7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like a Guy | Kingsley Okonkwo 

Overfantazing affects your emotions....so true!

I laughed so hard when Pastor K. said don't fantasise about the wedding because some of us have fantasised to the point where we are already naming our future kids😭😭😂😂😂

"Whoever is willing to walk-away (if the mutual-interest won't align) gains the control or momentum" ✍🏽 Bless you PK 🙏

Your emotions have no self respect 🤣🤣🤣the accuracy

I would think one of the mistakes would be not praying or seeking God. He alone knows the guy and what’s best for you.

I listened to one of your videos few months ago and I must confess it was really helpful.... I'm finally healed and out of the emotional bondage... To the extent that the guy came back begging, but funny enough have moved on 😅 Thank you Pastor K for your words.

Lol the fantasising part😂😂 it’s so true. We’ve already done the wedding in our heads

Am immaculate from Uganda, I really like your teachings ,they have changed me emotionally, physically and spiritually, more wisdom, more blessings pastor Kingsley okonkwo

#1 Not doing anything #2 doing too much #3 not being ready to walk away #4 fantasizing too much #5 forgetting protocol #6 falling in love before getting to know him #7 cutting off accountability

I just so love your teachings pastor,you have mentored me from my single status and now in my matrimony. God bless you

I am from Kenya. And all I can say is that this messages are really helpful. Am afraid I might end up downloading all your videos.

I can imagine still laughing 3 hours after everyone has stopped laughing.. 😂😂😂

Our men also needs to know how to manage women, all of the relationship messages from pastors are always focus on women. If we the ladies are exposed to all of this and the men are still ignorant, I feel it will still not work. Both genders needs to learn how to make a relationship work. Nice message tho.

Someone just disliked this video... It must be a sister who realised she messed up big time only a minute after the video official upload... Lord have mercy

You didn't have to expose me like this now 😭😭😭 but I really needed to hear this before I make a mistake. Thank you very much.

Right Timing !! I was confuse, I Came here to listen to your advice.. am Blessed after listening to you !! More Anointing Daddy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🔥🔥🙏🏻

God bless you soo much pastor for this message, in fact I've realized the mistakes I made which ended me in tears... but now I've learnt sense after listening to this advice from you. we fall to rise.. I thank God I'm back again on my feet.

I don't know why but your teaching Pastor Kingsley, are always timely in my life 😁😁😁

50% of this video is describing me Thank you so much for sharing this with us

This is exactly for mature ladies. Women by nature are emotional beings and that's why we get used by guys and even blame them instead of blaming ourselves for allow our emotions to control us. Men love challenges, no matter how you like this guy, keep it low, you can show few signs like you just mentioned, but don't go too much deep into it, cause, even if he likes you, he will use you, for the fact that you wanna play his role and play yours. Allow him be the man. Please ladies grow up from your emotions!

Awlays being ready to walk away👌 .. that is big for me. It's always a bargain. After collecting the necessary data we finally decide whether that sits well with us. Thankyou pastor King. I always run here for these series. They are always very liberating. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

If 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 aren't learning we 🇰🇪🇰🇪 are learning alot from Pastor K.

I wish this video came early before I did what ever I did

I'm vivian from Ghana.. I love the way you teach... I can never skip your videos.. God bless you and your family and increase your anointing.. Amen

You only say the truth pastor which most of ladies dont even know its a mistake.....Thank you on behalf

I walked away from my married , but at first I never knew that i would do that, thanks you so much for this great knowledge it reminds me

When others are done laughing ur still laughing😂😂😂

I love the 6th point. I always say I have never been to a wedding where the bride made vows to the man's money or the man's house or the man's car. The bride makes vows to THE MAN/GROOM. Make sure his character is what you want. Nobody eats icing without the cake but you can eat the cake without the icing. Icing can never replace the cake. So ladies we need to focus on what is important...the character.

Sometimes I feel sorry for women sha. So many videos and posts online about what they're doing wrong. I wish there were as many for the men too. But anyway I guess it makes sense since a happy relationship/marriage is typically something that women desire more than men.

#8 Pray, you can strategize anything in life but God can only give you guidance about the things that you cannot see. Pray, pray, and pray.

Informative in a fun way. I have learnt so much from your videos. Thank you Pastor K.

