@@cthedon2812 Thanks for posting the link to your channel!! It's the 1st time that I've heard about you & your channel. So far I like what I see & the knowledge that you're dropping.
Summary guy here! 1. She is not responding/ignoring your messages. 2. She has blocked/unfriended you. 3. She won’t hang out in person. 4. She only messages you when she needs something. 5. She calls you a friend. 6. She is distracted when she is hanging out with you. 7. She won’t follow you. 8. She avoids physical contact. 9. She talks about other guys.
@@PrimalKingTV Hey i got a question, There’s this girl i like that im not close with but we had a pretty good conversation and everything went well. Not until i texted her again for the 2nd time and she just left me on seen😂 should i text her again or just leave it?
@@mercilessbxng3140 yeah sure. Give it a day and text her again. So if you texted her on Wednesday...try again on Friday. Also side note, I would go get more numbers from more girls so you don't depend on just that one.
I think another big red flag is when she NEVER accepts anything from you like a simple helping hand in lifting something, a soda or even a stick of gum! I've experienced this myself!
I was running into a lot of casual hookups, had a hard breakup and was very sad about the shallowness of new dating. But every once in a while out of nowhere a new girl pops up that’s everything I’m looking for at the time. It comes out of nowhere, don’t be too discouraged.
I'm discouraged because in the age of casual hookups, I can't even find a girl that's willing to hookup with me. Not on Tinder, not at the bar, not while day gaming, not at the gym, not through friends, nowhere. It's been 3 years since I've even had a date, and I got stood up so I don't think that really counts.
I agree him and 1 other (I won't mention otherwise it would seem like im plugging him) but both main focus is getting girls without manipulation or games. Both are big on positive reinforcement on giving advice.
Out of all of the dating coaches I trust this guy's insight. You know with his looks and personality he is successful with women. Seems to give the best truthful advice.
People say it's easy for this guy because 'he's goodlooking', but I think his confidence is adding +2/10 onto his looks. Also this guy has been in the dumps too. The information in this channel is golden.
Confidence only works if you are good looking. Everything else is delusion. An ugly guy confidence is creepy. No amount of confidence can overcome the fact that you are visually unnapealing.
@@jacobs3614 Hi there. I consider myself a two. There is no amount of gym. Can't help but notice that women do not care even if you die. It's like Face and LMS say; Women want ugly men dead.
@@parkerjeans5777 Lol, man that's crazy, it's been a while since I've gotten a reply from a girl. Usually I think they give me their number so I'll go away, a tried and true tactic.
If you're really unsure if she likes you, ask yourself this: "If the roles were reversed, would I do to her what she's doing to me if I liked her?" Generally if she really likes you, you won't have to wonder because she will make it very easy for you to get with her. You'll get the hint even if you're dense. That's been my experience, anyway.
That's high interest You can also get with girls that have medium/low interest That's the purpose of "game" If you only hookup with/date girls that are crazy over you, why are you watching this channel?
This is all well and good, it really is, but the problem is that MOST men that watch this channel have ZERO women that like them. I'm not a bad looking guy at all, and whenever I go out I have lots of women that I know are 100% checking me out, but none of them will reciprocate if I try and make a move. It's been literally YEARS since I've had a girl actually do some of the things that indicate true interest. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.
I'm short, bald, and have auto-immune disorder that makes my baldness in patches on my head. I am 42 and have only been on one date in my entire life. I do not meet their standards for looks, therefore I was never able to acquire the experience and the skills. Lloyd is pale with blueish eyes and a jaw. He probably got the experience easily when he was young because plenty of women were willing to give him a chance. He also did not get too much blowback when he was practicing trial and error. I found out when I was young that, if you are not considered good looking, women won't just reject you, they will make a scene in public and shame you in front of a lot of people. If we were in the same situation, they would make a lot of snarky remarks and try to turn people against me if they thought I was interested in them. If you look like me, women will show you how heartless they can be even if you are trying your best to not offend anyone.
