7 Mistakes Single Ladies Make | mildred kingsley-okonkwo 

Most of the single ladies that are desperate are 30 and above and they are scared that a man might not marry them again because of their age and even if they have prayed and not seeing results yet they give up. I want to encourage someone today that God is the Alpha and the omega. He will never Alpha something and allow the enemy to omega it. He's a faithful God and doesn't go back in his word. He's an originator of marriage so Just trust and believe in him.

I’m watching this lady for the first time, And I’m already sooo loving her.

I’m 24yrs old and learnt a whole lot from this! Thank you so so much ma!

"You're not created to be side chick, you were created to be main wife" 😇😇😇

I'm Muslim and I think the truth in your message is universal. I love love love the message.

There’s no words to qualify this woman. Am short of words . She’s gifted, she’s loaded upstairs... more GRACE Mama Mildred Kingsley Okonwo❤️ I leant alot from their powerful message! 💃🏾🤝

''you'll be confusing yourself , by your own self''😂😂😂😂It sent meeee.It's so true though.

I am 29 and been thinking time is running out because I will soon be getting my first degree in IT and really wanted to settle down before next year but suddenly the man who we both decided to have a family together broke up with me 1 month ago and I have cry and always think where will I start from. thanks for this message God is still God🙏🙏🙏🙏

1. Desperation - makes you choose people that you hv no business choosing. It makes you do stupid things. 2. Having unrealistic lists. Determine deal breakers vs essentials. Ask yourself what is important. 3. Seeing men as trees - not seeing guys for who they are or for the potential that they have. 4. Pre-Marital Sex 5. Fighting everbody when you finally find somebody to marriage. Don't through your family away. Get counsel and be truthful at counseling. 6. Lack of preparation - we prepare for the wedding but not the marriage. Proper counseling will prepare you for marriage. You produce after your kind. You attract what you are. 7. Wasting time "Satan is deceiving you, come out." So true! "He's practicing" 🤣

Too many women have friendzoned good men!!! True!

8yrs down the line in a relationship, I met this guy that is opposite of everything I wanted in a husband, he is tall and dark. But he has the most valuable quality I was looking for, he loves and is committed to God. I left 8yrs and I'm glad I'm with him now because he draws me closer to God. We need to put relevant things for a list.

I was pushed to watch this, TBH this is should be aired on TV channels. Our generation has lost track of spirituality, I'm in love with this. Dear future wifey, better come and listen to this message. Beauty, intellect and humor embedded in one soul ❣❣❣

Am Ugandan but love your teachings God bless you 🙏 the more I watch you the more I get blessed 👏👏

“You can’t do 5’11, 😂😂😂 May God not let you get 4’3 🤣🤣🤣🤣“

Can I just say this message has truly opened my eyes , I have been meditating on these for 3days , for the first time in 5years, I started understanding why my marriage ended up in shambles , this message is deep... Foundation for marriage is extremely important .... Thanks for sharing.....

Lovely video, for the last part sha we that do not yet have the husband and are headed to 40yrs, do not lose heart and keep faith and keep looking ahead. E don't matter when it happens, God's word and his grace triumphs

Only you will be saying rubbish to your self when u are in love, "This part hit me" God bless you richly ma.

Father am sorry for dating married men have your way now in change me oh.... Lord.

God I love this woman.... More grace to your elbow

Pastor Mildred this video made me feel like I was having a one on one session with you. I accidentally stumbled upon it at 4 in the morning 😂. Aaaaaaah I love you already I thank God for you

I can only attract who I am....hmmmmm God can not waste his precious son nd give you what your not.

