7 Things Narcissists Do When They're Alone 

True! I guess that can fall under the ''scheming'' category

Yup, my mother did that before I went no contact.

I dono if either of mine did that or not my mom maybe my husband I’m not sure but I feel I fell into doing that often bc I was always trying to sort what was real or true from all the lies I was told constantly 🤦🏽‍♀️

@@thelight1385 Likely just because they get off on the power rush in the moment, and/or feel paranoid... either they realise the use of that data later or even engage in truly machiavellian manipulative behavior in the first place. Depends on their personality. And It's very creepy and unhealthy either way. Be careful and take care of yourself

Yes they do r😅amble through your stuff for fuel for future arguements and make up some stupid story then say you are a great story teller - wtf

Yes and raise issues they had with you years ago, decades but never raised with you at the time.

Omg you couldn’t be MORE CORRECT. My mil talks about stuff when she was a kid, she’s 74! She talks behind everyone’s back, trashed everyone, even the family members she leeches off of. They’re all aholes but her sibs provide for her. I have cut her off. She’s entitled, lazy, always the victim, fake, a huge liar and will never admit she’s wrong or apologize. I’m done. Poor husband hasn’t hit the wall yet. He’s starting to see things because she made a mistake and came for me. She has abused him his whole life, he’s used to it, but she crossed a line with his wife, me, I’m hoping he realizes sooner than later.

Take them up on those grudges and never speak to them ever again 😂

A Stepmother Narcissist will damage or destroy her husband's first family. Destroying relationships is they're specialty-pure fkn evil 👿

@@Rabswood296 That's every woman I've ever been in a relationship with.

Wouldn’t u like someone to enjoy what life brings?? I caught a big bass once by myself. Nobody to share the experience with. So empty a feeling. 🥲🍼🍔

@Mister8Music 😆😃. You got THAT right. 😄 I listen to the stories shared with Richard Cooper on The Unplugged Alfa. I feel for men in the dating pool. I understand. I empathize.

I love being single & alone...I will never be married or may nevrt date again.

Thank you.😮

Did you get my message and or question?😮

Almost nobody does any serious self reflection and this probably includes you. When was the last time you ever seriously analyzed your own beliefs and values and how you might be wrong about them

⁠​⁠@@carsonlantz6293bro i did that like 3 days ago most ppl do it 🥴

​@@carsonlantz6293 speak for yourself. You're in the minority if you don't self-reflect your own behavior, it's affect on those around you, and how to improve yourself and be a better person. Normal people do this st sone level every day. Narcissists are incapable of such positive and self-caring and improving behavior.

@@joshuamacer777 I sure see a lot of arrogant opinions and not a whole lot of personality and value changes from people for that to be the case. Like for example people who think they can psychoanalyze everyone around them and judge their value as human beings because of youtube videos.

100%

That actually sounds like fun.

How could someone know that.

Sorry, it must be a ruff life.

Their name is actually Stewart

@@archietheracehorsesounds like a no life bum that needs something more productive to do with their time.

I hate her her now fr

Well said. 👍

It's happening to me now😢

No, the worst is a malignant narcissist, which is a covert combined with sociopathy...sadism and cruelty beyond words. Very sick individuals, and they make their victims suffer endlessly.

Mine was telling friends that I was gay! Fantasy land inside her brain

I always thought that was Catholicism, my mother is both.

Virtue signalling.

Oh my gosh! My narcissistic sibling does that constantly to hide her true colors. Oh and for the record. I HATE HER GUTTS!

@@Julie-ti5yv Catholicism is a perversion of God's word in the Bible but there are many truly repentant, God fearing ppl in the CC. My invert narc mother used the church as a cover for her crimes. I believe the spiritual war on this earth Paul describes in Ephesians 6 is manifested via demon possessed humans, ie narcissists. God bless you.

thats the way Jesus said not to do it..

It's a full time career chasing false ego validation. A lifetime of illusion and despair oozing toxicity. What a life?

@anth-nyl Very interesting. Are you narcissistic too? With due respect.

