard this. It's true. After the experiment, I ghosted... 😏
@kaymornasinclair7905
@kaymornasinclair7905 2 года назад
That’s not good! Unfortunately pple like that do exist but they’re broken and narcissistic…..period!!!!!
@angeliqueesprit8674
@angeliqueesprit8674 2 года назад
My cut-off game is powerful!💪🏽
@bollagurl
@bollagurl 3 года назад
He's right do not tell these guys anything early on.
@ckmp
@ckmp 3 года назад
Yup my mom always told me that
@bollagurl
@bollagurl 3 года назад
@@ckmp I wish your mom would have told 😂. Later on they will use anything and everything against you.
@setme4ree
@setme4ree 3 года назад
Fuck I messed up
@janayewill3883
@janayewill3883 2 года назад
Or sleep with them smh 🤦🏿‍♀️ 😂
@lyn9415
@lyn9415 2 года назад
When you have good come backs, honestly they can’t use anything against you. Have confidence and be swift when someone tries to use anything you told them, against you. Pull a card.
@trishtrishlee
@trishtrishlee 3 года назад
I’m too crazy for these behaviors. You’re right, if their intentions aren’t good then they won’t tolerate the strong females reactions. The good men won’t play these games.
@scherermurillo7669
@scherermurillo7669 3 года назад
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance
@candacecasey5634
@candacecasey5634 3 года назад
Being crazy is the best defense against these types😂They always think I am " sweet and innocent" until they piss me off!
@HeartLatic
@HeartLatic 2 года назад
Ditto and agreed sister!!
@EmeralDiamonds
@EmeralDiamonds 3 года назад
Alex, I agree with you but most of these men prefer women are weak and easy to manipulate. I love that you empower women to be strong but let’s not lie, most men are not looking for confident women with boundaries
@PucciNYC
@PucciNYC 2 года назад
You right they just want an easy lay.
@evelinaxxo9593
@evelinaxxo9593 2 года назад
Truee, they also dont want intelligent women
@caramelali8132
@caramelali8132 2 года назад
They want confident woman with boundaries, but also what will keep them is playing evil beauty, nice enchantress with them. They like role playing tooo fuckin much
@caramelali8132
@caramelali8132 2 года назад
And it’s also because most men these days don’t know what they want. They want all levels lmao
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 2 года назад
Yep exactly
@sunshinejanice30
@sunshinejanice30 2 года назад
That is why I stay to myself, I'm naturally gullible, have no "street" smarts so to speak, I'm a completely selfless person and would do anything for anyone....learned long ago I'm gold to a narcissistic man. So I'm happy single!!! Giving all that love to myself. Steer clear from most people
@AmerielThompson
@AmerielThompson 2 года назад
You are definitely gold to a Narc
@AmerielThompson
@AmerielThompson 2 года назад
Self love is the best!
@whitepearls20
@whitepearls20 Год назад
Me too😩
@amnbvcxz8650
@amnbvcxz8650 Год назад
Read the book ‘human magnet syndrome’ by dr Rosenberg, he talks about this same phenomenon, describes how chemistry/attraction works for you attract those narcissistic men, etc. i’m in your shoes, understand you. Have to stick to being by myself so far, until i learn self love.
@avasinha9764
@avasinha9764 11 месяцев назад
I can relate with you ...but I am working on my boundaries....it will help you if you do too...
@goddessinfinity1
@goddessinfinity1 2 года назад
You did not describe grown men. You described narcissists. Mature men don't play games. Your audience of women must be pickmes because the prize does not need this information.
@user-iu6bv8vu8o
@user-iu6bv8vu8o 3 года назад
On point….. call them on everything & always be willing to walk away….
@klickingkayasmr7585
@klickingkayasmr7585 3 года назад
So get this: why are women considered “doubters” and “over thinkers” when we DON’T believe everything a guy says?? Make it make sense!! We can’t win either way!
@scherermurillo7669
@scherermurillo7669 3 года назад
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance
@scherermurillo7669
@scherermurillo7669 3 года назад
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance
@vallymokhlis
@vallymokhlis 2 года назад
You know I STRUGGLED with not following through my words and acting gullible. In the end of my old relationships, I'd always get disrespected and I noticed how they'd treat me like I kid and I'd wonder WHY?? And now I know. It really does take an outsider to put it into perspective. Now I'm in a happy healthy relationship where in the slightest BS I hear. I call it out. Women are naturally assertive, never let society change you into people pleasing. A freaking nightmare I tell you. Thank you Alex, you're changing people's lives ❤
@tafadzwa2001
@tafadzwa2001 2 года назад
The honest truth is that when someone loves you it doesn’t matter how damaged and broken you are. They will stay and help you put yourself back together. There are no dating rules, there is just pure genuine love.
