1. You know what you want, even if you don't know how to get there yet. 2. You're easily bored. 3. Just focus on life (go with the flow) 4. You practice empathy 5. You practice humility 6. Not motivated by money as a reward, instead, it's a resource 7. You don't believe in dream jobs. (Believe in hard work)
The best sign is this : if someone who you care about or look up to (a friend,your parents or even a celebrity) demotivates you,and you are still focus on your dream it just means that you will do it! Have a great day y'all! Edit: THANKS FOR THE LIKES! Remember : you are the only real YOU in YOUr life!
Someone said I listened attentively to the wisest advice given to me and I went and did the exact opposite☝️ This is key to some of the greatest success we've ever known on earth. People mean well but they are not you.
I was just having a shower breakdown a few days ago , thought my ambition is too big for my abilities. Now I check every box in this video. Thank you for this! I'd like to believe it's a sign from the universe, that I'll become my dream
What does being successful even mean? It is an important question to ask yourself. For many, it means you have a great career and making plenty of money in order to afford the lifestyle you want. But we often forget that being successful is not just our professional life, it is all areas of our essence combined: career, finances, family, relationship, and me-time. We are often working hard to be successful in some of these categories but forget about some other ones.
I don't think there's a precise definition of being successful. It doesn't necessarily means doing very big things or being famous. In fact everyone has their own unique definition of being successful. As long as you follow your heart and try whatever it takes to achieve your own goals throughout your life, I would say, you're already successful😉 This is just my personal opinion. But I hope this can help you define your question😊
For me, success is when one walks in the light without casting shadows upon another: being happy as a result of contentment without compromising the happiness of others. Many measure success as the fatness of one's wallet, the altitude of one's career, the thickness of one's phone book, the size of one's mental library, or the weight of medals around one's neck. Yet, success is relative. Each walks a path nobody else can tread, and thus nobody else can guide. Our measure of success is our own evaluation of our life, for only at the end of the journey can one ascertain one's trail.
Very true! Some people may try to climb the social ladder that they forget about leading successful family lives or relationships. I think I'm still working on being successful in each category. :)
So glad you can channel your health into art! :) What kind of drawings do you do? I recently got into bullet journaling and doodling, and it's been a life-changer for me. ♥
Follow your dreams, ignore money. I was more broke than I'd ever been when things finally worked out for me. And dont stop, once you get that first breakthrough you're not done, you have to maintain it.
Hi there, I hope you do want to survive. Living in the modern world is a tough thing to do at times, but life is all about perspective. For every bad event, there is always an opportunity for good. Whenever my grandfather died, it broke my heart, but it showed me that I need to get closer with the family I still have with me. I hope you are doing okay today.
Also people should remember that everyone’s definition of success is different ☺️ never let anyone tell you they are better than you or that you are not successful just because they are richer (etc..)
I’m caring for both of my elderly parents on my own and I’m already 49 years of age. Being also male, this is by no means is a success story in terms of today’s society. But, at least most of the times, it makes me feel happy and I realize that I’m growing spiritually by doing something, which isn’t socially looked up to.
1) This is definitely me! Music is my thing, but I need a way to perform more than just once a year during summers. 2) Can't deny a good challenge. 3) Yeah, I suppose this fits. 4) I do what I can to look out for others, but don't have the best people skills. 5) Getting better at what I do is always for myself. My results reflect that progress. 6) Money isn't everything. 7) Hard work gets you far. Stay persistent and keep going despite your shortcomings. Instant like.
1. i don’t really know what i want 2. yeah, i often feel kinda bored but my anxiety hates new things and challenges 3. i do maintain a work/life balance 4. okay for this one. i have a big empathetic capacity (does that even make sense lol) 5. okay for this one too. but at the same time, i kinda want to be under the spotlight... idk i’m weird 6. yeah! that’s right for me :) 7. huh, idk about this one. conclusion: i might not be successful but i’ll be the one defining it.
@@llorensilove dont be hope less if you dont have the signs...there are other ways to gain success...this might sound cringy but believe in yourself and explore your talents😊
I also use to think the same but then started thinking is this going to be with me this satisfaction until i die the answer i got was no so now to have this satisfaction after 30 or 40 years i have to hustle now
Success is created by the individual, they're interpretation of what it looks like combined with what will make them happy and be fulfilled. One perspective of what success looks like causes pressure and expectations when it should be about freedom and independence and encouragement of exploring your own identity.
