Dr. your tips are very useful for christians over 40 looking for a right partner. My Testimony: I gave up ever finding the right God fearing man after my 40's, but God has His ways. He makes a way where there is no way. At the age of 64, yes 64 years, He gifted me with a steady, loving, God fearing & mature kingdom husband who is 51 years (15 years younger than me). We are so very happy together with God Holy Spirit in our midst guiding us daily. Glory to God. This testimony is to Glorify our True God Jesus & also to encourage others not to give up hope after 40. Keep praying. Our God is soooo Good! Praise Jesus!!!
I am over 40 years old, still have not met my man. I don't feel desperate, but I do feel alone sometimes....I still believe God has a plan for me, but I feel sad sometimes, and I cried.
@Cathy, My sister married at age 63 for the first time. When you pray, trust that God hears you. Thank Him in advance. In the meantime, occupy your time with things that bring you enjoyment and include helping others who are less fortunate than you. Mentor a child, teen or young adult. Or assist a Senior-Sister who may be more lonely than you are. I hope you belong to a Ministry where you are spiritually fed. Prepare yourself for your married life, mentally, spiritually, physically! God Bless you!🙏💕
You are not alone, I’m right there with you I’m trying to keep the faith also and I guess it’s gonna have to be in God’s timing which that’s really what we want so it will last do you live in Florida?
im right there wth you sis..but I believe n have faith that God's timing is the best.i pray n ask God for that everyday.Gods willing it shall happend oneday!
understand 😪. met some older men. they were trash & wanting a younger woman & sex. im abstinent 🙏 til marriage. he ghosted &dumped me😌. working on accepting marriage ain't gonna happen. bc men are dumb & think older women are useless.
I noticed that when I reached late 30’s(I’m now on my early 40’s)….. I started getting younger man approaching me! I never knew that I would still pull a right man on my 40’s! Young, handsome and providers!
I’m in my 30s and I’m having a hard time with men in their 30s. I’m so confused. What is going on with men? They are providers but they don’t seem to want to settle down even at their age…
@@allisongee6182 one thing I have come to learn is a right man will walk into your life and you’ll never have those commitments issues. He will fit in like a glove. So continue to pray and God will bring that man into your life and it won’t matter how old you’ll be then!
@@askpam9558 at this age, I personally don’t have time that! I mentioned above that as I get older (my personal experience) I meet better men than when I was younger. I don’t have energy to babysit a man at this age….I think that I’ve put my standards way higher than when I was younger and that way I only allow what I deserve. Younger people need to do that so they can meet people who are for them…..I wish someone would have told me when I was younger 😓
I touch and agree with you. I'm trusting God for the gift of marriage this year also, at the least engagement. Done - In Jesus Christ name. Amen, Amen, Amen!
Thank you God for your life Doctor Jacob.Thank you for the teaching.i will be turning ,41 this year ,am still trusting God that one day my Adam will awake from a deep sleep.
Dr. Jacob….THANK YOU! Sometimes we need to be reminded that it’s ok to do the right thing and not as the world sees fit! I appreciate you! God bless you and yours!
Thank you very much am in 40 but I had given up going back to marriage but you have inspired me with your words Doctor let me look for that Mr right Man as I pray to God to bring him coz I was also heartbroken end moved on in 2009 up to day am alone. may God give that person am praying hard to get may God richly bless you always. Dr. Jacob
Thank you, Dr. Jacob! Glad I found a (Black) man sharing this info. I’m in my my mid-30s but I’m all ears because plenty of gentlemen across YT will tell you it’s over once you turn 30 (which I know isn’t true, but this is refreshing).
Thanks so much Dr., You know some times I run short of words, am single mum and 43 now. But I've always had a challenge of dated by younger guys. And I've always unlooked them. You know when I look young despite the age. But this time around, I think it's high time I make a move. God bless you abundantly.
Excellent information Dr. Dating is gathering data. 🥰 I am 41 and I just started watching your videos yesterday. I have learned much. Thank you so much for sharing.
Very good information. I like the fact that it is sound doctrine, therefore backed by the Word of God. This advice leads to success!!! Thank you for sharing.
Yes doc,your lessons are very helpful.why don't you create a dating forum for singles,some of us are really struggling to get the the right march.watching from Zambia.
l just started to watch your videos yesterday Dr Jacob, am really inspired and encouraged by the way you teach about marriage, purely biblical principles about marriages, l like that, am learning a lot. Thank you
Thank you so much Doc. Now I know I didn't make a mistake by ending relationships where the so called suitors wanted sex before marriage. Even at 40s ,I am waiting for my God given responsible man. God bless you too Doc. What a great content.