@anth-nyl Nothing about this video should make you insecure in yourself if you take a moment to differentiate between NPD and being narcissistic to a normal degree. Everyone is narcissistic or ego, without it we wouldnt survive as a species as we have done, let alone conquered the world. That doesnt make this video dumb, you just gotta watch it with the right amount of understanding of what actually is being said. If you're a normal person, then doing these things the way normal people do, with normal people's intensity and motive is totally fine. Having NPD is different from being a normal level narcissist/egocentric.

@@Bibleinformationandhelp The victims of narcissists are the ones living in true hell. I lived with a female covert narcissist, Im still damaged after 6 years of being free. She? Living a good life with a high education, good salary and a new partner since a few years. She might not be fully happy, but what she and her kind do to others is 10 times as harmful as to what they do to themselves.

What drains a narc's target energizes the narc.

​@anth-nyl We shouldn't have to walk on egg shells around either type of person.

@anth-nyl Are you saying many narracists aren't insecure?

Wonderful!!!

​@@Bibleinformationandhelp Certainly people with this personality disorder are profoundly "insecure". But a Narcissist & a Covert Narcissist will NEVER reveal the slightest indication of their insecurities. May God help the person who exposes them. The inexperienced & unaware will always become entangled in their malicious & sadistic web. Respectfully, Ben

I'd say to all of them. 😅

Me to

Me too

Hope you healed, its a long journey ❤

Amen!

You and me both!!!!!!

And they do 😂😂😂

~ENERGY, ENERGY, ENERGY..

Like you did?

Like the little boy by the pool with his water wings on saying mom..mom..mom..mom..watch me..mom....

CONTROL. CONTROL. CONTROL😅😅

thanks for posting the list. the video is a bit long-winded and repetitive. Why are there 2 number 7's tho?

1 masturbation

I was just about to comment exactly what you already have here. Spot on. Our stories are almost all 100% alike. We know.

Juvenile or no sense of humor… narcissistic people are never really funny people; just noxious.

@anth-nyl 7 things someone does to convince others that someone is a "narcissist"..... 1. Manipulate 2. Brainwash 3. Rebuttals 4. Manipulate 5. Brainwash 6. Rebuttals 7. Repeat

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Excessive anything... In my case, it's courses! Or rather in my wife's case... Every day of the week, including the weekend. She works and earns money, and then spends it all, on herself! Photography, painting, sewing, self-defence, swimming, aerobics, astronomy... The list is endless... And there are probably many, many others, I have no idea she attended... Oh, did I mention languages? Japanese, Chinese, Spanish... After she pays for all of the above, there is no money left for her to chip in to our monthly bills... The electricity bill, the gas bill, the water bill, the school of our kids. I have to pay for all of it... Because she only thinks of her needs. I do not count. The kids don't count. I have never heard of a course addiction... But my wife certainly has one! But there is a positive to all this... :) She is at home, less. She only comes home, to sleep. It's enough for me to avoid her in the morning, before she goes off somewhere... and then again, in the evening... And if we do not talk to each other, we fight less... Yes, sometimes she comes and attacks me out of the blue, but it's not every day. There ARE quiet days... Peaceful days. Days, when we do not fight... all thanks to her courses. :) Or maybe she has a boyfriend somewhere? Or a girlfriend? It doesn't matter if it's courses or friends... As long as she is out, and not hurting me.

@MS-yf9dw I hear you. My ex would enroll do this from time to time. It would have been more useful for her to get a job, but she was too lazy, unreliable and selfish. I understand your appreciation of the peace, and to avoid seeing her. Eventually you will probably ask yourself why you put up with it. My ex just took, never gave me anything, I came to thinking I deserve more. Even though I'm single now, I'm not being used and drained by her total inconsiderate nature. They are incapable of loving supportive loyal relationships.

This is spot on

​@@MS-yf9dwyou really need to be more supportive of your wife.

Not true they had plenty of opportunities to change but kept lying and playing victim because it made their lives “easier” and saw no reason to change. Plenty of people have gone thru childhood traumas and it didn’t let it get to them and made a better person of themselves. Saying what you said is enabling them and in fact letting them get away with it, therefore making the narc think it’s okay to keep doing what they are doing.

Mean toddler in a grown up body is an excellent summation, as one of their traits is “low emotional intelligence.”

Disagree. It’s sad that they choose to remain immature instead of taking on the painful challenges of adulthood. It’s humbling to say “I was wrong - I’m sorry and it won’t happen again”, but we grow from it. The narcissist refuses.