@kaymornasinclair7905
@kaymornasinclair7905 2 года назад
That’s true!
@maame5207
@maame5207 2 года назад
I love this
@therealkoolaidandkale
@therealkoolaidandkale Год назад
His mother, maybe. Because tf? 🤣 But go off.
@EchelonPandora
@EchelonPandora Год назад
It is very true. I don't like to be lovey dovey but my God between two guys the who who was poor but showed genuine love to me won over the guy who was high class but a fucking asshole without empathy who ordered me around
@Yasmine-qd6nu
@Yasmine-qd6nu Год назад
This is the typpa BS that keeps you single
@rosequartz7939
@rosequartz7939 2 года назад
When I meet someone I never talk about my past I’m mysterious I always keep a person wondering 💭
@michellenubian3067
@michellenubian3067 3 года назад
It’s not that she believed you but she just knew that she wouldn’t get the truth from you..
@Ash-ec5iq
@Ash-ec5iq 3 года назад
Very bad choice to share about abuse too soon. That is more of a 6 month to a year in conversation, for multiple reasons!
@rosequartz7939
@rosequartz7939 2 года назад
When people think I’m weak and at the end they be begging for mercy because they realize they was the weak one and it was a game I’m a manipulate worst nightmare 😌
@lyn9415
@lyn9415 2 года назад
Me AF When you have to remind them that you had the power the entire time You were only humble about it Love this
@Niqua10023
@Niqua10023 2 года назад
That's how I feel. I ain't weak. I was being nice but, I fo have limits. I'll be your worst nightmare. Don't play me or you'll wish you never met me.
@TT-nu4qk
@TT-nu4qk Год назад
Whole Fact. When they intentionally disrespect you and you dismissive them with Grace. Its i wouldn't do you like the, I am sorry, I care about u, I wanna be with you 😂. They didn't get the powerless reaction they were looking for so they want round two. Gracefully move around sir like I did ✌
@Gabrielleoregon
@Gabrielleoregon 3 года назад
As cute as he is I’d never go on a date with Alex knowing how his mind is in real life from these 😂 so grateful for his brutal honesty to be always real with myself with the way most guys are these days.
@fran791
@fran791 2 года назад
Lol he's so toxic that it's funny
@kiradomochi4961
@kiradomochi4961 2 года назад
Yea he's pretty gross
@elenal1906
@elenal1906 Год назад
Unfortunately this is how a lot of men think. Or even worse
@bossbabies347
@bossbabies347 8 месяцев назад
even he will one day meet someone that will mess his head up in a good way 😂
@jodiburnett6211
@jodiburnett6211 3 года назад
Tolerate Nothing. Amen!!!! A hot neighbor man just asked me, “so when do I accidentally get to see you in your robe?” And I said, “Hey! Why don’t you buy your sweet girlfriend a nice robe and have a nice weekend!” He CRUMBLED. Thank you for the truth.
@zubieM
@zubieM 3 года назад
👏🏽
@lyn9415
@lyn9415 2 года назад
You a goat. Yes, all hail you, bringing these lying, cheating mfs back to reality, draining the blood out of their little head.
@Sara-world
@Sara-world 3 года назад
I mean you are acting toxic with this girl and seeing if you can play and manipulate her for nothing more than entertainment and self interests. That's narc shit. Most normal people don't think on this level and waste their time on this energy. So do you typically go around seeing how you can manipulate women and its your honest opinion that all other men are doing this because they have nothing better to do and are bred to lie and fake value?
@scherermurillo7669
@scherermurillo7669 3 года назад
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance
@vicca4661
@vicca4661 3 года назад
Do not reveal too much too soon, never a good idea.
@lauriejordan2716
@lauriejordan2716 Год назад
I have a question. For some reason people think I am weak. So they attempt to disrespect me. Then when I stand up for myself. They are shocked and mad at me. As if, “how dare you. You are supposed to be passive and allow me to take advantage of you.” But how is that my fault?
