7 Mistakes Single Men Make | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1 

"Casual sex brings casualitie" powerful message.

1. Choosing beauty over character. It’s not bad but shouldn’t be the primary reason for choosing her. Make a list of qualities you find attractive and look for dating when dating. 2. Not learning about relationships. Men naturally gravitate towards work or recreational activities. Start learning about relationships. Get a mentor. Read book, attend conferences. Watch videos and podcast on relationships. Observe the women around you. Where you invest is where you harvest. 3. Not managing their sexuality. Self control is important just because you can sleep around doesn’t mean you should. Abstinence, Celibacy and chastity isn’t only for women. Casual sex always have casualties.

its true Sir i had to send this one to my boyfriend .... am sure he will see this comment as he watches lol thank you PK Sir

My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:

PastorK has been mentoring me since 2018 through his videos and books. Your knowledge and wisdom is too much sir. God bless you more.

Thank you Pastor Sir. Though am a lady, I've learned a lot. I have a request. It'd be helpful also to have messages for single moms & dads who made mistakes before and want to have a fresh Godly start in a meaningful relationship. Thanks in advance🙂

Pastor K, I tell u from my heart; ur generations unborn are already blessed by GOD. Ur doing the work of GOD -- healing the world. ----susan Nwanyioma

Where you invest is where you harvest 👌

Whenever it's Pastor Kay am very happy I've learnt alot from him my relationship goes sweet all day.

Im happy im learning this while still single...and clean from sexual encounter with any lady..thank you so much....

The beauty of a wife is defined by the perception of the husband about her appearance. Sometimes, people define beauty by their fantasies; whereas, beauty remains a subjective concept. Character sustains a man’s perception of his wife’s beauty. Thank you PST Kingsley.

I am a lady but I was blessed by this! God bless you Pastor.

Thank you so much Sir. God bless you sir 🙇🏾‍♂️🙇🏾‍♂️🙇🏾‍♂️

My eyes are opening now. True some guys do not invest in knowing about relationships, they just dive into relationship and end up breaking their partner ignorantly. Praise God that I didn't get married before hearing this. NOw I'm more than ready .

7mistakes single men make 1.choosing beauty over character _make a list of qualities you want 2.Not learning about relationships _Men are emotional most in work/recreational activities _Where you invest is where you harvest _the fist man didn't fail at work but at family _start learning about relationships _Get a mentors _pay attention to all ladies around you.. how they think, learn 3.not managing your sexuality _men have strong sexual drive _self control is important _casual sex always has casualties _make a list of reasons you need self control _build up your character and determination (prayer,read the word) _always put clear boundaries

Reason for abstinence: It's a sin and sin is grievous in the sight of God. Sin has the capacity to destroy

Learning all the way in Botswana 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

Thank you pastor Kingsley for this video. I'm still single but not searching,February is my month of studying only on love and relationship and I've been broaden on this topic. Thank you sir I'm passionate about growing and learning and you have been a true mentor ......

Wow what a wonderful teaching message by Rev kingsley okonkwo more grace more wisdom and knowledge sir

You are very wise Pastor King. I am so happy you're tackling real life issues with spiritual knowledge amd wisdom that is applicable and very fun.

I've never regretted subscribing to this channel. Such a great impact you make on my life every video you share #wisdom #God bless you sir.

“Men are moved by what they see”

You're very intelligent Man of God. Kudos you're really great

Thanks a lot pastor. More grace.

Am a lady but this message is so on point💥...It cuts across everywhere..God bless you Sir🙏

I can't wait to listen to what my mentor have to offer.

I just watched this now and I don't regret it. Thank you sir.

Thanks so much for this very inspiring message. I just realized that I have struggled in relationships because I have never invested in it even though I have invested millions of naira in other areas of human endeavors

You have to look What's In the inside Guys. Beauty has got to be in the inside and outside. Inner Beauty is most important Guys.

But the way we are been pressured to think Money and prosperity is everything we need as men. It's obvious in the society. It's not easy to overlook.

More wisdom sir, God bless u, am learning a lot from u

Thank you so much for this wonderful message at this time. May the Lord bless your ministry and strengthen you always.

1. Committed 2. Dependable 3. Trustworthy

Thanks a lot pk sir. You are always watering my marriage with your books,and videos.

I love your personality, your advice means a lot, nice meeting you?

