7 Mistakes Married Women Make | Part 1 | mildred kingsley-okonkwo 

Interesting. I learnt alot

I cant believe someone has tried scamming me hardly an hour ago with a false prophesy using apparently Pastor Kingsley Okonko's account. Thank you for this disclaimer.I almost fell victim.

Matilda Namboozo it’s not pastors account it’s a fake account using his name. I got the same copy and paste message lmao

I just saw one imposter asking me to pay money into an orphanage Acct. Even before I finished reading I knew it was scam lol

I have received 4 scam messages in one week. Wetin I do wrong? 😅

You are a smart man. Many blessings on your love and marriage.

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

Pastor Kingsley did that one, check him out on RU-vid as well. The Lord will make your home heaven on earth in Jesus's name amen

Very good one sir

beautiful man....kudos

Congratulations. Hope you are enjoying the marriage journey. I wish you many blissful years

Congratssss

Hey, Mrs Ore. I just came across your comment and curious to know how far in your marriage. have the lessons worked to your satisfaction?. Will be good ton have feedback. Church and media place can be a plane out there.

Very true

Well said dear

I love this ,, but then i think that the whole relationship should be based on respect from both side .. maybe maybe you mean allow HIM to feel like he is on charge of things!

True

My brother may God bless u. Amen! U really have wisdom this is only what a man and a woman need in marriage! Thanks

Yes o...you're not alone sis

Me too sis!

Haha welldone sis

Nice one

Me too 🙆🏽‍♀️😁

Lucky you. May God continues to bless u guys

So far so good with you, and I call you blessed vetuose woman of honour. May you continue staying blessed now and forever more iJCMn amen.Pleasr thanks so much for sharing!

@@magnusemori4266 yes luv. Thank you😇🙏

You are one lucky gal 😚

May God continue to bless your marriage

Love n Light Yeah, but men don’t take care of themselves. They age too and it shows. They let themselves go too, unkempt, and with their beer bellies standing out a yard in front of them. So what about that?

@@bc1248 I was just listing what the video says.

Love n Light I know. But I was just stating my view of it.

@@bc1248 oh ok. Got confused because you replied under my comment. Usually ppl just start their own thread when stating their own views. I like the comment though, it brings a balance to the discussion.

Love n Light You are right. I should have put it in the general comment section.

Your husband truely loves you. U said u disrespect him, meaning u do it knowingly. Count yourself lucky that upon the disrespect he's still there for and with you. Most men in this generation will just dump u or even if there are still there, their mind is somewhere else. It's very good u are amending it ways. Please don't try it and do your best to respect him. The world we are living going crazy. If u have a good man never ever take it for granted. Because even the most submissive and humble women are being mishandled and maltreated by horrible men who can't appreciate what they have.

@@Ginettensoh Yes, YES, so true. You worded this very well!

@@rxnees ❤❤

@@Ginettensoh True, though sometimes we disrespect our husbands without knowing. Information is power...... I appreciate Mildred for empowering us

So me, I’m less than a year and honestly I’m not giving him the respect he deserves

God bless you and your family.

B OK Amen

Amen

👍🏽My mum said almost the exact same thing.

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

God bless you 🙏

@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 haba !!

I think what she's trying to say in all, is to look good while at home. Not necessarily do make up

I agree with the solution. I think on top of that doing projects together makes you closer. Like partners.