@@Psych2go I've long since given up on changing my view of the world. While I ain't no Droopy Darrin, I can consider myself a pessimistic idealist. BUT, I do appreciate your concern. Thank you.
"Success isn't everything", I absolutely agree with that, one time, when I was in 9th grade, my main purpose was being recognized for my grades, and I did it, I studied a lot during that year and when the school year finally ended and I was recognized for have the second place for my grades, I realized that it was just a moment. That year was a crap, because even when I got the success that I wanted, I was really bad emotionally (for some problems that I was having), and I had the hope that that success would make me feel better, but it was just a moment, then, I felt the same emptyness as always.
I want to be a gaming live streamer, Graphic designer, painter and coder all together. School right now is doing nothing to help me and only makes me bored. I plan on owning a business in the future that involves creativity and fun. I will fail many times and go down but I’ll get back up. 😃
My dreams are pretty similar actually. I want to stream gameplay and potentially create music or art. Hopefully I’ll get to say hi to you on twitch later on down the road 😃
Depression made me forget the last one, I used to be that way. Anyway, I’m working emotionally to build a lot of things I took for granted before depression, maybe I’ll get back in the saddle stronger than before :c 🤞
Honestly, having even the slightest inkling of what you want enough to pursue is such a huge blessing I miss having something that makes me feel alive like that
I really, really love music. I've always known I wanted to make it my job cuz I can't imagine myself anywhere else, but I'm mostly a self-learner and I don't feel like I'm legit of anything that I've learned. I feel like some professional should confirm that I can actually play before even calling myself a musician..
I feel like it's the only thing I've wanted to do too. I dream of being able to master the piano and just play anything, but I know it's going to take lots of practice so I'm trying hard to motivate myself 😂, what instrument do you play?
What kind of musician do you want to be? Orchestral? Gig/session musician? Band? It's quite easy to get someone who can tell you if you know what you ought to know, but you'll realize that there are so many things to learn, so many possibilities and avenues of growth. While it's nice to have a certificate and/or degree, the reality is that our musical skills is learned not just through school, but also life experiences. Nothing we learn is legit. Rather ask yourself, "How well do I know this? How easy can I apply this?" If you still feel like a fraud, seek experiences. Depending on who you are, find gigs! Play with friends! Busk on the streets! Teach others how to play! In any case, whether you meet your expectations or not, I'd say you're a musician. Have fun!
Lilya Who Knows I love music too! To be a musician you only need one thing: a passion for music. I believe that anyone who plays with passion and expression and loves what they’re doing can be a musician if they want to. I play the piano and guitar (and I sing sometimes but it doesn’t sound very good), but the technical skills aren’t the most important thing. So don’t be afraid to follow your dreams. And I’d love to hear something you played! (English is not my native language)
When I grow up I wanna be a singer- a kpop idol i just dont say that because i dont wanna get misunderstood, hope u understand) And I have the signs ooh
Ohhh ami!!!! Aigoo we dream same but i also want to be an astronaut😣 But my head say to me:BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS BTS!!!!
Today was a difficult day and I have been wondering whether to keep trying or not, because maybe my skills are not enough...and then I found this video. I'm going to work hard today again, and keep going. Thank you so much 💖
This video is on point. Do you think about making a video about competetive people. I note that there are many people who always focus on being better than other one. I think it's bad for their mental health and they always feel stressful, sometime they do dirty things to be better than their colleagues or friends. I am really waiting for a video like that.
I tend to be over competitive as well and it does do alot on your mental health. I find my self even being that way against my self and telling my self like out doing my self.