@lauriejordan2716
@lauriejordan2716 Год назад
@@munix9351 I love that advice. Thank you for taking the time to reply. I truly appreciate it.
@FoundSheep-AN
@FoundSheep-AN Год назад
Maybe it’s the way you look and dress. Do you have a sweet baby face? Are you delicate and not fierce in the way your body is shaped? You should only balance your aesthetic with your character and way of acting
@amnbvcxz8650
@amnbvcxz8650 Год назад
I think i have a similar issue
@yuyu-ev7eq
@yuyu-ev7eq Год назад
Same here.
@candacecasey5634
@candacecasey5634 3 года назад
This explains a lot. I always have a bunch of tricks up my sleeve for these jackasses. If they want to play games They will learn that they do not define how I perceive either them or myself. Ever.
@QueenOfPrinciple
@QueenOfPrinciple 3 года назад
I made the error in telling guys that men in my past have been unfaithful and then showing my hand in my vulnerabilities, then being too giddy. But I'm just naturally happy and down to earth. However I not only bark, I bite too!
@ladyofspa
@ladyofspa 3 года назад
Same. Never share till it's safe. Omit the negative times to much later if ever... Keep it general.
@crunchybobaasmr2130
@crunchybobaasmr2130 3 года назад
Never share it period. Is safer to not date them.
@munix9351
@munix9351 3 года назад
@@ladyofspa don't ever let your guard down with men. Take it to the grave. Even if you are married. They never ever, ever, ever forget. Ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@sayitloudblcknproud
@sayitloudblcknproud 2 года назад
I'm guilty of being too giddy too. Never again!
@kymgarcia09
@kymgarcia09 2 года назад
Thank you for this video, it's really helpful. I have to agree with u regarding telling guys about your past, in my experience every time I tell the new guy what happened to my past relationship or how I got cheated on, most of them will end up taking me for granted and playing mind games with me. Never gonna happen again, ever.
@zubieM
@zubieM 3 года назад
Always be willing to walk away! Walked away Monday- called him out on his BS 💩and he shut down and ghosted me for 5 days... then, popped back up 5 days later with “I was travelling Monday and today. Call you when I’m back home” (not in my country)- he didn’t call obvz- meaning he deliberately blanked me from Friday to Sunday- now I know better... NOW ITS my turn to ghost him forever- easy- game on 😎
@scherermurillo7669
@scherermurillo7669 3 года назад
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance
@carlel121
@carlel121 3 года назад
Hehe yeap
@rebekahjoy7921
@rebekahjoy7921 Год назад
Uuuuugh always have to fast forward sooooo much talking about selling your services. I totally understand promoting your services and making money but everyyyyy single video it’s just like way too much!
@UplifterofHumansCharity
@UplifterofHumansCharity 3 года назад
Ouch. Explains narcissistic men for sure omg thank you now I’ll come in swinging 😂. I loved when you said “ they aren’t there to live they are there to hurt .”
@scherermurillo7669
@scherermurillo7669 3 года назад
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance
@superpoodlehead
@superpoodlehead 2 года назад
They look for the weakest. But they want the strongest. 🤦🏻‍♀️
@syedanaqvi7238
@syedanaqvi7238 2 года назад
She was not gullible... She was just giving you respect by hiding your truth... As by not saying anything when she knew you're lying !
@theadrenalizedartist6843
@theadrenalizedartist6843 3 года назад
I have no idea how I even found this channel but every last bit of this is the truth.
@whit760
@whit760 3 года назад
I’m saving these videos for my daughters and nieces for when they get old enough, maybe it’ll save me some money on firearms and ammo cause I’ll blow a mf away over them 😂🤣 naw but fr
@PucciNYC
@PucciNYC 2 года назад
Yes need to teach our girls from young most men are jerks and we need to learn how to deal with them.
@Climbingcloudstarot406
@Climbingcloudstarot406 Год назад
I can’t respect that you are sharing such a vulgar interaction that should be private to all of us out here ( that’s kind of gross as a coach ). We need to respect you as well in order to process the information. Thanks for giving insight I’m just saying it goes both ways ( women want men who can be discreet too and woman are very private so respect your privacy.) Anyhow just practicing on you : I just called you out. ( thanks)
@avasears2516
@avasears2516 3 года назад
The signs of a narcissist,, run forest run!!!!!!!
