7 Things Men Do To Ruin Their Lives | The Bedros Keuilian Show E023 

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Timothy 2:12 - look it up

@@BedrosKeuilian yes sir, the word you’re speaking is in manner the exact things I speak with others about daily. I appreciate your content, and I hope that your channel does nothing but grow in a large scale so more people can be impacted in a positive way.

Nah, it's just a grift. You see this in a huge percentage of "social media" personalities. They hire a team to work a system to get up in algorithms and do professional production. There is absolutely nothing new being said here that hasn't been said countless times by figures in the mansophere many years ago. Furthermore, it is a dead giveaway when you get these immigrant figures that start out as criminals, like he describes himself here, then "reinvent" themselves to become "wildly successful" by doing basically...entertainment. Translation; the small hat entertainment complex is always looking for the next "degenerate gone good' to promote and have them dance around and sell false hope to the average, working class Westerner while the same small hats debase and loot your country. It's kinda like Snoop Dogg and dozens of other "rappers". If they are ruthlessness enough and make the right connections, they can get out of the dope game and become "entertainers".

@@PROJECT-AMBITION 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Tnx bro

Thanks ❤

Good looking

I slightly disagree with #1. Women change (even though men desire they stay the same from the first date). And, because of hypergamy: she just might want to leave her current situation, because she thinks* the grass is greener on the other side (ex: Larsa Pippen).

I can attest to that!!

Same. Left my group of friends because I saw it destroying them

True indeed

I don’t drink because I have severe hangover reactions (kindling from over a decade of low dose anti anxiety meds) It’s nice and all but being able to enjoy a few drinks once in a while is nice - some of the most fun I’ve ever had was with a nice buzz on a nice day/night

I smoke herb but I feel I have lost a lot on it and gained nothing. I hope I can stop and level up my life too

Maya! Welcome to the tribe! I love hearing that. Keep evolving

Wyd

19 year old female also here!

That is awesome Maya! Refreshing to hear the younger generation like yourself have a good head on tour shoulders. It shows we have hope for the future! Keep it up.

Haha 😂😂 I’m 51 years old in 22 days with 8 kids ages 18 down to 4. My wife and I have 5 boys and 3 girls. And I just think it’s absolutely incredible that there are young people here intelligent enough to recognize this great 👍🏻 life advice very early on!!! Incredible!!

So inspiring to hear bro. Keep up the good work.

Hey if ever you have a bad day message me. I mean that !

Keep it up bro. There's no tequila or vape that's better then your best self. You didn't lose tequila and lose vape. You gained a healthier life to live longer for yourself and the people that love you. The people that know you that have the same issues you became an inspiration to them to do the same. Great job 👏 👍

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Animal! keep going @rockdiesel

Much love brother thank you for the wise words

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Great words, great outlook. 👌🏻👍🏻

must be nice to have had that life, im a 42 year old male child support slave with no born American freedom! meaning, i have yet to own a passport, good credit, fishing/hunting/drivers/recreational license's, tax refunds, bank accounts, house, care, boat, personal property, because still today i owe $24k on child support. The sexist female judge still manipulated me when i was 20 and forced me to pay child support, regardless of MY DAUGHTER MOTHER taking the condom out of trash, placing the semen/sperm up in her and got pregnant. MY daughter is now 19 lives' in Missouri, but her whole life, she was dragged everywhere in the states here in Kansas, Missouri and Arkansas, Moving from place to place to place to place, shelters, homelessness, using/abusing people, and it was my daughter, her mom grandmother and 2 uncles, basically a herd , sigh I DON'T SMOKE, NO DRUGS, CLEAN BACKGROUND, had my own place at one time, and they take off all them years, again for financial selfish gain, financial sympathy you want to know what my daughters mom excuses were? lmao "I WAS DRUGGED OUT OF A VAN, PEOPLE ARE EVIL, THE SYSTEM LET ME DOWN, I WAS RAPED, GUYS ARE AFTER ME AND WANT TO KILL ME, ON AND ON AND ON, " TALK ABOUT PSYCHO. but yet, the courts continued my daughter to be in their custody, AGAIN, DOESN'T CARE ABOUT THE BEST INTEREST OF CHILD The child support why is it $24k? well, over the last 20 years, you can't rely on people to get you to work, you can't get home because of your credit and you can't get credit because of child support, i can't get a car because of child support so i have to rely and hope someone will help me, and times, cities didn't have buses etc. Legit lay offs, CHILD SUPPORT IS A 3RD PARTY CIVIL, AGAIN THAT'S CIVIL VOLUNTEER ASSISTANCE PROGRAM SCAM PLAIN AND SIMPLE, THE SO CALLED *COURTS" ISN'T THERE FOR THE INTEREST OF THE CHILD, THAT'S WHY THEY FLY THROUGH THE DOCKETS SO FAST . 3rd party contract breakdown= government gives funds to every state in usa, the states give it to the "CSEA" - Child Support Enforcement Agency , then CSEA give the funds to the parent applying for aid (food, insurance etc) , requests DNA test to find the parent that'll be giving up their financial freedom and manipulate her/him and forced to give up their freedom. thank god i didn't marry my daughter mom but point is, i live in the capital of Kansas, and i hung out downtown a lot of traffic, and asking for people for help even to work, for this cash, money orders only made out to Kansas Payment Center, i included the case number and all info needed on a similar business card, and guess what folks? NOBODY GAVE A DAMN TO HELP ME! yet, they'd be eager to give the homeless money, down the block. AND I ASKED FOR MONEY ORDERS MADE OUT TO KPC AND THAT PERSON HELPING CAN MAIL IT OFF! sigh sick world