OMG, SOOO MEAN!

@@debracline912 They sure are. 😢

I know what you mean when I was just realizing that my ex was a narcissist I had never seen anything like it before. Everything in her entire life was always someone else’s fault and she was convinced her parents and her own children somehow had some pact to try and break her mentally. It was unreal to witness how much animosity and hatred she had for her whole family and called all of her friends energy vampires that only wanted to use her to somehow better themselves. Not only she never own up to anything that she done in our relationship she tried to recreate my reality saying she was the only reason I had anything and had a great job, great relationship with my son and family. It didn’t matter what I would say because she tried manipulating me and tell me that my son hated and and she had to talk to him to save the bond we had. When I left I not only not know if anything that we ever shared was real, but I hated myself on some level because I started thinking I was going crazy and she was yelling the truth. She destroyed every momento from past relationships and from my childhood, including any photographs she could find. In the end she had multiple affairs that I was able to discover and had evidence and she acted like I was fabricating it to hide my guilt for not being the person I was in the beginning. I have no clue how many guys it was but she showed no remorse and even acted amused that I was upset. I lost personal items that can’t ever be replicated and over $20,000 in debt from her falsifying my identity and called my parents to tell them I was beating her and addicted to drugs. I went into isolation for almost 2 years and just became a mindless drone that just went to work and paid bills I couldn’t make eye contact with anyone.

Yes they are master manipulators but I didn't think they needed to actually think about it. I thought it was like a reflex. I just can't imagine sitting there consciously planning how to manipulate people. The covert narc I knew was controlling everything and everyone all the time. How exhausting.

💯% Accurate ✔️

Farting helps too

LOLLOL LOL I really needed a laugh. Thanks for that.@@matthewishunting

I ignore them to protect my sanity and pray for them from a distance. I know they're on a spectrum. But, some of them are really wicked and extremely dangerous. People have lost their lives trying to live, interact and remain in relationship with them. NO CONTACT is my go to!!!

You're honestly evil

Or in quietness!!

Yes they do, they’re always looking for somewhere to go where they’ll get company, they don’t care if they push themselves on people either.. so selfish, all about them.

@user-kf3yz7so6q that's for sure! They push themselves on people...too much!

I love being alone and I don't particularly like going out. People annoy me.

@@lex_hayesare you a narcissist?

Very dangerous indeed

​@@keirmathur8623 THANKS for your succinct & accurate reply. 🙂 Please allow me to explain my experience. I was unwittingly, expertly & cunningly seduced into a relationship with a sincerely evil, Covert Narcissist. It lasted for 7 torturous years. To "physically" escape this woman, I am now literally on the other side of the planet from her. She remains in Turkey & I'm now living in Mexico. Emotionally, she's still too near. Never-the-less, research indicates a disturbingly high percentage of their "victims" see their only means of escape as suicide. So, I count myself fortunate. Because during the last year or two of our tumultuous relationship, I considered suicide as an "escape" option as well. We worked together in the same school. So, it was impossible to avoid her. This horrible experience left me with (professionally diagnosed) PTSD. After these past 4 years, I am finally recovering & feeling my PTSD symptoms are fading. Even-so, the emotional scars remain & trusting "humans" will never be easy for me. Interestingly, Narcissism & Covert Narcissism are two psychological disorders that psychiatrists may attempt to treat...BUT...they rarely...if ever...achieve any success with these patients. Mainly because when the "treatment sessions" begin to access the cause(s) for either of these 2 personality disorders, the patient will inevitably become overly defensive, verbally abusive, etc. to the doctor//psychiatrist. The Narcissist Patient will eventually stop coming to their therapy sessions & terminate treatment. Basically, people diagnosed with these 2 personality disorders are considered incurable. Before this experience, I had never heard of Covert Narcissism. I'm certainly not an expert on these disorders. But after several years of research & speaking to more than a few psychiatrists on the subjects, I believe I could teach a university-level class on these personality disorders. 🙂 Additionally, no known medication has shown any positive effect on a person diagnosed with these personality disorders. Certainly not Covert Narcissism. BTW: Polygraph//lie detector examiners resist testing Narcissists. Because of their exceptional ability to lie without displaying any "detectable" biological & nervous system anomalies. Clearly, my research & my growing understanding of these personality disorders have been directly beneficial to my recovery & overcoming my PTSD. If you are recovering from an experience with a Narcissist or Covert Narcissist, I wish you great success. Also, I will make myself available to you if you have any questions, etc. Best regards from Yucatan Mexico. Ben

Do you mean what the covert narc does when alone? If not, there are loads of covert narc videos by Lise, under her videos. They helped me understand my ex wife a lot. And understand myself.

