9 Things I Wish I Knew At 20 

Good to know you’re not alone in times like these… thanks man… 😔

Life just passes you by...

@gregrobertson7639 I could have been a dick and said ‘after that comment I think you should make like a tree and’ but I can’t lie, the comment made me chuckle - well done you. (Yes, I’m easily ticked - no comment)

Great to see you take a leaf out of his book

good god ask gennral washington with his axe!!

I agree! I can't listen to those hyped up RU-vidrs too long they make me tired!

your journey is just beginning so many opportunities i mad the mistake at 22 not getting a plan together - trust me time flies put in the work and it will pay off later

Your post made me tear up. 30 plus years I struggled with alcohol and drugs. A complete degenerate loser. I’m almost 4 years sober today. Life is good. You can do this brother.💪🏻

Stay strong people. Difficult times are temporary.

good to hear my guy. Tough times never last, only tough people last.

Do you have any advice??

Bro - the fact the watching stuff like this at 17 shows you are on the right path, from 16 - 20 if you dont have a business or plan thats ok it the best time to figure yourself out experience as much as you can - graft like machine because you can do 18 hours days easy and it will fall into place. i am trying to help the young generation on you tube because i made so many mistakes - have you tried setting some goals making a plan ? - that might lead you down a certain path 🚀

Just don't be so overly focused on the women. That is the one thing this guy rails on about a bit too much. Focus on yourself, find your interests, and you'll meet a women through that. Coming from a happily married 27 year old.

18 hour days are you taking the piss.@@Yaseen_Khaliq

👍 it’s a good set of dot points to refer back to. I found my passion for my job at 42/43. I’m a Registered Nurse. I start the bachelor program when I was 20. I was young, shy, very naive, nervous and quite. I got there in the end. I’m never going to be rich but I have a my home (townhouse), my animals, my health and a bigger holiday a year ( overseas , around Australia, scuba diving trips etc) catch up with friends for the weekends, smaller trips (camping, 4wding, music ( playing, seeing and listening). I didn’t trust myself or was honest with what I wanted or what I was happy doing. I started that search and my self confidence grew and I am now where I honestly believe what I wished I was when I was sitting in that nursing course 20 years ago. *** my point after rambling *** If you do have a clear vision for what you want go for it. Keep trying. There are ways to get there. My brother is better at managing people, he is more extroverted, I hate but sometimes trying things can make us find out what we like, what we don’t, what we need to work on and what we don’t. Most work or hobbies or life stuff will come up and the more you learn. It will build, confidence and skills. It wouldn’t have been easy for James to say to the 20% of clients that he didn’t want to work with them. Sometimes being uncomfortable is a good chance to see things for what they are = tired, stressed, feelings of guilt, upset, anger, frustration, physically hurt or burned out. Each time take stock of what you like, are goood, thrive. When James says in his video that sometimes something doesn’t start out as a passion (never realised that the potential for work in a particular industry or career path, is it a hobby or something that you enjoy and just want to keep for you etc) but if something comes along and you don’t mind the work, are ok with turning up, not really wanting or needing to take mental health days like in other jobs you may have worked because you like what you do and then the passion is there. My brother always knew what he wanted to do. If that you go for it.

amazing bro

LEGEND!!! 😉👍🏻

Just watched the exact same sequence of videos and time will tell but they may very well have just changed my life

He is great YOU TUBER -

This is the best thing you will ever do there no better feeling than improving yourself i am still doing this at 38 and trying to help others on you tube - make sure you watch you calories, train hard eat in a window and you will see the difference. good luck