@@tastybrownie7448 omfg that's called a shit test women never ever attack men unless they know (subconsciously) that something bothers you a lot and can take you down with a simple remark that will make you unconfident... the fact is even bald short men can get women. I recommend you to get muscles/loose weight/six pack, stop complaining (I'm not attacking you but this is a crutial step toward self improvment), look up stoicism read that shit, check out entrepreneurs in cars (youtube channel), get stylish clothes, get game/confidence (watch youtube videos) and please start improving yourself it's not that hard and I can guarantee that if you do all of this your value will go up by minimum 3-4 points so if you are now a 3/4 out of 10 you should be at least a fucking 7/8 if you do this and that should be enough for you to get a woman. And really stop complaining and do the work otherwise you will be miserable in the end it's just evolution men who put in the work and improve instead of complain even if just by 1% a day will win at life others will just complain and whine how unfair it's all been untill they die (TAKE THIS AS A MOTIVATION AND NOT AN ATTACK ON YOU).
This is why there are some guys out there that are apprehensive when it comes to approaching women!! They know that this is some of the shit that they gonna have to deal with.
Thanks, Lloyd as always for your great advice. Yes, guys, we need to stop simping, and going after these females that do not like us, or are just using us. Not cool on their parts, but if we participate, and let them do this, they will continue to use us. I'm in that boat with my ex. We're platonic friends. But she was always asking for favors last year. Finally, I told her, NO MORE FAVORS. Stop asking. Thing is, her family cannot stand me. She let her g'daughter move in, after I left. Who hates me! Very disrespectful byotch, and not too unlike her. I just need to move on, and stop giving her free attention. Easier said than done.
I want you to do a video with the title: "Top 10 signs you have no chance in finding any partner and there's no point in even trying to move on to somone else. Because you' ve been sorted out by evolution from the mating game."
Lloyd you absolutely speak the truth it better to know the truth than just be wasting your time with any women that's aren't responding in any situation Brutally honest excellent content
Dame It's like he's knows what am going through am going through Most of All What he is Saying & Yeah Am Strong enough to Stay My Ground like a Man & Move On If The Girl I Like Is Not interested in Me Time To Drop it Eva and put it behind you and move on to the next one in my chapter life of a relationship with the right girl
These are the things that needs to be taught towards young men, because there are so many Quacks out there trying to give advice that leads to so many failures.
Guys she does none of these, but sometimes when we are conversations she calls me “bro”. Is this really an indicator on whether she’s interested in you romantically or not?
The barrier. I swear it almost never fails. If she puts her purse or bag between you (even like in a table) in front of her and lets it rest there. Keyword "puts" it there during your conversation or when you sit down.
I feel you my guy, it happens all the time to me as well, just stop giving them attention or just tell her/him in the face that you dont want to be used, that worked out fine in my case :)
Any tips on how to change the dynamic from friend to romantic interest after the time apart? Haven’t contacted her at all over the summer and hoping to change the vibes when we go back next semester. Thanks man, great vid as always!
It's been a year, so I'm guessing you found out that you don't. You're spending a lot of time thinking about her but unfortunately, she's probably spent no time thinking about you. I hope I'm wrong and you got her, but my experience says it's not likely.
@@fuzzypanda1684 Lmao actually did work out! I started being more intentional about how I was spending my time with her when I got back and I spent a lot of time in between focused on making my own self happy and working on my own goals and I asked her on a date very low key and flash forward to today and it had been going great and we are totally in love! I got very lucky I know that’s not how it usually goes but I am so happy I was stubborn and kept with it, I can’t imagine my life without her
@@hudsondavis4330 Wow, yeah you definitely lucked out on that one. I've never been able to get out of the friendzone with a girl. But honestly, I also haven't had a date in 3 years and I approach girls pretty regularly, so I'm not exactly a good benchmark lol. Anyway, it's good to know this stuff works for some people at least.
@@jared771 Yeah I can. So when I was in the friend zone with her, I was never really going out of my way to hang out one on one with her because I was nervous. I was content with just spending whatever time we had together in group settings, choir (we both do music at college) or when she would ask me to walk her home. However, after I took time to work on myself for a while, I started trying to initiate hangouts or time together one on one, doing stuff like going to the gym together or running in the morning or grab meals. I was focused on making sure that I was having a good time and being genuine, not trying to look too cool for her. That led to her reaching out more and we were both enjoying that time we spent together outside how we were previously hanging out. Then I one day when walking back from the gym was like “hey I’ve really enjoyed spending way more time with you these last few weeks, would you maybe want to go on a date sometime to see if there is anything more here?” And it turns out there was!
met this girl & it was going well. she then tells me how she’s in a complicated situation w her ex but wants to remain friends & still hang out 1 on 1. i said no to friends & we haven’t spoken in a week. what do i do
Nothing man. You made it clear what you wanted. Be strong and hold your ground. If she really wants you she’ll have to cut ties with her ex and commit to you.
