9 Biggest Men's Grooming Mistakes & How to Fix Them! | Courtney Ryan 

You are awesome

You da man chico!

Who does any of these things? Sadly I do these things but still single 💔💔💔

Saved me a lot of time lol thx.

@LADS. 😂

Simp

Simp

Mannn I hear ya fellas..Simps be simping

What's wrong with a guy complimenting someone? This isn't "simping". I don't think he has a single squirrel in his pants.

It's john vs john UFC pay per view 👍

Funny. I bet you got thousands of views but majority not have the balls to like. Their mrs would kill em. 😉👍

I agree, along with fresh breath.

Yep and floss daily too.

Brush twice a day (2 mins per a brush session). Floss daily and 30 second mouth rinse. 😁

And toe nails

I can do that!

Yes!

@@CourtneyRyan And you might want to consider different budgets and international subs.😊

I use la roche-posay toleriane hydrating cleanser--> niacinamide 10 + zinc 1 form the ordinary---> CeraVe moisturizer with SPF25. And at night some generic L'oreal night creme and once a week i use retinol 1% in squalane to get rid of the old skincells. I have combination skin oily skin in the "T" area rest is normal.

Seconded

Smart man

I cover my body in Vaseline

Exactly!!

Says the babe who looks fabulous even with melted chocolate on her blazer! 😂❤️ thanks lady! 😘

also don't use freshly clipped fingers, unless you file then smooth ......... pro tip, from some one who's made that mistake before ......

Don't clip your toenails for extra grip!

@@sokrechannel4217 Lmao

Yea, because you should use your tongue, duuuh. 😉

I've had an excellent habit of biting my (clean) nails to correct length for many decades. Have saved so much time from having to faff around with nail-clippers. "biting my nails and I can't even stop it" - zinc deficiency.

That would be a great video. Thanks for the suggestion ☺️

Just my opinion, but to offer a perspective here: I think most folks are actually pretty decent at meeting people and casually dating. What is much harder and is where most of the people I've met struggle is transitioning from dating into a healthy relationship. I think this is rooted in the fact that most people are hyper fixated on outcome dependency and end up self sabotaging though they have good intentions. When you put too much effort into your mental projection of the relationship, you neglect the real person in front of you and end up breaking down your own reality. Most folks do much better dating because they tend to view it with far less strings attached, and as a result, are more focused on what's in front of them versus what is in their heads. If you really want to have a successful relationship, you have to get out of your own head. This is especially difficult for hyper rational or hyper emotional thinkers whose brains have gotten them very far in life. The one thing your brain can't do is advance your interpersonal relationships through some magic equation or projection of reality. You have to do that for yourself in the moment and you're not going to be able to do it if you're killing yourself with performance anxiety.

@@Redouku 100% agree, though I think it is important to acknowledge being caught up in a power struggle in it of itself is not secure behavior. I'm not saying it's impossible to have a healthy relationship with somebody you're playing this kind of cat and mouse game with (right person wrong time absolutely happens), but if you're stuck on it, you need to walk away from that dysfunctional situation. Never-ending shit tests are a pretty clear sign that at least one person involved is too damaged to be in a healthy relationship in the present moment.

