7 Subtle Flirting Tips (If You Fear Rejection) 

Thanks for the video

Dude please give me advice! My friend told my crush I like them but I’m not sure if they like me back, what do I dooooo?

Can you tell me a small tip on how i could become a better listener?

Oo

​@@-UsaNee- if she/he still talks to you, they are also starting to OR already have feelings for you

come on the most funny comment ever

Same 😂❤😂😂😂😂 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

Same😭😭

Man. I feel u

same 😭😭

Amen! 😂

For real 😂

Yep

Why is this so real, though 🤣

I really thought that I was the only one with that dumb problem. It sucks so much.

same

Broh, this comment killed me for 10 straight minutes 😂

Me too 🙂✌️

Kind of breed who's gonna die alone

Same 😀

yo no way only 34 likes bro/ hella good comment

Chandler from friends was the master of smiling slowly

@@aliray7833 True

When I read “smile slowly” I thought of that meme with the troll face slowly going from a frown to an evil grin

@@leonardorolingstella8554 lolololol exactly my point

Never have. Never will.

how'd u know😔

Nope i dont even have a crush just here to teach my friends if they ever need it

For "next time"

N-No >~

Big Amen. You can't do any of these tips to anyone who aren't comfortable with you

You bring up a very good point! It's important to pay attention to the other person to see how they react to our behavior. In your experience, what is the best way to learn how to "be yourself" and relax so that you're in the vibe of enjoying life?

@@Psych2go I just wanna butt in here XD but to me, it's knowing that whoever will like me for who I am are the best people to be with while those who don't aren't the best to be with. With that said, I can just be who I am knowing that I will eventually bring in the people who will like me for me

@@Psych2go boxing 😱😂🎭

Imagine enjoying life, wish it was that easy just have emotions bro

Sorry I forgot to bring a crown for you

slowly smile and small glances is bullshit tho. I ended up turning him down because I don't want to deal with his nerdiness, it felt like I was dealing with one of those cringy anime cosplayers on tiktok.

​@tanlimgreendaless2839 Were not talking about exaggerated or highly intentional movements. Glancing is extremely natural in downtimes.

@@rylanlunnon9640 I meant doing the slowly smile and glance at the same time. It just seems very off even if it's not exaggerating. Glancing is okay for me tho.

Nice roadmap we got here

Please explain

Yeah frs could you? Explain...

@@lsm_optix3176 thank you homie back me up we need answers

Seriously? Literally just go read that book. Lazy *ass*​@@Nemesis0513

​@@lsm_optix3176read the darn book he mentioned, dummy.

Yeh

I don't fear rejection anymore, because I know that I will be rejected no matter what I do. Better not play a rigged game and play something else.

Says who? Why is fear of rejection such a bad thing anyways? Ever think that maybe we have fear of rejection for a reason? Maybe the person that you are infatuated with isn't actually right for you and that is what fear of rejection is telling you.

@@mrsticky005 if you like to be rejected you also like to be hurt. The more you like a person the more is the fear of being rejected, so it's not like you say, fkin j*rk.

Worst she can say is "eww".

Yeah

Nerve wracking for me for sure

Absolutely nerve-wrecking. You constantly fear you might do something wrong and ruin everything...

@@_the_eversor_lad_ ...I save time and just figure it will all end in tears no matter what I do/say or don't do/say.

@@markh.6687 I know that feeling damn well my friend... But if I really like someone i won't give up until there is nothing more I can do, until I have no choice but to give up or it is completely pointless to go any further. I just don't like the idea of me not giving my best to obtain what I want. But it doesn't matter what you do, you will most likely get hurt as finding that ONE person is a hell of a difficult task...

Bro i try it and, i do look like a missing clown

this made me giggle

❤

Yes! This is called "leading someone on" and it's a great way to hasten the demise of this dystopia so we can start afresh.

Beyond cope this one. You can do whatever you want in your life (even k1lL), but your reproductive/romantic sucess will still be dictated by, or have these as necessary components: physical looks, neurology and resources.

Thank you for including the timestamps!

Being yourself is pretty damn important, but if "yourself" is someone who is not very agreeable or not easy to get along with, then you should realistically try to improve on how you act, or put on a facade.

it's also helpful to know how not flirt accidentally

@Pan Kaszkieciorz Being yourself is what you have and not what you think is the best way to be not another version of someone because you not trying to imitate any body you will not be or get disappointed once you not meet the expectation.

