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9 tips - How not to be rude while speaking - Interpersonal skills
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In this video from the Skillopedia series you will learn how not to be rude while communicating, especially when one is meeting you for business or work. You will learn 9 important tips, that you must remember if you don’t want to appear rude in the Business world.
Website : www.letstalkpodcast.com
Facebook : / letstalkpodcast
Do not interrupt -
During a meeting with a client or colleagues please hear out what the other person has to say and make sure you don not interrupt the person mid-sentence as that is very rude and inconsiderate.
Do not speak over -
When someone else is talking , never talk over that person because that will mean you consider what they are saying as unimportant and you will be considered rude .
Always Elevate , don’t put down -
When you are speaking in a meeting , do not be condescending or put down the other person as that can make you appear disrespectful and rude and end up spoiling your professional relationship.
Do not go back on your words -
If you have said something earlier, before the meeting or shared a certain fact with your colleague then do not change that piece of information last minute in the main meeting ; it will come across as you are lying or withholding information or trying to steal the limelight or get undue credit . Committing to something and then going back on your word or under delivering is very unprofessional and rude. Please stick to your word, that way you will appear trustworthy, productive and professional.
Do not forget to say thank you -
Whenever there is a considerate gesture towards you ; do not forget to say thank you or else you will appear ungrateful and inconsiderate .
Do not find unnecessary faults -
It’s important that you learn to appreciate ideas and products and not find unnecessary faults just to prove a point.
Do not arrive late -
Make sure respect your own time and the other person’s time and show up on time always. It’s very unprofessional and rude to be late for a meeting.
Master the words ‘I’m sorry’ -
It happens at times that one is at fault over something or one makes a mistake at work , please make sure you apologise and take responsibility for your actions and not be defensive because otherwise you may come across as rude , egoistic and a non team player.
Do not ignore -
As it makes the person in front of you feel unimportant and ignored. At times, its very important to follow up and revert or reply back to messages, phone calls, emails . Prompt communication is important if you do not want to appear rude and want to maintain good professional relationships.

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Комментарии : 202   
@beachhum
@beachhum 7 лет назад
9 tips: 1) Don't interrupt. Ask to interject if it is important. 2) Don't dismiss people's comments. Instead, acknowledge with a neutral comment. 3) Don't get aggressive. Wait your turn. Then, express yourself in a mellow tone and diplomatic message. 4) Keep your word. 5) Avoid bad behavior in life and on the phone. Return calls. 6) Master I'm sorry. 7) Don't talk over people. Instead listen as it will prevent talking over people. 8) Arrive on time. 9) Don't ignore the people you are talking to even though they are boring. Lut them know you have an appointment to go to and acknowledge them.
@justjforsure
@justjforsure 2 года назад
Ty
@gsse6629
@gsse6629 2 года назад
Thanks for not making me watch the video
@kanaksahani4308
@kanaksahani4308 Год назад
I don't do any of these things, yet people call me rude 😔 I don't ignore anyone and I also listen calmly, what else should I do?
@favourokoro5111
@favourokoro5111 Год назад
@@kanaksahani4308 Stop caring about they're opinion, you're trying to be better, if they don't see that, then you shouldn't care about what they think
@kanaksahani4308
@kanaksahani4308 Год назад
@@favourokoro5111 Yeah you are right 🙂
@fbbWaddell
@fbbWaddell 4 года назад
Thank u so much for your videos. I have Asperger's syndrome and I had trouble learning interpersonal skills until i found your youtube channel. I used to get into trouble for being rude to my coworkers all the time. Now people tell me that i'm great with clients and i get along with my coworkers better because you explain everything in an easy to understand manner. 😊
@rajkumar0198
@rajkumar0198 2 года назад
Lll L L Ll Ll L Good
@favourokoro5111
@favourokoro5111 Год назад
Wow I'm so happy for you
@lambusaab
@lambusaab 7 лет назад
The way Reema stresses on certain critical words is effective.
@jlovesc0921
@jlovesc0921 8 лет назад
they should play this video in high schools great video :)
@vartikavaish6377
@vartikavaish6377 5 лет назад
Completely agree,it should start early
@IqbalHossain-ol8mf
@IqbalHossain-ol8mf 4 года назад
Very Nice Video.
@IqbalHossain-ol8mf
@IqbalHossain-ol8mf 4 года назад
Please keep it up and good work.
