It's hard out here. Thanks for filling the knowledge gaps because sometimes I just get weak, wondering if something is wrong me, but then I watch this and it reveals so much.
Thinking about this list makes me wonder whether the INFJ isn't one of the best potential matches for another INFJ. It seems like while most personality types seem benefit from a complement, INFJs really seem to be seeking the consonance that comes from being with another person like them.
#6 Yes but I’m not going to mother him and do all the Se and Te work so he can daydream about existentialism all day and can’t go to the grocery store and find some lighthearted value in mundane life tasks. I don’t want to live with a child. Who needs me to reassure him about everything before he does it. I need to rely on HIS confidence to come up with a plan, complete tasks, stay motivated, healthy and have organization in his life so our home and life doesn’t fall apart. In case I can’t one day. I don’t care if it’s a social performance. I need safety and reliability too.