I think change is ok as long as it's for my own development and not just for pleasing someone else and matching their standard. For each has their own faith. If someone didn't like me, then it's just they didn't choose me and that's all. There will be somebody else for me for sure. Move on.

On god

The homies are the real ones.

W homies

WORD 😭

😂 such is the loneliness 😢

I clicked on this video because: 1: I have a crush too. 2: I wanna help people in the comments too. 3: I dont wanna make dumb and awkward mistakes in life.

I have a huge crush on someone at school, I don't really care if they like me back, (cause we're sorta friends anyway) I just want them to know.

Good luck boys

I clicked on this video because: I am bored

1. Have a crush 2. My friends are trying to get us together 3. I'm the only person he has spoken to abt his past 4. Bitch I love him 5. I love flirting with him for no reason

How do you like Amanda's voice?

@@Psych2go Absolutely ✨beautiful ✨

weirdo

facts

Just be Tsundere. That way you can use lines like "D-don't get the wrong idea!" and "It's not like I like you or anything, B-Baka!"

I dont think anything is wrong with being obvious once you decided that he/she can be a great partner.

That's fair cause how do you expect to pull a hottie when you look like a rat unless you have money.

Aw darn..

Nope. Confidence does the trick.

@@paresaquadir8568no it doesn’t

Step one cleared Rest of them Failed

I think it takes a real heart to see you for how you wanna be seen. Rejection will happen to u because the ones you want can't see you so it hurts u. When someone loves you they prove it to you. When someone wants you they prove it to you. You dont feel like yull fond the one now, but remember that feeling your feeling is only for a time and place in your life. Eventually the right one will show up in your life.

@@classysubliminals4121 Haha I appreciate your concern but you know I feel this a real social issue nowdays, like.. Chad: Looking good Susan Women: Aw, you're sweat Average Joe: Looking good Susan Women: Hello human resources

In a similar-ish boat. I don't know if the woman who catches my eye has been dealing with unwarranted male attention all day, so I err on the side of caution and leave her alone. It's not worth risking potentially pushing someone to their breaking point and causing an incident.

I think if you U know deep down someone's gonna reject you or if you simply just k ow that your gonna be rejected then that person is not the one for you. When someone actually likes you they will show their interest in you, they will chase you and confess to you little by little or a lot. That's the difference between someone wanting you and someone not wanting you at all. It's that simple :) I'm speaking from experience btw

@@toxictric5ter155 if that's how she will react. Then it's not worth your time

My timestamp get it Now better.

@@sbplankton_1999 okay

Unfortunately thats only 4 at the moment of this comment

Do 30

37

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Your pecs are ded.

Wise words captain rex

YES

I asked them out of nowhere, and I don’t think it worked because I think I put them on the spot 😅

​​@@jamtrap_edits "What are you doing in my house? who you even are?"

@@jamtrap_edits haha exact same here, I really do believe that if you’re right for each other then showing interest kind of abruptly won’t ruin it. The right person is hard to scare away.

@@joycor1419 you give me faith ty😌, gl on ur journey

I think it's in the context of a date, not just meeting someone

No waist. Try her arm until you know her a little bit.

@Kai Sälis It works good if you're in a party setting and things seem to be flowing well. You can invite them to dance and it should make you and the other person comfortable with touch. Sometimes outright asking to dance can work but it depends a whole lot more on their mood and whether they find your appearance attractive or not.

Same, I guess the only reasonable place to do it (if you are still in the "advancing" stage) is if you are in a crowd, and assuming there are a lot of people pushing by her, you can try to move her a bit by doing that lmfaooo

@@peregrine3400 omg that’s perfect!! Exactly!!

No

Yes

🧢 if the day goes to this comment

I feel that happens to me a lot, they’ll seem to be flirting but then aren’t actually interested and date someone else

Could be that he was interested, but someone was interested in them and they took the chance.

Can I ask sth? This dude glanced me time to time. I sometimes looked back and sometimes didn't. We have never talked each other lol. But we had many eye contacts. How can I know that someone has crush on me only with glances?

A tip is to not look at the eyes but look at the nose!

​@@Psych2go interesting...

@@Psych2go I think i have sozial anxiety and i cant look in nobodys eyes longer than 2 seconds. At the Moment i have a crush on a Girl and my trick is also to look her on her nose or mouth. If i tried to look direktly into her eyes it was so difficlut for me... The Problem of these flirting Tips are that she is a Introvert and I dont see her often because she says that she meets her friends only a few times a month...

@@KVMONFN Let us know how it goes!