@IqbalHossain-ol8mf
@IqbalHossain-ol8mf 4 года назад
Thanks a lot.
@SanctifiedLady
@SanctifiedLady 4 года назад
NEVER SAY “I’M SORRY”, words are powerful, say “I apologize”
@tbschandra
@tbschandra 7 лет назад
Great video, its really help me a lot bc i am always rude unknowingly and many people hurt by me .At the moment i didn't know why people always try to keeping me distance. Now i realized. Thanks you very much.
@englishadvantage-freeengli5993
excellent
@dishasharma2838
@dishasharma2838 4 года назад
You're so great at giving expressions, the way you talk, makes the other person feel like going on listening to you and looking at your expressions. You're an amazing person. Thank you so much for your video. It was a great help.!!
@hannaniza8236
@hannaniza8236 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video. I have autistic tendencies to not being able to read the room or understand non-verbal cues. There are things that I personally dont find rude even when someone were to do it to me bcs i dont take things too personally. It helps when you explain it from psychological perspective
@Satyasp
@Satyasp 8 лет назад
A day widout yur lessons is A incomplete day
@markgillani2257
@markgillani2257 8 лет назад
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful tips. Beautiful ideas comes out of those who have beautiful heart and soul! Thanks again.
@sajadahmadmagray8419
@sajadahmadmagray8419 6 лет назад
ur an english book with life.nowhere it seems u r lacking any aspect of communicative english .awesome
@GoodKang
@GoodKang 8 лет назад
Great job 👍🏼
@Contemporarywise
@Contemporarywise 2 года назад
Thank you very much! That's really helpful.
@entertainershruti5763
@entertainershruti5763 7 лет назад
Thanks a lot for uploading this video! Really helpful and liked the way you explain. Good going
@kumaraswamygh7409
@kumaraswamygh7409 7 лет назад
Hi Good evening, Its really helping to people,, thanks a lot for your videos and valuable lessons. im very much grateful to you people.
@ikbh3658
@ikbh3658 5 лет назад
A great video, and you will enjoy the real benefit once you adopted. Thank you for this great lecture.
@VengoRegis
@VengoRegis 8 лет назад
Thanking you Madam..! great job
@03addi
@03addi 7 лет назад
please make a vedio on how to react if someone is really interested in talking about the other person in a negative way at the work place and you dont wana be a part of it by doing the same and at the same time you dont even wana hurt or come across as ignorant to the person who has chosen you to talk to you.
@sijimathew9982
@sijimathew9982 8 лет назад
Thank you so much. Great video
@Mylittlefeets17
@Mylittlefeets17 5 лет назад
M rude, angry. I tel anytg directly. I can't control myself evn after watching ds 😟
@SGT7799
@SGT7799 4 года назад
@Victoria Akoms same issue with me, trying so hard to overcome.. Rude and anger are worst on this earth..
@mphokateletlhake5714
@mphokateletlhake5714 3 года назад
That time I also believe that you are very caring and kind but it's hard to let people in
@vaidehipandya5984
@vaidehipandya5984 7 лет назад
thank you so much . This sounds very important to me
@SantaFe19484
@SantaFe19484 5 лет назад
Grammarly was very rude by interrupting me with one of their silly ads right when she was telling me to not interrupt!
@jinu238
@jinu238 8 лет назад
this was really informative and would b applied to our daily activities whether its professional or personal life. Kudussss... really well done.
@corrigindoaredacao147
@corrigindoaredacao147 8 лет назад
Great video! Unfortunotely, my boss has many of those described behaviors.
@syedasafa9015
@syedasafa9015 7 лет назад
Rema is the best teacher .. i would like to learn more from you because the way you explain and the way you speak is very polite and acceptable to me to understand. so only you continue it...
@cazhenrique
@cazhenrique 3 года назад
Thanks!
@999mixshortsff5
@999mixshortsff5 Месяц назад
Thank you
@faizam.rehmanmallik3203
@faizam.rehmanmallik3203 8 лет назад
Very nice lesson... Agree with your statements and points... We should behave as we like to others 😊
@khaledshehadehkj
@khaledshehadehkj 8 лет назад
great lesson .thanks a lot
@mohammedaslam9198
@mohammedaslam9198 7 лет назад
thanks u inshaallah I will try it.
@issie874
@issie874 3 года назад
Love love every point . It's opened my eyes 🤣🤣👁️👁️
@viveksunny50
@viveksunny50 7 лет назад
Thank you, sooo much
@drsrinivasuluummadi6815
@drsrinivasuluummadi6815 6 лет назад
Excellent Reema.. Literally no words. Awesome.
