Point #7 hits home, thank you sir. I got neglected sexually for years because I couldn't fulfill all of his dreams. When I found out tht he had registered in a dating site looking for other women, I quickly addressed it. I told him that I knew about it and I have no problem with what he does with his life but I will not tolerate it while we are still married. I told him to divorce and be free instead of trying to sneak around. I believe he was shocked that it didn't bother me. He denied it but started behaving better. Ladies, don't ever give a man the impression that you cannot survive without him, ofcourse except you depend on him financially.
Am Florence a Ugandan but currently living in Turkey. I have learned to keep a standard not to tolerate cheating. Thanks for educating the world God bless you
Dr. K. N. Jacob, you deserve compliments as much as you don't advocate 😂 You're interesting, fun, open minded to everyone who take your lessons. We're blessed..keep it up!
Curious, why would you share info meant for women with your husband? Shouldn't this be a part of your private arsenal to be a better wife? We women need to practice moving in silence and not exposing all our cards.
Lol... My family is a military family, and most of my "campaign" Tshirts promoting something are comfy AND given to me by my husband! Yet, but I've learned not to wear them when my husband and I are in bed. I do when he is deployed or away for a period of time though. :) 😀... TY Dr. !
Hi, Dr You are impacted with knowledge. You are putting a square peg in a square hole. Keep up the great work. Ladies come on and get your brains out of the boxes.
Dr. Jacob, I enjoy you so much. Your videos always make me smile or chuckle, no matter how serious or educational the topic. I like how you deliver with such personality, humout and flair.🏆 I'm not married, so I can compliment you as much as I want to. Lol.
Here in Uganda cheating is a habit we women we have to accept it in order tolong last in marriage!! But it hurts i wish all men in ug follow your advice Dr
They get a second phone that you do not know about it ….secretly having a porn addiction ….secretly calls his exes……basically he married to you just for the convenience .
how about when a wife tell the husband that you are a two minute man , and all her friends knows about it and a side chick is telling the husband all the wonderful things that he wants to hear 👂
Its a normal thing phenomenon for a person to want to be with another person asides one person. So I don't think its his fault or mine. Especially of he has people bugging him and the woman too. So it's a natural phenomenon
And what does a man do to his wife to turn her on? I was married did everything you said but he didn't look good at time either.and what having babies some women go through hell
I disagree with you on the lack of SEX! cause at the time my boyfriend cheated on me and he was getting it when he wanted it ! Even When I didnot wanted it and sometimes he would just take it! So in my case this doesnot address me.And he still went out and cheated on me and even had the Nerve to get someone that almost look like me. And her hair was blonde and I found that out when I ask him for my kids ( which I have 3 girls) their hair brush and there was some blonde hair in the brush.but before I found that I now know why he wanted my mom to dye my hair blonde.cause if my hair fall on him he would tell her it was her and if her hair fall him he would tell me that it was mines .well back to the hair brush I ask him for it one day and low and behold there was some blonde hair in the brush and I ask him about it! And he goes to me OH! IT one of the kids doll hair. 👌 okay I said to him now remember my mom is a license beautician and real hair burn and synthetic hair don't and I show him and the hair 🔥 burn.you see he thought that I would just go along with what he said.Not me.And you talk a Good talk are you marry and are you following your own advice ?And excuse you i do respect my self so again this doesnot reply to me.and I bet you probably cheat!
This is manipulative speach men have to do part of the work to make a marriage work. You men are not doing a favor by marrying us we are doing you a favor to marry you and to stay married to you
I agree with the 7 reasons. You are right boundaries, discussions, and self love with the praying being number 1 and being transparent. This can be applied to relationships, but not necessarily the sex depending on the situation. Women, the worse thing to notice of a cheating man is when he is really angry, hateful and threatening violence! If he acts extremely hateful because you refuse to tolerate cheating, lies or deception, GET RID of him! He is garbage! You will be happier, relieved, and respect yourself! If you are married go to therapy if it has not gotten violent! if it crosses the line leave or you may not survive! Please be careful out there! There are too many cheats and liars. Being single serving God is ALWAYS better! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹 A real man expresses his needs and wants to talk about things bothering him, and the same goes for women. Remember it is two in the marriage and if you want it to work it has to be played fair. if one side dominates too much, then it will not work. 2 have to agree to walk together. Be aware if you hear about another woman or start to see behaviors that are disturbing and not normal, then step up your game and say something! Don't let either side brag or talk about the opposite sex because that is a huge WARNING! They are telling you man or woman that they are distracted by the other person, so be aware! Other concerns if you suspect something, that intuition is on! Be careful with guests or roommates while being married, even if it is family. People get envious and jealous, but sometimes one of the spouses could be sleeping with that extra person. So don't allow people to stay unless God told you it's ok. I cannot express it enough from personal and witnessing others how a 3 Rd person in the house can cause problems to even the strongest marriage. Lastly, if trust is gone and you really can't trust them at all, then, honey it's over. A real marriage trusts each other, but when it is burned, then it's damn near impossible to trust that person again! The worst cheaters do it in your own home! If a cheater needs to learn a lesson, split maybe get counseling depending on married or not. Remember this if she or he cheated before marriage, then it's a high chance it will continue after marriage. Unless the person you can verify is serious and has changed and you can tell they are committed, have God as conviction, but no God no peace, and most likely they do not care. If they are Narcissists get out! They need deliverance and heavy counseling probably for years! Please don't commit unless you are totally serious because cheating leaves damage for both people for years, especially for the faithful person! Besides divorces are expensive financially, spiritually, and emotionally. Healing is not easy. If you cannot share your money at all because one refuses, it is not a real relationship or marriage.
Manipulation,uuuui.#2.I know that one too well.drought.dryspell can be a frustration..thats a rough patch,went through it for years ,till i called it quits.