Not a psychological disorder...its behavioral

Married and divorcing one. Devious miscreants

My narc ex- husband said same thing. I couldn't live like that. You are spot on!! They do have that narcissist ex in the background. Mine did, talking to her behind my back about OUR MARITAL ISSUES or issues with me. Nobody from his inner circle had liked her since they performed in a band for a long time. They liked me, but they thought the relationship was going to fast. He was, but I needed more time to peep him out. I was the woman he needed but not the one he wanted. He could have gone far with his music career due to my singing talent but he wanted his cake and eat it too and I was not tolerating his adultery, put downs, violent nature, disrespect and neglectful behavior. He knows where his life is headed. He told me and he doesn't care. The universe brought me as a warning and a blessing. He rejected it.

100 on that

my mom is the same

I have one of these 😢❤

Much of that stems from the now largely-obsolete (thank God) "Authoritarian parenting style". The AP style of parenting largely runs on the ridiculous notion of that they "can't be wrong" or challenged (ever).

I understand that one! Been there done that!

Narcissism is just broken human disorder. It's a byproduct of something much more common than we like to believe. We are all narcissists in our own way. Only Jesus Christ isn't. Those on the path of repentance are trying.

This is good and true. While I've researched this and I was worried I was a narcissist, I found only SOME notes about this. But the VICTIM of a narcissist (or multiple ones) can get so low in confidence, they wonder if it really is them. Because lots of things in articles about narcissists talk about the "victim" strategy of a vulnerable/covert narcissist. It can look a lot like a REAL VICTIM of one.

They never reflect about being wrong😂

No. If you ask them if they think they're a narcissist they'll confirm it. There's many vids by psychologists on YT confirming it.

The one in my life told me from the start, unfortunately at the time I didn't know the meaning of the word.😢

What I said when they were projecting their behavior onto me. They always want total control.

In Gods eyes we are all sinners and need to believe in Jesus and His redeeming work on the cross for salvation from an eternal fallen world. But narcissists are NOT able to believe in their heart . They are deeply entangled in the fear operating system of the demonic realm (the enemy in the bible) Lucifers main 2 fruits are PRIDE and Jealousy but also greed, deceit etc. Its the enemy in the bible. Please get saved because it tells us clearly there is one way to heaven and ONE only. It has been shown to me supernaturally its 100pc accurate.John 3:3 Romans 10:9-11

Yeah, unless they see it themselves and wanna change you're better of just running for the hills. Sad but true.

They are not tormented internally; they get off on screwing with other people without conscience.

@@ArtemisSilverBow yes they are. I've seen it firsthand. Everything they do, all the awful stuff, is ultimately a mask and a cover to avoid facing it.

My ex was to, and you can’t fix them she was a narc on a serious level and was delusional about it. They will always have a need for a new rush and excitement feeling with supply which is why they jump in and out of relationships and sabotage things that can work for them because they need that fresh feeling of new supply.

My ex , yea the same, she wanted my help, you could see it in her eyes, like a trapped animal, but that Demon inside wouldn't let her go, they hide & protect it , it's the Devil sitting on thier shoulder, it's rare they can be saved, but they do want it , these people are truly possessed , usually by something that happened when young , don't waste your time, it won't work

They know what they are doing. They know when they hurt others.

​@JoTurner-fg8bx That's the thing. They do know, but they feed off of hurting others. Like a creature off a movie. If they don't "feed" that supply they lose. And to a narcissist losing is not an option.

They know they are harming others, but lack the empathy to care about that. Their needs and wants are all they care about.😢

My father is a 95 year old narcissist. I only stick around because of my lovely mother. They never change their narcissistic ways, in fact, they get worse as they age.

Narcs are exhausting

My soon to be ex-husband did this same thing.

Maybe she didn't feel appreciated, and didn't think you noticed that she was trying to do her best. That doesn't sound like a major crime.