Thank you so much Man of God for inspiring me. M also at my early 40s and i get approached by younger man (Ben 10's😀) and most of them are Pastors and I find it quite challenging to fit in this criteria. 🙏
Thanks Dr. Jacob for the word of affirmation! I believe my testimony is onthe way! Great testimony indeed because the God I believe in is Almighty!! May God give you more grace and wisdom to continue blessing us with these life saving messages. Wishing you more happiness with your family 👏
This has come at the right time. I so glad that I listen to this video, God bless you Doc. This is so brilliant. You made me feel confident. I am dating a guy 8 years young than I am but was worried about it even when he assured me that he did not have a problem with it. I have learnt lot and now know basing on those tips
I am as well..I'm 48 years young and because I look younger than what I am I attract younger and my future husband is turning 40 this year..8 years difference is not a big deal at all but unfortunately society has made it weird for women to even date 1 year younger but men do it all the time especially with bigger age gaps 10 plus and it has become the normal for them
So on point 👌👏👏👏😃 Don't even bother if his goal is not to settle! Absolutely! I couldn't agree more, Doc 😅 if he is looking for a friendship, girlfriend, whatever, I am outta dat door!
Ur videos have really changed my life bcoz I was dating a guy who is married and a Muslim but but when I show ur videos on RU-vid it really interesting and educational videos, thanks more blessings
Thank you for this video, and you're so right because I've overlooked educational background etc the guys weren't providers and they made my life miserable and they were very childish. Now I understand why after watching this so thank you
Owww what a smart and educated person. Today is my first time watching your you tube very inspiration and encouraging to women above 40 . I will be 40 this year widow and have two adult children. I have been a widow for many years now and I have dated men , but no one was in serious relationship I just tried with man . After I watched this topic I promise to my self to fellow the seven rules from you and hopefully it will work . And I learned from your topics,I have made a mistake with my past relationship so you have taught me that I can fresh start with your advice. Thank you Doc .
Thank you so much Dr Jacob, I'm greatly inspired by your contents, I'm 50 and been getting young men dating me, I have been turning them down but now I know that age is just but a number
A noble woman of character will always get her preferred choice of a man... ...ideal situations of marriage seem to deteriorate with age, thank you Dr for casting out fears on this. Great points. Immense, awesome wisdom in alot of issues Dr. Thank you for your continued frequent & regular shares. Be blessed.
That sex part is so true! I know a couple personally who waited for marriage to have sex, he couldn't perform, and she gave the marriage 3 years for something to happen but it didn't so she got an annulment for nonconsummation!
Not condoning sex before marriage. But had they had intimacies prior to marriage she would have known that he couldn't perform and possibly not married him based on that. But there are medications and treatments to help with erectile dysfunction I would hope that they tried some of those avenues before giving up on their marriage.
A man wanted to date me but was impotent. I was confused because he was divorced with 2 children. He explained that his diabetes was so bad that he became impotent. All the while he was drinking daily and eating trash. I ran so fast.
@Micheal rakute Thank you Michael for showing concern but I'd like to move on and hope God gives me a fresh/ new suitor. I don't wish to go back to my ex.
I believe in 100/100 God made us complete so we should bring 100% of ourselves to the relationship,,I don't believe in 50/50 because God made us already complete..And money is so important but like you said sex is also important and sexual status is so important..Thank you because alot of dating coaches does not speak about sex at all which is a shame
Dr, I'm so Greatfull with your teachings, i would suggest, if you can....open up a dating forum for singles...basing on your coatching! It will save a lot of disappointment, and depressed souls ... God bless you
Wow! I am blessed indeed with the clip came on time, indeed God is merciful to.me, Thank you so.much brother for the revelational.and visionary video for my life!
I’m still stuck on I have ONLY 40 more years to live 😂😂. I have no problems getting and keeping a man (I’m in an emotionally healthy relationship) but this came up in my “new to you” and I have to say…you don’t stop living after 40. And your options are based on your preferences. Wow. Good luck ladies.
This dude was 56 years old claiming he is divorced and I asked If Its ok to post him on my Facebook he was soo mad and cut me off 😂ladies that's the best tip to know if aman is married lol.
Honoring yourself has amazing effects....it is the environment loving and respecting you. Thank you for this intriguing, thought provoking, proactive, and expecting greatness and happiness message!
Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉 Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge in this topic. Maturity is very important at any age, vitally important. Thanks for the encouraging words not to limit my choice in a partner.
I am at 40 and listening to you makes me feel or realise that I have done and are doing everything sooo wrong. I know what to do but 🤔 ❓ My heart is already taken . Was it right to give him my heart and body? O God when I love I end up leaving the relationship n suffer for love. I love strongly. Please tell me he is the right person 🙏🏿 😔 😭
I have learnt a lot. Hope to share it with Ladies who intend to get into relationships. The sad thing is that most of the girls/ladies consult when things have gone astray. There is always the panic that one might lose the guy.
I need to subscribe straight with this message,omg have been saying I will not remarried again because of my age, and have not enjoy marriage.this give courage and bold .