@zubieM
@zubieM 3 года назад
Absolutely!!
@icyymariee3143
@icyymariee3143 2 года назад
Facts
@LYYD.
@LYYD. 3 года назад
Sometimes when I confront someone about something and they respond in a way as to insult my intelligence, I play dumb and pretend I'm not on to their shit. Then I make a mental note about that individual not to fuck with them the same way again. So it's almost like I've written them off in my mind. I will still be cordial and classy bc why lose sleep 😴 over a dumbass, but they will never be able to regain my trust again unless they show me they are remorseful and have learned from their stupidity. And even then I will take a while to decide whether to release them from being ❌ forever. It's called being nice-nasty. Nice because I feel bad that the person has to live with such low IQ and nasty bc who do they think they're fooling? 😂 I will give them an opportunity to improve from their first mistake, however, they get one chance and one chance only. If they continue to disrespect me, well then it is fair game and if I have the time to be petty I will start playing mind games with them bc at that point I no longer respect them. Typically the 🗑️ ends up taking itself out. Nice-nasty with a bit of mental manipulation works like a charm. So just be careful some people are not as naive and gullible as you may think.
@jayleahhg
@jayleahhg 2 года назад
Big facts 💯
@IKULAYE
@IKULAYE 3 года назад
I hear you and All I hear is a Boy with self worth issues that needs love and a hug because trust me BOYS PLAY MEN LOVE ... Lol toxic 🤣😂😅
@pammi2725
@pammi2725 2 года назад
The man be dropping gems…but Alex you’re pure comedy at the same time lmaooooo
@dreaming2557
@dreaming2557 3 года назад
Thanks for inspiring me I feel like I should be talking to ladies from a women’s prospective I definitely am an anti narc slayer…maybe I’m the blade of narcs but I slay them every time and they become controlled by me 😂they end up only desiring me I have like 5/6 dudes who think God made me for them & I don’t even believe in that shit🥴I just clearly used my power and out Narced a narc and no I didn’t do nufn low vibrational ladies I simply just walk away in peace💯& they start going crazy🎯
@TT-nu4qk
@TT-nu4qk Год назад
This! I'll def say alway date multiple men. It's fun and your detached from all of them while still engaging. Always walk away with grace. That power they can't take is why they go crazy. They came to destroy and found out you really don't give af about them. Take a number my guy
@gracea7372
@gracea7372 2 года назад
If you really love someone there’s no need to play mind games. PERIOD
@YellowRoses10
@YellowRoses10 2 года назад
I agree
@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358
@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 2 года назад
Duh. But most men do this. Either play or get played. You’re watching the Toxic Dating Coach, not the Healthy Relationship Coach.
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 2 года назад
I'm in my 40s it's always games. They only love conditionally. Ask me why they get married... It's not for love.
@emarisarah3547
@emarisarah3547 Год назад
Than y u here
@cheriew2512
@cheriew2512 3 года назад
Great tips!! ✨✨ Ladies - stop chasing these men!
@murel8319
@murel8319 3 года назад
Father Alex looks like he been hitting the gym
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 3 года назад
He's been 💪
@bruna8663
@bruna8663 3 года назад
I said the exact same thing
@babyc.3015
@babyc.3015 3 года назад
Father Alex now a toxic daddy
@moonpi8020
@moonpi8020 3 года назад
Could you make a reaction video for a video called "I don't have pretty privilege and it suck" >?That girl also has a story time about how she dated a guy who left her alone at a restaurant, it would be interesting to react to that as well
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 3 года назад
Will do
@dutchessofcreativity9397
@dutchessofcreativity9397 3 года назад
texting too much IE if he texts first n you text back quickly isn't good
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325 3 года назад
Yup that's a jewel. Alex told us not to do that.. never never to text back to quickly...Correcto it totally works. Make those Guys thirsty for uuu...
@redroselace9545
@redroselace9545 3 года назад
You starting to look more healthier and rested ! Keep up videos
@jamejame544
@jamejame544 3 года назад
He helped me get back my ex after separation
@anniebootboot
@anniebootboot Год назад
Most guys are not high value 🙄💀
@mariaarlene888
@mariaarlene888 3 года назад
I don’t know I mean I think he’s cool but sometimes I just feel like damn so everything is a game still nowadays like?? How exhausting ya know. I don’t have patience for that so I’d be like fuck that to the guy prob😂💁‍♀️ oh well I’m sassy as hell. You’re either serious about me or you’re not. Idgaf though, that’s just me. Also, he looks like my brother😂🤣
@marte1376
@marte1376 3 года назад
I get it. Listen to Susan winter, she's amazing. Not everything is a game, the ideal should be that you can be the person you are with the people you're interested and also I think Alex gives good advice, in this one he recommends to really be awaken to any subtle sign of disrespect, is important to use correctly discernment
@KimberlyH.