@@olympics1234567 Fair enough to assume that might have been the case, but I can assure you it wasn't. She would do it to our children after we separated and she had her own apartment. The kids brought it to my attention. She would use it against them to belittle them and make them feel worthless too.

@@lannybackes1053 I'm a little confused, could you explain why, if a person, who's doing things that benefit others, would like for them to appreciate it, is belittling and manipulation? Maybe someone's example, taught the children to take her for granted? Have you or your children ever just showed her some love and appreciation for doing all the things on the list, and offer to pitch in?

YES!! Mine does the exact same thing. We could have a blowout and I'll be all upset, she'll go upstairs and close the door and start dancing to music (camera in rooms). Second thing, if it happens near bedtime, she'll be asleep 5 minutes after her head hits the pillow while I'll be up until 5am......they simply don't care.

​@hurricaneaquatics Mine loved to raise a conflict near bedtime. And yes, she would be fast asleep and snoring within minutes of her head hitting her pillow. I, on the other hand, would be awake for hours after that. It's amazing how they seem to run off of the same or very similar playbook.

@@rogerwhoareyou I get it, the worst part is feeling like you're on another planet and losing your mind until you learn about NPD.

That's because after narcissist dumps their toxic waste on you they feel free while you're suffering. It's horrific what they do.

@@ArtemisSilverBow yes

They pre-plan 10 steps ahead and review all the scenarios. It's exhausting

Moody af

It is exhausting to keep up the facade of never being wrong, never making a mistake, and never having remorse, let alone maintaining the facade of a clever and witty, charming character worthy of admiration and praise! Love the duplicitous narcissist at your own risk!

Self-promotion is a form of narcissism, it doesn't mean you're a person with narcissistic personality disorder because a diagnosis is different from using a narcissistic (egocentric) trait or tactic. Maaaaany people do some, many or all of the things she said in this video and few of those have NPD. However, you dont need to have a disorder to sometimes, or even often, act in a similar way. Not everyone that act autistic have autism, behavior is adaptable for good and for bad. Childhood, living conditions, general mental health state, stress levels etc all impact how we act during certain stages of our lives. I recognize myself in many of the things she mentioned but not because I am grandiose, or because I want to dominate or push others down, there are other motives and reasons so I dont take offense or get "worried" about having NPD. Overlapping symptoms or behaviors dont equal a diagnosis, however... promoting yourself on social media for attention is a form of narcissism, there's no way around it. It's about getting something from others because you, or the product you promote, is good and worthy of peoples attention, time and money. Normal levels of narcissism and ego is fundamental to human survival, without it we'd die because we wouldn't care about preserving ourselves. It's when things go to the extreme it becomes problematic.

​@@porkypileWhat I said earlier stands true. Summed up, don't mistake the difference between self promotion for attention seeking for a sense of superiority vs self promotion for survival through career and business orientation. Comes down to self-centeredness/ego vs building success through promotion, hard work and dedication. I've thoroughly studied Narcicism and Borderline Personality Disorder through certain individuals well over a decade, I know well enough to know the difference between self serving behavior vs self promotion for smart career tactics.

The key word here is lack of empathy. Narcissists have no empathy for others.

No its narcicism,, more camouflaged as genuine, but true to form self centeredness

@coloradoskilife4793 Nope, there are 5 criteria that need to be met in order for it to be narcism. What I said earlier isn't even close.

Without trust etc etc they have nothing

Yeah shirley

Don’t call me Surely 🛩️

Yeah ...... I can't remember her name... haha

That’s a psychopath the dark triad!

😮🤯 this is so sick!

My ex did the same thing .. TV thing was really big deal for her .. for awhile I worked from home and she would turn it up so loud I couldn’t focus She also had a favorite dog that she kept with her on the couch .. but the last dog (had 3) she killed (at vet) while I was at work without warning .. it was healthy and extremely well behaved .. whatever friends or family she had she estranged herself from them for the most ridiculous reasons

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My ex husband was the same way and a meth addict, total spass

Sorry! Yeah I found her stash of Xanax, THC gummies, and pain killers too. These people how did we ever fall for this crap?

Geez Marie. Hateful devil

That's so sad.