Talk with other women.. you did the right thing by declining friendship. She may or may not get in contact with you, but both are better situations than being her emotional tampon.
I disagree with number nine, I’ve heard from girls that they will talk about another guy as a way to see how you react to get you to become jealous and see if you’re into them or not
When she calls you "bro" and not being sarcastic or says "platonic" pertaining to you...Dead in the water. It stabs, but at least it's clarity on where you stand. She's not into you like that, bro.
all make sence, but why is in every videos like this friendzone so huge problem? All my revelationships was build up from long years friendship and I know many peoples around me.
Well take care of myself first when travelling , then go that best girl who really willing to help my mission and passion to become biggest income , live the best life ever
Wow...his worst examples are significantly better than the best situations that I've had in a long time... His example: "You're out on a date when..." My reality: Uh, out on a date? I haven't had a date for 3 years... His example: "She's talking to you when..." My reality: She uses security as the proxy for our conversations, and the message is to please leave her alone or we'll have to ask you to leave. There might be plenty of fish in the sea but apparently I'm fishing in the dead sea...high quality mud though, at least my face will be nice and smooth.
Probably a weird question but if she stops responding to you (because she lost interest), should you bother with one final text that says something along the likes of, "Alrighty then. Good luck with your love life."? Or does that sound like you're too butthurt? For the record, I haven't double/triple texted her if she never responded. Just wanted your opinion on this Lloyd or anyone else reading this. Thanks.
No omg don’t do any of that!!! If you outright ask her anything it’s going to seem like you’re afraid she’s going to walk out of your life and you will seem weak, she won’t respond and if she does it’s going to hurt you so much more than if you had just stayed quiet Trust, it’s better to just move on and if she comes back it depends what the reason was if you want to give her another shot but in my experience you should have some self respect and just walk away. Ask yourself this, if you were doing that to her why would you do it? If she’s important to you I’m sure you wouldn’t have even done that to her. Please don’t send her a message with what you just said 🤦♂️ it’s going to make her laugh at you more than anything because she obviously doesn’t care. Sad but it is what it is and like I said if the roles were reversed and you were interested in someone you would text them back right away right? And even right now! She stopped texting you and LOOK AT WHAT YOURE DOING. Trying to see why she isn’t! So just do the same! Women love to have power over men for their validation! Don’t give her that! I understand you might want her, I’ve been there but there are so many beautiful girls out there! Go talk to someone new and don’t get discouraged with rejection! It’s part of the process to finding a great girl:)
@@stresslee Thanks for the response. I did say in my original post that I never said that, I was just always tempted to. I've had a few send some messages like a week later but I just straight up ghosted them back.
It's not fair I've met alot of girls my age and they do not like me I've already lost one friend she was my best friend and she blocked me and i didn't even go to her birthday party which was not cool at all
If you chat a girl then she reply you an hours what does it mean? She says she's busy but what is the reason why she reply me an hour then she did not seen my messages.. But she reply me in hours then she chat me that 'chat u later We are not officially I'm trying to pursue her ' Plss help
I've got a girl I really like who is a friend of a friend we have not met in person due to covid but all three of us are planning on meeting do you have any advice but when we do
Just don't act nervous and if you've been talking to her through text or call,don't change your energy,remain the same guy she knows you as,and if you just straight up haven't spoken to her at all,then just act like you're meeting someone new that you would make your friend,that's my advice maybe you'll get more or better
Dude get more girls in your life and then you don't need her...you'll be really nervous and thirsty if you only focus on one chick intensely...go out speak to loads of women and get numbers...then you have options and you won't be needy
What if she is best friend for years ive slept with and suddenly i caught feels but she doesnt feel same way she claims but still have sex weekly.. and says i wouldn't wanna ruin friendship but admits its a weird friendship because of the sex and the affection