@@Psych2go sure 😭 I'm so nervous

Rooting for you ^

​@@starbangles3252 Thank you! I didn't really expect people to actually read let alone reply to this lmao... But it's comforting to hear other people support me, so really, thank you again!

go get her, you can do it !

Make sure you never lose sight of the real goal, to improve yourself for yourself. Doing it for someone else or to get someone else can lead to a huge backfire if what you want in your heart of hearts doesn't pan out. I wish you luck on mastering your own heart ♥️

@@Kevinopilous TRUE, even though I'd like to be friends with her, she isn't the end all be all. There are many people in the world who can be just as great of a friend 💯

God this world sucks

I'm happy for you! 😊

I am autistic too. I find it very hard to flirt because it’s all about how the person responds to flirting. You have to be able to tell how the other person feels in response to flirting and, with autism, it’s so hard to tell how others are feeling. I’m afraid I’ll ruin any chance I have at finding a girlfriend just because I’m autistic.

I’m autistic too, I never really knew how to flirt the right way and so I’d observe too and just think that some ways of other girls doing it was a little weird. But a little playful teasing came naturally to me when teasing but I’d try to cut it back because I didn’t want to come as offensive to the person I was talking to. Like for example my boyfriend hates carrots and I’d tease him about that here and there but not too much and he also loves ketchup on most things so a lot of people actually tease him about that so I would too. But I agree with what you’re saying about the observation of how to flirt right. I observe like everything that other people to so that I can come around as “normal” and not weird from another dimension type of person if you know what I mean. I mask a lot and I got diagnosed with autism a couple years ago and like it all makes sense now how they say I’d act as a kid and the way I think differently than others and can relate so much with other fellow autistics. Also I tend to make paragraphs out of no where for some reason but can’t write and English paper the irony am I right.

I'm curious about the autism ! How this have the possibility to make you feel not aware of flirt or any responses of someone not only in the flirt situation?​@@baileyplayz1844

Yeah! Just express the way you would non-script wise to someone you love in ur own unique way if you want!:)) just do what comes natural to u!

@@ladyteebugluv Thanks for the reply! I guess I’m overthinking it and trying to be something I’m not. I don’t know what my unique way would be but I suppose the only way to find out is just do what comes natural like you say and try! Appreciate the advice.

Own that. I know it sounds cliche but make those strengths your weaknesses. Dont be afraid to tell that to strangers. Youll be surprised how many people relate and respect that you have the 🏀🏈 to actually speak what many try to hide out loud

I get it, none of these things are natural to me either and I find flirting very hard, except for joking and teasing, I can do that but it comes across as me just bring funny rather than flirting I think

Ahm, no. That's called hook up culture.

And you don't love yourself also

Such an empty meaningless statement. I can be no one else BUT myself.

Thank you for sharing! Great point about eye contact. I think the point you shared can be very helpful for people who may struggle with some of the more outgoing advice from the video. In your opinion, what other tips is great for people who struggle to make eye contact with others?

^^

What horrible advice!

Congrats!

Yo thats awesome

Congrats

didn’t ask

>Early stages >Long term ????? I pray for your downfall 🙏

Being yourself really does most of the work for you. Chances are you'll make them laugh or smile just being yourself. Intimacy imo is harder because you have to know exactly what your partner enjoys versus things they dislike. There are women who don't like when you overdo flirting. It's just a matter of preference i suppose. I've never dated anyone, but I've been so connected to someone that she literally doesn't mind anything I do because she wants to enjoy my company. It's pretty sweet once you click with somebody.

@@Danny328DT surely it's amazing once you connect, no doubt! I have a few girls I'm very close to, but nothing beyond cuddles and kisses on the cheeks, honestly that makes me super happy already. The problems for the rest are crippling gender dysphoria, not having nearly enough trust in my social skills (that I am trying to develop but I guess scars from all those bullying years and... various events in my life are still in effect) and... just being super shy maybe. It's not a bad thing just that in the conventional sense of dating people should be confident... I think😅 Though I know I can show a lot of love and care once I get close to someone, at least that helps a bit I guess

@SparkOfCorn It all starts with working on the confidence. For me I just stop letting people bother me. Everytime someone said I was being too weird, I just didn't care because I made my friend smile. I don't need to change for anybody if I care for myself. I hope you can find something that makes you happy to be yourself.

i would start by changing your pfp.🤣

​@SparkOfCorn I'm 100% with you there.