I agree with most of what you said however, there are some men who get all of what you said and some and things still doesn’t work out. Cheating, manipulation and lies are still present. Women who know who they are will never go for things like that knowing what’s going on. To add, it’s better when you have a wife who attempts to talk to you but he still covers up everything. When you make a woman feels like she is being violated it is when she confronts you after trying to get the truth in a respectful way. The woman is not wrong when she ask for truth if another woman is involved and then, you release him to be free to be with her and then, he tries to destroy you with a bunch a nonsense! Men and women have issues that can be resolved among themselves but, some are not there yet. You don’t have to tell lies to look a certain way especially, when you know it’s not the truth. Truth settles everything. It it understood when it’s known. Respect is mutual! You do not have to sit in any type of abuse from anyone. You don’t just respect people because they carry positions or titles, you respect them because they are human beings and the fact that, you want respect reciprocated to you. It’s unfortunate, when one feels they deserve what they do not give. Women are to be respected and love able not abused verbally or physically. Some are smart enough to put things out to make sure that no one deals with you. That could be the plan but, God has the final say on every matter. Real men and women truly admit to their wrongs. They are mature enough to do that. However, you never have to continue with people trying to keep up and image for validation out of shame that people will know you lied. Those types of people care about how they look to others rather than, how they appear to God. Thank God for people who know you and not those who heard of you. It’ makes a huge difference when you know. Knowing eliminates assumptions and prevents people from being corrected out of ignorant information. Thank you so much for sharing this video. Your points taken but, not everyone tells the truth about situations. So, there needs to be a balance. God bless you! 🙏🏾❤️❤️

Amen!❤️

@@corettagreene1444 Just beautiful. THANK YOU.

Amhlophe

PastorM its okay Ma, please off your mic God Bless you Ma 😁❤️

Uloma Chukwu lol 😂

Oh Yes,She is sooo real ,it hurts🤩🥰

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

Amen

From your mouth to God's ears..may you celebrate soon.

I can refer you to someone who helps people in relationships through social media, he gives splendid topics and advise

Amen

May God show me mercy too

Correct. They’re too busy enjoying the spoils of corruption.

It will interest you to know that most men when they are doing something evil or bad, their wifes will never know until they are caught. Just like cheating

Ok

My husband is cheating known and again

@@angelinaserwaa1436 trust me they know.

I noted that too but I'll just pick what's important and leave the rest.

Interesting, however the statement emphasized, could encourage women to see the pastor first before the husband. Her massage was ok. Nice job to her.

According to the Bible she is correct ❤️

There's no first or last. These things run as a package. We must learn to see this as a package.

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

Same

Lolz

She is making her point in a funny way😂 Remain blessed and a blessing

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I wish every women like you marriage is going to be a place of EDEN GARDEN . BE BLESSED

😂😂😂😂 grassland. Love her!

You must disagree I swear,

@Mo on the Go. That is so awesome to witness a couple from an older generation who made a deliberate conscious decision to be there for each and make each other a priority. This was a generation where people had great mental fortitude and deep focus and understanding of the power of words. A generation that honor their words and never take lightly the vows that they made before their families and before God on the day they said, "I do". They usually stand by that vow and live or die to defend it. Today we have a new generation where vows are considered as mere words and can be switched as quickly as the mood swings. That's exactly what makes finding a partner with such level of awareness and INTEGRITY a very hard thing. The very reasons why marriages are fast failing around us and sadly many are choosing to live as unmarried partners or "friends with benefits" This is the popular choice in the western world. So that if they did decide to split, it is easier to do so without the hassle of going through long drawn out and expensive divorce process.

I do understand what she is saying

@@diasporavoice8641 true and if you watch my channel you will see the fortitude in my parents visit to Mombasa. I recorded them holding hands all the time they're truly amazing

@Sta Sea exactly make yourself new and amazing everyday so he never tires of you.

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 why are you impersonation a man of God and using God's for falsely gain? Repent from your mendacious ways, or hell awaits you. Satan is the father of liars.

@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 llllllll

Amen. Please also think about Jesus my dear. Ten Muslims burnt a Christian building in Gwoza, Borno state. They noticed the only thing that didn't get burnt was the bible. That made them to repent to become Christians. Also, pray to God to speak to you whether Jesus is the way or Jesus is only a prophet. I pray for enlightenment and for you to make a decision in Jesus name. I LOVE YOU AS A WOMAN CREATED BY ALMIGHTY GOD.