The grace on this woman's head is amazing... thank you so much pastor M💕 Lots of love from Zambia🇿🇲

Am so ooo blessed by this teaching, am a mother and divorced but I can still learn. 👏👏👏👏

Woaw i got tears in my eyes. God restore me all my wasted years and draw me back in the right path. I avail myself. No more mistakes and time wasters

God led me here today. I started with 7 mistakes married women do, and now I'm here. I love her already❤️♥️

She's so realistic and relateable . Oh my God. Pastor K , you got a GOOD GOOD GOOD ONE

My first time listening to this amazing woman of God. I just love her. She is smart, obviously anointed and funny

I usually follow her husband on social media but she's the real sauce. I can't stop watching her videos. God is really using you, Ma

The way I flew to this page.. your style of teaching is amazing, very real, no gloss, the openness indeed is refreshing .. thank you Ma for being a Blessing 😘😘

This is my first time watching and I think I’ve gotten myself a mentor......very clear, precise, not judgmental and very diplomatic 🥰👌❤️ you are very intelligent and reasonable ma’am ❤️❤️🥰🥰more grace🙏🏽🙏🏽

So much love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 thank you for this teaching.

My first time listening to mum. And I must say am blessed. After listening to you mum I just had to subscribe without wasting any time. This message as really blessed my soul. Am here to learn more as I still prepare to go to the alter. God help and equip me with wisdom, knowledge and understanding to word word. 🔥🔥🙌🙌🔥🔥 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

My eye was teary because I 've not live my life like this but yet am not married at 35yrs. All my life I 've being a Christian.

😂😂😂😂😂I love Pastor M❤️❤️❤️, such a realist "I cannot do 5.11ft 😂 ", thank you for being so transparent and so real honestly, thank you Ma'am, God bless you please.

I clocked 24 years old yesterday, thank you so much ma

If this was a live seminar, I'd have lost my voice shouting... My palms would hurt too from incessant clapping! 😭 Ma'am, your words are life! Beautifully selected! 💞 The wisdom, the honesty and the sense of humor! 😂 Kai! God bless you ma! First time watching/ hearing you and I soooo love you already! 🙌🤗

Thank uuuu soooo much for changing my life , am crying rite now coz yo talking to me thanx so much so much so much

Thanks Mum! Watching you from Ghana! God richly bless you for your advice n directive measures

This literally brought me to tears , thank you

Am here writing notes,nodding,saying amen...I mean all this in one💜

"it is from a place of love"- Pastor Mildred. 🙏Awesome truth Ma👌

I’m blessed with this. Now I know what to work on as a young lady so help me God

Came across this video, am Portuguese was with Nigerian man(igbo). Had to leave him, his intentions wasn't right too rushed. I prefer being single no rush, social is really pushing people to get into something. I followed my intuition, asked God. I did the right thing God showed me who he really is. All I want is to be happy, a man that believes in God, same height as me or an inch taller because am short, generous, supportive, ambitious as me and is on a journey like myself( like looking for a job, finishing university, not in a rush of marrying and children etc) this is essential. I love your character, if you ever have seminars would love to come 😊 I enjoyed this, got me to understand certain things 😊

This blessed my socks off. Thank you!!!

This shows up on my timeline and I'm watching her for the 1st time..........loving her n the message

I love you Ma.... Thanks for being a blessing

I am so grateful to hear you treat this topic. This is the best message ever heard. God bless you and your ministry.

I always Happy whenever I hear from u! My Spirit always ready to alwyz learn through u! Thank u so much Pastor! Ur so Beautiful & I love u❣

This message hit me so hard that I fell like crying, God bless you woman of God

God bless u am trying to heal from the trauma I experienced 2 years ago he left me 3 weeks before our wedding didn’t call me till a month later I stayed after due to financial ties but broke things off recently to focus on my healing women we truly accepts things we never will if u r not careful

I thank God for my friend who posted this message... Thank you Pastor.

I randomly saw this video and I loved it after 5 minutes. God bless

wow....I am so blessed by this ma. Thank you so much ma. God bless you.

This message is so timely! Thank you Pastor M! ❤

This here ooooooo is what we need. Praise God for Sis. Mildred. Never change how you teach, you’re real & we need this.

Pastor M to the world.....God bless you ma, you are such a great blessing ❤❤

I've always wanted to attend a men's conference to hear what young single men are being taught. This is because I was so tired of the narrative that if you are above 30 and are a single lady the absolutely must be 9 point steps of something you're doing wrong!!! Funny how when it come to young Christian ladies, everyone has a direct line to heaven to give us advice, but no one acknowledges that maybe, just maybe, the stock of men we are left to deal with have questionable characters. Single ladies become 'desperate ' because of pressure from married church mothers and Pastors as if being single is a curse. What if it's just not yet God's appointed time you? Ever think of that? Stop it with this mistakes this mistakes that and let young ladies discover God, grow closer to Him, find their talents and live out their God given purposes. Y'all are exhausting.