Yes while it can be bad competition can cause us to work harder and do better.. but it needs to be a healthy amount of competition...otherwise it can be rlly bad...but when balanced it can also be very good
@@bennyboi6603 Yeah. I admit that i'm competitive person. When i meet someone at the first time at my university, i always ask their score, if they have lower score compared with mine, i think they are lazy and i'm the best. But if their scores are better than mine, i try to find something else which i can do better than them. Because of that, i always don't respect people who don't have good scores and hate people who are brilliant. One day I realize i don't have any true friend, i always fear that they do something better than me, they can answer hard questions but i don't,etc. It's depression.. I saw that clearly i'm bad guy but i couldn't stop it. I couldn't focus on working so i waste hours and hours doing nothing, i stucked. But then, i realized and told myself again and again, competition is meaningless, now i see people around me, everyone is good, i always can learn something from them and i just focus on what i want to do and try my best for it. After i spend days and days for the things i love but the result is not good as others, that's ok, because i tried my best. Thereafter, my life is extremely better, i have more friends and even my skills is much better compared that in the past.
"Work and improve to become better than yourself, not to become better than everyone." And that is a motto I made on my own and has helped me immensely to work hard and reach heights while still keeping myself grounded by helping and being helped by my friends, not to make a silent competition with them.
I relate to all of these! :D This is exactly the video I needed right now. I often get scared that I'll never get anywhere in life. I have ADHD and fail at the majority of things I try out, I have overprotective parents who feel the need to shield me from everything and do everything for me, and I've been poor my whole life, and can't afford nice equipment for what I want to do. But I think if I try hard enough, I can do it. I love drawing, and even though all I have is a Bic pen, 10 colored pencils, and a notebook with lined paper meant for writing on, I've drawn some things I'm pretty proud of. But the one thing I want to do with my life more than anything else is to be a director. Movies are one of my biggest passions in my life, and I'm willing to work really hard to reach my goal. I really hope things'll work out. There's a long history in my family of people not being able to achieve their goals, and I've got a lot going against me. I'm hopeful, though. It might be really hard and take a really long time, but I'm going to try my hardest. Right now, I'm saving up as much money as I can, so eventually I can get myself I good camera and start filming things.
Aww, your story is such an inspiration! I truly believe with your amazing attitude for life in the midst of many obstacles, you'll be able to go very far in life. Some people simply give up in the face of obstacles, but you have a strong sense of motivation and know that hard work sends people places. And in that way, you're very correct! Keep on hoping and believing in yourself, I know you can do many great things! Thanks for sharing :)
I wanna start a business, grow a RU-vid audience, and make the whole world a better place for everyone by fighting against climate change and poverty throughout the world with the help of my RU-vid audience (I must clarify that this is only a fraction of all my future ambitions)
Anyone ever feel unmotivated even when you know what you want and know everything about how to become motivated and still procrastinate? I figured it out that if I just get to work, I will be motivated eventually. I used to listen to Napoleon Hill and many other audios thousands of times when I'm depressed or unmotivated but I still just couldn't get up and start working. But once when I was asked to do something that my fam wanted me to do, I found motivation in there. The mind is tricky. You got to put it to work or it won't bother.
The characters are really cute and the wording is great! It makes the videos feel more positive, like constructive criticism rather than meaningless lectures on how "bad" we all are
I started my channel to help motivate myself and others and to hold myself accountable. I document my weight loss journey and hope to inspire others to just go ahead and start doing whatever it is that they want to do. I definitely haven’t done this perfectly, but I’d rather have started than just continue the way I was doing and regret not having done something later. The first step of any journey is the most important!
I'm always impatient only impatient Because I want things to be endearing at my sight I want things I planned to be marked I want myself to succeed from what I tasked myself There is just one thing..when you plan or make a to do list *there is always one left out*
I decided to change my career from becoming an accountant to becoming a great drummer...Cause It was my dream from childhood. I have all these signs, and ill let you know after i become a great drummer. Wish me the best guys..❤️
People claim to have 6th sign in them, but the irony is they won't consider themselves successful if they fail to earn a lot of money and immense fame in future. Because that's how our society defines success.
I can attest to this... I never cared about what others had to say about what I wanted to do with my life, my philosophies or my dreams... I've always believed in myself, humbly, never getting offended when others said negative things. Every point made in this video is me. I've achieved everything I've set my mind to... and on my way to get everything I want. Of course I'm grateful for the few people who supported me.. Thanks for sharing this.