@chandalam7151
@chandalam7151 7 лет назад
I love your lesson .
@LOVE-vc9ux
@LOVE-vc9ux 8 лет назад
very interesting and highly appreciated.
@christianevangelista7081
@christianevangelista7081 7 лет назад
Thanks. Nice Video!
@CeciliaNordebrink
@CeciliaNordebrink Год назад
Thank you! Usfrom the working class didn't learn these things.
@mohammedrob6194
@mohammedrob6194 5 лет назад
Ma’am very good lesson it’s very helpful keep doing this thanks
@maingoc3942
@maingoc3942 8 лет назад
Pretty good!! Thank you very much ! I've learned a lot from this video, I hope you will make more and more video about some skills that help us have good relationship
@sindhuviswanathan276
@sindhuviswanathan276 5 лет назад
Awesome expression and feel light after hearing your tips
@ohsnapitspat6270
@ohsnapitspat6270 6 лет назад
my favorite page on RU-vid
@spiritwings9726
@spiritwings9726 8 лет назад
Perfect ! 👍🌷
@JustCheckingIn33
@JustCheckingIn33 8 лет назад
You're very sweet. Thank you for this video.
@swamyshekhar4b21shekharsid5
@swamyshekhar4b21shekharsid5 7 лет назад
really important for myself thank you
@pushkardeshmukh2413
@pushkardeshmukh2413 8 лет назад
point no. 06 is my motto now. ty
@vegindianfood
@vegindianfood 7 лет назад
your voice is so melodious ..it's so beautiful.. it's makes me to listen to you more and more
@notmasterchief
@notmasterchief 3 года назад
Thank uuu so much
@asiamyra591
@asiamyra591 3 года назад
I love her personality
@usharao8040
@usharao8040 3 года назад
It's amazing
@Ran_Vijay_Singh
@Ran_Vijay_Singh 8 лет назад
thnx.. helpful
@nikunjkrishnarayal
@nikunjkrishnarayal 8 лет назад
Very Nice tips! Thanks a lot.
@nainagupta8397
@nainagupta8397 7 лет назад
Thanku for such important tips
@saisbookshelf2688
@saisbookshelf2688 Год назад
How to express if we change our opinion on what we said earlier and at the same time want to support or say that I meant it earlier?
@pritpalsingh24
@pritpalsingh24 6 лет назад
Thank you much reema for a very session on rude in work place
@swarnalathap7889
@swarnalathap7889 7 лет назад
Hi Reema, I'm Prathima, I like this video and it is so interesting. can you please make a video on how to overcome the situation when the other person is rude and keep on telling about their interests without giving importance to our speech.
@Kaptan_Gezer
@Kaptan_Gezer 7 лет назад
2:00 elavate = elevate
@vishalhira2244
@vishalhira2244 6 лет назад
Very Good !!!!
@aruldoss7048
@aruldoss7048 7 лет назад
excellent teaching
@engineerspot-umangmishra2405
@engineerspot-umangmishra2405 3 года назад
Your personality is very nice mam it makes your video even interactive and informative Thanks
@niravak8333
@niravak8333 8 лет назад
great video - can you please describe the usage of rather than and instead -;thanks again!
@RajuAhmed111
@RajuAhmed111 8 лет назад
Great...
@user-ts3be4ci3r
@user-ts3be4ci3r 8 лет назад
Your voice is good! and thank you for good lesson.
@Futurist_05
@Futurist_05 5 лет назад
Its just intresting...thank u😘😘😘
@vasudevkutumbkam205
@vasudevkutumbkam205 2 года назад
Good video ....thnx
@tarekjamal3930
@tarekjamal3930 8 лет назад
Thanks Reema 😃
@pritikumari-qo7do
@pritikumari-qo7do 5 лет назад
It was really really helpful
@rosa629
@rosa629 6 лет назад
Thank you so much I am a new subscriber and I thank God I found you... God bless you so much...
@UmeshSingh-ix1gi
@UmeshSingh-ix1gi 2 года назад
Beautiful!
@servedikhan5465
@servedikhan5465 8 лет назад
great video madam... thank u for doing this meaningfull lesson for us.... we r waiting for more video speacially from u bcz u are amazing.......
