I was an introverted child n thought it must be cool to hangout with ppl.But trust me it's a waste of time to entertain everyone . I realised it takes a lot my important time n mental peace to deal with others .Also i use to hate when ppl say you don't speak much .We speak volumes in our mind we know what we want n how to get there .We are very motivated coz we know ourselves very well our strong points dislikes.Everyone wants a different life some want peaceful easy going life,some want to party n enjoy life but few only want successfull careers and achieve certain goals in life .I have seen so many talented ppl getting wasted with friends and regretting afterwards. It is extremely important to set healthy boundaries n learn to say no to ppl.At this age of 30 i know how to value friends,family n work .But i need to detach from time to time n go into isolation to recharge myself ...
I prefer to be alone as I feel as though my "mind space" is not cluttered by other individuals who do not bring anything of value as they are only worried about with what others' are doing and not actually focus on their own lives. People love drama and I am a person who does not have any interest in involving myself with other peoples' issues!!!! Kudos to you for the useful video :)-
I never hang out with others for any reason other than to keep them around. I make my appearance and give them time but they mean nothing to me, I just want to keep somebody around in case of emergencies or if I ever need someone. Do I trust those around me? Not really, but it’s better than nobody.
Being what you need to be when you need to be , now that’s power! That’s why I dislike tags; you must be able to switch per time for good reasons. Learn to have good people skills,love and value people. Live beyond “yourself”. The world needs you.
Im a failure everywhere,a dumb, a frustrated and all the qualities mentioned i have including irregular less at night sleep, toughest daily life, even cant answer verbally but has to write down most of the daily conversations. Im physically sick but working day and night ti create something very essential. Life is a mesh and most people disturbs me. what will happen if i fail? It is a must for me to live so i work so hard. Plz pray for my efforts.
I prefer to be alone sometimes. However introversion gets you absolutely no where. Oh your job, you have to socialize and are in constantly. In a relationship, you have to communicate constantly. The world doesn’t care you have to recharge. It’s been hard for me. I wish I wasn’t introvert.
Have 3 kids with 3 different women, my first when I was 20. Now, I'm alone, and love it, can do whatever I want, always studying. Debtless, pretty well off, into classic cars, and MC. Women are overpraised, I don't trust women anymore.
Highly intelligent people seem to me to be miserable persons! As I have read, they are untidy and have bad sleeping patterns, amongst other bad habits. So, one has to question whether to be highly intelligent is a good thing at the end of the day! A lot of emphasis is given on these RU-vid videos to highly intelligent people. Are they encouraging people to confine themselves to loneliness and eventually end up on a phycologists couch! Makes one wonder if these videos are compiled by psychologists!
I think what this means only the social aspect....I'm an introvert and I'm alone in a crowded room. With that being said I like women, and if you prefer your hairy palm over the wetness of the womb then something is wrong and i doubt its intelligence.
I actually disagree with this video. Preferring to be alone is not a sign of intelligence at all. That wouldn't even make sense because of a such thing as social intelligence, which is a part of general intelligence. While these are reasons why anyone who prefer to be alone, prefer to be alone, this is not a reason why highly intelligent people prefer alone at all. Intelligence in definition is the ability to learn, be aware, and understand skills, things, and phenomena as well as use whatever you know to capacity. The more intelligent you are, the more you know and use what you know to higher capacity. Intelligence can also be split into certain categories so for example: One could be highly intelligent at sports and lowly intelligent at cooking. One could be highly intelligent at math and be lowly intelligent at social interactions and emotional intelligence. One could be highly intelligent at gaining practical information and lowly intelligent at self-awareness and intuition. There are several types of intelligence and what's broadly known as intelligence is mental, spiritual, physical, social, and emotional intelligence. All of these are subsets of general intelligence. Anyway, this video is not a sign of high intelligence but reasons why one is introverted. I know someone who isn't highly intelligent but is introverted and far more than me.
There are many ways to define intelligence. People have different standards to measure intelligence. What makes a person's definition of intelligence more valid than the others? So, in my opinion, the most valid/accurate definition of intelligence should come from the one who has the highest form of knowledge (God) or from His messengers; The most intelligent are the ones that remember death the most and prepare for it by doing things that can bring benefits to them in the hereafter. Unpopular opinion. I know but, it makes sense. What's the point of having high IQ, EQ, status, income, popularity or etc., but ends up in eternal suffering? Now the questions of whether God exists, which religion is right one, etc., are completely different topics though.
@@mymentalmentor I highly appreciate your comment and respect what you said. I also admire how mature you are in handling differences and disagreements 💙