Thank you pastor Sir. This just saved me from a potential heartbreak. God bless you 🙏

Don’t laugh too much, others have finished laughing 3hours ago🤣. This is also the mistakes married women make. They let the man relax or go cold on them by giving too much and reassuring the guy man. Ladies, keep him on his toes, sometimes be unavailable. Avoid see finish. Let him chase you. That Sakara you did when you were dating continue the sakara. These guys don’t like soft landing😀.

Thanks pastor K, I like it when a man is shy...I'm still praying God should give me my man..

This is awesome PK- Thank you! So many notes I'm writing down like eek! When everyone's done laughing you're still laughing... (laughed so hard at that omg!), Guys can tell when you give them attention... Don't fantasize about what your babies will look like...(hmm well I may have already fantasized about being pregnant with his child lol). But that phase is over in Jesus Name!!! Hmm got another point- #8 don't assume, ask. Sometimes we ladies assume the guy likes us because he winked at us or smiled! honey! Let me tell you it is NOT always the case! Sometimes the guy's winking because he got something in his eye!

I really love listening to u pastor k. Full with so much knowledge to pass to other ... Thank u so much

Many thanks pastor listening from London

guyz make sure you sets boundaries to prevent your money from ladies who demand, thanks for dis program God blesse you pastor

Thank you so much pastor sir, I love the fact when you said that we women fantasise alot and its true 👏😂😂😂👌

This truth is mind blowing non is wrong because actually we ladies are guilty of it all 🤣 Thank you Pastor K

Hello I am from Turkey and I sincerely love all your preaching and teaching. God bless

I am this message and this message is me Lord I need your help 🙏

Thank you very much sir I have really been educated by this video

I am guilty of point number 4, dreaming of wedding and leaving together even before getting to know each other😀God please settle me oh as soon as possible

The examples were so funny😆😆😆 and the message was very useful. Thank you, Pastor K

All your point is what lm into in my relationship, but lm walking out now. This is the right time, is hard especially if you are to attach with the man, but your advice are all true, is all about me. Thank you

So No 1 works My friend pretended to have a meeting in Lagos so that she could meet a guy she was introduced too He was a shy ' efiko' brother. She dressed appropriately ,beautiful and like a smart wife material. They are married now. If she had waited for him to chase her like in the romance novels ,she for still dey single now

You are being subtle and you buy him a full car. My ribs 😂😂. As for fantasy, hmmm it is well. Very insightful and practical tips. Thank you PK ❤

Am always ready to walk away at anytime. And I noticed guys that left me always come back to say they have never seen someone as good as me. And I do leave most of them based on character and those demanding for sex before marriage. Ladies God will keep helping us. But we should always set boundaries. The one that will stick will stick. And d ones that leaves,will still crawl back. God will keep strenghting us. Amen!

Thank you so much for this powerful message... More grace sir

😂 their natural walking step is fast. That is so me😭😭😭

Initially I didn't like this video when PK said "not doing too much", it sounded like he was saying one should shoot their shot. However, I came back to watch it completely today and I'm so glad I did. Thanks alot sir

I'm waiting for 7 mistakes guys make when they like a girl

Pastor K was speaking about me when he said don't walk too fast, I am Bolt. And when he said fantasy, who else is like me?

Dear Pastor Kingsley, May God bless you and keep you. It’s like you were talking to me😅. I did too much with a guy I just met because I really liked him and I had been praying for a while and waiting on God so when he came, I thought he was the one. Turns out he wanted something else, never asked me about my dreams or aspirations.. God didn’t let me fall into his trap of bedding me😂😂. I found the strength and I walked away. I’m the one in control😌. I’m waiting till marriage and I’ll wait for my husband. May God bless you from Zion.

I was toomuch him in my last relationship, but I am learning now not to make that mistake again, God help me.

Thank you so much Pastor. U just hit the nail on d head. I have fall victim of sis mistakes n now I don't find interest in men anymore cos of several heart breaks

I'm a new subscriber here, I really enjoyed your video sir. This 7 mistakes were really for me, but we keep learning everyday. Thank you so much sir

Thank you pastor K! Your teachings have helped groom my life from my teenage age till this moment 🤭🤗, and i am grateful to God for sending you to this generation as a blessing .💯🙌💃💃

God bless you Pastor Kingsley

Ladies what’s the number one way to weed out Players , con artists, manipulators ,and men who have bad intentions? KEEP YOUR LEGS And MOUTH 👄 CLOSED! That and time reveals EVERYTHING!