Gurl I wanna read this now if you are making this as a google doc could you click share and look at the 2nd column that says general access and you put anyone with link and link it here anyway this is just a request good luck with the story

Meee tooo!!

Hope your story turns out well! I wanna write too but somehow I know the ending and what happens but don’t know how to start-

@@01.618 Totally felt that! A tip I found helpful was to just jot ideas down. As long as you are writing something it will come together trust me! Even if you start from the middle. I have been polishing a story and changing it for over a year now and I am finally happy with it. It is absolutely nothing like how it first started! Good luck!!

@@simrahsyedda2222 I'm a guy, but yeah, I could leave a link to a rough draft of the story once it's done if ya want. :)

On the opposite end of the spectrum, her voice infuriates me to the point of me wanting to throw this brick through my computer screen very badly. Although I would never! such a waste.

@@sappireflames0009 Uhhmmm... Different people, diff pov

​@@sappireflames0009I have never seen someone have this opinion on this psych2go voice narrator goodness.. wonder why you feel that way

High five for the "I think I'm on the spectrum". 😶 All those attraction/flirt videos go on with step 1: Make eye contact. But that's just a one way ticket to a panic attack for me. I do notice when someone flirts with me, but I just freeze. Also the whole "touch" thing, it's incredible hard even when I'm 200% sure we both want to.

Very interesting point. It's always advisable to do what's natural instead of forcing yourself to do something. Do you have any experience with "smiling slowly" without meaning to and naturally?

@@Psych2go I'd rather smile and don't break eye contact. A slow smile can scare people away from looking at you. It's awfully intense. Not breaking eye contact has the same effect.

You don't have to be funny, especially because trying to force it never works out. Also I don't care if my partner is funny as long as they have a similar sense of humor.

Being funny is not easy as everybody perceives ''funny'' in a different way. Jokes are usually appreciated, but some might not find a joke funny others found hilarious. So I guess it's also about knowing and predicting the other person to decide how to really act.

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Definitely give her a light touch on the arm if you walk up to her and she doesn't see you coming. Be funny when you talk to her because your touch will mean more because it's followed up with humor.

@@NoName-zb1gm I'll be meeting up with her in-person very soon so I'll take that into account

​@@krashplays3211How did it go?

For chatting? That's hard because it can vary wildly per person... I like goofy and lighthearted girls for the most part. I love to joke around and be silly. I can't name anything specific, but if both like to talk to each other generally, that's the only thing you need to know. (If you make her happy it may just be a friend thing or not ready for something more but there's no other way either way lol, if you make someone happy then they want to see more of you) This probably doesn't help at all lol Whatever you do, though, be genuine. You don't want a girl that want something you're not. Yes people grow somewhat over time but that's not really how this works. If anything, it's more about showing her why "you" can be likeable, *NOT* to change _yourself_ to your perceived (her) interests. Find out what she likes by talking. A person can like a ton of things. If you're even remotely similar on anything at all, chances are you have at least one common hobby or experience that you (or her) genuinely wants to hear more about. Music? Concerts? What kind of genre? When? Festival? Studies? What? Ambitions? Interests? Experiences? Family fields of work? Creative? Made anything? How does she/do you do it? Simple? Teach? Sports? What? Where? Fan? My OCPD got the best of me, I forgot the question lol but I'll keep this regardless... Hmm Well I'd just keep it light hearted and with the occasional winks ;) Use humour (I'm almost incapable of flirting without humour :P) Vulnerability 🫣 Tease (this is the best of all if she likes it) Test the lines while trying to stay classy Maybe even say something outrageous and get away with it as satire/humour etc if the convo is already lighhearted (do *NOT* overdo it) However many of these can be difficult if you don't SEE each other If you don't then you kinda need to know many other things about her/him When I was a teenager, my crush was friend (we did not end up together) and she told me randomly without prompt that she seemed to be the only ones liking how her thong went up her crack lol. We did chat a lot but I can't be anything but generic because I've had so many different experiences. If you do sports you can drop subtle hints like being "soaked" after a session and such. Check if she likes to imagine it. I mean there's not straight answer to this. What do YOU want and what do SHE want and who are you... Others may be better at answering, I just wrote a ton because I can't be stopped once I get going 😂

@@krashplays3211 Oh I didn't check how long ago all of this was posted. Hey, regardless of how it went, you got to the point to meet up, that's great! ☺ Take everything at face value and follow the flow Two people are like two wavelengths and you most likely need time to adjust/synchronise , don't become overeager like I get sometimes (but not appearing uninterested either)

But you'll definitely find someone and think that he/she is better than you in flirting skills

Mmhmm

Underrated comment

Dangg can relate. Such a great thing when she actually does these to you as well... Now if only I didn't take forever in telling her about my feelings

This is really what I want to achieve but it feels so hard and I don't know what to do next. Basically I know two of my guy friends like me and I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose friendship with either of them

Sounds like you're both fans of Psycho2go...