This almost happened to me. I came to realize I'm thinking about other girls all the time because media, video games, and instant gratification in general ruined my mind. I'm sorry you went thru that and I'm gonna be the best I can for my woman

He's not wrong.

It's especially easier for narcissist these days since now people hide their real personality to the world. Only people who had spent time with them in a room know how dark and twisted they are. Also I find people who enjoy dark jokes really messed up .

@mrentertainment4923 Are these people who hide their true personalities from the world doing it for safety (from narcissistic people)? I so relate to finding people who enjoy dark jokes (Also racist jokes. I am learning to discern and not gaslight myself around it. I believe people who 'enjoy' dark jokes or racist jokes could be doing it for the self-serving purpose it does than true amusement at the intelligent/ offensive use of words. I met a (narcissistic) Greek person recently and their Facebook was filled with 'memes' of Indian people defecating outdoors. Sure, that is true and happens because of lack of water/proper sewage drainage/toilets but how is it even amusing to look at that shallow 'humour' everyday. 😅They were trying to be friends with me while seeing me as beneath them, and above them at the same time. They were filled with so many such contradictions and lack of nuanced/comprehensive thinking, and called my comprehensive dialogues 'out of this world logic' 🤷) messed up, and I suppose you had an up-close experience with that? I believe enjoying dark humour (not too morbid at that) every once in a while is okay but if it's a constant part of their personality then it'd surely make me question my safety around them.

@@thetuckinlady mam your comment is so on point. I believe people who use dark jokes or pretend to not care about others around (lacking manners for exam) are more on the narcissist spectrum. or they are heavily self centred /absorbed .I have a personal experience with a person like this and they said they don't like to invest emotions in others .they are very different from empathic people . while im the one who finds joy in giving to others .although people like us get hurt very easily by wrong people too. these people tend to live life with too logical way and put themselves first because they don't understand putting others first like saints do. abusing gods and idols is 'normal' to liberals because they're not doing anything 'wrong' according to them . even if its making others uncomfortable around . and for the guy you're talking about he seems like a typical foreigner online who sees himself superior than brown people . mind u most of these online dudes are weird and socially awkward thats why theyre heavily invested online .allot of them are porn addicts and drug addicts . hes living with a limited mindset and sees Indians as poor and dirty because his parents didn't taught him more about India.

They feel it when they're alone. That's when tbe interjected voices are busy tormenting them.

Amen. 😂

You didn't deserve that mistreatment, and I wish continued healing for you. The best thing you did was to sever ties with her.

Oh, I’m over it. It was ALL a lie. The love and affection was only a sham to set me up so she could knock me down. She used my PTSD against me. I’m a Retired Combat Veteran. I was a Medic (and a Nurse)for 20+ years, with 4 deployments. Last thing she said to me was “You were worthless as a Soldier and worthless as a Medic, and that’s why your friends died.”. She lied about being a ‘Gold Star Widow’ and was constantly picking fights with me over nothing. She tried to euthanize my dogs. Turns out in a previous marriage, she killed her husband’s dogs and stabbed herself in her hand with a knife, blamed him for it and got him arrested. Her own daughter witnessed it and told the police about her history of mental health issues. It has been expensive, but I’ll come out ahead just fine. She will be going to jail for a while. I appreciate your channel as I can gain some understanding of what happened and heal. Now I know better. And my dogs are safe now.

How about 20 years of this hell It's been 18 months and counting Still healing 😢

This gives new meaning to the old german saying that the jug goes to the well until it breaks.

@@nele8554 or leaches go to the source until it dies.

I use to offer a ladder or a shovel to my narc to get him out of the hole he put himself into. Sadly, he kept choosing a bigger shovel to keep digging; i gave up at that point. His mess his problem.

@@Tazz-Media 🔥

I experienced that in the my last relationship. She spent more time creating problems rather then solving them and blaming others. It made no sense. When I would try to help, she wouldn't except because she was afraid I would use it against her as leverage. She told me she couldn't give me that kind of power over her. ( like she owed me something afterwards ) Never understood their thought process. Best thing to do is RUN and avoid being injected with " spider eggs". Once bitten by the spider, they infect you with spider eggs that eat through your brain and change your thoight process. It's very uncomfortable.