Thanks for the valuable words

Not always - but it is nice to hear that it has worked for you as an individual.

First time reading a comment about divorce with a good ending👌

I understand this is random internet advice… Find and attend a local AA meeting, if you want to stop drinking - it’ll change your life! Good luck brother!

I hope you’re sticking to your plan. You got this 💪🏻

Check in for accountability sir

I appreciate that 🙏🏼

Is that me lol 😂 I

Joined one of your gyms today. Just took a new job and couldn’t believe there was one literally a mile down the road. Rated 5 🌟. 💪

@@gedwardnelson dude that’s awesome! Show up like a champ!!

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What if you don't know your core purpose or what you're meant to be doing? I have been doing things to help myself grow like improving my finances, my fitness, I read non-fiction books on bettering myself. I just don't know my true purpose or what I'm meant to do....what I'm suppose to be doing with my life.

That's crazy I'm also 32 and just had a similar experience. I agree his first 4 points really hit home having dealt with those situations. Equipped with this new perspective I'm excited to see the man I'll be by 35-40. Good luck in your journey bro! 🫡 Also just subscribed lol Subscribed.

That's crazy! I'm not 32. Lol. In seriousness, if you look at it a certain way, you got a huge headstart than many older dudes.

I'm 32. I have almost everything most people could want. I have my own business, a very nice house in a gated community, I make good money. But I'm a hell lot more talented in what I do then what shows. I'm just getting by and I started to feel like I'm playing with my life. The past is the psst there's nothing I can do about it except learn from it. I got some great advice the other day not sure if it will help. But a family member said I just need to make a 2mm change. It was something I needed to hear because I kept feeling like I needed to start all over and rewire everything. The small changes will reap big results. I say it to say your closer to your goals then you know. Use that as encouragement.

@@truthistruth4186way to humble brag and make it about yourself bro!

Damn I think you know me personally because I'm in the exact same boat but remember it takes 2 bro

Bro check, how's it going so far?

I hope you’ve pulled yourself together and become a man

How are you doing bro? Not to put any pressure on you but have you made some changes?

@@Lockthoselips10 I'm trying bro

Thank you sir

Good for you! Proud of you!

what bourgeoisie bullshit 😂

Thank you! Keep crushing mama bear!

Didn’t ruin your life though man you’re still here which means you can improve 💪🏾

God bless you and may he continue healing you, brother.

Hell yes Buddy!!! Keep up with that Awesomeness!!!

Respect man. We use the brotherhood as a “father figure”.

I know it may feel like you've fallen behind, just starting to shape things up but you're years ahead of so many, just the fact that you've managed to have self realisations and awareness. So many sleep right through it. I've done what you did in my late 20s I've now retired before I've hit my 40. When you put your energy and focus on the things you really need and let go of all the bs distractions, you'll be surprised just how far you can take it. Don't be afraid to take on, or dismiss, the opportunities that will present themselves either, once you get out of that slumber and you're on your way up, you will see them but will doubt yourself...

Good job! Keep it up. I’m almost 40 and in the process of cutting down. I was drinking anywhere from 10-15 shots of Fireball from the time I woke up til the time I went to bed, plus 4-5 beers, daily for the last 18 months to 2 years. Probably been an alcoholic for 5 years where I drank nightly but not as much. I haven’t had a shot of liquor in 8 days. I’ve been waiting till late at night to have 2-4 beers. Which is a big step but I realize it’s still bad. I would like to be able to enjoy a few beers on occasion in the future but I will most likely need to quit for several years before that’s a viable option. I know I can do it..I kicked heroin/methadone 12 years ago “cold turkey” after being an addict for almost 10 years. Sorry for the rant. It’s just easier typing to a stranger than saying it out loud (which I have done with a couple friends)

​@@anthonyesposito9953 It's good for others too see ❤ I hope you're doing good god bless you!