@KimberlyH. 2 года назад
At first, I thought playing games was inconsequential. Now I realize, it is necessary in dating.
@gannebishop8946
@gannebishop8946 2 года назад
I can't believe you are giving seminars! So you think you can teach us something? Lol Girls grow your confidence and do not base them on what men tell you to do or how they define your weaknesses according to their playbook. Be you, embrace you, walk in your strength and individual thinking!
@therealkoolaidandkale
@therealkoolaidandkale Год назад
Facts. I am truly embarrassed for the women that this dude has in a choke hold in these comments. Yikes. 😬🤦🏾‍♀️
@aplusdiva7006
@aplusdiva7006 2 года назад
I call everything out and folks run for the hills 🤣🤣🤣. Those who understand respect me and stick around. As far as rape there's no way a child can fight off a grown ass man/ woman. We must protect ourselves and each other PERIOD!
@constancejenkins3867
@constancejenkins3867 3 года назад
Thank you Alex for Spilling ALL THE TEA 🍵 🙏🏽 And It's Pippin HOT 🔥!!
@MichelleArbeauOfficial
@MichelleArbeauOfficial 3 года назад
That really sucks that guys lie so much....yep. It's the truth. You're definitely speaking truth. Sadly.
@jasminwall9115
@jasminwall9115 2 года назад
What per cent of guys are looking for weakness? What can a woman do if they've been abused by a lot of people? (Family, Friends, Boyfriends, Strangers)? How can someone hide that much of their life for a whole few weeks? Some people have been abused a LOT? Also, is it acceptable for a man to ask if you've had sex before and with how many people? This has happened to me before. I think the right thing to do is drop them.
@amnbvcxz8650
@amnbvcxz8650 Год назад
I’m so sorry 🫂please read ‘human magnet syndrome’ by Dr Rosenberg, he talks about chronically attracting abusers (he calls codependency a self live deficit disorder). as well as other books on codependency might help, but HMS is the best on the topic imo. I understand you, when you were abused as kid it will create a magnet for that to manifest in adult life…
@alyajewellery
@alyajewellery 3 года назад
I wish I never stopped watching your videos! Would have saved me from so much!
@zubieM
@zubieM 3 года назад
Snap!
@violasangut6271
@violasangut6271 Год назад
I know right 😢😢
@CrysASMR
@CrysASMR 3 года назад
I know my crush is a damn player and silly me for having a crush :/ i know there will be a time where he comes back & the game will be reversed. I am done ...
@lovepositivity2632
@lovepositivity2632 2 года назад
Same happened with me too girl
@marierox6323
@marierox6323 2 года назад
You strike me of a person who's talking for narcissist side... Don't get me wrong it's a good thing to let women know the monsters that are out there.
@jasminwall9115
@jasminwall9115 2 года назад
As bad guys go for the "weak", does that mean good guys will avoid abused women? Will they think less of her?
@therealkoolaidandkale
@therealkoolaidandkale Год назад
Y'all listen to anybody. 🤢
@sayitloudblcknproud
@sayitloudblcknproud 2 года назад
Is it strange that one time a guy I had just been dating for a while asked me if I'd ever been in an abusive relationship? I had not so, of course I said no. But I recall thinking it was such a weird question.
@munix9351
@munix9351 2 года назад
😂😂😂😂 he was trying to find out your weaknesses. they then use it to abuse you.
@Mynameisdarkxxo
@Mynameisdarkxxo 3 года назад
Make videos about modern dating; hooking up is common, a lot of girls end up struggling keeping a guy interested after sex, what are the key behaviors a girl should do when there are in situations like this
@Ash-ec5iq
@Ash-ec5iq 3 года назад
Can't make a guy like you and why would women want a man who isn't into her? If we want a long term relationship then then we should wait at least a month for intimicay. We should wait multiple dates before kissing too. And date multiple guys. I've changed my rules on dating and I would rather keep getting rid of the wrong guy than being stressed wondering if a guy is into me. No thanks.
