9 Things Narcissists Don't Do 

Please, nobody take this video literally 100 %. What are this guy's credentials/background? Also demanding an apology would many times come from the victim, that's the person who has been hurt, humiliated and degraded. However, I can understand when the victim has been broken, he or she won't ask for an apology anymore.

amen to that. i lost count how many times i heard " i forgot" in 15 years.....🙄

They insist that you never communicate…….but then omit to tell you that they are due to go out with a “friend” the next day

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I experienced that. I.slept with a gun under my pillow and left the bedroom door open so if he came up the stairs it would wake me.

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Hi. I'm just a recovering "victim" but not really a victim. From what I can tell you, watching tons of videos on YT for years: the videos are done by 3 types of people: 1. Victims, 2. "Experts" on narcs, 3. Narcs themselves. The #1 group can sometimes be very inaccurate, and from their position of hurt attribute every bad thing to someone being a narc and portray them as demons. Which isn't true. The #2 group is good but themselves not being narcs I think they lack knowing/feeling exactly what goes on inside a narc, in every possible situation, the mechanisms, the feelings. #3 is the smallest, just a few people that I've found. Some seem very sinister (T.H. Tudor). I basically just follow Ben recently, as he is the most detailed and accurate. Explains what goes on inside him, has insight into the therapy process and into the reasons, and also into what this dynamic does to the victims and what goes on in them. And how it all plays out between them. And yes, I think in a way that the label doesn't matter. My ex: I've been breaking my head for years over the question whether he is a narc or not. He definitely isn't on the far end of the scale. But: he checks off all descriptions and does so many typical things that noone else I know does. He is intelligent so I'm sure he's self aware and I know he reads. He doesn't do certain things (isolate me from others, etc) or so I thought, and that confused me. At times he can be more lucid and down to earth than me. So I think when he's realistic he knows exactly where he stands. It's just that he doesn't take accountabilty for him being the issue. He thought I should avoid him when he is being triggered. I should prevent triggering him, by not opening some subjects. (but I couldn't do that even if I wanted to, because he can literally get triggered for anything. Besides, it's not my responsability but his). So, knowing to have toxic behaviour it's everyone's responsibility to do sth about it, work on it. But from my experience, any major change in life is hard, so a mentor is helpful, abd especially accountabilty. Without that you go nowhere. And usually we tend to break promises given to ourself. Because nothing happens if we do. What goes into change, is also two things: being totally honest and real about the situation (have the courage to confess some things to yourself), and being compassionate with yourself in the process (despite totally being accountable on the other hand). Judging yourself doesn't help and is counter productive. Change is only ever possible after you've accepted totally who you are at the present moment.

😮 hugs That's horrible. 😢

Baby took the attention from him. Baby is an inconvenience.

Happy to hear that!

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