AHHHHH! stop it you are gonna make me cry.....

2 month check-in. How's it going bro?

Likewise brother! 🚀

You nailed it!

Reminds me of asking this one question for everything. "Is this essential?" helps figure out what you need and stuff you should get rid of.

I love hearing that!

I'm 51 now, and a lot of things on this list have ruined my enjoyment of life and growth as well. If only we had something like this 30 years ago... Right when we're just getting out there, being stupid and still not knowing anything about "life". I would gladly change the way things turned out, knowing now what I did not know back then. Hindsight is always 20/20. Especially when you get older.

Young men don't take advice they do what they want.

This is true. I've been away from that mind set for so many years, I forgot about that.

Get out of that trench. That fox hole holds nothing but death. Forward movement means life.

That is awesome! Keep doing the SelfWork brother!

Same here bro just turning 28 next month and feel like life has taken over my life with shitty decisions I've made over the years.

Same

Timothy 2:12 - look it up

Recognition of the problem and researching ways to change is the biggest step! You can do anything you set your mind to man (in the words of Eminem)

I think a reasonable percentage of investments fail. For me, any strategy must start by looking at sentiment and opportunities in opposite directions. Being conversant with the Investment market is critical to successfully mastering the market and with a professional guiding me, I rarely fail.

I have been investing for almost two years & I barely even have a profitable portfolio. Ever since I got in, every Investment I've placed has slapped me in the face lol. I read your comment & I was wondering, please can you name your professional Investor? Who helps you with your Investments?

I'm quite grateful for this advice. It was simple to find your expert Joseph Suvillian Anderson online using his full name, and I was really pleased with the thorough background check I completed on him before making a contact. He's obviously very knowledgeable and experienced, and I'm thrilled to get the opportunity to speak with him.

The psychological effect of Investing is real. I ventured into the market as an extra source of income but the truth is all I've done is incure minor losses. So I feel you should be grateful that you have someone who assists, advises and helps you achieve positive results off the Investment markets

Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing Joseph Sullivan Anderson been mentioned here also. Didn’t know he has been good to so many people.

Dude!!! Congrats! Stay on that path

If you made a 360 then you doing the exact same thing :)

@@prasad530 should probably fix that to 180 lol

I've been in UX/UI for 10yrs mostly in SaaS for large companies and web design/dev for 10yrs before that, Inc 5yrs as owner of web agency with staff b4 I got burnt out and went back to working 4 the man. Tell me how do you get so good at it you don't have to rely on paycheck from a big company? What can you do with UX/UI other than getting a paycheck? I've been stuck in career path doing 9-5 supporting wife and kids, and have no passion for it at all.😊

@@mmmmmmmmmmm10 Hey man Bedros has a video called finding your purpose. That's the video that helped me the most. I encourage to watch and really reflect on it. But if anything does come up with Ui/Ux I'll be sure to keep in touch. Stay strong and keep growing!

I don't hear about the Azores often. My friend Matt's grandma emigrated from there to NJ after WW2.

That is awesome! Welcome to the tribe brother!

Hahahahahahah

I hope success and happinness for you my brother

so true, as men we have so many obstacles and traps we must overcome to be successful honest and happy men.

So so true. As a woman who has been with a man who has made and learned from many mistakes, it is so important to support and help men know their worth and that they are able to better themselves and be better/ more. Thank u Bedros!

Good stuff!👊🏼

Good man! Find your brotherhood

I had a pack.. but one hung himself unexpectedly, closest one moved to a different state hours away to marry a gal that is great, but has a previous child with her ex husband so moving away so the ex can have partial custody of the child has him stuck there (we talk every week atleast, and he visits a few times a year), the other friend has so many vices I can't hang out with him unless he's doing tattoo work for me, and the only other guy has become successful doing body work, but he is a regular drinker and smokes a lot of pot, two things I've given up (besides the occasional slip up, need to work on that) I'd like to find people to do group rides with motorcycling.. but realized I don't like group rides, I enjoy riding alone. Trying to find some shooting buddies, but options on decent ranges are limited and the two friends left here either can't afford range time or see it as a waste of money. Plus having children makes it a lot harder. We plan on relocating somewhere warmer due to me and my wife's seasonal depression due to cold Midwest winters. Looks like I will have to find a new group to call my pack soon. Gonna be rough.