@Ash-ec5iq
@Ash-ec5iq 3 года назад
Meant to write, we should wait a few months before being intimate.
@abbykempser2050
@abbykempser2050 3 года назад
Check out decodingthepredator here on RU-vid, she teaches how to keep a man interested and decodes their behavior.
@quristle8128
@quristle8128 2 года назад
If they’re not interested after sex then they’re not interested
@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358
@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 2 года назад
Don’t hookup with random men lol. Wait at least 3 months. Kissing off limits for a month.
@RubyAraceli_R
@RubyAraceli_R Год назад
Pull away and your doing me a favor........ Thank you for revealing yourself. We cannot lie forever. The truth eventually comes forward
@user-gn7in7tp4b
@user-gn7in7tp4b 3 года назад
Alex why are u talking about not respecting the latina girl when u are the one who lives a polyamory lifestyle? Lmfao literally u shouldn’t care about her doing it w u. Literally she shouldn’t respect u not the other way around and why is it ok to men to have sex and not get judged but women get? Even if it wasn’t the right time to do it who cares?
@snezanabogojevic8257
@snezanabogojevic8257 3 года назад
🍓 Great tutorial... it says rejection is the greatest aphrodisiac
@user-of9bx1uk3u
@user-of9bx1uk3u 3 года назад
👏🏽
@zimkazenstv6379
@zimkazenstv6379 3 года назад
You told the truth on false advertisement, when a low value guy does not lie, he will not pass on his genes
@bessiesimmonsmusic1368
@bessiesimmonsmusic1368 2 года назад
Don’t be telling guys you not going to do something and don’t follow through with the threats. Wow, thats good stuff, but so true
@Inner_currency
@Inner_currency 3 года назад
The best dating coach on RU-vid 🐐❣️
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325
@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325 3 года назад
Period!!
@originalgoldengoddess
@originalgoldengoddess Год назад
This is why I like being single... don't like how I act or what I say? Cool... I didn't want a relationship with you anyway... now move along.
@tumbleina49
@tumbleina49 2 года назад
So many damn games & we wonder why people have trust issues…I wish everyone would grow TF up
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 2 года назад
"They're not there to love, they're there to hurt." Yep.. women don't realize this about men.
@dinapereira9448
@dinapereira9448 2 года назад
My boyfriend does all of these even though we have been together for almost 6 months Your amazing have to listen to every video now Thanks 🙏🏻
@vm6796
@vm6796 3 года назад
This is such an important video thank you for making it 🙌
@jojopoeticstyle1224
@jojopoeticstyle1224 2 года назад
I went through all - lat within my family. It’s sickening. Due to the force. Not cause I didn’t know my left from my right. I can identify everything and call it out like that cause of my upbringing. I’m into woman but I just was curious about this video.
@jfireball2461
@jfireball2461 2 года назад
I like watching your videos but then again I don't. It seems like you always are putting everything on the ladies, Like it's our fault for believing the guys because we're too gullible.
@jeannievail
@jeannievail 2 года назад
When she pretended she didn’t know you were making a date, she wasn’t jealous because she didn’t see you as relationship material, just sex, but she knew she was disrespected, the second you answered that phone call. There’s a difference between a woman going down on you while you’re on the phone and actually answering a phone call during sex. When you did that you told her you weren’t having sex with her but using her mouth to get off.
@redaattia6565
@redaattia6565 3 года назад
Just wanted to say that I totally agree, and that I love ❤️ tyron
@sandy-leechetty9703
@sandy-leechetty9703 3 года назад
Hi Alexis ....Geez this is an eye opener.☹🥺😮🥺😱💀☠💩🤡🙊🙉🙈
@ehisyorfor6621
@ehisyorfor6621 3 года назад
I really love your talks… I just wanna give you a big hug 🥺🥺
@jamejame544
@jamejame544 3 года назад
He helped me get back my ex after separation
@rhg624
@rhg624 3 года назад
Alexis: life saving dating coach. Strong, truthful facts. Glad I watched this in time. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤👍👍👍😓☺
@mortega11301
@mortega11301 3 года назад
This the new generation,
@hippydippytrippy9804
@hippydippytrippy9804 3 года назад
I found myself saying Hallelujah! Thank you for this insight Father Alex 🙏❤️
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