@@Psych2go It was just in time lol. I'm interested in, and have written some fantasy, and some drama stories so I'd love to continue with that. As for starring in some movies, I'd love to be in the same genres: fantasy or drama, but anything would be lovely ^^
My Motivation is Myself and My BTS and ARMY! There is nothing else that makes me happy and motivated to live my life to its fullest... I Purple You ! 💜
I think about my dreams the minute I wake up in the morning til I go to bed and sometimes have insomnia because of this dream. I sometimes feel overwhelmed because I am scared I might not achieve this dream. It's nice to see this video it made me more confident.
aww, sorry to hear that you experience insomnia. we have a video on ways to beat it here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-KCCweK0YauA.html we hope it helps! I think it's also normal to be scared. we all feel a little insecure at times. what's this dream of yours?
I check all of these, I wanted to become programmer since 5 years old when my father told me about concept of programming and what you can do with it (anything and everything yeah), I immediately knew - this is what I will be doing whole my life. A bit later I've decided to go to game development specifically, today at 15 years old I'm fluent in English (I'm Russian) and currently studying software and game development, planning to go freelance next year and attend a full-time job at 18, and I want to move out to Canada after 18, I hope I will make it this fast. All my motivation and encouragement goes from... well, just my character and who I am myself, I am dedicated, I absolutely love programming, and I never ever give up, I have a goal and I won't stop until I reach it, though I like Elon Musk, we share the same mindset. I'll check on y'all 10 years later.
@Saumya Pise good luck you too m8! You can achieve anything really, you just need a goal and dedication to do it, so you'll definitely 100% become a good programmer if you want it good luck in your journey too o7
I'm a failure then. I don't know what I want, today I want to be a musician, yesterday I wanted to be an artist and sometimes I don't want to be anything. I'm really really bored, but I don't want to do anything that's remotely hard. I don't catergorize my life, the only thing that I tidy up is my game inventory and when someone tells me to do it. I don't find meaning in life. I don't matter, I'm just one person, if you lose one person you won't care that much, right? I have empathy, but when I clap my hands for the people that achieved something, they thought I was sarcastic. I don't have any teammates, I'm just a friend of some people on Social Media and that class clown from school. I don't focus on my achievements, but I also don't want myself to get better, I just want to live a comfortable life. I won't have much money in my future, I will be a homeless drug addict. I don't believe in dream jobs. Instead, I believe I am hopeless!
Aww, you're not a failure. It's possible to fail many times in life and be confused, yes, but that doesn't mean you're a failure. You're still growing, and that's okay. ♥
I started with nothing. At first, I wanted to be an art teacher. Then I wanted to be a scientist either in volcanology, geology, or archeology. Then I wanted to be a writer, then a filmmaker, until I stuck with freelance art. Don't say that you're just gonna be at the bottom. That will become your mindset, then a habit, then a lifestyle, which will turn to reality. It took me so many years to get to where I am now and I'm pretty happy. Just do what you love and improve on doing what you love just because you love doing it. Chase excellence and success will follow. Nobody ever is a failure until they fully claim they are.
You're not a failure. It's completely normal to be confused about which path you want to take in life and to be exhausted by the idea of all the work it might take to get somewhere. A lot of people go through that; you're definitely not alone. Even your interest in video games can be turned into a career! It's all about trying out things you love to do and finding which ones don't feel like work to you.
Just work on 1 thing...be the best version of yourself when it comes to giving love and receiving it. That is the source all have forgotten to train at...you will understand later....when you do what i say otherwise you won't understand at all...Don't do it for others...but for yourself...because its YOU who lives every sec and breath every sec till the day you die...SO invest in thyself!
Weirdly the numbers 3, 6, 9 'haunt' me for quite some time since i learned about Nikola Teslas teaching about the universe and the significance of the numbers 3, 6, 9. a few months later i realized that my numerology numbers are also combinations of these numbers, the first time i checked it was 96963, etc on others. Now i chose to see this video out of 20+- tabs and it aligned with me 'perfectly', looking down to the likes / dislikes i see the video has 693 dislikes, What am i supposed to understand? Anyone? xD :\
i feel like this, im 23 now... the older i get the more i feel it is to late to become succesfull even tho i get higher and higher. im curious how ill be tomorrow...
I just want to be somebody. I want to change the world. I want to change the hearts of people. I wish there was something out there for me to find this. I'm always confused about what I want and I think just a little too much.