Bingo! How you frame things matter

@Generic Name everything is easier said than done, that doesn’t take away its value.

The lone wolf thrives.

@@AndI0td763 this has never been and never will be the case

@@BoxOfCurryos It depends what you define as a lone wolf but many great thinkers and achievers have thrived in solitude. You don’t really need a group or close friends but everyone should certainly have some friends and family to rely on and be close to. Then I guess that wouldn’t be a true lone wolf, but few are.

People tend to underestimate the lone wolf. The lone wolf is actually the greater animal between itself and the alpha wolf of the pack. The lone wolf can lead a pack but doesn't need a pack.

Dont give up my friend,take it easy.

@@RedaReda-vl9ff thank you, yes, I am moving forward every day :-)

Thanks for listening brother

Glad you enjoyed it!

Good man!

Dont give up my friend,you will be alright,keep moving forward,have a really nice day.

I appreciate that 👊🏼

Sometimes, Islands come in groups.

Yes brother realize we are still so young but not as young as we were at 20-25. Now’s they time to put in the work

Yesterday is over brother. Everyday is a new start to be the person you want to be. Keep pushing forward and that will only be a short chapter in your life that you will once be soo far ahead of you won't even remember that person anymore. Create that new you that you want go be. You need the WILL. That's all.

The 27 club all coming off the sauce together! I get fucking AMPED to see people of our year all getting clean at the same time unknowingly all together it seems, like an awakening. Makes my heart happy and excited for all of our individual futures. God speed brother!💪🏽👏🏼

I need to hear more , how can I get in touch

@@josephmusyimi1570 mail him a selfie of u doing duck lip in your bathroom

Wow, thank you 🙏🏼

I went to a Leafs game last night. They were playing the Florida Panthers. Before the end of the first period I went to use the washroom. I ended up taking a shit. It was the very first time I had ever taken a shit while attending a live hockey game. Oddly enough, I felt fulfilled.

@@schmingusss Fulfilled by being unfilled. Now that's a good way to think about it 😂

@@crack1666 I feel honoured to have received a response by someone who goes by the name Turd. Everything is as it should be.

@@schmingusss I need to become a famous RU-vidr simply just to make "Turd McGee" a household name. My channel would probably be better than 99.99% of what my 6 year old watches. Which isn't setting the bar very high

Thank you! 🙏🏼

I appreciate that 🙏🏼👊🏼

@@BedrosKeuilian keep ‘em coming 💯👏🏼

He's a grifter, you don't need someone to twll you you're great, you were already a good person probably, if you feel the need for validation then guys like this will find ways to profit off of you

@@bobjenson4950 I don’t need somebody to tell me I’m great, I never even said I was because I’m not, I have a lot to work on myself & he’s just there as a motivational speaker & that’s how I take it. I haven’t spent any money and he hasn’t done any negative in my life so I can’t say he’s a “grifter.” Why is it that you call him that? You have any evidence? I would be happy to hear you out.

@@Amek909 *yet.

what foreign country was that?

China

I stopped being lonely after having 'acquired' many and realizing after running into older friends that I'd fallen out of touch with that, 'I really don't want this person around me' After that you don't feel like you're missing out. Very rare to find a good friend nowadays that's right there with you and for each other.

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Thank you! 🙏🏼

Good man! Build your band of brothers

Hahahahaha, lone wolf on an island? Wtf? Go out and meet people, talk to people, enjoy life, you aren't some crazy alpha wolf if you can't go out and just meet guys and need this kid to tell you how to live. He'll go to the geek shop and pick up dnd as a hobby, just talk to people. Lone wolf.... hahaah

Yes this is hard. Working on that too. Things to consider: Join boxing/jiu jitsu/ muay thai. Golf membership/yacht club/sport car club Read The way of men by Jack Donovan

Bob your response is unhelpful af. The Duce said he wanted to find a tribe of likeminded ppl but the men around him aren’t that way. He’s got a whole damn family finding a tribe is not easy with a wife and kids who should be a higher priority

@@bobjenson4950He never said he was an Alpha wolf. He has trouble finding like-minded people and when he does try it never sticks. You also added that he goes and tries out a DND group which 99% of the time comprises of fucking losers. What kind of six figure solo business owner with a wife and two kids wants to stick with a bunch of low-life geeks. Pay attention to someone’s context before you write dumb comments.

No we don’t. We need modest quiet submissive women paired with real men