Thank you for this video Pastor. Men are too lazy in learning their women and vice versa. They want to love their partner as they receive love.

I'm so bless and encourage to go into relationship .

I'm glad I found your channel! Let my soul be blessed wu hoo!

I am really blessed with more insights on how to pray for my young adult sons, how to guide other youth in church because my husband and i are involved in several youth's lives. am also being taught to correct issues in my life e.g. study the word more .thank you so much

Thanks so much sir, am blessed

Thanks so much

I've learnt so many things, I didn't know God bless you sir

I am so glued to Pastors messages. They are eye opening

Best mentor ever, more blessings to u sir

Such a blessing. There’s always something to learn oo

I love this Pastor, wish you come to ph too to organize some stuffs on marriage.

I enjoyed this message. More Grace pastor K

Happy to hear this. Thank you pastor K

Have been waiting for the men part 👏👏

Guilty of not learning about relationships, but only learning about other things. Work, work, work and it's beginning to tell on me.

Thank you PK

Oil dey your head sir, God bless you richly sir

Thank you and diggin the Formula 1 threads 💯

This is awesome. God bless you, sir. Many thanks.

Great on pastor God bless

This goes both ways sir.... We are need these ... I'll be 40 by next month and single... guess what the fine boy looks is not passing the first phase for me if that's all you've got then I'm sorry we can't be... Pastor K quick question... what's your thoughts on younger men marrying older ladies, and what's God's thought on this issue... Currently I've got them in equal proportion trying to catch my attention...just one thing is lacking their personal relationship with God is missing or not so clear to me...I'm talking about both church guys and those not too churchy ...it's very key for me cause I don't want to be the one training my husband about the things of God... Let him know God for himself and have his personal testimonies about it....

Thank you Pastor K for this video.

Arsenal in the Mud Everywhere 😂😂😂

Awesome!

Awesomeness

Look beyond physical. ❤🗣💨

So educative

Wow so much inspire. God help me to be humble to everybody specially to you God

Thanks so much pastor k for your mentorship, it has been of a great help to me. I am learning a lot

Awesome conversation

Higher heights sir...remain in blessing

Waiting for part two

God bless u pastor am a beneficiary of ur ministry

Very informative. Thanks for the wisdom points.

"Let all the children come to me. All that are thirsty for the living water"

Thank you Pastor Kingsley

Beauty is skin deep.

Beautiful ladies are many but virtuous women are scars

Thank you sir

Thanks, I'm blessed with this message

Thank you Sir, I'm so blessed

Wonderful Man Of God. You are awesome at what you do. Just found you Sir. Kudos. Much respect. 💯

Beautiful message thank u

Thank you sir.

POWERFUL ♥️♥️♥️

Powerful teachings God bless you sir 🙏❤❤

beautiful . THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS Pastor

Blessings always Sir.

How to know if a man loves you genuinely ?

Pastor K Thanks For these Much Wisdom Shared Sir.Its Always Great Listening To You... BUT PLS LET YOUR EDITOR CHECK THE AD SOUND NEXT TIME,ITS TOO LOUD IN ALL YOUR VIDEOS..Hope This Will Be Corrected From Now On 🙏I APPRECIATE YOUR WORK❤

This is the video I'm been working for... I have watched the single ladies. Thank you so much my online mentor. Please 4and7.. Am still waiting for that to complete my day! Lots of love PST K

Good morning pastor Thank yousir, talking about the physical appearance of a lady you want married, making the choice is it reasonable to consider the height of the Lady when you want to get married? Thank you sir

Pst k, what advice do you have for young people in relationship age gaps

I will like a one on one discussion with you, i need ur advice on something

I get the point now

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP Is not necessarily a criteria biblically, I think that westernization is what brought about that. Our parents did not do much of ROMANCE but they did well in marriage.

Wow is here , oya make I go watch

Wow nice

lmao. Arsenal for life!!!!!!

When is part 2?

Nice shirt, where can we grab some ?

But when did it become insufficient to refer solely to the scriptures to have a perfect marital relationship?

Love it.. 💯 Always on point.. 🎯 God bless u Sir..! 💎 - @Acharich

Meekness????! You mean weakness which is not God's plan for her. Some men don't give peace of mind.

Thank you for this message sir I would like to ask how can a guy contain his sex urge