Thank you so much sir I was blessed hearing this

That first advice is so true. I was made to believe if a guy sees you says n does nothing then he is not interested. I met a guy at a friend's party n the same night he requested me on ig n liked my pictures. I waited about a week for him to officially enter my dm but nothing happened. I decided to message him in a friendly way and initiate conversation. To my surprise we had a nice flowing decent conversation which ended up with him asking for my number and months later we are a couple. There are decent ways to start conversation with a man that will seem harmless and not desperate n not make him think u are after him romantically. For example asking him for help with something. If ur in public ask him for the time.

God bless and increase your wisdom, Pastor. I wish l heard this a month ago! 😢

Hmmmm “don’t give him money” noted, don’t stalk him 🤧🤭

Very deep lessons here, thank you Sir. But Pastor K, what if I can't help laughing? I don't laugh easily but when I do, it's a heartfelt laughter. So, how about this? Is it doing too much?

Thank you so much for this teaching

I realize not falling in love before getting to know him is central. That way, you won't do too much or do nothing at all cos you're afraid of losing him. Also, you won't cut off accountability or fantasize to stupor; you will be ready to walk away when you have to.

😂 😂 😂 Laughing at myself cos I'm the boss of fantasizing, I think I've married and had kids for over4 guys I never dated🤣🤣🤣🤣 But you see that character thing? I don't play with it. Thanks for this message P. K

Thanks a great deal Pastor K, u gave us a compendium truly. Thanks thanks n thanks.

Be ready to work away when you are not getting what you want Thank you sir , you directly talking to me

I just lost my boyfriend because he was always quiet and I was texting and thinking maybe he is angry, I found myself apologizing for no reason at all🤦🏾‍♀️. I have been in love twice and I must say I keep making similar mistakes... why is it that men don’t communicate well!!!!!... when I over texted he broke up with me but God in control always!

😂 I wish I saw this earlier, I did too much and was sidekicked. Nice one.

I feel attacked🤧 The way I forget protocol should be on Guinness record. Thank you, sir.

After the guy giving u attention and won ur heart.. He change totally expecting me to chasing him cus he knew I love him.. I'm happy for now peace of mind matter in my life..

Thank you pastor. I needed this

"don't start fantasising about how your kids will look..." 😭😭😭 You didn't tell me fast

Thank you Pastor, I really needed this. God bless you

Even without knowing all these, these are exactly how I operate.....I love myself and can't for any reason stay where am not enjoying..... I make no mistake in all these..it's just automatic, if you love yourself wholeheartedly and Sincerely wants the best for your future ,you won't dare settle for less.

God bless Pastor K,this is deep

I didn't do anything at first, then I did too much. 😪 I really saw this a little too late.

Hi Pastor. More grace.

“Don’t laugh too much”. Pastor this is how Japanese ladies show they’re interested in a guy. Otherwise the guys won’t know🤣🤣🤣

I just walked away from a guy I like so much, after realizing that I've been compromising a lot. Part of me is telling me to go back, another part is telling me it's for the best. How do I start all over again? I'm so broken and I pray I'll find peace. Thanks for this video PK.

I walked away from my narcissistic fiance... I never knew I could until i started listening to PK's messages...God bless you always.

Thank u very much, this message just spoke to me.

Being able to walk away !!! That’s hit deep 🙌🏾 . Honestly this really wasn’t for girls . More grace sir

"... signing the signature with his last name..."🤣🤣🤣😂 really cracked me up PK..came from the 'X' app. Thanks for the post Sir

Thank you Pastor, this felt like a father to a daughter. I received your counsel.

Thank you sir... I'm edified

This is actually my first time watching your video sir and I must confess this video is an eye opener.. It felt like you specifically made this video bcos of me. Recently I met this guy.. and I just realized I've made all 7 of these mistakes. But thank God for this message. God continue to bless you sir.

Not all free guys who find it easy to relate with women are players and not most of them are players it could be their temperaments are on the sanguine arena that's why, there are many factors sir I'm an example

Oh I have done too much and now he wants to be just friends... I have been friend zoned 😩😩😩 but it’s all good. Thank you sir

Your teachings always make sense.

I was so much into him and made him aware, not knowing it was going to end in tears

Thank you so much PK. Can't wait for Saturday.

please can you do a video on healing for heartbreaks for ladies, cos we women in faith needs to know what to do to heal

So on point PK, thank you very much!

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