@@upbornwoman9334 Quran as a holy book also never burns in the fire, that is why God's words and his holyness can never be compared to the word of man. Stop making it about religion to be a good or a better person, following Christ does not make anybody a Christian, accepting others, and loving your neighbors as yourself is being a Christian. I observe many Christian that follow only the words of their pastors not the teaching of Christ and they think all pastors represent Christ, it is not so, I have met and seen a lot of fake pastors. Jesus Christ doesn't discriminate and doesn't preach against any group of people, he only shows them the love of God and teaches them right from wrong. Many Cristian thinks being a Christian is the ticket to heaven but it is not so. Because Jesus Christ says they will perform a miracle in his name but on that judgment they he will say he did not know them. I was a Muslim for 25 years and 25 years as a Christian and married for 25 years and I have come to realize is people that name religion what is most important is you are a child of God and your action and the words that come out of your mouth show your fear and love of God. People discriminate about religion God just sees us as all his children, how you worship him is your choice but what is in your heart he sees. All the Christians in the world appreciate and acknowledge Isreal as a nation of Godchildren and yet Israelite never accept Christ as their messiah or son of God till this day, yet the same hypocrites Christian want the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus as the son of God, the dishonesty in Christendom to stand in unison and defend Jesus Christ is the savior and son of God to Isreal nation is startling but always demand and expect the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus Christ as the son of God, I believe charity begins at home, how many churches or pastors have even spoken out in world forum for the Israel nation to accept Christ? You may be a Christian and a worshiper of God but the spiritual realm of building one on one relationship with God many Christian do not have and that is why their knowledge and understanding lack wisdom

@@sidicniy874 Please understand that most of the people you refer to as Christians are actually not Christians. The word "Christian" means "Christ-like". Therefore if one doesn't walk, talk, behave etc like Christ he/she is not Christian even if he/ she says he is a Christian.

@@upbornwoman9334 But why?🤷🏾‍♀️what happened to free will. Why can’t we let people of other belief systems just be. I find that quite arrogant and disrespectful. This the reason why there is religious strife. Respect the faith others have chosen to follow. So long as they believe in a higher power that holds them to good principles and morals. Gbam✊🏿#OneLove ❤️💚💛🖤

@@sidicniy874 Jesus said to the people who believed in him, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings". "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." That is his standard. People claim they know God, but they deny him by the way they live. They are detestable and disobedient, worthless for doing anything good. It doesn't matter how many pastors speak on how many forums, we all have been given the choice as humans, not as Jews, Muslims, etc. Jesus said “I am the way, and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Jesus didn't force anyone, not the Jews nor us to follow him. He just stated the Truth. Blessings sister.

Sholz TV Yeah, but these guys don’t respect their woman back. And that’s a big problem. I believe that a man deserves exactly what he dishes out. If he is disrespectful to his woman it is dead wrong for her to respect him. Dissing him back is the way. If he is free to express himself than so is she. I think of the old TV sitcom Honeymooners with Ralph and Alice as the model. Ralph was disrespectful to Alice and Alice dissed him back.

@@bc1248 what you say here about disrespect goes back to the foundation of the relationship. Was he respectful of you at the start of the relationship? A lot of women forge ahead in bad relationships choosing to overlook bad behaviours telling themselves he will change once we are married. Have you heard the saying, Love is blind, Marriage is the eye opener? The truth is that it only gets worse. You cannot change what you choose to tolerate. I say to the young ladies I mentor, to always very carefully scrutinise how the man in your life behaves around his sister, his aunties, his mother and his grandmother as well as other women in general. Yiu can almost be certain that how he treats other women in his life, is how he will treat you. If you are not comfortable with how he responds to other women, do not tolerate it. Walk, because if you choose to ignore it, you will soon discover that you already saw the warning signals but chose to ignore it.

diaspora voice I understand what you’re saying and you are right. But I was just saying that a woman shouldn’t respect a man who doesn’t respect her. I believe that people are best suited to their kind. Sometimes two people love each other but they on a different level in being. They may be disrespectful to each other but still love each other like Ralph and Alice really loved each other but dissed each other. So I do not believe that a woman should be sentenced to respect when a man does not respect her. If he disses a woman she should diss him back. A man might actually a respect a woman who socks him with truth. Knowing that she’s not dumb enough to respect him when is blunt to her. Never mind that respect foolishness bcuz he’s not on that level. Wallop him left and right with truth. Be as blunt to him as he is to her.

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you