Pastor M😂😂You are such a huge blessing!!

I love that she is bluntly honest.

One of the best teachings i have ever heard.... well said.

Wow, this is an eye opener. Thank you Pastor M, God bless you.

Thank you ma. I am so blessed with this teaching 💖

Where have I been all this while😁 I just stumbled to your channel and am glued already, you speak in a way I really like, it’s like my late mom speaking to me, like the Holy Spirit know I need to hear these things at this point in my life. More grace ma’am, love you.

Thank you for being real. I missed counseling from a person who is truthful. You are a blessing

I just love the way you speak the truth. God bless you richly mama.

Am blessed to listen to this kind of advice.God bless you more

Thank you Mama. You are such blessing to this generation ❤️❤️❤️

You're so real with us thank you very much.

This lady is real o!!! Straight shooter, I love people like this.

God richly bless you for this timely message. It couldn't have come at a better time. Pure, unadulterated word

There's so much to emulate from Pst Mildred. Just listening to you has blessed me. God bless you ma.

There is so much truth in this message. Thanks for this message

This is the wisdom we need in our dispensation. Hitting the nail right on the head. First time listening to you and I have been enlightened. God bless you Pastor M

God bless you Pastor M. I really needed this Thankyou ma

I could listen to you all day, thank you for your honesty. May God continue to bless you.

I've watched and listened to several messages on being unmarried but this done something positive to me, thank you and God bless, I fall under the wasting time category, please pray for me and with me for the right* God partner ordained by God.

Am really grateful that I came across this video. I tried too until I was 23 and I regret that act till date am now 25 years and am praying that God helps me find the man for me and start seeing men like men not tress. Am Louise please pray for me 🙏

Am so overwhelmed listening to you Thanks so much and it was fun too

I see the sense of humour pastor K has been talking about. I couldn't help but laugh while still getting the messge. It's my first time here. I just came on RU-vid to explore. Knew I was searching for something but didn't know exactly what it was, but immediately I saw this channel, I knew I've found it. God bless you ma for being such a blessing.

I love listening to ur teachings since I discovered you last month! On my longs trips to work I’m laughing my head off! I love! Thanks for blessing me with the word!!

Your not the only one Prinye. Premarital sex is indeed a sin

Wao This is just an eye opener May God help us

I feel like crying. Oh lord pls come to my aid. Thanks pastor

Thank you so much for this wonderful message......i am glad the truth is still preached at this season I love you ma

Hahahahaha “ 5’11, u can’t manage 5’11, may you not end up with 4’3” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hay God this mama has finished work!!!!!!!

I am so happy I found this channel. I’ve learned a lot!!

First time I'm seeing you and hearing you but I must confess you're amazing. I'm married but your beauty, disposition and your words kept me listening to the end. You blessed me. Thank you Pastor.

Pastor M, your breed is too rare. God bless you for the work you do. I love you as well as your mentorship sessions because they are realistic, filled with humour, love, and authority.

Pastor Mildred you're too much! God bless you

Am so happy I met this on time 😩 So so grateful

First time watching you and I learnt so much even as a married woman. Thank you ma'am.

Ma'am, God bless you. This is really a lesson for ladies of today.

Pastor Mil said He will share it and make it reach all of us 😂😂😂😂

I am so blessed Ma. God bless you so much.

I Thank God for you for this message ma'am, it couldn't come at a more appropriate time

Gosh! I'm so blessed. I love u so much ma'am..... The way u speak, so real....I find myself smiling along with u, that's how much I feel u're speaking directly to me. God bless you, more Grace on your ministry

😭😭😭She resumed everything I needed to hear. Thank you Pastor Mildred. God bless you, you just got a new subscriber ❤️

Tooooo much insights. I'm addicted to this video. God bless you Pastor M. I love you soo much😍😍😍😍

Wow! Thank you pastor M. It’s my first time listening to you and I’m indeed blessed by your message.