@@Redouku I get what you're saying but am going to agree to disagree. There's an incredibly fine line here and if you're interested in someone, having a mature conversation about boundaries at the forefront of dating is always the better route to go. I understand why people shit test others to gauge what they will tolerate, but it's a form of sabotage that will damage your ability to trust and respect someone else. In my experience, things generally work out better in the long term when you assume the best in someone else but are prepared to deal with the worst. It's also always better to be the person introducing healthy communication into a potential relationship versus being the person introducing passive aggressive behavior like shit testing. The concerns I have with shit testing have nothing to do with the jovial or playful nature of it and everything to do with the fact that excessive shit testing communicates a damaged individual. If you are not secure enough in yourself to not question the character of every person you enter a potential relationship with, you are going to crumble when any relationship you enter is actually tested by real difficulty. It's also impossible to escalate or be intimate with somebody you know doesn't actually reciprocate your trust or respect. I'm all for playful banter, but if you can't have a mature and direct conversation about whatever boundary is so important to you, then you can't have a successful relationship with another person. I do think that everybody deserves an opportunity to have that conversation regardless of if they lead it with shit testing or not. However, if you shy away from it, you are also going to be incapable of regulating pain in healthy ways or letting go. These type of people are always better off single working out whatever is causing their anxiety, avoidance, or fear. I am not saying somebody has to lay out all of their deepest thoughts when they just begin dating, but the number one mistake people make in dating is fearing the vulnerability it takes to speak what is actually on their mind. You do much more damage to your relationship with someone when you play games surrounding what is in your head than you do if you just talk about it, however uncomfortable it is. Learning to be a part of the successful 10% who transition into healthy long term relationships is all about learning to leave behaviors like shit testing that deconstruct trust and respect behind. Period.

That's a good idea. Getting the girl is easy (usually). Keeping the Girl, that hard.

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Henry Cavill ? ........ i think he might get away with half a one lol

Thank you! ❤️

You will notice the guys at class reunions who never used eye cream and face cream. I use jack black and kiehls

We all know it started when he saw the Mona Lisa on a school book.

That goes both ways😂🤣

😂😂 oops haha it’s actually one of my girlfriends lol! She thinks a guy with nice hands is super attractive

@@AlvinFlang69420you mean that 33 year old guy who works at Kame Yu? Yeah I heard

@@CourtneyRyan i play classical guitar. the nails on my right hand are long. they are actually acrylic. i get manicures regularly. what do you recommend for me?

Exactly!

@@CourtneyRyan exactly, she says, after a 10 minute video of telling men to adjust their appearance for women.

A good rule of thumb is this. one spray on one wrist then tap both together a couple of times then one spray below your Adams apple. Done. If you want a little extra spray twice in the air and walk through it. A person should not be able to smell you until they are close enough to hug you. And the rules goes to women as well.

Filing is a great option too! I totally get that

Can you link to a nice natural one that has zero xenoestrogen?

It’s a bad habit to break so major props to you!

I won't lie it's a very hard habit to break. I bite my nails without even realizing I'm doing it.

I use to bite my nails until I worked in healthcare, it made me almost ocd with washing my hands

@@CourtneyRyan I seen hot girls do that more than guys

Rly? How do you even do that exfoliate shit? Any product recommendations? Lmao.

Ahhh that makes me so happy to hear! Thank you 🥰 wishing you all the best!

@@CourtneyRyan thank you 😁. Are you in California?

You sound really self-absorbed

Happy to help! 🥰

I 2nd this

If she has headphones in and looks like she's in the zone then don't bother approaching her. She's just there to workout.

Only if she's wearing a ton of makeup, deliberately and obviously showing off her body, following you around the gym, not wearing a hat or headphones, and keeps looking at you. Unless she does ALL these things, the answer is NO.

@@harlanwilkinson3142 This is probably good advice. Most people go to the gym to workout and it's probably better to not bother them there.

No dont approach unless they are obviously done. Let them live

Funny how she said that exactly as I was reading your comment hehe

Hey some of us still look like 1980 Tom Selleck

Dudes be lame that's all.

Thank you so much! 🥰

I struggled with this as a teen and when I cut back on dairy and started buying lactose free, my cystic acne went away! It was bizarre. I know that doesn’t help everyone but a lot of times cystic acne is caused by food sensitivities. I would try cutting things out of your diet and see if that helps!

@@CourtneyRyan I'm 32 and I've done everything including accutane and cutting out dairy/ sugar. The acne is from hormone replacement therapy. Thanks for the reply and the great content.

Definitely 👏🏼👏🏼

@@CourtneyRyan 👏🏻👏🏻 Got a proper haircut yesterday and feel so much better haha!!

Most definitely when you are SINGLE and trying to get a good Exercises....👍🤣