@jefferywickens3379 That is so weird. It sounds like a bit of solo gangstalking activity, which is always demonic. I am so over having weird neighbors! It sounds like it could be a weird obsession with you. That's always uncomfortable to have to live with. 🫂

I live next to a lumber yard and a bunch of their scumbag customers/family/friends do that to me, threatening and menacing behavior like that. It's ridiculous, I've even caught them spying on me with a drone, twice!

You’ll have to move.

Sounds more like a dangerous sociopath than a wounded narcissist.

@@nadadenadax4903 sociopaths are narcissists

Sounds like my situation

2:26 2:27 2:27 Zero SELF. EMPTY IN THERE

Both people with NPD or BPD feel dead inside - because they are, there's no core, no kernel, no sense of self. Long story short, there's nobody home.

​@@A_n_y_t_i_m_eNone of what you said about BPD is true.

@@HealthWyze Then I guess scholars who devoted their whole lives researching and working with cluster B's are wrong...☺️

And without those bothersome emotions attached. Lol. Well said.

@@brendaplunkett8659 A narcissist dont have emotions for others, they have emotions for themselves and their own suffering, if they're a pure narcissist that is and not only narcissistic tendencies as many people without NPD can have for various reasons.

You could suggest psychopaths are addicted as well to the feeling of gratification and power they feel when they win over others and fk them over. I'd say many (serial) killers are proof of this, they are not only addicted to the power trip, they're so dumb (it's not correct that they are highly intelligent as people think) that they think they have created the perfect plan to get away with murder. They make mistakes in their arrogance because they see themselves as superior when they keep giving themselves away over and over. Just watch the classic police interrogation videos online with psychopathic, anti-social disorder cases and you'll see. They are so dumb it's scary and they do it for which reasons? Addiction to feeling power and superiority over others, no rational line of thinking and then they mess up and get caught.

I agree 💯 %%%.

Sorry to hear this. Hopefully, no children are involved. Parental alienation caused by a narc partner is an unspeakable hell. Never look back - and best wishes for your healing journey.

THEIR loss!

Hardest part is to come. Block them and never let them back in

@@willygates you Are Absolutely Right 🙏

Study everything you can get your hands on about Narcissists. It’s REAL… You Must get Healthy!! Never go back… RUN!

So crazy. I’m sad for them.

Absolutely- they’ll manipulate in from of your face

@@mariobryant8803 They want everyone to see they are a bully. The company they keep would probably enjoy it.

They never accept that they need to change anything about them selves. I'm guessing you're only just realizing that somebody in your life is a narsacist. If you still can, get them out of your life now.

Most of them would never search that up to begin with, most are completely against psychology or therapy. Tom Cruise is a great example of this.

They won't admit that they are narcissists.

Because you didn't put a stop to it She still knows she can control or manipulate or get into your life in some ways

@@DaMomento Can't just totally cut off communication when you have a child with them. I've dealt with it pretty good for the most part. These days I just grey rock, mirror her, or play along with her and then just leave the situation.

@@ODRiley I was referring to after seperation To do that in a relationship is very frustrating and it takes out on you You are still stressed and always on guard I just left after 20 years once I knew completely she is narsistic

@@DaMomento Yeah, dealing with her for the past 6 months with my sick daughter I finally put the puzzle pieces together. I always figured that even though she cheated and left me for another man that she just never got over me. I was actually right all along. Because most narcs never get over their ex partners because they think they own us. Until recently, I just thought she made a bad life choice, I didn't know she had a mental issue.

@@ODRiley they all are damaged The puzzle! That's the word. Trying to solve the puzzle but that one piece and you can never find it and you pull you hair and frustrated. Until one day it hits you one day. That's she or he is narsistic. You find the ultimate truth. All the puzzle pieces fit in and boom! You never see all the same any more. She can beg you for days but you know her now. This is what happened to me. She gave up after 3 days. Lol. But she continued to manuplate control and ruin my life trough the kids more than 15 months. The one piece that everyone has to find.

They make you feel unworthy.

Can you tell me more? I get told this a lot. I lack true love because I have been burned too many times, and I can see all the red flags now. I dont make everyone wrong, facts do.

@@fenderblue9485 No, religion does that. They dont need my help.

@@yoshisaidit7250your sentence has way to many "i"'s in it.

@@yoshisaidit7250think outside of yourself for once.