@@ja4309 It took me a lot longer to realize what was right in front of me.

@@Luffy-su1ho I'm not sure she knows about them but I'm a big fan

The only one of these flirting tips that can be considered harassment is the touching, the rest can be seen as being friendly at worst, dosen't matter if you are ugly or not.

I'm pretty much in a similar situation with the being myself thing, as I feel I'm way too awkward to anywhere near a relationship, let alone a date. I'm also not the best looking, am autistic and in my early 30s with no dating experience and have only faced rejection. Being shy and introverted doesn't help me, either

@@FFRrox Tbh, some of the dating advice I got could be summarized as "Just be yourself! ...no, not like that." And all that "looks don't matter" isn't anything I can confirm. I've been told that so often, but never found any prove that this is more than people that wanting to be the case as if they want to think of themselves that way rather than actually working out in reality.

Tell that to Grigori Rasputin. That guy knew it was all about trying your hand as much as possible and being good at being mysterious and charismatic. You can be good looking and intimidate a lot of women too. The key is keeping it playful.

​@@FFRroxYou need to find some girl or girls you don't care much about to practice getting over your fear and awkwardness. Find your comfort zone and then branch out to more desirable targets. You can even do it online and get better at playing things along. A friend of mine was terrified of girls even when he knew they liked him and met his wife on a college site while in school just talking chit. She flirted back and he ended up going all in. They now have kids and have been married for over a decade. So make the most of your opportunities and build up your game. Experiment and figure out what works for you. Eventually you will get in a zone and it gets easier to do. Everyone is awkward when they start and I do mean everyone. Your thirties are a good time for that kind of thing too because it is when a lot of women leave a first marriage and re enter the dating world.

amen brother 🙏 dont let dem hoes fool you or bring you down 💪

KEEP COOKING 🗣️🔥

shut up

Very halal 🗣️🙏

Sigma grindset is the only grindset.

I don't see why someone would lie like that.

Okay

Ok

Hope you can get over it

How

don't do it since there is a high chance she will be doing the same

updateee

@@thevegancupid77I did ask her out last Sun nothing big just breakfast after church. It's on hold until our schedules align. We won't know each other's schedule until those sundays we see each other. I'm not in a rush I can wait for a few weeks. It gives her time to think about it and as time goes on wonder when I'm going to ask if she's free.

@@NoName-zb1gm Updateee

Glad you're staying in shape both physically and mentally! 🏋️‍♂️

@SparkOfCorn lmaoo

yall upvoting chatGPT

Me too!! 👍👍

Sigma

this scares me

@@nkem3524 why?

@@Pault3788 u went that long without being attracted to people and now ur old. I’m 16 and have hella social anxiety so my fear is i’ll never find someone for me because i’m too awkward

@@nkem3524 I have social anxiety, which led me to being a loner,I got used to it after many years

FR

Haha 😂 there is a lot of truth in that.

Perhaps just to be prepared in case you should have one.

No. Honestly if you want to learn some good ways to know if she’s interested or not just check for signs of attraction. Going for touching is only done once you have confirmed she’s into you.

you can touch her in such a way that she doesn't necessarily know why you did it. like it was by mistake and so you can see what reaction she has.

From experience, if you think that both of you feel comfortable around each other, small touches are fine

I think if you do the other kinds of flirting first, and she seems to like that and flirts back, these short, incidentally touches are kind of nice. And see how she reacts before you touch her longer or more intentional. Then you'll be fine ^^

Also of course just touch unproblematic areas of her body, nothing that is usually sexualized 😅

Did she do it or you

I did, but just at the beginning. It was subtle, but effective@@blankslate8002

ayy same here !

Thank you so much for your kind words! We're so glad that this video was helpful for you. Which part of the video did you find helpful?

@@Psych2go I really appreciate the glancing tip because I’ve noticed someone doing that repeatedly and have been confused. And the joke one, I’ve noticed they crack jokes near me more often than usual.

Still, there’s a clear difference between doing it because you’re tired/taking off a loose piece of skin and doing it flirtatiously

@@30_fps53 Im aware, was a joke

Real