I want to be a singer...I danced for 7 years and now I start with singing lessons I serached myself about it and asked my parents and they said yes. I also look forward to post covers one day and I hope I can do it.:) I love making people happy with music, be an inspiration, show them things, knowing they are not alone.💜I’m an anxious person but I still risk it and I will never give up til I die, success comes not over night
I don't actually have some big bold dream that I chase, but I believe and thing can be done if you put your skills to the test and try your hardest, it's just a matter of time til you push past into the dreams you were chasing for so long, after that you think. "Well what's next if I've already completed my goal?" That's where people get lost in what they do, I used to draw a bunch and I loved it and I still do just not as much because I judge myself too much and I'm too busy half the time, so now it's just a hobbie of mine. I think if given enough time, effort and hard work you can literally do anything you ever wanted to, you just need to have that drive to keep pushing yourself and become better and better with yourself and your work. For me working out and going for jogs or runs is pretty fun, even though it's painful you have fun along the way because you know you are gonna get and feel better, hell I look like a twig I'm 15 and I dead lifted 135 pounds and benched 100 a few weeks ago. All it takes is hope and the drive that one day you will make it too your goals, you will make it too the point where you have been dreaming of, when you are at the bottom there is no where to go, but up.
ah, you reminded me to exercise! haha! it's so hard for me stay motivated when the weather gets cold like this, but I'm gonna try to go out for a run later on today. :) and I love drawing as well! I don't do it as much when I'm busy with other things, and I also used to read more than I do now, but I think it's important to replace that time when feeling lost with other enjoyable activities. sounds like you're on a good path. do you plan on doing anything professional with running?
Next year I'm gonna be doing a mega Marathon which is 100 miles or over. I've always been fast and good at running but I've got a heart murmur, which makes me heart skip beats every so often, mostly when I run, and that's also another reason I run. So that I can make my heart stronger and that's also why I'm gonna do a mega Marathon, plus if you do something that brings you push yourself you will always have good memories about it, lol plus if I finish it I get a golden medal that says 100 miles.
at first people were saying to me "your not that intelligent to do accomplish you dream" when i'm trying to do it and i started feeling like a dumb person but this video made me smile at the start of the video to the end because i got most of the signs, and this made me feel important because i am my own person!!
I would like a video about ways to fight social anxiety. I would also like to see a video about how to get girls to like you, and anything on that topic. I'm 11. edit: Thank you so much :D
JoeJoeDoesStuff If you're only 11, the last thing you need to worry about is how to get girls to like you. Focus on school, your grades and the activities you love to participate in. If you try to change yourself to get girls to like you, after a while you won't even like you. You'll be so lost in a created Persona, you won't know yourself anymore and then the activities that you love to do and participate in will be gone and you'll be just like 99% of the people out there, fake, unreal and hopeless. However, if you just continue to be yourself 99.9% of the girls you meet won't like you. When you meet that one girl, she'll be the one girl that you'll still love when you're 99 years old. Enjoy your childhood, enjoy being yourself, enjoy the activities you participate, in enjoy your friends and family, when you enjoy yourself and your life then everything will fall into its Perfect Fit, including girls.
@@BunhieKleever Yea that's so true I used want to get guys to like me so I changed my looks my personality and everything and it became a part of me and was focusing on too much and forgot my real identity and it's long gone now and I forgot my own happiness and people are fake and then tons of guys started liking me but I was unhappy and it got me stressed bc people will always ask me questions and 2 of them played me that I actually loved but now I'm afraid to date and fall in love again but I'm trying to find myself again and be happy again even though it won't be same anymore like enjoy life and be positive and you don't need anyone to make you happy
I Needed this sooo much!!! "It's only when you stop questioning and become complacent about where you are that you stop dreaming boldly" --- Psych2go!!!!! XOXOXOX Really nailed the head on the coffin with this one!! XOXOXOX
One of the goals I’ve had in life since I was a kid is to one day be able to tell my mom “Hey, here’s 5K. Save it, go on vacay, do whatever you want.” I actually told her I wanted to do that for her on Mother’s Day and she said she’d just end up spending it on me and my siblings, which is why she deserves it so much. She’s been through and endured so much which is why I want her to be able to just relax with no worries for the rest of her days, and that’s just one thing that drives me. At the end of the day I wanna be successful so I can be lazy 🤷♂️ lol