@amardeepgupta2930
@amardeepgupta2930 5 лет назад
It will definitely help me nw
@sameerapprevieww
@sameerapprevieww 8 месяцев назад
Great video about how not be rude
@SAIKUMAR-sv2yn
@SAIKUMAR-sv2yn 7 лет назад
while recording this session a lot of disturbance from another room so, re-record this session again,and I like to hear rema session again and again because she speaks English very nicely, 1s it was seen the video it will impact in my mind
@dipaksarate4131
@dipaksarate4131 8 лет назад
I have so enjoying This video and prom mice you i am not rode for anyone person .. Thanks a lots ma"mas
@sunildasari8626
@sunildasari8626 6 лет назад
Hi Reema I'm big fan...for voice...when I listen your voice it self I will feel happy and confident... I want you to do more videso...thanks
@thamaraiselvi4799
@thamaraiselvi4799 6 лет назад
Helpful
@KarthiKeyan-so2ri
@KarthiKeyan-so2ri 8 лет назад
Very nice.....
@rahulbantaram4200
@rahulbantaram4200 7 лет назад
that's amazing I am not rude when I compared to ur tips..!
@maheshjadhav9013
@maheshjadhav9013 6 лет назад
this is interesting video...thanks for making such a nice video..
@madhurisoni5154
@madhurisoni5154 8 лет назад
how to respond if someone is being rude with us?? any one of rude incident from above.
@rimamedhi9000
@rimamedhi9000 7 лет назад
Madhuri Soni I think it's important to make your point but not rudely , if people are being rude just explain your point and after that feel free to ignore their reaction .
@AnandKumar-fs9fv
@AnandKumar-fs9fv 8 лет назад
thank you for this valuable guidence.Could you please share more about interpersonal skills and mail equity.
@JobayerJisan
@JobayerJisan 7 лет назад
it was awesome....but in the room there was sound reflection ..
@ravindra2175
@ravindra2175 8 лет назад
jst wow of ur pronunciation mam..Great tone..
@KKdiVines
@KKdiVines 7 лет назад
Nice video Mam i learn a lot from this video
@rupamjha4831
@rupamjha4831 5 лет назад
Hey Rima, loved your thoughts on the topic, its always great listening you. Quick point on the presentation, use your speaker wire in some other way, looks little annoying in the video.
@mohammedrob6194
@mohammedrob6194 5 лет назад
Beautiful lesso
@kavurisrinu5640
@kavurisrinu5640 4 года назад
Skillópediaissuper
@ambujjha3849
@ambujjha3849 7 лет назад
really vryy ase nd helpful fr sur..nd I rlly admr u fr ur wrkkk..👏👏👏👏👏
@hugovictor7590
@hugovictor7590 8 лет назад
Waiting for the next..
@gowthamimc3071
@gowthamimc3071 7 лет назад
nice vidio its very usefull
@DrMalikAydinClinic
@DrMalikAydinClinic 11 месяцев назад
Liked it 🎉
@ziaullahkhan6846
@ziaullahkhan6846 8 лет назад
That's right :)
@mahbubasultana555
@mahbubasultana555 6 лет назад
hi rima, will u pls make a v[deo on how to be professional in workplace, in different situations
@henryayyanethu
@henryayyanethu 8 лет назад
I was Searching for videos on 'AVOIDING FILLERS WHILE SPEAKING' and i landed on this page. @Rima i liked the way you are presenting it. thumps up for that.. On the other side you are using a lot of "YOU KNOW' "YOU KNOW' 'YOU KNOW' - that is a filler phrase according to my knowledge. Kindly avoid those and you are better than this then. :-) Regards...
@acegears
@acegears 8 лет назад
How to address someone that other people have made angry. Example co-worker did not do their job correctly and the person will miss out on services. These services just cannot be offered to them at all.
@aaronkorn
@aaronkorn Год назад
ok cool, thanks
@poonamrajput3328
@poonamrajput3328 7 лет назад
this video was all about how "we" show up as not to be rude .. what if such things happen with us ? .. how should we react?
@sangeetabudhe5790
@sangeetabudhe5790 7 лет назад
it is really very nice lesson. all teachers of let's talk are impressive. everyone has different style of speaking.. and accent as well... am I right?... even i want to improve my accent. could you please tell what is mean by neutral accent ... and what is Indian accent?
@vikasvikas2981
@vikasvikas2981 6 лет назад
Nice
@sandysharma2
@sandysharma2 7 лет назад
nice one।.
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